Being independent is an important skill for people who want to take control of their lives. Here are some tips on how to be independent.
Believe in yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself, then who else will?
Stop caring about what other people think. This is the most important thing about being independent. Stop worrying about other people’s opinions about your life, whether they are thinking about your clothes, your choice of career, or your choice of significant other.
If you always have the worrying thought, “But what will other people think if…” in the back of your head, then you will always be holding yourself back from doing your own thing.
A.Be your own hero. |
B.Accept that life is not fair. |
C.These are your decisions, and not anyone else’s. |
D.As long as you have made a decision — just do it! |
E.We are all different and have something unique to say. |
F.So please remember: you have to be happy in spite of that. |
G.Believing in yourself will make you trust your own decisions. |
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【推荐1】Do you get upset because you can’t accomplish what you want to? When you can get organized, keep things under control, and live a neat life, you can work faster and think more creatively. Here are some tips that can help:
Make schedules and deadlines
Give everything a home
It’s easy to get lost if you don’t have a home. Keeping your life organized means keeping your things in their proper places. Organized people keep order by storing things properly and by labeling storage spaces. Make easy-to-access storage spaces for things you use all the time.
Highly organized people make sure they find time every week or more to organize their things. Stuff does not stay organized on its own; it needs to be reorganized continuously and consistently. Use small bits of time to clean out a drawer or put old clothes into a box for donation.
Stay away from bargains
You have removed the things you don’t need. Will you replace them when you see something on sale? Instead of bargain shopping without planning ahead, write down exactly what you need and buy only those items.
Work hard
Put in a little effort.
A.Tidy regularly |
B.Know what you need. |
C.Actually, put in much when necessary. |
D.Don’t jump back and forth from room to room. |
E.Organized people never give in to false advertising. |
F.Organized people don’t waste time. |
G.Organized people only keep what they need and what they really want. |
【推荐2】Fear of Missing Out
It’s a common experience: You’re scrolling through a social media page, and you see pictures of friends traveling or going to parties. Suddenly you start to wonder why you’re not doing those things. Are you missing out on something fun and exciting because you’re locked into everyday life? This experience has come to be known as the fear of missing out, sometimes abbreviated(缩写) FOMO.
Wanting to be in on the fun when exciting things are happening is completely normal. But for some people, it can lead to an addiction to checking their phones to find out what other people are doing. Even while doing things that are fun or necessary, people can feel like there’s something better going on elsewhere. This urge to connect can lead them to disconnect from the people they are actually with.
Remember that what people choose to post on social media does not necessarily reflect their life overall. People tend to pick and choose the things they share, so we only ever know a small part of anyone else’s life.
It might even be necessary to turn off your phone or log out of social media for a while.
Finally, focus on the things in front of you. Enjoy them, do them well and let everything else go.
Don’t let the fear of missing out cause you to miss out on the good things you have in life. Relax, enjoy what you do and let other people enjoy their lives without envying them.
A.To some extent, people have always worried about missing out on things. |
B.Without the social media you will get unconnected with the whole world. |
C.It also prevents them from being satisfied with the good things in their lives. |
D.When you fully engage with life, you’ll worry less about what you’re not doing. |
E.Get rid of the constant reminders of everything that’s happening in the world. |
F.It’s difficult to connect with the reasons why you choose not to participate. |
G.It’s also important to be humble and acknowledge your limitations. |
【推荐3】What makes people successful? Take a look around and talk to your friends and seniors who are very successful, you will see all of them have adopted certain values which have proved important for their success.
It is evident that successful people take initiative(主动性). When they find something needs to be done, they never hesitate to do it.
Successful people do things with great enthusiasm, especially when they believe in what they are doing. They are motivated by their own satisfaction and the joy they get from doing their work.
They do not fear failure. Failures and disappointments in life are unavoidable.
Having good IQ often gets a person what he wants but it’s really the EQ that keeps him there and helps him enjoy a high reputation.
A. Successful people never complain
B. Successful person don’t make excuses.
C. They work hard even when no one is watching.
D. They believe that responsibility is taken, not given.
E. It is failure that teaches us much more than success.
F. It is hard to be successful if you don’t trust the people around you.
G. Successful people are polite to everyone and treat others with respect.
【推荐1】You’ve heard it many times: first impressions are lasting. When an important first impression ends up with failure, this warning can feel like a death sentence.
