One of the greatest sources of unhappiness, in my experience, is the difficulty we have in accepting things as they are.
When we see something we don’t like, we wish it could be different. We cry out for something better. That may be human nature,or perhaps it’s something ingrained(根深蒂固的) in our culture. The root of the unhappiness isn’t necessarily that we want things to be different. However, it’s that we decided we didn’t like it in the first place. We’ve judged it as bad, rather than saying, “It’s not bad or good, and it just is it.”
In one of my books, I said,“You should expect people to mess up and expect things to go differently than you planned.” Some readers said it’s too sorrowful to expect things to go wrong. However, it’s only negative if you see it as negative and judge it as bad. Instead,you could accept it as the way the world works and try to understand why that is.
This can be applied to whatever you do:how other people act at work, how politics works and how depressing the news media can be. Accept these things as they are, and try to understand why they’re that way. It will save you a lot of sadness, because you’ll no longer say, “Oh, I wish bad things didn’t happen!”
Does it mean you can never change things?Not at all. But change things not because you can’t accept things as they are, but because you enjoy the process of changing, learning and growing.
Can we make this world a better place?You can say that you’ll continue to try to do things to help others, to grow as a person, to make a difference in this world. That’s the correct path you choose to take, because you enjoy that path. Therefore, when you find yourself judging and wishing for difference, try a different approach:accept, and understand. It might lead to some interesting results.
1. The author believes that we feel unhappy maybe because .A.we dislike something in the beginning |
B.it is our natural emotion in the life |
C.culture asks us to be different from others |
D.everyone has their own opinions on things |
A.acting well at work and in politics |
B.feeling depressed for the news media |
C.accepting and understanding what has happened |
D.saying something negative when bad things come |
A.Judging good or bad is important for our world. |
B.Expecting things to be different gives us hope. |
C.Traditional culture becomes the root of unhappiness. |
D.Accepting can make our life happier and better. |
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【推荐1】Finances (经济) were low for many months after the Strike (罢工) .Mama decided to rent (出租) the front room Mr. Hyde called in answer to the "Roomer for Rent" sign in the window.
Mr. Hyde didn’t seem to have any regular hours of business, but he always spoke pleasantly(愉快地) to the children, and whenever he passed Mama in the hall he bowed (鞠躬) to her.
Only Aunt Jenny disagreed "When," she asked, "is he going to pay his rent?”
"ls hard,” Mama said, "to ask. Surely he will pay soon."
When the rainy weather came, Mama worried that Mr. Hyde's room was cold in the evenings, so she had Papa invite him into the warm kitchen to sit with us. Christine, Nels, and I did our homework under the big lamp, and Papa and Mr. Hyde smoked by the stove. Mams worked quietly at the sink
Mr. Hyde advised Nels on his high-school courses and sometimes helped him with his Latin. Nels became interested, his grades improved, and he stopped begging Papa to let him quit school and go to work. After we finished our schoolwork and Mama had settled down in the rocking chair with her mending, Mr. Hyde would tell us of his travels and adventures.
One night he began to read Dickens to us. Soon it became an accepted fact that after our homework was done, Mr. Hyde would bring down one of his bocks and read aloud. And strange new worlds were opened to us. After David Copperfield 《大卫科波菲尔》 and The Old Curiosity Shop《老古玩店》, Mr. Hyde gave us Shakespeare (莎士比亚). He had a fine deep voice and sounded as we imagined a great actor would sound.
Even when the warm weather came, we children don't beg to go out in the evenings to play. I think Mama was glad; she never liked us running the streets.
"I must go," he told Mama. "I shall leave the books for Nels and the Children. Here is my check for all I owe(欠) you, madam. and my sincere thanks for your hospitality(热情好客).” We were sorry to see Mr. Hyde leave, but it was with great excitement that we brought his books out to the kitchen. There were so many of them!
It was too bad that Aunt Jenny was still there when Mr. Kruper came. He was angry. “That man Hyde was a crook (骗子) !” he shouted. "Look at this check he gave me It's no good! The bank people tell me he cashed them all over the neighbourhood."
Aunt Jenny's triumphant (得意的) nod said as plainly as word—I told you so. Mama looked around at all of us. Her eyes rested longest on Nels. "Read," she told him, "read to us from Ivanhoe 《艾凡赫》.
1. Which of the following is true according to the story?A.Aunt Jenny believed that Mr. Hyde would pay the rent soon. |
B.Nels didn’t want to continue his education before Mr. Hyde came. |
C.The children preferred running the streets to reading books. |
D.Mr. Kruper was a friend of Mr. Hyde. |
A.Rich and knowledgeable |
B.Lazy and humorous |
C.Rude and dishonest |
D.Polite and helpful |
A.Mr. Hyde gave Mama the rent before |
B.Mr. Hyde helped children with study |
C.Someone else has paid the rent for him |
D.Mr. Hyde will pay the rent later |
A.Mama’s love for children. |
B.The importance of honesty. |
C.Mama’s kindness to others. |
D.The value of knowledge |
【推荐2】Recently I’ve had two good roles on television. But when I was just getting started in theater work 17 years ago, I never thought I’d make it. Back then I was recovering from surgery and had been off work for six months. Even worse, as a single mother with three youngsters, I had no place to live in. I felt hopeless.
