9 . Beginning a new course, a new term, life in a new city or country, and a new household can be big adjustments, especially when your housemates may also be adjusting to many new changes too. Finding a balance of living with each other, being sociable, and respecting privacy (隐私) can make a new household even better. 1 .
Respect (尊重) others’ space
2 . Respect their boundaries (边界) by giving them their breathing space when they are in their room, or trying to study. Other people may have different timetables to you, so make sure you follow the “quiet hours ”between 10 p. m. and 7 a. m..
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This especially applies to food! Don’t eat anything that you have not bought yourself. Decide on whether you share common household goods like milk, shampoo, and toilet paper. If you haven’t agreed to share, do not touch.
Communicate Well
Learn your housemates’ needs and preferences and respect them. Are they a clean freak, while you’re happy to let the dishes sit for a few days? 4 , and stick to it. It is important to remember that listening is a large part of communication. When it is your turn to talk, express your needs in a clear and kind way.
We’re All In This Together
Sharing houses comes with a lot of benefits. You can share great memories, the stories of your day, maybe share a monthly housemate dinner or share the load of cleaning. 5 .
| A．Never touch others’ food |
| B．Never borrow without asking |
| C．Everyone has their own privacy |
| D．Therefore, you can start a new life |
| E．It’s important to reach an agreement early |
| F．The following advice is useful if you have a new household |
| G．Shared living is best when all housemates can think of each other |