Firstly, there is no need to blame yourself. Actually, everyone makes mistakes, and, at some point in their life, everyone says or does something they wish they hadn’t.
Honestly admitting the mistake and apologizing for it are the best choice. You can apologize in a formal language like, “I am sorry, but I didn’t mean to do that.”
What’s the most important is that you learn from your mistakes and avoid making them again. And make sure you won’t behave in a similar manner again.
A.Don’t pretend you’re good friends. |
B.The good news is that you can recover from a first impression failure. |
C.Sometimes, it is difficult to apologize face to face. |
D.Avoid trying to change what has been said. |
E.Your action is the best evidence that you’re not the person you used to be. |
F.If you focus too much on your mistakes, you may make the situation worse. |
G.Besides, if you’re trying to recover from a bad first impression, then humor will be an important tool. |
【推荐2】There’s no doubt that loneliness hurts. Functional MRIs show that the area of the brain triggered by social rejection is the same area that’s triggered by physical pain. To understand why loneliness hurts, let’s take a closer look at friendship through the eyes of two heavyweight philosophers.
In one corner we have Aristotle, who wrote that without friends, there’s no reason to live. The Greek great believed that friendships are based on the virtues of the friend.
So as a sharp counterpunch to Aristotle, let’s turn to the renowned Enlightenment philosopher Immanuel Kant, who said that all people have value regardless of their virtues. Since we view our true friends with this kind of unconditional love and respect, we can assume they view us the same way.
A.This may sound fine at first. |
B.They last through thick and thin. |
C.This tells us why loneliness hurts. |
D.These acts may not make you a lifelong friend. |
E.The more friends you have, the happier you’ll be. |
F.We feel like we’re not accepted by the people around us. |
G.Thus, the cure for loneliness can be found in other people. |
【推荐3】I don’t remember the exact date I met Marty for the first time. Like a lot of people who want to get through a checkout line, I found my thoughts on speed, nothing more. The line I was standing in wasn’t moving as quickly as I wanted, and I glanced toward the cashier, who was receiving money from customers.
He was an old man in his sixties. I thought, well, it probably took him a little longer to get the jobs done. For the next few minutes I watched him. He greeted every customer before he began scanning the goods they were purchasing. Sure, his words were the usual, “How’s it going?” But he did something different—he actually listened to people. Then he would respond to what they had said and talk with them briefly.
I thought it was strange, but I guessed I had grown accustomed to people asking me how I was doing simply out of a conversation without thinking. Usually, after a while, you don’t give any thought to the question and just say something back quietly.
This old cashier seemed sincere about wanting to know how people were feeling. Meanwhile, the high-tech cash register rang up their purchases and he announced what they owed. When customers handed money to him, he pushed the appropriate keys, the cash drawer popped open, and he counted out their change.
Then magic happened.
He placed the change in his left hand, walked around the counter to the customers, and extended his right hand in an act of friendship. As their hands met, the old cashier looked the customers in the eyes. “I want to thank you for shopping here today,” he told them. “You have a great day. Bye-bye.” The looks on the faces of the customers were priceless.
Now it was my turn. I glanced down at the name tag on his red waistcoat, the kind experienced Wal-Mart cashier wore. It read, “Marty.”
Marty told me how much I owed and I handed him some money. The next thing I knew he was standing beside me, offering his right hand and holding my change in his left hand. His kind eyes locked onto mine. Smiling, and with a firm handshake…
1. While the author stood in the checkout line, she felt ______.A.impatient | B.enthusiastic |
C.comfortable | D.embarrassed |
A.talk about unimportant topics | B.face communication problems |
C.remain calm while having a talk | D.develop a mindless conversation |
A.he expressed his sincerity while giving back the change |
B.he spent as much time as possible serving customers |
C.he was patient with all the questions from customers |
D.he showed particular interest in customers’ personal life |
A.Marty was a talkative man. |
B.Marty cared a lot about what he did. |
C.The author failed to get along well with others. |
D.The author was dissatisfied with such a waste of time. |