As an independent, self-reliant person who always handled everything by myself, I didn’t expect parenting to be hard. Oh, sure, it’s difficult for other people. I heard parents complaining all the time — kids are challenging; nothing is ever clean; there’s not enough time in the day to do everything. But that was “other people” and I knew I could handle it. How complicated could it be?
I’d always dreamed of adopting a child, and finally my dream came true one summer afternoon. Even though we had requested only one child, the worker asked, “Could you take another baby and his eleven-year-old brother?” Of course, we could. We had room to have all three boys together.
The first week after they moved in, I spent my days rushing from task to task, cleaning and making sure they had all they needed. I constantly organized our living room, which was suddenly full of toys, and picked up the path of destruction left in the boys’ wake. Cooking and cleaning after meals and snacks seemed to take half of my day. I hardly ever sat; something always needed to be done.
“I think we need a break,” my husband told me one evening as I was falling asleep on the couch as usual.
“No,” I refused. The idea of sending them to a stranger sickened me. However, with each passing day, I was growing more and more exhausted. Besides meeting the physical needs of the boys, there were medical and emotional needs. Both the little ones constantly clung (黏住) to me. It was never quiet in our house; I felt overwhelmed.
One night, my husband said firmly that he needed a break. Whether I “needed” one or not, we were going to take one. With tears rolling down my cheeks, I nodded, knowing it was true, although I didn’t want to admit my weakness.
I called my parents.
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Asking for help is something I must keep re-learning as time goes on, but it’s getting easier.
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2 . Humanities departments(人文院系)in America are once again being cut down. Earlier this month, the State University of New York(SUNY)StonyBrook announced a plan to abandon several of the college’s well-known departments for lack of fund. The University of Pittsburgh has cut its German and classics.
These are hard times. Instead of Shakespeare or French, there will be(perhaps there already are)college classes in how to cut corporate spending.
I don’t believe that the humanities can make you a decent person.
A.These subjects are under attack |
B.Students need practical skills to find jobs |
C.Defenses of the humanities have appeared |
D.This problem has also arisen internationally |
E.Therefore, courses in the humanities are beneficial |
F.It helps us learn how to think and live in a harmonious society |
G.But they can expand our sense of what humans can accomplish and create |
3 . My teammates cheered.
Long before Camcorders (便携式摄像机) tapes, our coach would have every game
He rarely
In the film room, Coach
During the game, though it looked like I wouldn’t make the block, I
I wasn’t a good football player. The truth is, I was
He was right then, and is right now. Thanks, Coach.
1.A.played | B.lost | C.hated | D.filmed |
A.practice | B.dinner | C.homework | D.activity |
A.analysis | B.criticism | C.goal | D.feature |
A.carried | B.put | C.tried | D.pointed |
A.highlights | B.faults | C.lines | D.jokes |
A.punished | B.ignored | C.trained | D.disappointed |
A.good | B.slow | C.quick | D.qualified |
A.insist on | B.turn down | C.talk about | D.give in |
A.removed | B.backed | C.appreciated | D.shared |
A.record | B.design | C.abandon | D.make |
A.learn | B.witness | C.have | D.ruin |
A.kept | B.mentioned | C.delayed | D.stopped |
A.bent | B.lay | C.knelt | D.calmed |
A.in honor of | B.in place of | C.in front of | D.in search of |
A.second | B.opening | C.winning | D.own |
A.lucky | B.unwilling | C.medium | D.valuable |
A.speed | B.influence | C.knowledge | D.strength |
A.negative | B.right | C.cautious | D.clever |
A.lately | B.formally | C.normally | D.eventually |
A.kindness | B.efforts | C.creativity | D.fortune |
4 . “If I wasn’t looking at you, I’d have thought you were white.”
