My father went to high school in the 1960s.Like his
Her nickname for our group of Drama Club was "the Throwaway Kids".
We have all become
A.famous | B.active | C.anxious | D.attractive |
A.lost | B.provided | C.kept | D.shared |
A.teacher | B.classmate | C.mother | D.father |
A.life | B.job | C.space | D.season |
A.dying | B.singing | C.acting | D.playing |
A.Poor | B.angry | C.anxious | D.alone |
A.taught | B.constructed | C.ordered | D.noticed |
A.protected | B.developed | C.scolded | D.affected |
A.Interesting | B.Exciting | C.Shocking | D.Encouraging |
A.because | B.if | C.But | D.although |
A.purely | B.exactly | C.obviously | D.basically |
A.entertained | B.accepted | C.disliked | D.demanded |
A.consuming | B.contributing | C.confirming | D.connecting |
A.fills | B.marks | C.covers | D.deals |
A.After | B.With | C.To | D.By |
A.natural | B.simple | C.entire | D.casual |
A.fel1 | B.rang | C.broke | D.rolled |
A.classmates | B.soldiers | C.adults | D.graduates |
A.tradition | B.culture | C.custom | D.behavior |
A.wastes | B.puts | C.takes | D.Pulls |
Parents today are more youthful in appearance and attitudes. Their clothes and hair-styles are more casual, helping to bridge the divide. Those who are athletically inclined also enjoy Rollerblading, snowboarding, and rock-climbing with their children.
For the past three years, Kathy and Phil Dalby have spent at least one evening a week at a climbing gym with their three children. "It’s great to be able to work together," Mrs Dalby says. "We discuss various climbs and where the hard parts are. Sometimes that leads to other Conversations. We’re definitely closer."
A popular movement of parent effectiveness training in the 1970s has helped to reshape generational roles. The philosophy encourages children to describe their feelings about various situations. As a result, says Robert Billingham, a family-studies professor at Indiana University, "Parents and children began talking to each other in ways they had not before."
On the plus side, he adds, these conversations made parents realize that children may have important thoughts or feelings that adults need to be aware of.
But Professor Billingham also sees a downside: Many parents started making decisions based on what their child wanted. "The power shifted to children. Parents said, ’I have to focus on making my child happy’, as opposed to ’I have to act as a parent most appropriately’."
Other changes are occurring as the ranks of working mothers grow. Time-short parents encourage children’s independence, making them more responsible for themselves. "They’ll say, ’We trust you to make the right decisions’ (whether they’re ready to assume the responsibility or not) ,"says Billingham.
The self-esteem movement of the past quarter-century has also affected the family dynamics (原动力). Some parents worry that if they tell their child no, it will hurt the child’s self-esteem.
1. What’s the trend in parent-child relationship mentioned in the passage?
A.Parents are chasing after fashion and ignoring the feelings of their children. |
B.More parents and children are sharing the same enthusiasm for a certain sport. |
C.Parents are taking more responsibility and setting more limits for their children. |
D.The generation gap is narrowing and parents are respecting their children’s thoughts more. |
A.Younger parents. | B.Parent effectiveness training. |
C.More working mothers. | D.The self-esteem movement. |
A.He supports them. | B.He admires them. |
C.He disagrees with them. | D.He thinks they’re unreasonable. |
A.The effect of more working mothers on children’ s education. |
B.The benefits of the new relationship between parents and children. |
C.The importance of self-esteem and ways to develop children’s self-esteem. |
D.The risks of setting no rules and some suggestions on how to have a balanced attitude. |
A.Parents and Children as Friends. | B.Parents and Professors as Debaters. |
C.Growing Mutual Understanding. | D.Disappearing Responsibility. |
This concept is popular today but in a different way. The phrase “pay it forward” is now used when one person helps another. However, the person helped may not be able to repay the person or group that helped them. So rather than return the favor to their helpers, they are supposed to help someone else in the future, which means they pay it forward. It is a sense of responsibility which makes us want to give back in equal measure to the one who has helped us. But, in this case, the responsibility turns to helping someone in the future.
Suppose your elderly grandmother pays part of your schooling. She may tell you there is no need to repay her because it is a gift from someone who loves you very much. Nothing would please her more than to have you use her money to get a good education.
You may never be able to repay her for such a gift. However, she not only gave you some money, but she provided you with an example that you should also help other people who need it.
People with serious needs are everywhere. Many are children who need better clothes, more books and even better schools. Some are elderly people who can’t afford their medicine or a doctor’s care. Consider how you can “pay it forward” rather than pay money back to your grandmother.
