“How are you?” is a nice question. It’s a friendly way that people in the USA greet each other. But “How are you?” is also a very unusual question. It’s a question that often doesn’t need an answer.
The person who asks “How are you?” hopes to hear the answer “Fine”, even if the person’s friend isn’t fine. The reason is that “How are you?” isn’t really a question and “Fine” isn’t really an answer. They are simply other ways of saying “Hello” or “Hi”.
Sometimes, people don’t say exactly what they mean. For example, when someone asks “Do you agree?”, the other person might think, “No, I disagree. I think you’re wrong.” But it isn’t very polite to disagree so strongly, so the other person might say “I’m not sure.” It’s a nicer way to say that you don’t agree with someone.
People don’t say exactly what they are thinking when they want to finish talking with other people. For example, many talks over the phone finish when one person says “I’ve got to go now.” Often, the person who wants to hang up gives an excuse: “Someone’s at the door.” “Something is burning on the stove.” The excuses might be real or not. Perhaps the person who wants to hang up simply doesn’t want to talk any more, but it isn’t polite to say that. The excuse is more polite, and it doesn’t hurt the other person.
Whether they are greeting each other, talking about an idea, or finishing a talk, people don’t say exactly what they are thinking. It’s an important way that people try to be nice to each other, and it’s part of the game of language.
1. According to the passage, what should a person say when he disagrees with someone?A.You are wrong. I disagree. | B.I’m not sure. |
C.I’m sure I disagree. | D.I don’t agree with you. |
A.You have to go now. | B.I want to hang up. |
C.I have to go now. | D.I don’t want to talk any more. |
A.Giving an excuse to finish talking. |
B.Hurting someone’s feelings. |
C.Talking to a person at the door. |
D.Going to another place. |
A.Always say what you mean. |
B.Don’t disagree with people. |
C.Never say exactly what you’re thinking. |
D.Be nice to each other. |
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【推荐1】In most languages, a greeting is usually followed by small talk. Small talk means the little things we talk about at the start of a conversation.
In English-speaking countries, people often make small talk about the weather: “Nice, isn’t it?” “Terrible weather, isn’t it?” But there is something special about small talk. It must be about something which both people have the same opinion about. The purpose of small talk is to let both people agree on something. This makes meeting people easier and more comfortable. People usually agree about the weather, so it is a safe topic for small talk. But people often disagree about religion or politics so these are not suitable topics for small talk. The topics for small talk also depend on where the conversation is taking place. At football matches, people make small talk about the game they are watching: “Great game, isn’t it?” At bus stops, people may comment about the transport system: “The bus service is terrible, isn’t it?”
Greetings and small talk are an important part of conversation in any language. The way people greet each other and the things they talk about, however, may be different from one language to another. This shows that there is much more to learn when we learn a language than just the vocabulary and the grammar of the language. We also have to learn the social behavior of the people who speak it.
1. Small talk is ________.A.to let people disagree about something |
B.a kind of conversation with short words |
C.a greeting when people meet each other |
D.something we talk about to start with a conversation |
A.have a conversation | B.start small talk | C.greet each other | D.ask a question |
A.in English-speaking countries we should talk about the weather |
B.different languages have different grammar |
C.small talk is an important part in a language |
D.small talk depends on the purpose of the conversation |
【推荐2】We learn English every day, but still many of us find it hard to speak English well. Today, let me tell you about two boys. They come from Cambodia. The elder(年龄较大的)boy is fourteen years old. Do you know how many languages(语言)he can speak? Fifteen. The younger(较年轻的)boy is his brother. He’s eleven years old, and he can speak eleven languages.
Now you must want to know how they can speak so many languages. Well, they learn from tourists to Cambodia. They do this because they want to sell things to them.
Of all the languages, these two boys love Chinese best. The elder boy says, “One day. I want to go to Beijing to study.”
1. The word “hard” has the same meaning(意思)as “________”.A.easy | B.boring | C.difficult |
A.Fifteen. | B.Fourteen. | C.Twelve. |
A.friends | B.brothers | C.cousins |
A.Show tourists around Cambodia. | B.Clean the park for people. | C.Sell things to tourists. |
A.The two boys learn the languages from teachers. |
B.The elder boy wants to go to Beijing to study. |
C.The elder boy is fifteen years old. |
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【推荐1】Everyone knows to be confident is very important now. Here are some ways for you on how to become confident.
Look Confident Maybe this is the easiest to do. When you’re wearing comfortable clothes and look good in them, then half of your job is done. Starting your day by looking at yourself in the mirror (镜子) and feeling happy help a lot in becoming confident.
Talk Confidently If you are always soft-spoken, then people will think of you as some soft person, without power (力量). You need to have a correct speed, so that your speech is clear and full of confidence. Talking too fast may make it seems that you are nervous.
Stand Confidently A good manner (举止) helps a lot. If you look around, this is really common, as you will see other successful people walking and standing in a confident manner.
Feel Confident People keep on wondering how to be confident, but they don’t think that it is much about one’s mental state (精神状态). Remember whenever you are going to make an important conversation (谈话), always keep in a good mental state and the conversation will be successful.
1. How can you make yourself look confident?A.Find a good job. | B.Buy a clear mirror. |
C.Wear comfortable clothes and look good in. | D.Do the easiest things. . |
A.强硬的 | B.软弱的 | C.笨的 | D.和善的 |
A.at a correct speed | B.in a confident manner |
C.in comfortable clothes | D.in a good mental state |
A.wear comfortable clothes | B.speak quickly |
C.keep in a good mental state | D.look at yourself in the mirror |
A.Keeping a good mood helps you become confident. |
B.If you are soft-spoken, you are a soft person. |
C.The mental state is important for most people to be confident. |
D.There are four suggestions teaching people to be confident in the passage. |
【推荐2】 Many people have the wrong idea about pigs. Pigs are actually very clean animals. On farms, they live in dirty places. So, they become very dirty. In the wild, pigs keep very clean.
They are also really smart. They may be smarter than dogs. So, pigs can learn things from people.
Pigs are very friendly animals. Some people raise them as pets. Of course, people raise the small kind, not the big kind. Small pigs are very cute. And they don’t break things in the house. Big pigs usually live outside on farms, not in people’s houses.
1. Which words can describe pigs?A.Dirty and stupid. | B.Nervous and strange. |
C.Dangerous and unfriendly. | D.Intelligent and friendly. |
A.In nature. | B.On farms. |
C.Acting crazy. | D.In people’s houses. |
A.Pigs like to be dirty. | B.People can teach pigs things. |
C.Dogs are smarter than pigs. | D.Only farmers raise pigs. |
A.The very big kind. | B.The small kind. |
C.The kind from farms. | D.The ugly kind. |
A.pigs as pets |
B.pigs on farms and in the wild |
C.raising dogs |
D.people’s wrong ideas about pigs |
【推荐3】There are 24 boys and 21 girls in Miss Wang’s class. The following table shows how they go to school. Look at it and answer the questions.
Number of students who go to school in different ways
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On foot | By subway | By bike | By bus | By car | |
Boys | 3 | 7 | 5 | 3 | 6 |
Girls | 0 | 7 | 1 | 4 | 9 |
1. The girls go to school in ______ ways.
A.four | B.five | C.six |
A.by subway | B.by bike | C.by bus |