To be more grateful (感恩的) in life means that you are also allowing yourself to be happier and more satisfied with everything that has been going on around you. But with all the stress, all the disappointments and all the anxiety around you. I bet you ask yourself this question all the time: “How exactly can I be more grateful with my life?”
1. Learn to live in the moment.
Life is a wonderful adventure full of enriching experiences and endless possibilities. Don’t just go through the motions of (走过场) repetitive(重复乏味的) activities and boring tasks. No! Being a mindless zombie (行尸走肉) can make you more likely to take things for granted (对……不予重视).
You’re supposed to attend a conference? Absorb it. Babysit your niece? Enjoy the moment. Eat a 15-minute lunch? Taste each bite.
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Being aware of your goal to be more grateful can help you look for things to be really more grateful for. Gratitude is a conscious decision. You have to practice it consistently (持续的,始终如一地).
3.Control your thoughts.
Of course you have the power to control what you’re thinking of! Consider this exercise, for example: if you find yourself thinking more and more self-entitled (自我为中心), stop.
4. Always resist the temptation (诱惑) of comparing yourself with other people.
As humans, we have the natural tendency (倾向、偏好)to compare ourselves with others with the hope of attaining satisfaction. Actually, this kind of activity does not help you feel to be more grateful in life.
Don’t do it, please.
Every little thing counts. You have the ability to make yourself feel to be more grateful in your life.
A.Appreciate what you had in the past |
B.And if you find yourself repeating negative (消极的) junk, stop |
C.It does the opposite |
D.Egress gratitude all the time |
E.Well, the following are some tips to help you with this particular concern (忧虑) |
F.Instead of doing something just for the sake of (为了) doing it |
G.Words that stress you and make you feel worthless should definitely be removed |
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【推荐1】It’s Friday morning, and you’re taking another test. Are you ready? Students who do well on tests often have good study skills, but good study skills involve a lot of preparations as well as studying. Here are a few simple strategies(策略)that will help.
Read ahead.
Take good notes. Good notes make great studying tools. Good note taking involves a lot more than copying notes from the board.
Make flashcards. Flashcards are great review tools for basic math facts or word definitions. Write the word or question on one side and the definition or answer on the other side.
A.Study in a group |
B.Review notes daily |
C.As you review them, make two piles |
D.Doing it helps you better prepare for class |
E.There are many things you can do to improve your studying skills |
F.You are becoming more familiar with the concepts and topics discussed |
G.Make sure to include any relevant information from the classroom discussions |
Nobody likes to feel anxious. Anxiety is among the most common and criticized of human emotions. It seems, then, that our efforts to contain (克制) anxiety aren’t working.
As a clinical psychologist and neuroscience researcher, I believe that we mental health professionals have made a terrible mistake. Feeling anxious isn’t the problem. The problem is that we don’t understand how to respond constructively to anxiety. That’s why it’s increasingly hard to know how to feel good.
This “bad” feeling isn’t a failure of mental health. It’s a triumph (巨大胜利) of human evolution: the ability to think about the uncertain future and prepare for it. Anxiety turns you into a mental time traveler, drawing your attention to what lies ahead. Will you succeed or fail in that interview for a job you desperately want? Anxiety prompts (推动) your mind and body into action. Your worries force you to prepare thoroughly for the interview, while your heart races and pumps blood to your brain so that you stay sharp and focused, prepared to pursue your goals.
Research has also shown something that many scientists didn’t expect: higher levels of dopamine (多巴胺) when we’re anxious. We have long known that dopamine soars when an experience is pleasurable. The fact that anxiety also boosts dopamine levels points to its role in making positive possibilities into reality.
Many of us feel overwhelmed by lasting anxiety and don’t see any benefit from it. Treating anxiety like a disease prevents us from distinguishing between ordinary anxiety and anxiety disorders. We need to develop a new mindset about this misunderstood emotion. We don’t need to like anxiety-just to use it in the right way.
