1 . Hundreds of friends on Facebook can’t replace a handful of close friends in real life, a study has found. In a recent study, researchers discovered that people with only a few friends were at least as happy as those with far more if many of theirs were online.
Social media, the researchers said, has encouraged younger people to have larger but more impersonal networks of “friends”. But instead of trying to amass friends, they added, a better cure for loneliness might be spending time with those you’re closest to.
Scientists from the University of Leeds did their study using data from two online surveys on 1,496 people by a non-profit research organization. People taking part in the study showed their ages, the make-up of their social networks, how often they had different types of social interactions, and their own feelings of well-being. They included details of how often and how they interacted (交流) with families or neighbors, and whether they included people who provided services to them in their networks.
The number of close friends someone had appeared to be the only thing which influenced how satisfied they were with their social life.
“Loneliness has less to do with the number of friends you have, and more to do with how you feel about your friends,” said Dr Wändi Bruine de Bruin. Actually, it's often the younger adults who admit to having a bad opinion of their friends.
If you feel lonely, it may be more helpful to make a positive connection with a friend than to try and seek out new people to meet.
1. Which of the following can replace the underlined word “amass” in Paragraph 2?A.Play the role of. | B.Think highly of. |
C.Take advantage of. | D.Increase the number of. |
A.Scientists did one online survey on 1,496 people. |
B.People surveyed mentioned new forms of social networks. |
C.People surveyed showed their ways to interact with families. |
D.The number of friends was the only cause of people’s happiness. |
A.Living alone. |
B.Having close friends. |
C.Having good appearance. |
D.Making as many friends as possible. |
A.To advise us to make friends online. |
B.To show us the importance of friends. |
C.To present us with the findings of a study. |
D.To tell us the problems causes by loneliness. |
2 . Communication Skills That Will Improve Your Relationships
Bad habits could be standing between you and your best possible relationships with family, friends and colleagues.
1. Account for your emotions
Before a single word is spoken, your emotional state can influence the quality of a discussion.
2.Think like a negotiator
People often enter into high-stakes conversations having rehearsed their own position awfully, which may be counter-productive. Don't go in thinking that there's only one solution and that you already know what it is.
3.Take turns
Sometimes it's perfectly fine for one person to do most of the talking — in a lecture, interview or counseling session, for instance.
4.
A common reaction to criticism is to stop listening, so it can be hard to get your point across if you put someone on the defensive. One of the most valuable communication skills is lo address a situation by stating how it makes you feel instead of describing the other person negatively.
A.Consider these tips. |
B.Avoid making judgments |
C.Stop listening and speaking |
D.Talking wastes a lot of time. |
E.You'd better wait until you feel calm. |
F.But in a conversation the percentage should be more or less balanced. |
G.Instead, you’d better make a joint problem-solving effort and keep an open mind. |
1.说明写信的目的;
2.介绍自己的基本情况及爱好;
3.表达交友的愿望。
注意:1.词数100左右;
2.可以适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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增加:在缺词处加一个漏字符号(),并在其下面写出该加的词。
删除:把多余的词用斜线(\)划掉。
修改:在错的词下画一横线,并在该词下面写出修改后的词。
注意:1. 每处错误及其修改均仅限一词;
2. 只允许修改10处,多者(从第11处起)不计分。
Dear Bob, I’m writing to apologize for having forgotten to return The Beatles CD to you when I left Canada. I was in such hurry that I packed everything in my luggages without checking carefully. If I have paid more attention then, I wouldn't have made such stupid a mistake. Now everything must be done to solve the problem because I understand you cherish the CD enormous. I can either send it to you by express mail or alternatively compensate you in a reasonable price. If you do not mind, I may bring it back to you next time when I go to Canada. Please let me know which solution you prefer at your earliest convenience. Felt extremely guilty, I really hope you will accept my sincerely apology.
5 . When I was in fourth grade, I worked part-time as a paperboy. Mrs. Stanley was one of my customers. She’d watch me coming down her street, and by the time I’d biked up to her doorstep, there’d be a cold drink waiting. I’d sit and drink while she talked.
Mrs. Stanley talked mostly about her dead husband, “Mr. Stanley and I went shopping this morning.” she’d say. The first time she said that, soda(汽水) went up my nose.
I told my father how Mrs. Stanley talked as if Mr. Stanley were still alive. Dad said she was probably lonely, and that I ought to sit and listen and nod my head and smile, and maybe she’d work it out of her system. So that’s what I did, and it turned out Dad was right. After a while she seemed content to leave her husband over at the cemetery(墓地).
I finally quit delivering newspapers and didn’t see Mrs. Stanley for several years. Then we crossed paths at a church fund-raiser(募捐活动). She was spooning mashed potatoes and looking happy. Four years before, she’d had to offer her paperboy a drink to have someone to talk with. Now she had friends. Her husband was gone, but life went on.
I live in the city now, and my paperboy is a lady named Edna with three kids. She asks me how I’m doing. When I don’t say “fine”, she sticks around to hear my problems. She’s lived in the city most of her life, but she knows about community. Community isn’t so much a place as it is a state of mind. You find it whenever people ask how you’re doing because they care, and not because they’re getting paid to do so. Sometimes it’s good to just smile, nod your head and listen.
1. Why did soda go up the author’s nose one time?A.He was talking fast. | B.He was shocked. |
C.He was in a hurry. | D.He was absent-minded. |
A.He enjoyed the drink. | B.He wanted to be helpful. |
C.He took the chance to rest. | D.He tried to please his dad. |
A.recover from her sadness | B.move out of the neighborhood |
C.turn to her old friends | D.speak out about her past |
A.Open up to others. | B.Depend on each other. |
C.Pay for other’s help | D.Care about one another. |