1 . They caused the first wound, but you are causing the rest; this is what not forgiving does. They got it started but you keep it going. Forgive and let it go, or it will eat you alive. You think they made you feel this way, but when you don’t forgive, you are the one creating the pain on yourself.
Whatever you do — don’t wait to forgive someone until they apologize, ask for your forgiveness or even admit they have harmed you. If you are waiting for someone to admit they have hurt you, you could be waiting forever and it puts them in the power position, where you need something from them to move forward in your own life.
Forgiveness has nothing to do with how wrong someone else was; no matter how wrong they are, when you forgive a person, you break the ties with their ill deeds that keep you in pain. Forgiving breaks the unhealthy bonds between you and the one who hurt you, and redefines you as an independent victor in your own life. Whether they accept their responsibility or not, you are no longer dependent on their participation for your healing (治愈). You can forgive them, and you can then move on. Boundaries are an essential part of forgiveness.
It is easy to hold a grudge (记仇). It is easy to blame. But these experiences are a lasting role of a powerless victim (受害者). When you hold grudges the victimization continues.
It takes emotional bravery to forgive. It takes a huge determination toward self-care to let go of painful past events and not let them identify your future. There is no self-love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without self-love. Forgiving others may be the ultimate act of self-love. Through forgiveness you can protect yourself from suffering from the lapses made by others.
1. According to the author, if you don’t forgive, you’ll _____.A.suffer further | B.keep your pride |
C.become stronger | D.receive an apology |
A.It counts a great deal. | B.It is tied to you firmly. |
C.It is nothing important. | D.It decides whether you forgive. |
A.decisions | B.mistakes |
C.contributions | D.apologies |
A.To advise us not to blame others. |
B.To tell us it is difficult to forgive others. |
C.To tell us the importance of forgiving others. |
D.To advise us to learn to forgive others for self-love. |
2 . In 2016, I suffered from Seasonal Affective Disorder(SAD) a form of depression(抑郁症) that is found to make people feel low in the UK between September and April. During that cold and wet period, I got comfort in books.
Books have been used by many to reduce depression. I lose myself into them as thirstily as usually get my morning coffee. Each Christmas, I have a habit of returning to the old favorite books that make up for my emptiness, such as Jane Eyre. Sometimes, to escape from the cold, I run back to the heat that I am used to, so I will read a lot of books set in Africa.
It became important for me to find a way to escape my sadness in the world of books. And isn’t that what art and literature is for? According to JJ Bola, the author of No Place to Call Home, “The world can get you so down that you think you’re the only person going through what you’re going through. But then you read and you realize that you are not alone that if someone else has gone through it and survived, then maybe you can, too.” It is this survival that the reader looks for, that is, the understanding that the winter is not so long after all.
1. What was the possible cause for the author’s illness?A.His personality. | B.His poor health. |
C.Sleeplessness. | D.Cold and wet seasons. |
A.kill time | B.keep warm |
C.enjoy Christmas time | D.drive away emptiness |
A.Jane Eyre. | B.Out of Africa. |
C.Alice in Wonderland. | D.No Place to Call Home. |
A.finds a way to escape his sadness |
B.gets along better with others |
C.leans more about other cultures |
D.becomes more interested in literature |
A.Reading Reduces Depression | B.Reading Keeps You Warm |
C.How to Escape Loneliness | D.How to Survive Winters |
3 . When you are waiting in front of a theater or at the train terminals, you will realize how important punctuality is. Punctuality is really a virtue, especially in a busy city.
Punctuality is the main constituent of good character.
Some people often say that they cannot always be punctual since traffic is so heavy these days.
Yet after all, such smart fellows will soon find that gradually their friends become fewer and fewer. Perhaps at that time, they would realize how important punctuality is.
A.To be or not to be punctual is a habit. |
B.It is polite to be punctual when you are invited to a party. |
C.Some people always have a lot of excuses for coming late. |
D.I think traffic jam cannot be an excuse for being late. |
E.Here, I will tell you how to be a punctual person step by step. |
F.Perhaps if everybody were punctual, there would be less suffering and sorrow. |
G.A person who is always on time for his appointment shows real consideration for others. |
4 . A man may usually be known by the books he reads as well as by the company he keeps.
There is an old proverb, “Love me, love my dog.”
The book is a living voice. It is an intellect to which on still listens.