1. Why is it increasingly hard for us to know how to feel good?2. How does anxiety help one in a job interview?
3. Please decide which part is false in the following statement, then underline it and explain why.
Research has shown that dopamine soars when an experience is pleasurable, but it is in lower levels when we are anxious.
4. How do you cope with anxiety positively in your daily life?(In about 40 words)
【推荐3】How did you learn how to ride your bike? Someone probably gave you a few lessons and then you practiced a lot.
Break it up! When there’s a lot to study, it can help to break things into chunks(大块). Let’s say you have a test on 20 spelling words. Instead of thinking about all of the words at once, try breaking them down into a five-word chunks and working on one or two different chunks each night.
Ask for help. You can’t study effectively if you don’t understand the material.
Get a good night’s sleep. So the test is tomorrow and you’ve followed your study plan—but suddenly you can’t remember anything, not even 2+2! Don’t worry. Your brain needs time to digest(消化) all the information you’ve given it. Try to get a good night’s sleep.
A.Plan ahead for tests and projects. |
B.Study regularly instead of just the night before. |
C.You can learn how to study in much the same way. |
D.You’ll be surprised by what comes back to you in the morning. |
E.If you’re studying math or science, do some practice problems. |
F.Be sure to ask your teacher for help if you’re confused about something. |
G.Good studying starts in class. |
【推荐1】As a first responder, you never know what type of situation you might walk into, or who you’ll meet along the way. That’s definitely been the case for Jeffrey Lanenberg, a 51-year-old paramedic(急救医务人员) since 1984.
Ten years into the job, Lanenberg received a call that reported that a man in his early 30s had fallen down in the Mall of America. When Lanenberg and his partner arrived at the scene, they found the young male face down on the ground. He had gone unconscious, making weak attempts to breathe. His wife stood beside him holding their small son in horror. They quickly rushed to defibrillate(除颤) and calm the man to keep him under control. After Lanenberg dropped the patient off at the neighboring hospital, he thought about the man and his family for a long time.
Lanenberg thought he had experienced everything under the sun until one random visit to Office Max three years ago, where he met a man repeatedly walk back and forth while staring at him. As it turned out, the man was the patient he had saved 20 years earlier.
"You gave me 20 years more than I ever thought I’d have," the man said. He thanked Lanenberg repeatedly and told him he had someone he wanted him to meet. He stepped around the corner and reappeared with a 20-something-year-old man. Lanenberg instantly knew that it was the son he had seen standing by his mother all those years ago.
"That day changed my life," Lanenberg said. "Before that, everything was about work…When I talk to my beginner-training class, I tell them you never know the impact you can have on someone’s life."
1. What did Lanenberg do with the young man?A.He gave the man the first aid. | B.He cured the man at the scene. |
C.He only sent the man to hospital. | D.He took care of the man’s wife and son. |
A.It was unbelievable. | B.It was a common routine. |
C.It was a matter of course. | D.It was a dangerous situation. |
A.Lanenberg helped bring up his little son. |
B.Lanenberg donated to support his family. |
C.Lanenberg gave him the present happy life. |
D.Lanenberg taught his son to be a new doctor. |
A.He changed his attitude to his job. |
B.He was rewarded with much money. |
C.He got a promotion to be a team leader. |
D.He took up teaching work to train newcomers. |
【推荐2】Galaxy saw a man and a woman who communicated with the sign language at the train station when she was on the way home one evening. She noticed that the woman asked the man for the direction. He told her that he did not know. Galaxy decided to help them. She had learned the sign language when she served as a volunteer in the deaf and mute (聋哑) school. Then she showed the woman the direction and left her email address to them in case they needed her help later.
She received an email from that man the next day. Kazrim was his name. Galaxy replied his mail sincerely,They both started chatting online soon after and began seeing each other. Although they only communicated with the sign language, it never bothered her.
