Along with physical changes, there come many psychological changes. Boys and girls tend to be different in this regard.     1     Many boys become risk-takers — they want to find their own limits and the limits of the world around them, but may not have the wisdom to make good choices in their behavior. At the same time,     2    女孩子们往往需要某个人 — anyone — to talk to, as they try to deal with their strong feelings. In the social world, as teenagers get older,     3     they struggle to depend on themselves. They may badly want and need their parents' love, yet feeling distant;     4    他们可能想成为团队的一员,yet desire independence.     5     Since teenagers have difficulty balancing these needs, they often question who they are and how they fit in society.