One Sunday morning I saw actor Robert Young on the television talking about his faith: Believe yourself! If we confidently take that first step, well take the next, until we reach our goal.
The first step was scary. After I went working part-time, I looked for an apartment. The ones I saw were either too expensive, or I couldn’t raise my children in them. I knew a house, not an apartment, was more suitable for me. However, after seeing several houses, my confidence was shaken. I found two seemed right, but when I was about to make an offer, someone else had ordered.
I remembered a saying, “When one door closes, a better one opens.” I wouldn’t just sit staring at the closed one but got up and struggled on. In a real estate (房地产) agent, I found a small house with proper price. To buy it, I had to borrow $ 3,000 for a down payment and get a mortgage (按揭). Common sense argued that a mortgage for a single mother working part-time was impossible. But I had enough self-confidence without following common sense.
After getting the house, my new self-confidence grew. Later , when I began filling small parts in television productions, that self-confidence showed. I'd always played the role as the director wanted. Now I find myself freer to interpret (演绎) it.
Self-confidence has made it through life. Trouble can be scary at first, but each time I take that step, I believe I will win the next.
1. How did the author feel when entering television industry at first?A.Hopeful. | B.Embarrassed. | C.Pessimistic. | D.Aggressive. |
A.To show the value of self-confidence. |
B.To share her different life experiences. |
C.To introduce her toughest part of life. |
D.To tell us her ways to get over difficulty. |
A.Her sense of confidence. | B.The difficulty in her life. |
C.The director’s good direction. | D.Her success in her first attempt. |
A.Appear on the Stage | B.Struggle with Life |
C.Stick to Your Plan | D.Believe in Yourself |
【推荐3】Voluntary work in fact, brings many personal benefits. My personal experiences have affirmed my belief in this.
To begin, voluntary work has provided me with the opportunity to gain more insight into the lives of the less fortunate. I once volunteered to clean up one-room flats where the less fortunate lived in. When I first entered the flat, I was astonished at the state of the living conditions — it was overcrowded with people, messy household items, and newspapers. I was critical about the owners of the flat. However, as the cleaning proceeded, I learned more about their misfortunes and difficulties. I was regretful of my initial judgement of them. This incident has allowed me to learn more about people. Moreover, it has made me realise that many underprivileged communities are unjustifiably judged and discriminated against. I learnt that life is a lot more complex than I had imagined, and that I should always try to display empathy.
In addition, my experience with volunteer work has reminded me to be more thankful for the little things. When I volunteered at a school to teach basic life skills to students with cerebral palsy (脑瘫), I found that the students were very appreciative of the teachers, teacher assistants and even the school attendants. The students often said “thank you” and smiled politely. I felt that as much as I had taught them, the students too had taught me: they taught me a lesson on gratitude.
Finally, doing voluntary work has given my life more meaning. After doing voluntary work, I feel more connected to the rest of mankind, and now have a stronger sense of purpose in my life. Instead of just being absorbed in my own wants and needs, now make use of the abilities I have to extend a helping hand to those in need.
1. What can be inferred about the author’s first judgement on the people in the flat?A.Inspiring. | B.Interesting. | C.Pitiful. | D.Rude. |
A.The teachers. | B.The volunteers. |
C.The teacher assistants. | D.The disabled students. |
A.Do as you would be done by. |
B.Kill two birds with one stone. |
C.All things are difficult before they are easy. |
D.A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. |
A.By quoting others’ words. |
B.By using parallel sentences. |
C.By giving opinions and facts. |
D.By listing examples and numbers. |
【推荐1】Obviously television has both advantages and disadvantages.
In the first place, television is not only a convenient source of entertainment, but also a comparatively cheap one. With a TV set in the family people don't have to pay for expensive seats at the theatre, the cinema, or the opera. All they have to do is to push a button or turn a switch, and they can see plays, films, operas and shows of every kind. Some people, however, think that this is where the danger lies. The television viewers need do nothing. He does not even have to use his legs if he has a remote control. He makes no choice and exercises, no judgment. He is completely passive and has everything presented to him without any effort in his part.
Television, it is often said, keeps one informed about current events and the latest developments in science and politics. The most distant countries and the strangest customs are brought right into one's sitting room. It could be argued that the radio performs this service as well; but on television everything is much more living, much more real. Yet here again there is a danger. The television screen itself has a terrible, almost physical harm for us. We get so used to looking at the movements on it, so dependent on its pictures, that it begins to control our lives. People are often heard to say that their television sets have broken down and that they have suddenly found that they have far more time to do things and that they have actually begin to talk to each other again. It makes one think, doesn't it?