1. The helpers in the book “Magnificent Obsession” were not rewarded because ________.
A.they hadn’t solved the problems thoroughly |
B.they expected to be paid back in the future. |
C.they were friends of the worried individual |
D.they had solved the problems secretly |
A.to repay someone who has helped you |
B.to help someone else who needs help |
C.to help someone who has helped you |
D.to pay someone else who needs help |
A.We should also lend a hand to other people in need of help. |
B.We should work hard to get a good education. |
C.We should learn to respect our grandparents. |
D.We should never forget to repay people for their help. |
A.honest | B.mysterious | C.unselfish | D.unforgettable |
Much of Tasha’s artwork and her reading are done in the wintertime. “I love winter. It’s delightful,” she says. “I don’t have to go anywhere because I work at home. If I’m snowed in, I can stay this way for months.” She hopes for early, deep snow to protect her garden from the hardship of the New England winter, and when it comes she puts on snowshoes when she needs to get down the mile-long dirt path that leads to the road.
Given her enjoyment of winter and her fantasy(梦幻)way of life, it’s not surprising that Tasha’s Christmas is a storybook holiday. She hangs flowers over the front door. Her tree comes from the woods, and it goes up on Christmas Eve, lit by homemade candles and decorated with her great- grandmother’s collection that dates from 1850. In a place of honor on the tree are large cookies cut into the shapes of her animals.
The grandchildren and friends get presents from Tasha’s old dolls; so do the animals and they have their own Christmas tree. “Of course, it’s a known fact that all the animals talk on Christmas Eve,” she has written. Small, handmade gifts fill a big wooden box.
At the end of each year, Tasha can look back and know that her life is perfect, that she has again ignored the twentieth century, and that the magic continues. And for the rest of us,here’s a bit of advice, Tasha style: “Nowadays, people are so restless. If they took some tea anti spent more time rocking on the porch(门廊) in the evening listening to light music, they might enjoy life more.”
1. Tasha loved winter because it allowed her to ________.
A.read stories to her grandchildren |
B.show her DIY snowshoes to kids |
C.stay indoors working mid reading |
D.enjoy bicycle tiding along the path |
A.modern and fashionable |
B.simple and fantastic |
C.lonely and hard |
D.adventurous and inspiring |
A.She cared little about fame. |
B.She created an animal fund. |
C.She wrote many stories for magazines. |
D.She bought presents for her relatives. |
A.Travel. | B.Sports. | C.Economy. | D.People. |
They talked for hours
The window overlooked a
As the man by the window described all this in delicate
Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the nurse arrived,
The other man asked to be
He slowly turn to look out the window. It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have
Shared grief is half the sorrow,
A.The one | B.One | C.Another | D.This |
A.entrance | B.exit | C.passage | D.window |
A.on end | B.in vain | C.at ease | D.after all |
A.would | B.should | C.might | D.could |
A.shortened | B.deepened | C.broadened | D.sharpened |
A.courtyard | B.market | C.wood | D.park |
A.flew | B.designed | C.sailed | D.swapped |
A.distance | B.way | C.process | D.course |
A.effect | B.particular | C.detail | D.relief |
A.expose | B.imagine | C.realize | D.spot |
A.passing away | B.passing by | C.passing down | D.passing out |
A.Because | B.As | C.Once | D.Although |
A.descriptive | B.productive | C.sensitive | D.tentative |
A.strangely | B.surprisingly | C.sceptically | D.only |
A.substituted | B.offered | C.switched | D.organized |
A.Willingly | B.Finally | C.Generously | D.Occasionally |
A.sacrificed | B.referred | C.motivated | D.intended |
A.responded | B.respected | C.requested | D.resisted |
A.recover | B.defend | C.observe | D.encourage |
A.or | B.but | C.so | D.and |
6 . Nancy had just got a job as a secretary in a company. Monday was the first day she went to work, so she was very
She
The day passed quickly and Nancy did everything with
Then came another Monday.
The same thing happened again the next Monday. Nancy began to think of ways to find out the
On Tuesday afternoon, she was sent to hand in a plan to the
Later, she was told that their general manager was a business management psychologist(心理学家).
1.A.depressed | B.encouraged | C.excited | D.surprised |
A.turned | B.pushed | C.knocked | D.forced |
A.last | B.second | C.third | D.first |
A.keys | B.grapes | C.flowers | D.bananas |
A.smelled | B.ate | C.took | D.held |
A.vase | B.room | C.glass | D.bottle |
A.angrily | B.quietly | C.strangely | D.happily |
A.seek | B.wonder | C.Work | D.ask |
A.low | B.little | C.great | D.general |
A.month | B.period | C.year | D.week |
A.set about | B.set up | C.set out | D.set off |
A.Unless | B.When | C.Since | D.Before |
A.old | B.red | C.blue | D.new |
A.covering | B.demanding | C.replacing | D.forbidding |
A.sender | B.receiver | C.secretary | D.waiter |
A.assistant | B.colleague | C.employee | D.manager |
A.notebook | B.desk | C.office | D.house |
A.said | B.written | C.printed | D.signed |
A.at home | B.on time | C.in high spirits | D.in low spirits |
A.Sunday morning | B.Monday morning | C.Monday afternoon | D.Tuesday afternoon |
But the nervous father continued. He wondered if the child might suffer psychological effects of ridicule, or if they should consider plastic surgery(整形手术). The nurse assured him that it was really no problem, and he should just wait to see if the boy grows into his ears.
