1 . How to Work out Your Worries by Writing
Something troubling you?
You should write about it.
Research shows that people who write about a difficult situation often show improved mental and physical health.
Hundreds of studies over several decades have looked at the potential benefits of expressive writing. It can strengthen the immune system, including for people with illnesses such as flu, cancer and depression.
Expressive writing works because it allows you to make meaning out of a painful experience, experts say.
But expressive writing isn’t a magical cure-all solution.
Yet it can be a powerful tool for many, in large part because it helps prevent the secrecy people often feel about an injury, as well as their reluctance to face emotions.
A.Why write? |
B.What if you don’t write? |
C.Expressive writing gave people the courage to face fears. |
D.It shouldn’t be used as a replacement for other treatments. |
E.It can also help reduce pain and improve mood, sleep and memory. |
F.The first important step is to recognize what it is that is bothering you. |
G.Psychologists refer to writing about an unpleasant experience as ”expressive writing“. |
2 . Anger is the most destructive (破坏性的) emotion. When you are
Firstly, you need to change your attitude to the way the world
A.sad | B.happy | C.angry | D.surprised |
A.written | B.spoken | C.read | D.heard |
A.has worked | B.is working | C.will work | D.works |
A.accept | B.receive | C.take | D.refuse |
A.another | B.others | C.other | D.the other |
A.where | B.that | C.how | D.when |
A.facing with | B.facing up to | C.looking up to | D.looking forward to |
A.positive | B.negative | C.pessimistic | D.passive |
A.kept | B.developed | C.formed | D.broken |
A.drinks | B.clothes | C.food | D.water |
A.because | B.but | C.and | D.so |
A.normally | B.effectively | C.slightly | D.seriously |
A.that | B.which | C.what | D.who |
A.Above all | B.In conclusion | C.To begin with | D.What’s more |
A.anything | B.nothing | C.everything | D.something |
3 . Anger and sadness are important in life. New research shows that experiencing and accepting such feelings is good.
Positive (积极的) thoughts and feelings are, of course, good for our health. But unpleasant feelings are just as important as the enjoyable ones in helping us understand life’s ups and downs. Negative (消极的) feelings are important because they can tell us that we may have a health problem, or we need to pay attention to other important matters such as friendship.
Instead of avoiding negative feelings, we should accept them. Many people find it helpful to breathe slowly and deeply while learning to accept negative feelings or imagine the feelings as clouds to remind them that they will pass.
If the feelings are very strong, you may want to express how you feel in a diary or to other persons. You may want to tell the friend that her words hurt you or take steps to leave the job that makes you unhappy.
You should pay attention to your breathing and simply acknowledge (承认) any bad thoughts or feelings. This may make it easier to accept unpleasant thoughts.
It is impossible to avoid negative feelings fully, because to live is to experience losing and pain. Therefore, learning how to deal with those feelings is very important.
1. What’s the main idea of Paragraph 2?A.What positive and negative thoughts and feelings are. |
B.How positive and negative thoughts and feelings influence people. |
C.What we can do to keep negative feelings away. |
D.Both positive and negative thoughts and feelings are important. |
A.Clouds. | B.Negative feelings. |
C.Positive thoughts. | D.Important matters. |
① Breath deeply. ② Talk to others. ③ Write a diary. ④ Avoid the feelings.
A.①②③ | B.②③④ | C.①③④ | D.①②④ |
A.We will experience more bad feelings than the good ones. |
B.Some people will only experience losing and pain in their lives. |
C.We can avoid bad feelings because we can choose to forget them. |
D.Everyone will experience anger and sadness during his lifetime. |
A.Anger and Sadness | B.Ups and Downs |
C.Positive and Negative Ideas | D.Activities in People’s Life |
4 . “Regrets, I’ve had a few. But then again, too few to mention,” Frank Sinatra chanted in his 1969 hit “My Way”. The song’s idea is attractive: that anyone can just declare what’s done is done and move on. Some take the declaration a step further and claim they have no regrets at all. Whether a boast or an actual attitude, “no regrets” suggests that life can and should be lived without looking through the rear-view mirror.
Easier said than done, though. In 2020, author Daniel H. Pink launched the World Regret Survey, the largest ever survey on the topic. With his research team, Pink asked more than 15,000 people in 105 countries, “How often do you look back on your life and wish you had done things differently?” 82% said regret is at least an occasional part of their life; roughly 21% said they feel regret “all the time.” Only 1% said they never feel regret.
If you are of the “no regrets” type, you might think that all this regret is a recipe for unhappiness. But that isn’t the case. True, being overwhelmed by regret is indeed bad for you. But going to the other extreme may be even worse. To rid yourself of regrets doesn’t free you from shame or sorrow; it leads you to make the same mistakes again and again. To truly get over our guilt requires that we put regret in its proper place.
