1 . Everyone complains. Even if you argue that you are the happiest person in the world, you still complain sometimes. Sometimes you complain without even realizing it, but rarely is it ever helpful.
When you find yourself thinking or saying a negative comment about something or someone, stop and force yourself to say something positive instead. Seek the help of a cheerful friend to change you when you complain and help you to see the positive in the situation.
Make a list of things you are grateful for.
You often complain about the things you don’t have without noticing those things you already have. Be grateful for what you have in your life because you are lucky simply for being yourselves.
Learn to adapt to the changes.
There are many things you can’t change.
Allow yourself to vent (发泄) your feelings every once in a while.
Constantly ignoring negative thoughts could add up. If you are really going through a rough time, don’t be afraid to share your feelings with a close friend or family member or see a therapist.
Find what makes you happy.
A.Sometimes this list can be easy, full of hobbies you enjoy. |
B.The best and only thing you can do is to accept them. |
C.Change the way you think. |
D.Are you constantly complaining about your present job? |
E.Set down things you are thankful for and you’ll see that you don’t have any reason to complain. |
F.Make friends with positive people. |
G.So how can you manage to force yourselves to end complaining? |
2 . The daily life can be busy and at times difficult. It may sometimes feel like bringing just a little more inner peace and calmness into your life is a hopeless wish.
Set limits (限制). If your life is overfilled, you may need to set some limits. So stop doing some of the least important things, which honestly don’t matter that much. Set a limit for how many times you will check your mailbox, Instagram,Twitter etc. per day.
Organise your world and your mind.
Solve a problem that is weighing heavily on you. Solve your problem and release (释放) all the stress that it is creating in your life. You probably already know what to do, and you are just not doing it yet.
A.Ask instead of guessing. |
B.Sometimes you have a bad day. |
C.But it doesn’t have to be that way. |
D.And say no if you really don’t have the time. |
E.Leave your work and work phone where it belongs. |
F.Just take three minutes to organize the room you’re in. |
G.But the longer you wait,the worse the tension (紧张) inside becomes. |
3 . Always late? Here are some tips to break the habit
We’ve all run late before, whether it was because of a missed alarm, failing to find the right outfit, or getting stuck in traffic. It can turn into a routine for some, and if you’re constantly finding yourself on the later side of a deadline, consider these tips to break the habit.
Stop snoozing (小睡)
It’s so easy to keep on pressing that snooze button in the morning. We tell ourselves “
A busy lifestyle means a busy to-do list. When a random task comes into your mind, like replying to an email or unloading the dishwasher, say no to the urge. Chances are that it will still be there later.
Take transition activities into account
If you take a bus to school every morning, you probably have to walk to the bus station and then wait for a few minutes.
Reframe your thinking about being early
Earliness is not a waste of time.
Think and prepare ahead
Consider which activities from your morning routine take up most of your time and tackle them the night before.
A.In fact, it’s quite the opposite |
B.I’ll just do everything else faster |
C.Besides, there may be a traffic jam |
D.Resist doing just “one more thing” |
E.Realize how long things actually take |
F.You could lay your clothes out, for example |
G.Just allow yourself extra time to complete it |
4 . When you hear that your friend has passed an exam that you failed earlier, how do you react? Do you share in her happiness? If you do, congratulations!
One method to evoke positive feelings for others is through asking questions. We don’t have to wait for someone else’s good news to practice Freudenfreude. By inviting others to share their victories and genuinely listening to their stories, we can cultivate joy.
Since emotions are contagious (有感染力的), expressing appreciation can also enhance Freudenfreude. We can think of Freudenfreude as something that can be shared when we are experiencing personal happiness.
A.To better understand Freudenfreude, it is important to realize that it is a win-win. |
B.According to social scientists, finding pleasure in another person’s success is what they call Freudenfreude. |
C.However, experiencing Freudenfreude is not always easy. |
D.Despite these challenges, generating Freudenfreude is valuable, and there are ways to cultivate this feeling. |
E.You might ask: “What’s the best thing that happened to you this week?” |
F.It is a term that describes the joy we feel when someone else succeeds. |
G.To do this, we can give credit to others for their support and acknowledge their contribution to our success. |
5 . Finding a mask which offers you a high protection level is crucial to filtering (过滤) out any particles for a long time. However, after a few hours, the mask becomes contaminated (污染) by the particles and you need to replace it with a new one. See, you have to get a mask offering active protection in addition to passive filtration.
The first rule of a mask offering you any kind of protection is that it needs to fit well. The mask also needs to be comfortable and allow you to breathe easily for you to be able to keep it on for as many hours as you need.
During long hours of wear, food and dirt may remain on the inside of your mask. All the hours spent in a place with less-than-ideal conditions for human health are wonderful news for bacteria that thrive on food particles and muck left behind on the inside of your mask. This growth opportunity for bacteria could not just be dangerous but could also cause a bad smell. So you’d better have a kind that kills off the smell-causing bacteria, leaving your mask smelling fresh.
You should look for cloth masks that have multiple layers of breathable fabric that is tightly woven, include a robust (结实的) nose wire for you to adjust the mask to the shape of your face and prevent air escaping from around your nose, do not have gaps around the nose or sides of the face and that block out the light if you hold the mask up to a bright light source. It is good for the mask to come with your choice of either head straps or ear straps, both adjustable. It is also good if the mask has different sizes ranging from kids to adults to ensure everyone stays protected.