The father finally felt more optimistic about his child, but now he worried about his wife's reaction to those large ears. She had been delivered by operation, and had not yet seen the child.
“She doesn't take things as easily as I do,” he said to the nurse.
By this time, the new mother was settled in the recovery room and ready to meet her new baby. The nurse went along with the dad to lend some support in case this inexperienced mother became upset about her baby's large ears.
The baby was in a blanket(毛毯) with his head covered for the short trip through the cold air-conditioned corridor. The baby was placed in his mother's arms, who eased the blanket back so that she could look at her child for the first time.
She took one look at her baby's face and looked to her husband and gasped, “Oh, Honey! Look! He has your ears!”
No problem with Mom. She married those ears...and she loves the man to whom they are attached.
The poet Kahlil Gibran said, “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” It's hard to see the ears when you're looking into the light.
1. When the father first saw his baby, he was worried that________.
A.The baby might not grow up healthily. |
B.The baby might be laughed at by others. |
C.The baby might disappoint its mother. |
D.the baby might have mental problems. |
A.could not function well. |
B.looked the same as others. |
C.only caused a small problem. |
D.needed to have plastic surgery. |
A.She blamed her husband for the baby’s big ears. |
B.She was the first to discover the baby’s large ears. |
C.She suggested having an operation on the baby immediately. |
D.She found something similar between the baby and its father. |
A.The ears. | B.The parents. | C.The doctor and nurse. | D.The problems |
A.To advise readers to listen carefully. |
B.To draw a conclusion from the story. |
C.To criticize the wrong attitude to physical beauty. |
D.To stress the importance of doctor-patient relationship. |
阅读下面短文,然后从下列各题所给的A、 B、C、D四个选项中,选出最佳选项。
We often talk about ourselves as if we have permanent genetic defects (缺陷) that can never be changed. “I’m impatient.” “I’m always behind.” “I always put things
These comments may come from stories about us that have been
Six years later,
Bob asked me how I knew I had no mechanical skills. I explained my life
Suddenly I realized that I didn’t
A.away | B.down | C.up | D.off |
A.yourself | B.myself | C.them | D.others |
A.said | B.repeated | C.spread | D.spoken |
A.as long as | B.as much as | C.as well as | D.as far back as |
A.cause | B.plot | C.basis | D.meaning |
A.affect | B.improve | C.lead | D.change |
A.hoped | B.demanded | C.encouraged | D.agreed |
A.means | B.hammers | C.facilities | D.tools |
A.therefore | B.however | C.instead | D.somehow |
A.took | B.turned | C.settled | D.got |
A.negative | B.active | C.passive | D.subjective |
A.roads | B.trips | C.experiences | D.paths |
A.unexpected | B.average | C.excellent | D.poor |
A.When | B.Why | C.How | D.What |
A.common | B.advanced | C.complex | D.primary |
A.suffer | B.separate | C.arise | D.come |
A.adopt | B.suspect | C.believe | D.receive |
A.weakening | B.accepting | C.abandoning | D.strengthening |
A.As a result | B.On the contrary |
C.In addition | D.At the same time |
A.nothing | B.something | C.anything | D.all |
9 . I remember growing up, my mom always said, “Half the fun of doing anything is sharing it with others.” It is so true. Friends and mates allow us to enjoy our success and our joys, comfort us in our challenging moments, and provide a mirror for us to learn more about ourselves. I’ve always looked at friends as the family we choose. They enrich our lives. As Robert Louis Steven once said, “A friend is a present which you give yourself.”
To be a good friend or partner, it’s important be a good listener. Hear what your friend or mate has to say first rather than jumping to conclusions or getting defensive. Sometimes it is useful to be their mirror, for when they hear their words repeated back to them; it can help them to realize that what they said was not exactly what they meant to say.
Patience, compassion and empathy are also important traits in being a good friend or partner. You know the old golden rule, “Care for others the way you would like them to care for you.”The support of a friend during a tough time could make the difference between success and failure. Encouragement and confidence are priceless gifts that can help change a person’s life.
Take care, though, with whom you choose to have close relationship, for they can have a tremendous impact on your self-esteem and life path. As someone once told me, “the attitude of your friends is like the buttons on an elevator. They will either take you up or down.”
1. In order to make good friends, you should do the following except ______.A.Be a good listener | B.Be patient, compassionate |
C.Be careful | D.Be generous to your friends |
A.Buy your friend a mirror. | B.Point out their mistakes if there is any. |
C.Give them encouragement and confidence. | D.Pay attention what they do. |
A.It is different whether you have friends or not. |
B.The support of friends counts when you have difficulties. |
C.A friend in need is a friend indeed. |
D.You are certain to succeed if you get the support of friends. |
A.It is good to share your fun with other. |
B.The friend is a mirror for us to learn more about others. |
C.You’d better be a good listener if you want to be a good friend. |
D.Be careful to choose your friend. |