1 . 阅读下面短文,掌握其大意,然后从方框中选出能填入文中空白处的最合适的单词或短语,并将相应标号(ABCDE……)涂在答题卡上。注意,其中有两个多余选项。
A. troubled B. adult C. sharing D. expert E. accepted F. solution G. hints H. inspired I. prevent J. curious K. determined L. encourages |
I’ve noticed I am the queen of unwanted advice to my 1 children and I’m hardly alone in this.
When they tell me about things that have 2 them, I become a(n) 3 on everything and anything, which I'm obviously not. I can’t help going into Mom mode, “You should ...”, “You need to consider ...”. I want to be part of their lives and 4 them from making mistakes that are obvious to me. But they just want a listening ear and an open heart. They are not looking for tips and 5 and they may not even want an immediate 6 to their problems. They are looking for a safe place to talk with a person who loves and 7 them. Though we may see ourselves 8 the wisdom of our years with them, they see a controlling parent who hasn’t 9 the fact that they’re adults with their own thoughts and feelings.
But I'm learning very slowly that talking at is not the same as talking with. I’ve decided to become a better parent by being a better listener. It’s not an easy task, but I am 10 .