1 . The oldest is the first, the youngest is the baby — but where does that leave the middle-borns? For National Middle Child Day, you’ll recognise these annoying, and sometimes surprisingly advantageous things about growing up in between.
When middle children want to know if they’re old enough to do anything (like sleepover at a friend’s house for the first time or wear makeup) they may as well just look to their older siblings to see when they were allowed to pursue the same milestone. That’s the bar they have to clear to maintain family “fairness”.
How often have you been referred to in relation to your older or younger sibling? Your parents gave you a name at birth, but typically you’re known as someone’s little brother or sister, or even worse, so-and-so’s older brother or sister. It’s easy to have an identity crisis sometimes. In fact, you may have wished you had one of these unusual names so you would stand out from the pack.
Not only do middle children find themselves under a mountain of hand-me-downs (别人用过的东西), unless they’re living in a large house, they also tend to have to share a bedroom. Whether living with the older or younger sibling, your space was never really your own.
Middle children are the only family members who get the life experience of being both a younger and older sibling, giving them unique perspectives on just about everything.
However, the less attention you were given wasn’t necessarily a bad thing — it let you explore and discover your world in your own way, and usually prevented you from getting in trouble for doing so because your parents didn’t even notice! “I think a middle child can fly under the radar,” says middle child Andrea Smarrelli. “I was very good at hiding my crazy moments and childish mistakes from my family.” From harbouring a frog in your room to sneaking out at night, you could get away with a lot. If you’re a troublemaker, we can guess your birth order.
This standing-outness might not have proved in becoming a great performer, but you developed your originality in some way. Without super-high expectations from your parents, you were allowed to think outside the box, leading you to become creative in artistic, entrepreneurial, or other activities.
1. What’s the topic of the text?A.Older sibling. | B.Younger sibling. |
C.Family members. | D.Middle children. |
A.The relation with their older or younger sibling. |
B.The names given by their parents. |
C.The identity problem. |
D.The unusual names. |
A.Standing-outness. | B.Free thinking. |
C.Expectations from parents. | D.Activities. |
A.To analyse the problems of middle children. |
B.To introduce who the middle children are. |
C.To explain middle children’s relation with family. |
D.To illustrate the strengths of middle children. |
1. When does Anna leave home?
A.By 5:15 a.m. | B.By 6:00 a.m. | C.By 7:00 a.m. |
A.He wants to spend more time with his children. |
B.His wife is too busy to look after the kids. |
C.He couldn’t find a good job. |
A.He cleans the floor. | B.He fixes TVs. | C.He washes clothes. |
A.Anna and Peter have two children. |
B.Anna and Peter usually stay up at night. |
C.Anna often reads bedtime stories to the children. |
1. What is Cathy’s nationality?
A.Chinese. | B.German. | C.American. |
A.At 4 p. m. | B.At 6 p. m. | C.At 8 p. m. |
A.By car. | B.By bus. | C.By taxi. |
A.Going back too early. |
B.Staying there too long. |
C.Having difficulty watching TV shows. |
1. What did Carol’s mother study at college?
A.Finance. | B.Engineering. | C.Literature. |
A.Carol’s father. | B.The university. | C.Carol’s grandparents. |
A.Work hard. | B.Find a part-time job. | C.Help with the housework. |
A.Mail a letter. | B.Clean her bedroom. | C.Borrow a book. |
1.介绍你家的家风:(如重视教育、热爱读书、诚实守信、孝敬老人、遵规守纪等)
2.对你的影响。(可举例说明)
注意:
1.词数100左右;
2.题目已为你写好。
提示词:
传统美德 traditional virtues
代代相传 pass down from generation to generation
孝敬老人 show filial respect to the elderly
诚实做人,认真做事 be an honest person and take things seriously
遵规守纪 follow the rules and regulations
My Family Tradition
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每周做家务1小时以十 | 5% |
每周做家务小于1小时 | 65% |
完全不参与家务劳动 | 30% |
注意:1.词数80左右,2.可适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
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7 . Raising children is limitlessly rewarding but no doubt challenging. Here are some tips for raising a happy, healthy and responsible child.