I often get comments like that from classmates, friends and
I’m a descendant (后裔) of Africans
It’s not just friends who
Now, I’m more
A.only | B.even | C.ever | D.still |
A.hurt | B.keep | C.change | D.recover |
A.carried out | B.cared for | C.brought up | D.taken over |
A.ability | B.attitude | C.advantage | D.achievement |
A.Besides | B.Instead | C.Therefore | D.Otherwise |
A.chat | B.equip | C.supply | D.associate |
A.dislike | B.dismiss | C.disappoint | D.discourage |
A.ask | B.tease | C.inform | D.entertain |
A.jokingly | B.seemingly | C.increasingly | D.surprisingly |
A.make | B.show | C.paint | D.write |
A.once | B.until | C.unless | D.before |
A.explanation | B.expectation | C.reservation | D.concentration |
A.feel | B.work | C.see | D.serve |
A.Concerned | B.Curious | C.Nervous | D.Insecure |
A.transform | B.move | C.separate | D.throw |
A.new | B.kind | C.cold | D.true |
A.eager | B.strong | C.pleased | D.embarrassed |
A.rarely | B.finally | C.simply | D.constantly |
A.tired | B.aware | C.afraid | D.ashamed |
A.turning | B.playing | C.acting | D.performing |
5 . Limiting your child’s candy this Halloween might be more of a trick than a treat, experts say. Once you’re a grown-up raising kids, that bag full of candy might be the scariest part of Halloween — whether it’s concern about a potential sugar rush, worries of parenting perfectionism or diet culture anxiety.
“It makes sense to be scared, because we’ve been taught to be scared,” said Oona Hanson, a parent coach based in Los Angeles. “Sugar is sort of the boogeyman in our current cultural conversation.”
But micromanaging your child’s candy supply can backfire (适得其反),leading to an overvaluing of sweets,binge (暴食) behavior or unhealthy restriction in your child,said Natalie Mokari, a registered dietitian-nutritionist in Charlotte, North Carolina.
As stressful as it may be to see your child faced with more candy in one night than they would eat in an entire year, the best approach may be to lean into the joy, she added. “They are only in that age where they want to trick or treat for just a small glimpse of time — it’s so short-lived,” Mokari said. “Let them enjoy that day.”
Experts aren’t suggesting kids have sugar all day every day. The American Heart Association and the 2020 Dietary Guidelines Advisory Committee — groups charged with providing science-based recommendations every live years — have recommended lower daily levels of sugar. Too much added sugar has been associated with cardiovascular disease and lack of essential nutrients.
But a healthy relationship with food has balance, and you can keep your kids’ diets full of nutrients while allowing them lo eat sweets, Mokari said.
1. Why are the grown-ups raising kids scared at Halloween?A.Because they don’t look perfect enough. |
B.Because their children faced too much candy. |
C.Because they’ve been taught to be. |
D.Because they don’t know the diet culture. |
A.Sugar can make us scared. |
B.Sugar is a sort of healthy food. |
C.Sugar is harmful to our health. |
D.Sugar is a sort of essential nutrient. |
A.Kids should have sugar all day every day. |
B.It makes sense to be scared with that bag full of candy. |
C.It’s a good idea to micromanage your child’s candy supply. |
D.Kids would have much joy when treated to candy at Halloween. |
A.Diseases associated with sugar. |
B.The right attitude towards sugar. |
C.Allowing your kids to eat sweets. |
D.Keeping your kids’ diets full of nutrients. |
1. Which of the following isn't the benefit of reading?
A.Keeping the mind active. | B.Helping reduce stress. | C.Making our body stronger. |
A.Books. | B.Magazines. | C.Newspapers. |
A.Doing a survey about reading. |
B.Showing the result of a study. |
C.Advising people to focus on health. |
A.17% | B.23% . | C.35% . |
7 . If you are a person who remains busy in work and pays no attention to your health and well-being, you may experience stress, depression, and anxiety. Take a break from the robotic routine and pick healthy habits. According to a psychologist, true wellbeing comes with balance, constant growth and acceptance.
Deal with stress
Although it is difficult to avoid stress nowadays, it is definitely possible to deal with it.
Be social as much as you can
A man cannot stay healthy without interacting with other people.
Find and practice new hobbies
Hobby helps us keep busy and engaged. When you have an interest in some activities and enjoy doing them, you take healthy steps to improve your emotional well-being.
The biggest reason for experiencing depression and anxiety is when a person remains stuck in past events. Negative self-talking such as “why people did this to me” steals not only the happiness but makes the person miss opportunities that the present moment tries to offer. We should learn to enjoy the present life and try not to think too much about the future.
A.Learn to live in the present. |
B.Keep a positive attitude about future. |
C.Communicating with others lowers the stress level. |
D.Here are a few tested ways to improve your quality of life. |
E.It also keeps the work and daily life’s pressure off your brain. |
F.Staying happy and laughing more is essential for a quality life. |
G.It is very important to learn to deal with stress in a smart way. |