1 . Looking back, I spent many unhappy days. In middle school I didn’t think I was as smart as everyone else; I didn’t have cool enough clothes. Junior high was the same. I wasn’t as tall and thin as all the other girls; my baby teeth hadn’t fallen out yet. Fast forward to high school. Still everyone was smarter; still everyone dressed better. Eventually, in my first job out of college I wasn’t making as much money as my friends did.
I come from a long line of people who’ve suffered from depression. When I was single, I thought that was just who I was — it was the genes (基因) I was born with. When I was twenty-six, I got married, and three years later I had my first child.
Once we had kids, my excuse of “it’s-in-the-genes” didn’t work so well for me anymore because that meant my kids would be depressed. Although I realized that still might be the case, I began looking at my unhappiness in new ways.
Over the years many things helped me fight depression: healthy eating, exercise, fresh air, friends and medicine. They all helped. But I had a little secret, too. It’s an exercise I did every night before bed. By the side of my bed, I had a small datebook — every day I only had enough space to write one line.
Every night I asked myself: “What made me the happiest today?” Because I didn’t have space to write a lot, it only took me a few seconds. But in those seconds I replayed my day and decided on its happiest moment.
Some days it was “reading before bed with the kids” or “laughing with a friend on the phone”. And other days it was “finally getting to get into bed” or “not having to cook dinner again”. Anyway, I actively sought the positive every day. Today, when I have a difficult day, I look back through the datebook, read and remember those happy moments in the past.
1. What can be inferred from paragraph 1?A.The author led a poor life. |
B.The author got a high-pay job. |
C.The author challenged herself bravely. |
D.The author usually compared herself with others. |
A.Her first career. | B.Her happy marriage. |
C.Her care for her children. | D.Her knowledge of genes. |
A.To ease her loneliness. | B.To have a sound sleep. |
C.To recall happy moments. | D.To serve as bedtime stories. |
A.Nothing is impossible to a willing heart. |
B.Mother should set a good example for kids. |
C.There could be a solution to any problem. |
D.We should appreciate life’s bright aspects. |
2 . My smartphone gave me access to music, information and videos. I would repeatedly refresh my email, shop online and look through the latest bad news. I’d often complain. I felt trapped by it.
I am more connected in my relationships.
Earlier, while texting with a friend who had moved, I finally got frustrated (懊丧的) and called her. I realized I hadn’t spoken to her since her move.
I consume news on my own.
During the lock-downs, I filled boredom by visiting stores sending newsletters to my email. I found myself repeating lines from department store copywriters. Every time I clicked “buy”, I’d get a dopamine (多巴胺) hit. Now I’m online about 10 times less, I’m more thoughtful about what I need and I’ve had the time to take up knitting and needling—making what I once would have “added to cart”.
I am calmer.
When I first quit using my phone, I’d search for it at times. I went through withdrawals. Thankfully, that sense of dependence is false. I’ve found you can find other ways to do all the things.
A.I shop less online. |
B.So I decided to change. |
C.I spend my time with my family. |
D.But over time, I became worried about its role in my life. |
E.I worried that I would miss out important discussions of the day. |
F.It made a difference to hear both the awe and sadness in her voice. |
G.It’s not always convenient, but I’m much calmer without my smartphone. |
3 . One day my 10-year-old son, Kavi, left his typewritten math homework at school. He came to me in
Together, we
I wanted to help—which parent doesn’t want to make the
I never sent that email to Kavi’s teacher. I
I think it’s necessary for parents to let their children stay with worry but
A.silence | B.comfort | C.panic | D.amazement |
A.convinced | B.remembered | C.announced | D.considered |
A.copy out | B.clear away | C.point at | D.pass down |
A.touched | B.inspired | C.bothered | D.probed |
A.replace | B.ignore | C.correct | D.notice |
A.cooperation | B.explanation | C.guarantee | D.definition |
A.embarrassment | B.homesickness | C.hurt | D.dream |
A.simple | B.essential | C.ridiculous | D.intense |
A.complicated | B.permanent | C.illegal | D.wrong |
A.principles | B.comments | C.situations | D.contests |
A.otherwise | B.but | C.because | D.nevertheless |
A.tried | B.spotted | C.hesitated | D.pretended |
A.setting aside | B.benefiting from | C.figuring out | D.focusing on |
A.criticize | B.support | C.assign | D.contact |
A.willingly | B.flexibly | C.crazily | D.healthily |
4 . I seldom cooked before the isolation (隔离). I thought little of cooking either. But in troubled times I’ve been
First, I’ve realized how the
However, the deeper change came from’ ’my understanding of cooking. When I tried to bake biscuits, what started out as a simple thing
I’ve recently learned nine different countries
Now I’m grateful for everything prepared for dinner. To
A.asked | B.forced | C.advised | D.guided |
A.developed | B.evaluated | C.changed | D.displayed |
A.ways | B.value | C.basics | D.love |
A.share | B.gain | C.offer | D.grasp |
A.vision | B.interest | C.concept | D.pride |
A.fairer | B.politer | C.closer | D.stranger |
A.made up | B.ended up | C.called for | D.stood for |
A.result in | B.build up | C.expose | D.maintain |
A.unwelcome | B.unfriendly | C.untrue | D.ungrateful |
A.required | B.gave | C.produced | D.stressed |
A.frequently | B.perfectly | C.skillfully | D.occasionally |
A.realize | B.doubt | C.favour | D.predict |
A.introduce | B.supply | C.study | D.register |
A.effects | B.choices | C.efforts | D.connections |
A.improve | B.create | C.succeed | D.challenge |
5 . Being loved isn't always best.
Mrs. Farren was an English teacher no one
Once, I made the
I backtracked (改变说法) and said, "Okay, I strongly
I will never forget the smile on Mrs. Farren's face when I
Like most teachers, I want my students to like me. But research shows that teachers
Don't confuse popularity with proficiency (水平). If I pay more attention to what students think of me, I may be
Maybe there's a Mrs. Farren in your life whom you now appreciate in ways you couldn't
A.wanted | B.respected | C.trusted | D.cared |
A.shock | B.excitement | C.anger | D.fear |
A.hard | B.strange | C.boring | D.annoying |
A.calling | B.training | C.leaving | D.arranging |
A.special | B.serious | C.regular | D.necessary |
A.promise | B.speech | C.decision | D.mistake |
A.difficult | B.unpleasant | C.strong | D.cold |
A.misunderstood | B.refused | C.disliked | D.doubted |
A.retold | B.translated | C.added | D.changed |
A.properly | B.naturally | C.perfectly | D.frequently |
A.satisfied | B.familiar | C.popular | D.patient |
A.going against | B.focusing on | C.building up | D.giving up |
A.find | B.understand | C.believe | D.expect |
A.but | B.because | C.so | D.although |
A.eager | B.admirable | C.thankful | D.sorry |