Friendship is a gift of God. But it may be taken for granted in some cases and not valued.
Why should we value friendships? What qualities does a good friend bring to our relationship that makes the friendship so valuable? Let us examine some of these.
Judgement——A good friend is rarely judgemental. We can be open in our behaviour with our good friends because we know that they will not judge us.
Share sorrow and losses ——A friend can be depended upon to share all our problems and sorrows.
Hope——During our times of trouble, only a friend comes forward and gives us encouragement and hope.
A.This is no small gift of friendship. |
B.Friendship is one such relationship |
C.It is familiar to a case of two couples. |
D.Some of us are blessed with good friends |
E.We can enjoy this freedom only with friends |
F.With that inspiration, we regain confidence in ourselves. |
G.This sharing may not reduce the loss but helps us unburden ourselves. |
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【推荐1】I live in New York city and my neighbours are people I don’t know. My city, neighborhood and block are filled with people who don’t know me, don’t care to know me, and don’t talk to me. I find that it’s pretty hard to love people you don’t even know. And sometimes, we all, myself included, use that as an excuse not to try. I read Brendan’s story recently and was moved.
One day, Brendan, a young man in New York was on the way back to his Brooklyn apartment when a homeless woman called Jackie asked him for money. He said that he had no money. By the end of the week, she asked two more times, and each time he answered “No”. The woman looked sad, so Brendan said, “I am on my way to a job interview. If I get the job, I’ll take you out for lunch.”
Brendan got the job. He took Jackie out for lunch. That was when their friendship began. They built a strong friendship by supporting each other and spending their birthdays, holidays and difficult times together, over a period of eight years. When Brendan’s heater broke, Jackie made a blanket for him. Two days later when he told her that he had lost his job, she left and returned minutes later, bring him food to eat. She continued to do that during the whole winter. Even with so little, she often gave back.
Over these years, Jackie moved from the streets and subway stations into a halfway house, and is now moving into an apartment. To celebrate it, Brendan wanted to do something special for Jackie. He went with her and helped her to pick out everything she would need for her new apartment.
May Brendan’s story encourage us to find a new way to honour, serve and love the people around us.
1. What can we learn about the author from paragraph 1?A.He often stays indoors. | B.He cares about his neighbours. |
C.He is good at making friends. | D.He hardly talk to his neighbours |
A.He was angry with her. | B.He didn’t give her any. |
C.He offered her some food. | D.He gave her some spare change. |
A.They developed a new friendship. | B.They helped each other to find work. |
C.They fell in love with each other. | D.They discovered they were classmates. |
A.Jackie’s finding work. | B.Jackie’s moving from the streets. |
C.Jackie’s moving into an apartment. | D.Jackie’s moving into a halfway house. |
【推荐2】“We said no to the invitation to the birthday party because my child says they're not even friends.”
When I read the above words, I felt heartache.
I know birthday parties can be like a trouble, but let's believe the parents who sent that invitation weren't trying to get more gifts for their kids or make things more complicated(复杂的) .
For some kids, managing school and friends is easy. Maybe you have a child who's outgoing, selfconfident or maybe you have a child who doesn't have any problems. However, for some kids, school and friends can be very difficult.
A birthday party is a fun, exciting and good opportunity. It is a chance for the kid on the sidelines to play with other kids who don't play with him/her at school or who don't call him/her a friend.
Sometimes even when the birthday party and the theme have been decided on and the difficult decision about whom to invite has been made, there can still be doubts. Those invitations can stay untouched in the bottom of the child's backpack for days, because he/she is too scared to hand them out.
I don't know your child, and I don't know you. I do know there are parents who lie awake at night wondering if their child will have the courage to hand out the invitations in the morning; I do know there are parents who hope they can depend on other parents to teach their children to be kind enough to show up. Maybe you'll never have to be one of the parents who find it hard. I know what that's like, because I have children who find it easy. But I also have a child who doesn't. And because of that, we've become a family that says yes to every invitation we receive.
Sometimes a birthday party invitation is not just a birthday party invitation; it's also an invitation to be a friend.