1. What is most important about a mask according to the first paragraph?A.Offering passive filtration. |
B.Offering active protection. |
C.Working for long hours. |
D.Filtering out all particles. |
A.To shape your face. |
B.To block out the light. |
C.To offer different sizes ranging from kids to adults. |
D.For you to adjust the shape and prevent air escaping. |
A.The size. | B.The ear strap. |
C.The nose wire. | D.The head strap. |
A.Kids. | B.Doctors. |
C.Citizens. | D.Mask makers. |
6 . Are you new to experiencing relationships? Well, let me give you advice on how to have a healthy relationship with your partner.
Be an honest person with them. Do not hide things from them, do not lie. Don’t be afraid to say things that isn’t very flattering about yourself. Getting them to trust you is the most important element in any relationship. If there’s no trust, there’s nothing there.
Make sure you give them respect. Now respect isn’t just simply treating her or him nicely.
Don’t just think about yourself, think about what your partner needs out of it as well. Make sure you are encouraging to your partner. Always be willing to help them and give them honesty and positivity at the same time. Make them feel you are someone they can really count on and build a future with.
Make sure you have a good sense of humor with them. Laughter is the key to happiness. Laugh a lot with them, joke with them. Laughter may seem silly, but it’s the secret to a lot in life. It will keep the sparks alive.
Make sure the communication is good. This usually goes along with trust, but always communicate how you feel, even if it’s something that upsets you.
A.There’s a lot more to it. |
B.Show them your personality. |
C.Instead of screaming, talk to them. |
D.Laughter keeps the relationship strong and lasting. |
E.So please be honest and they’ll learn to open up to you. |
F.Don’t start to neglect them and make them feel unwanted. |
G.Your partner has to be able to count on you when needed. |
7 . Soothe the Sunday scaries
Most of us look forward to the weekend as a time to relax, connect with friends and family, and deal with tasks from a to-do list that gets neglected during the workweek. But as the weekend comes to an end, many are missing out on Sunday Funday and instead experiencing an overwhelming sense of anxiety and even dread about the upcoming week.
Even though the Sunday scaries are common, they are manageable. Here’s how experts say you can ease your end-of-weekend anxiety.
Structure your Sunday.
Don’t forget to relax. If you’re feeling more stress, it’s important to make space for relaxing activities to ground yourself. Maybe a midafternoon shower or bath, maybe an engaging movie or show, whatever feels like a helpful distraction to reground from the scaries.
Identify your anxiety sources. Try to figure out what’s really causing you to dread the week.
End your Sunday with the right energy. Sunday night is a proper wind-down time. Maybe you want to journal, do a face mask, read a few pages of a good book. Do your best to honor this time and make Sunday night all about you.
A.Is it a deadline, meeting or presentation? |
B.Create some excitement for the week ahead. |
C.Experts have referred to this worry as Sunday scaries. |
D.Sunday scaries come from tiredness after a really busy weekend. |
E.Then you feel empowered and confident that you’ll be ready for the next day. |
F.Instead of sitting on the couch and watching the clock, go to do something that you enjoy. |
G.Anxiety is a natural response that happens in preparation for anything that causes pain or discomfort. |
8 . Advice for Cooking on a Tight Schedule
From my experience, there are three main reasons why people don’t cook more often: ability, money, and time.
Think ahead. I usually think cooking is a pain when I’m already hungry and there is nothing ready to eat. So think ahead of the coming week. When will you have time to cook? Do you have the right materials already?
Make your time worth it. When you do find time to cook a meal, make the most of it and save yourself time later on. Are you making one loaf of bread?
Hopefully that gives you a good start.
A.Try new things. |
B.Ability is easily improved. |
C.Make three or four instead. |
D.Understand your food better. |
E.Cooking is a burden for many people. |
F.Let cooking and living simply be a joy rather than a burden. |
G.A little time planning ahead can save a lot of work later on. |
9 . Health is the most important thing in the world. Nothing is more important than health. If one takes away our money, houses, cars, or even our clothes, we can still survive.
How can we keep healthy? In order to eat healthily, I usually avoid eating food high in fat, like French fries or cookies, which are junk foods. Besides, I only eat a little meat.
What’s more, I think friends are an important part of one’s health.
By eating properly and exercising regularly, I can keep my body at a proper weight and keep healthy. By spending time with my friends, I can keep my mind as well as my body happy. These things sound easy to do, but not many people can manage them.
A.On the other hand, doing exercise is very important. |
B.There are some people who like staying alone, but they keep healthy. |
C.Many studies show that people with a range of social contacts don’t get sick. |
D.But if our health were taken away, it is certain that we would surely die. |
E.I eat a lot of vegetables and fresh fruit which are full of vitamins. |
F.I think a strong will is necessary if we want to keep healthy. |
G.Some people appear fat because they often eat too much. |
10 . How to Learn from your Regrets
Regret’s benefits don’t come to us by chance.
Kill the ghost.
People often say their regrets keep coming to their mind. This suggests that regret is like a ghost. Bring your ghost out of the shadows by making a list of your regrets. Write down why each one still bothers you and its bad effects.
Forgive yourself.
Collect your diploma.
Regret is like a school run by human nature. If you never experienced regret, you would keep repeating the same behaviors that led you to miss opportunities.
Regrets may hurt.
A.After you make a mistake, life moves on |
B.Filling your mind with them is painful |
C.The ghost certainly doesn’t rule a person’s life |
D.We have to seek them out on purpose to improve ourselves |
E.You will find that the list is a lot less frightening than a ghost |
F.You choose to blame yourself for life for a poor decision you made in the past |
G.If you let regret teach, you can note how you want to change your behavior |