There are many other arguments for and against television. We must realize that television itself is neither good nor bad. It is the uses that it is put to that determine its value to the society.
1. What is the purpose of paragraph 1?A.To arouse the reader’s concern | B.To introduce the theme of the whole passage |
C.To summarize the whole passage | D.To sate the primary uses of TV |
A.not very convenient | B.very expensive |
C.quite dangerous | D.relatively cheap |
A.it keeps us informed | B.it is very cheap |
C.it enables us to have a rest | D.it controls our lives |
A.its quality | B.people's attitude towards it |
C.how we use it | D.its price |
【推荐2】Before there was writing, there was storytelling. Every culture has its own stories to tell. Oral storytelling is telling a story using your voice and moving your body. It can include poems, songs, legends, and more.
The Native Hawaian word for story is “mo'olelo.” The word means “to pass down a language" because the stories are shared orally. Native Hawaiian storytellers know a lot about history and family trees. They are special members of their communities. Hawaiian storytelling also uses sons, chants an dances. For example, hula tells a story through dance. Stories are very important to Hawaiians. They are fun to listen to and they teach young Hawaiians about behavior and traditions.
People in many parts of Africa listen to storytellers after dinner. The storyteller's job is to enteitain (娱乐) and educate. The most famous west African stories are about a clever spider named Anansi. Griots are people who tell stories, sing, write about history, and more. There used to be schools where people could learn how to be a griot. Usually, the job stays in a family. It is passed from an older member of the family to a younger member. Both men and women can be griots.
Passover is an important Jewish holiday. It celebrates the Jews' escape from slavery (奴隶制) in Egypt. This escape is called the Exodus. The Passover celebration includes a storytelling tradition called a seder. During the seder, Jews eat a large meal and tell the story of the Exodus. The storytelling begins when the youngest child at the seder asks why this night is different from other nights. The story also explains why the Jews celebrate certain Passover traditions. This story of Exodus is written down in the Jewish book, the Torah.
The seanchai were Irish storytellers. They traveled to different villages to talk about the new and old stories. Many of the stories were about kings and heroes.
Storytelling is not a thing of the past. Today, storytelling is making a comeback, which helps people become more connected in real life.
1. Which sentence in paragraph 1 can best summarize the passage?A.Every culture has its own stories to tell. |
B.It can include poems, songs, legends, and more. |
C.Before there was writing, there was storytelling. |
D.Oral storytelling is telling a story using your voice and moving your body. |
A.Native Hawaiians | B.West Africans |
C.Jews | D.Irish |
A.Narrative. | B.Informative. |
C.Descriptive | D.Persuasive |
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【推荐3】Science and technology have advanced at such a rate that cloning has now become a reality. The possibility of cloning humans is a serious issue(争论点) and raises ethical(伦理的) questions. In my opinion, cloning is useful for research into cures for disease. However, I think that it needs to be approached with caution and carefully monitored by governments.
Research into cloning and stem(严格的) cell production is primarily aimed at finding new treatments for currently incurable illnesses. While this would improve the quality of life for many, not enough is understood about what effects cloning would have on the world in the future. This is primarily because we do not understand enough about the results of cloning and both the physical and psychological effects that it is likely to have on cloned humans and on the rest of the world. Furthermore, it is thought that a cloned human would be unlikely to survive birth and would suffer from complications(并发症) resulting from malformed(畸形) organs .
There are also serious ethical issues in danger. In essence(在本质上), those who are against cloning would argue that scientists have no right to play God and to interfere(干扰)with natural processes. Producing embryos for the purpose of harvesting stem cells for research presents important questions about the nature and status of the embryo being produced. It may also make us question whether throwing it away after use reduces the value we place on human life.
In conclusion, I do not agree that research into cloning using human embryos should continue. This is not only because it may reduce the value we place on human life, but also because not enough is known about the effects.However, I do think that if there is a way to produce stem cells using cloning which does not put human life at risk, then governments should continue to support it.
1. What is the writer’s general opinion on cloning?A.It is useful in every area of research. |
B.It needs to be carefully controlled by governments. |
C.It is useful for research into cures for disease if it is controlled. |
D.It is only useful for research into cures for disease. |
A.reach a high level or amount | B.move forward |
C.come near | D.deal with |
A.not enough is known about the effects of cloning |
B.a cloned human would be likely to die of malformed organs |
C.cloning has negative physical and psychological effects on clones |
D.it would affect the quality of life for many |
A.not put human life at risk |
B.support all forms of research into stem cell production |
C.not support any form of research into stem cell production |
D.support research into stem cell production harmless to humans life |