A.But there is more wisdom in this: “Love me, love my book.” |
B.One should always live in the best company, whether it be of books or of men. |
C.Books introduce us into the best society. |
D.A good book may be among the best of friends. |
E.Embalmed in books, their spirits walk abroad. |
F.We see them as if they were really alive. |
G.We enjoy with them and their experience becomes ours. |
5 . Everybody has been rejected .Being rejected often makes you disappointed , depressed and angry .
1. Realize it’s inevitable
Let’s face it .Not everyone is going to think you are as indispensable and wonderful as your mom does .The expression , “Get used to rejection “ may be trite and overused , but it certainly is true .
2 See rejection as an opportunity to learn
3.If you deserved to be rejected , then own it .
Sometimes , believe it or not , we all deserve to be turned down for something .Take responsibility for any foolish decisions you made , or behavior in which you engaged .
4. Be compassionate toward others who face rejection
Once your heart’s been broken by that rejection email , you can empathize with others who are going through the same thing . Be there for them .And someday you may have to write that rejection email .
5. Take the high road
Avoid the temptation to blast the person or organization that just turned you down ,especially on social media .You can never take that tweet or Face book status down .It’s there forever . If you must speak to the experience of rejection publicly , then let your words reflect grace and dignity .
If you give up on that book idea ,business venture , grad school idea , or whatever , then your experience of being rejected was a waste . Never let a devastating , cry-your-eyes -out , come -from -nowhere experience of being rejected go to waste .
A.Don’t give up . |
B.Actually , we can learn a lot from rejection . |
C.Rejection can hurt a person easily . |
D.Don’t let yourself move on until you can verbalize to yourself at least three lessons from the experience of rejection . |
E.If you are rejected , you should think about the reason why others reject . |
F.When you do , remember how it feels to be on the receiving end . |
G.Then ,do yourself a favor : don’t repeat the error . |
6 . Several weeks ago, I pulled an old road map out of the glove box and passed it to my children. They had never seen the province of Ontario laid out like that before. They stared at the map, asking about all the towns, parks, and other landmarks we'd visited, and I pointed them out on the map.
Google Maps and GPS are modern wonders that have gotten me out of many confusing places, but paper maps still have a role to play in our lives. Most of us adults learned to read them out of necessity, but it's up to us to pass on that skill to children whose need may not be so obvious, but who still stand to benefit from it.
As Trevor Muir wrote in an article on this topic, "When kids learn how to create and use paper maps, they are doing more than just learning how to get around. They are actually developing fundamental skills that they will use for the rest of their lives. Map skills still belong in today's classroom. "
As a child I had National Geographic maps taped to my bedroom walls. This aroused my curiosity and imagination about those places and thus made me eager to remember my geography and history lessons because they were tied to places I'd "seen". Even now as a mother of four, I've also spared time to travel to many of the countries whose maps I studied as a child.
Additionally, in this fast-changing world, unexpected events can rapidly influence one's usual way of life. When GPS satellites or Internet connections are affected, this old-fashioned skill can get you out of a mess without requiring a smartphone. Last but not least, paper maps arouse "big picture" thinking, showing kids that there's a much bigger world out there and helping to direct them within it.
So, now is a good time to pull out those dusty old maps and lay them on the kitchen table.
1. How did the children react when they were given the paper map?A.They showed great curiosity. |
B.They seemed totally confused. |
C.They considered it old-fashioned. |
D.They found it less convenient than GPS. |
A.The teaching focus in today's classroom. |
B.The situations where paper maps are used. |
C.The necessity of digital maps in the modem world. |
D.The benefit of developing paper map skills for kids. |
A.Internet connections are very reliable today. |
B.GPS will sooner or later replace paper maps. |
C.Paper maps provide kids with a grand vision. |
D.Paper maps make people connected with each other. |
A.Time to Teach Kids to Read Paper Maps. |
B.How to Teach Kids about Different Kinds of Maps. |
C.Time to Encourage Kids to Step into a Bigger World. |
D.How to Teach Kids Fundamental Skills with Paper Maps. |
7 . A study of violinists found that merely good players practised as much as better players, leaving other factors such as quality of education, learning skills and perhaps natural talent to account for the difference.