1. What's the author's attitude toward the words in Para.1?A.Worried. | B.Sad. |
C.Interested. | D.Excited. |
A.Children are very different from each other. |
B.Some children at school need special attention. |
C.Children should be encouraged to play games. |
D.Not all children can deal with school problems well. |
A.A chance to have some fun outdoors. | B.A chance to get many gifts from others. |
C.A chance to play and make friends with others. | D.A chance to invite other children to their homes. |
A.Kids really love going to parties. | B.Kids should learn to make friends. |
C.Some kids aren't good at making friends. | D.We'd better accept birthday party invitations. |
【推荐3】The Internet Harms Friendships
While the Internet can bring people closer together, it can also harm friendships.
Firstly, talking online is no replacement for face-to-face contact — Images really cannot replace a real-life smile or hug. According to a parenting expert, Denise Daniels, communicating through a screen makes it more difficult for children to concentrate or show kindness to others. As we know, important social skills are developed through direct contact with other people.
Thirdly, online relationships may not be what they appear to be. Friendships are built on the basis of trust, and with online communication you can never be 100 percent sure that the people you are chatting to is being honest about who they are.
In my opinion, friends should focus more on face-to-face communication, and less on online communication.
A.In addition |
B.Because of this |
C.This is the best way to maintain healthy relationships |
D.Secondly, the Internet can make people self-centred |
E.Secondly, the Internet has made communication more fun |
F.Finally, I believe the Internet brings people closer together |
G.It is these skills that enable us to develop lifelong friendships |
【推荐1】The act of making and being a friend is as simple as it is difficult. Here area few tips to help you make new friends as well as to take better care of the friendships you already have.
Remember that people will like you more than you think they will.
Invest in activities that you love. Ask anyone about how to make friends and they will most likely tell you to try a new hobby. It might sound empty, but it works.
Be present. The planet is warming, and there’s so much good television out there to watch. We get it. But if you want to keep your friendships, you have to show up for them.
A.So don’t listen to it |
B.Accept the awkwardness |
C.Do the things you’re enthusiastic about |
D.You don’t have to be interested in just one thing |
E.You have to listen and notice things about your friend |
F.We have a few tips for being present and engaged with your friends |
G.Actually, this advice is based on a well-known theory and some field research |
【推荐2】Friendships can be equally demanding and rewarding, whether you’ve been friends for a long time or have just started communicating with one another.
You can text each other frequently. Texting is a great way to keep up with each other’s daily events and routines. Although you may be apart from one another, texting is a great way to get immediate access to each other’s lives.
You can mail each other handwritten letters. Sending handwritten letters is a great way to keep connected while also adding a personal and thoughtful touch. Taking the time to write a letter shows your appreciation for the relationship.
A.You can plan a visit when possible. |
B.You can find things you can do together while apart. |
C.So it’s in your best interest to stay in touch with your friends. |
D.Handwriting their birthday card every year is a smart choice. |
E.It can also be an opportunity to learn more about each other’s experiences. |
F.There are many effective ways to keep in touch, stay connected and develop your friendship. |
G.For example, you can watch the same shows at the same time and share feelings afterwards. |
【推荐3】Parent-child relationships can be very complex.
Be loving. It's important to show your affection to your parents. Go ahead and hug and kiss them, no matter how old you are. If you don't live with your parents anymore, then take the time to call them to let them know you care. Don t forget birthdays, holidays and some special occasions.
Be appreciative. No matter what your age and whom you are dealing with, you need to show your appreciation for the things other people do for you. Of all the people in the world, it is probably your parents who will do the most for you.
Be forgiving. Your parents aren't perfect though you may grow up thinking that they are. Forgive them for their shortcomings.
A.Be respectful. |
B.Whatever they do is good for the society. |
C.Appreciation is a good manner for friends. |
D.So say thank you for their acts of kindness. |
E.Know that they are trying their best with whatever they have. |
F.Buy Presents for your parents, so you can give something back. |
G.To have a good relationship, you need to treat your parents well. |