Galaxy was fond of him gradually. Obviously, Kazrim was the same too. He presented Galaxy with a bunch of sunflowers and asked her sincerely, “Are you willing to be my girlfriend?”
Galaxy was pleasantly surprised. She requested him to give her some time to persuade her parents.
As she had expected,her parents were very angry after they had learned of their love story.
Galaxy explained,“Kazrim is an excellent and a very optimistic person. He has a very positive attitude towards life and work. He cares for others always. He is 100% better than the normal. Moreover, the mute is still a human. He should possess a perfect and wonderful love. ”
Her parents asked to see him,then. The very worried Galaxy took Kazrim home a few days later. When they were on the train,Kazrim told her,“I'm going to tell your parents that I'll be looking after you well with all my life!” Galaxy was deeply moved.
As soon as they had entered the house,Galaxy introduced him to her parents. She said,“This is Kazrim. ”Just right after her speech,an unbelievable thing happened. Kazrim threw the gift away and held her in his arms tightly.
He said. “YOU CAN TALK?”It was the same question that Galaxy wanted to ask,too.
The four people were shocked all of a sudden. As a matter of fact, Kazrim always believed that Galaxy was a mute and he still fell in love with her deeply.
1. How did Galaxy and Kazrim get to know each other?A.They met each other by chance. |
B.They were introduced to each other |
C.They once studied at the same university. |
D.They both served in a special needs school. |
A.Writing words on paper. | B.Using the sign language. |
C.Judging from his expression. | D.Speaking her native language. |
A.To have a talk with Kazrim. | B.To prepare for her marriage. |
C.To treat Kazrim as a normal man. | D.To accept Kazrim as her boyfriend. |
A.They fell in love at the first sight. |
B.They cheated each other to win love. |
C.They mistook each other for being mutes. |
D.They ignored the anger of Galaxy's parents. |
【推荐3】Cristina, a teen who grew up in a poor neighborhood in Madrid, never imagined herself playing the violin. But today she is first violinist in an inventive orchestra (乐团), bringing together two dozen other disadvantaged youths, using instruments made from recycled materials. “I am really happy, because the project has changed my life a lot,” said Cristina, her eyes gleaming.
Luis, 18, credits the project with keeping him on a right track in a neighbourhood like Vallecas, which has a high school dropout rate. “Instead of meeting up with friends, I preferred to listen to music, play it, and little by little it became a way of life,” he said.
The project, called “Music of Recycling”, aims to breathe new life into junk while also benefiting youths from disadvantaged backgrounds and it is run by Spanish environmental group Ecoembes and is inspired by Paraguay’s Cateura orchestra, made up of musicians from a poor neighborhood who play instruments made from materials found in waste.
After Ecoembes invited the Cateura orchestra to perform in Madrid in 2014, the group decided to found its own similar ensemble (小乐团) that same year, said Gil, the director of Music of Recycling. The ensemble put on its first concert just four months later and “the kids could not play more than four notes,” said Gil.
Now after having performed in cities across Spain, “We already have four boys studying in scholarships at music schools,” he added. More than 100 children are taking music classes from members of the orchestra as part of the project.
The instruments are created by Soler, a third-generation instrument maker, from cans, wooden boxes and parts of abandoned instruments. He tried to make the instruments as close to their “normal” shape as possible so the children won’t have difficulty playing regular equipment in the future.
1. What does the author intend to do by referring to Cristina and Luis?A.Praise the teens for their efforts. | B.Introduce the startup of the project. |
C.Show the effects of the project. | D.Present ways to mix music and recycling. |
A.A group of musicians. | B.A children’s orchestra. |
C.Disadvantaged youths. | D.An environmental group. |
A.It was started in 2014. | B.It was funded by the government. |
C.It spread across the world. | D.It made a large amount of money. |
A.Doubtful. | B.Supportive. | C.Tolerant. | D.Uncaring. |