As uncomfortable as it is, regret is an amazing cognitive (认知) achievement. If today your relationship with your partner has soured, your regret might mentally take you back to last year. You would remember your being mean and sensitive, and then imagine yourself showing more patience, being kind instead of hurtful at key moments. Then you would fast-forward to today and see how your relationship could be progressing instead of languishing.
But regret doesn’t have to be left unmanaged. The trick is to acknowledge it and use it for learning and improvement. You can be honest with yourself about what went wrong and use that knowledge to enjoy better relationships in the future.
1. What should we do if we have had a bitter quarrel with a close friend according to Frank Sinatra?A.Attract more people to your argument. |
B.Send him/her a letter of apology. |
C.Boast about being more reasonable. |
D.Forget about it and just let it go. |
A.We can do nothing about regret. |
B.Unhappiness results from regret. |
C.Ignoring regrets is missing the opportunity to improve. |
D.Ridding yourself of regrets helps free you from sorrow. |
A.Improving. |
B.Healing. |
C.Showing up. |
D.Breaking up. |
A.Regret to become smarter-if you let it. |
B.Long for a different past? Regret it! |
C.Regret? Not my way! |
D.Stay away! Regret will heal itself. |
As the saying goes, “Laughter is the best medicine.” In troubling times, good humour is in need more than ever. Doctors and medical staff are including it in
After a COVID-19 ward opened in Jerusalem, one healthcare clown decided to help patients by
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6 . Do you feel jealous (嫉妒的) of your best friend from time to time?
Build your self esteem. Self esteem is how you feel about yourself as a person. There are many ways to work on your self-esteem including, but not limited to:
●Recognizing your strengths. Are you good at school? Are you a fair listener or a trusted secret keeper for your friends?
●Actively engaging in activities you are good at. It can remind you of your strengths and build self-esteem.
Find happiness in yourself.
Reclaim your power over your emotions. Do not let your emotions hold control over you as this will create a reactive state of emoting.
A.Recognize your insecurities |
B.Rise to the challenges ahead |
C.Being happy is an emotion beyond control |
D.Jealousy can be experienced by anyone at any time |
E.Instead, remember that every emotion you feel is a choice |
F.Write down a list of your best qualities and reread it any time you doubt yourself |
G.It’s easier to become jealous of people around you if you aren’t happy with yourself |
Navigating human emotions can sometimes feel like walking through minefields(布雷区), especially when these emotions are negative.
Envy is one of such emotions with certain negativity when it
Envy could cause serious damage to relationships if
It’s impractical to completely prevent envy, but it is possible to refine the way we process it. Envy is not something to hide away. Being honest with ourselves about the way we feel
We have all
8 . We are all social emotional beings and throughout our lives, we all continue to shape our behaviours and relationships. However, for lifelong well-being, the development of social emotional skills should be shaped wisely as a child opens its eyes to this world. Here are some strategic actions that will help you guide your child in improving their social emotional learning skills.
Approve your children’s feelings. Instead of saying “Stop shouting and calm down, it’s not a big deal” try to say “I know you are really angry right now but we can talk about it.”
Give your kid some space and let them experience uncomfortable feelings. Everyone feels alone or bored sometimes.
Accept emotions & correct behaviors. It’s okay to feel angry sometimes. Eventually, we need to feel that anger in some specific situations.
Support other cognitive skills.
Every parent should keep in mind that all kids can shape and develop their social and emotional skills differently. Trying to find ways that suit your kids’ needs, interests and according to learning styles is always a better solution than blaming yourself or the kids.
A.Cognitive skills can only be acquired from classroom learning. |
B.Define and put into words your children’s emotions. |
C.However, it is never acceptable to show aggressive behaviors. |
D.Teach them how to handle those feelings instead of avoiding them. |
E.This way you can show them that it’s sometimes okay to have big feelings. |
F.Social emotional learning also improves students’ attitudes towards school. |
G.Improving mathematical and problem-solving skills will also support children’s social emotional development. |
Happiness does not appear to be associated with age, gender, race, or geographical location. Instead, it
10 . Anger is a basic human emotion that is experienced by all people. Usually triggered (触发) by an emotional hurt, anger is usually experienced as an unpleasant feeling that occurs when we think we have been injured, mistreated, opposed in our long-held views.
The experience of anger varies widely: how often anger occurs and how long it lasts are different for each person. People also vary in how easily they get angry, as well as how comfortable they are with feeling angry.
Out of control, anger distances friends, co-workers and family members. It also has a clear relationship with health problems and an early death.
A.Blood pressure rises. |
B.Anger can be a positive emotion. |
C.Anger can be beneficial or harmful. |
D.Some people are always getting angry while others seldom feel angry. |
E.These are but two of many reasons why learning to properly manage anger is a good idea. |
F.Another way to reduce your anger and deal with it is to breathe slowly and deeply. |
G.It also occurs when we are faced with problems that keep us from achieving personal goals. |