This finding challenges the 10, 000-hour rule promoted in Malcolm Gladwell’s 1993 study of violinists and pianists. Gladwell states that enough practice will make an expert of anyone. “The idea has been popular and entrenched in our culture for years. It’s not an idiom but an overstatement,” said Brooke Macnamara, the lead author. “When it comes to human skill, a complex combination of environmental factors and genetic factors explains the performance differences across people.”
Macnamara and her colleagues set out to repeat part of the 1993 study to see whether they reached the same conclusion. They interviewed three groups of 13 violinists regarded as best, good, or less accomplished about their practice habits, before having them complete daily diaries of their activities over a week. While the less skillful violinists reached an average of about 6,000 hours of practice by the age of 20, there was little to separate the good from the best, with each reaching an average of about 11,000 hours. In all, the number of hours spent practising accounted for about a quarter of the skill difference across the three groups.
Macnamara believes practice is less of a driver. “Once you get to the highly skilled groups, practice stops accounting for the difference. Everyone has practised a lot and other factors are at play in determining who goes on to a higher level,” she said. “The factors depend on the skill being learned: in chess it could be intelligence or working memory; in sport it may be how efficiently a person uses oxygen. To complicate matters further, one factor can drive another. Children who enjoy playing the violin, for example, may be happy to practise because they do not see it as a trouble.”
The authors of the 1993 study are unimpressed. Macnamara said it was important for people to understand the limits of practice, though. “Practice makes you better than you were yesterday, most of the time,” she said. “But it might not make you better than your neighhour or the other kid in your violin class.”
1. What does the underlined word “entrenched” in paragraph 2 probably mean?A.Rooted. | B.Advanced. | C.Changed. | D.Unconfirmed. |
A.It convinced Malcolm Gladwell. | B.It involved violinists and pianists. |
C.Its process was similar to the 1993 study. | D.Its result is consistent with the 1993 study. |
A.Practicing for 11,000 hours is their main driver. |
B.They enjoy keeping diaries about their progress. |
C.Environmental factors have little relation to their success. |
D.More practice makes little difference to their further progress. |
A.What makes an expert? | B.Does practice make perfect? |
C.The early bird catches the worm | D.Enthusiasm is the key to success |
8 . Some time ago, in my class I was about to fail a student for his answer to a physics question when the student claimed he deserved a better score. The examination question sounded “safe”.
“Show how it is possible to determine the height of a tall building with the aid of a barometer(压表).” The student had answered: “Take the barometer to the top of the building, attach a long rope to it, lower the barometer to the street, and then bring it up, measuring the length of the rope. The length of the rope is the height of the building.”
I argued that a high grade should prove his competence in physics, but the answer did not confirm this. I suggested that the student have another try. Immediately, he worked out his answer: A second best way is to take the barometer to the top of the building. Drop the barometer, timing its fall with a stopwatch. Then, using the formula to calculate the height of the building.
I was shocked by his answer. His method gave me not only a broken barometer but a U-turn in my teaching philosophy. I gave him full marks.
On his leaving my office, I recalled that he suggested there could be a better answer. So I asked him what it was. “Oh, yes,” said the student, “There are many ways. Probably the best,” he said, “is to take the barometer to the basement and ask the superintendent (楼管). You speak to him as follows: Mr.Superintendent, here I have a fine barometer. If you tell me the height of this building, I will give it to you.
At this point, I asked the student if he really did not know the conventional answer to this question. He admitted that he did, but said that he was fed up with high school instructors’ trying to teach him how to think, and to use the so-called “scientific method”. He just wanted to solve the problem in a practical manner, not just answer the question in an expected way. Hearing this, I really had nothing to do but give the boy a firm handshake, feeling thankful that I hadn’t failed him in the first place and even more thankful, neither had he.
1. Why did the author want to fail the student in the first place?A.The student challenged his authority. |
B.The student’s answer was not practical. |
C.The student didn’t show his academic ability. |
D.The student had a poor performance in physics class. |
A.Without love, there is no education. |
B.A man becomes learned by asking questions. |
C.Teaching is to make two ideas grow where only one grew before. |
D.You can lead your horse to the river, but you can’t make it drink. |
A.Lack of physics-related knowledge. |
B.Ignorance of the teacher’s expectation. |
C.Intention to deeply impress his teacher. |
D.Disapproval of existing teaching concepts. |
A.The superintendent was a greedy person. |
B.School education restricted this student’s thinking. |
C.The teacher appreciated the student’s answers finally. |
D.The examination question is a lough physics problem. |