1. 你对此的理解;
2. 结合具体实例;
3. 你的启发与感悟。
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You know how when big things in your life aren’t going well and the little things bother you more? That happened to me last year. Like many people during the pandemic, my husband, Paul, was laid off. I was still working, but my job was only part-time and would likely be ending soon too. I was worried about money, pandemic and our future.
That’s when our mailboxes really started getting to me. I’d never liked our mailboxes much. They stood at the end of our long driveway, far enough away from our house. Fortunately, I didn’t see them often. The mailboxes had already been in rough shape when we moved in and the paint was faded.
At some point, someone had driven into the pole. It was now bent slightly, making the mailboxes bend, pointing in different directions. Still, because the boxes could hold the mail and the mail carrier wasn’t complaining, there really was no need to replace them.
“I wish we could have better mailboxes,” I found myself thinking as I pulled out of the driveway one day on my way to work. It was just a passing thought. I probably would have forgotten all about it if not for the news we got the next morning.
The next day, my neighbor Ailsa told me a girl drove her car right into the mailboxes and completely knocked them down. Ailsa saw the accident and gave her our number and information. “That certainly wasn’t in our budget,” I thought. Though I wanted new mailboxes, getting them would be expensive. With our income decreasing since Paul’s layoff, this was an expense we didn’t need. I sighed.
However, the next day where our old, rusted mailboxes had once stood were two new shiny mailboxes-one black, one white. Each one had large, neat numbers on the sides, the white mailbox with black numbers and the black one with white numbers. They were beautiful. I sat there, feeling surprised.
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I opened one of the mailboxes and found a note.
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When we called, the girl’s mother answered.
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3 . Forgiving doesn’t mean saying the pain doesn’t matter or what the other person said or did was OK. It doesn’t mean forgetting what happened. It means letting go of your need for an apology. It means making peace with past hurt and pain. It means choosing to move on. All of this is easy to say, hard to do. But forgiveness can happen in a series of small steps over time.
Take your feelings seriously. Forgiving doesn’t mean shrugging your shoulders and saying “Oh, well.” Cry, feel sad, throw things hard, or write angry passages in your diary to get rid of some of the stress. Talk with trusted friends or family to ask for advice to help find solutions to your problems. You have the right to feel hurt and angry. But suffering these feelings over time does you great harm.
Make a difference in your life. I’ve seen that many miss the opportunity for getting back a good relationship with someone else because they just wait for the apology that may never come. Others stay stuck in anger long after the other person has stopped to be a part of their lives. Make a decision to make a difference for yourself. That may be forgiving or being the first to reach out to the other so that you can move on with your own life.
Forgive yourself and engage in positive self-talk. Although you may mainly blame the other person, it’s important to forgive yourself with positive self-talk. Feel certain that you can learn from this and move on. Tell yourself that you will survive this pain and that life will get better because you can make a choice to let go.
Try understanding the other. This doesn’t reduce your pain but may make what happened more understandable. Understanding doesn’t forgive hurtful behavior, but understanding can help to get rid of your anger and to forgive.
Realize that forgiveness benefits you most of all. The other person may never know about your forgiveness. But forgiving and letting go can lighten the load on your body and on your spirit.
1. What does forgiving mean according to the text?A.The pain the other person brought you isn’t very serious. |
B.What the other person has said or done doesn’t hurt you. |
C.You don’t care and have forgotten what happened to you. |
D.You needn’t the other person to say sorry to you any more. |
A.Positive. | B.Negative. | C.Objective. | D.Uncertain. |
A.Wait for your friend’s apology. |
B.Take the initiative (主动性) to say hello to your friend. |
C.Try your best to forget your problem. |
D.Have positive self-talk. |
A.How to forgive other people. |
B.Forgiveness is helpful for us all. |
C.Understanding can help forgive others. |
D.Life gets better if you choose to forgive. |
4 . I don’t know when I became so focused on ensuring equality in all areas,including personal relationships.I was afraid of the sort of
But when I entered high school,I began to make friends who gave
Today,I still
A.people | B.friendship | C.payment | D.assignment |
A.value | B.attract | C.disturb | D.embarrass |
A.runs | B.goes | C.stops | D.tips |
A.going to | B.putting aside | C.trying out | D.hanging on |
A.mentally | B.unexpectedly | C.freely | D.differently |
A.money | B.kindness | C.time | D.appreciation |
A.Unless | B.Whether | C.In case | D.Even if |
A.refused | B.offered | C.failed | D.agreed |
A.victims | B.helpers | C.receivers | D.contributors |
A.missed | B.presented | C.needed | D.benefited |
A.effort | B.inequality | C.pain | D.responsibility |
A.struggle | B.come up | C.meet | D.get along |
A.finished | B.unpaid | C.increased | D.settled |
A.quickly | B.generously | C.rarely | D.slowly |
A.giving | B.talking | C.passing | D.taking |