Get them used to doing chores from a young age. We all know a parent who still makes their high school daughter’s lunch every day.
Imagine the future with your children.
A.Get the TV out of the bedroom. |
B.Don’t find yourself in this situation! |
C.Teach them how checking accounts work. |
D.Start an activity that you can do with your teen. |
E.If your son or daughter has a job, then cut back the amount. |
F.You reduce the risk that your child will engage in such behavior. |
G.It’s never too early to begin talking to your child about his or her future. |
When a grandchild comes along for the first time, it’s important to have the right help. In our case, a lovely young couple seems
Here’s the deal: we get the young couple to do most of the difficult work, like
Why, you may ask, would a young couple be willing
Could these different work conditions really
9 . Healthy family relationships can bring love and security to all family members, which can be one of the greatest blessings parents can give to their children.
Communicate effectively. Good communication is crucial for any healthy relationship as it makes it easier to settle conflicts and build strong connections.
Celebrate little moments. Most families make it a point to celebrate important milestones, birthdays and anniversaries.
Work as a team. Discussing things together can help a family emerge with creative solutions. Moreover, family discussions can be used to determine everyone’s responsibility and build trust by respecting every member’s views.
A.Spend quality family time. |
B.Be grateful to one another. |
C.However, it is not easy to establish strong family ties. |
D.But try to find surprising little things in day-to-day life. |
E.Listening sympathetically and talking openly can aid in forming ties. |
F.Having a positive atmosphere is something that all families should work for. |
G.Working corporately produces a feeling of belonging, thus strengthening family bonds. |
10 . I woke to the sound of birds outside my window and lay in bed, going over the busy day ahead of me. Finally, I got up and attempted to switch on the light — nothing happened. I checked my phone. No Wi-Fi, no data. With our unstable cell service, there was no way of knowing if we had received alerts fbr a power failure. I grabbed a sweater, went downstairs, found a flashlight and a match to light the gas stove, and then boiled water to brew coffee. Outside the window, the falling snow obscured (遮蔽) the sunrise. Deep piles of snow covered the road.
My work meetings and deadlines, my sons’ classes and tests, my husband’s plans — everything would have to wait. Why does this happen today of all days?“ I asked. Thankfully, the wood stove was still going strong. I took a deep breath. I supposed we had everything we needed.
The house was quiet as I sipped my coffee and cuddled (搂抱) our dog. One by one, my husband and sons came downstairs and complained about the turn the day had taken.
I opened the curtains to let light in. We gathered around the table and had cereal. After breakfast, my husband played a game of solitaire. Then my sons joined him in building a house of cards that reached three levels until our cat jumped up to investigate and knocked it down. We played a round of Scrabble and had my favorite snow day lunch: grilled cheese and tomato soup.
Then we took a long walk in the woods behind our house, walking along the stream. We spotted deer tracks and played in the snow that was coming down in big fluffy flakes. When we returned, all the clocks in the house were blinking. I started to make dinner, happy to have things back to normal — even better than normal.
It was a day that began without electricity, cut off from the rest of the world, and ended with hot chocolate and power restored. We were recharged by the unexpected gift of a day together.
1. What did the author find when she woke up?A.Heavy snow trapped the family in the house. |
B.The electricity supply had been cut off. |
C.It was still early for breakfast. |
D.Her phone wouldn’t be turned on. |
A.Their arrangements were upset. |
B.They had to serve themselves with simple meals. |
C.The family encountered a shortage of supplies. |
D.Everyone was angry about this unexpected event. |
A.To pave the way for her insight. |
B.To present the daily life of the family. |
C.To show the close family relationship. |
D.To create a lighthearted atmosphere. |
A.It was a temporary disaster. |
B.It was a day full of exciting adventures. |
C.It was a lovely day of family togetherness. |
D.It was a rare moment of leisure and freedom. |