I was visiting my sister Mary, who has two boys, aged seven and five. They were throwing a ball around the living room. She asked them several times to stop, but they didn't listen to her. Finally, one of the boys threw the ball and knocked over a lamp. She shouted loudly at them for several minutes. Then, she sent them to their room. She looked at me and said, "They never listen to me."
Carmen
Dear Carmen,
Your sister needs to be clear to her children what behavior she expects. She should tell her boys, "Don't throw the ball in the house. If you throw the ball again, I'm going to take it." Then, she needs to do what she says. Her boys will soon learn to listen to her.
Dr. Bob
Dear Dr. Bob,
I walked into my two-year-old daughter's bedroom and found her coloring on the wall again with her crayons. I told her, "No! No! Never write on the wall with your crayons. You can only write on paper." My husband thought I was too easy on her and that she needed a spanking (打屁股). What is your opinion?
Debbie
Dear Debbie,
You dealt with the situation well. Children this age are too little to understand the relationship between their actions and a spanking. Use this as a warning; it's time to babyproof your home. Now that your little one is more active and curious (好奇的), what else can she reach? Check her room and your home for crayons, paints, medicines, cleaning products, and other things that might interest her.
Bob
1. What was wrong with Mary's children?A.They threw a ball at Carmen. |
B.They often shouted loudly at her. |
C.They had a fight over a ball. |
D.They turned a deaf (聋的) ear to her words. |
A.making your home safe for babies |
B.giving your baby a spanking |
C.getting crayons out of your home |
D.teaching your baby to behave well |
A.stop their children from telling lies |
B.ask their children to follow rules |
C.get their children to go to bed on time |
D.develop their children's interest in reading |
A.You can't judge a book by its cover. |
B.The pot calling the kettle black. |
C.Children are what the mothers are. |
D.Spare the rod and spoil the child. |
A.A tourist brochure. | B.A news report. |
C.A parenting column. | D.A science magazine. |
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Whatever your career, and whatever your goals in life are, ideas are going to matter to you. One great idea could change your life. The thing is, you probably don’t have as many great ideas as you’d like. Perhaps you feel unimaginative and unoriginal. You keep hoping that a really good idea will just pop into your head, but that never seems to happen. The good news? Ideas aren’t magic dust sprinkled by the Muses. There’s an awful lot you can do to generate ideas any time you want.
First, you need time to come up with ideas – and quality time, where you’re not worrying about the chores or your emails. Getting quality time ideally means taking a whole day away from your regular responsibilities. Go out to a coffee shop with a notebook, or shut yourself in a room at home without internet access. Get a zoomed-out view of your life: set aside worries about “but what would people think?” and “is it sensible?” and let yourself dream. You’ll be amazed what you come up with.
Ever had an idea which you immediately dismissed? You probably told yourself “That’s stupid,” or “It’s been done before.” When you’re generating ideas and thinking through possibilities, you’ll inevitably come up with a few false starts. Some ideas will be unoriginal, undesirable or unworkable. But that’s not a bad thing. One idea often leads to a whole train of thought – and you might end up with a really good idea from something which seemed, at first glance, unpromising.
Although I’m a bit of an introvert – I like to spend a fair amount of time on my own – I also get a great buzz from being with like-minded people and discussing ideas and projects with them. You’ve probably experienced something similar yourself – maybe in a brainstorming meeting at work, or maybe just at a bar with friends. The energy generated by several people together can spark some brilliant ideas – ones which you’d never have come up with alone. How do you find like-minded people to bounce ideas off? You could try: Local groups, such as evening classes; Getting together with a couple of friends who “get” your dreams; Finding an online forum of people with the same interest or goals as you.
Ideas don’t just appear in a vacuum. They’re formed from all the various input that you take in. Sometimes, a news story might give you the perfect idea for a Christmas present for your sister, or a book that you’re reading might get you thinking about a particular goal in your life.The more widely you read, the more open you’ll be to new ideas cropping up. That might mean reading a magazine or journal article that’s far outside your normal area of expertise, or turning to a biography of someone who you know almost nothing about. A great place to start is online: blogs, news sites, forums and even Twitter and Facebook are all a rich source of ideas, just waiting for you.
How do you come up with great ideas? And is there a particular area of your life where you feel like you’re lacking inspiration?
How to come up with great ideas—all the time | |
Getting ideal quality time means | |
You may come up with some | |
Don’t judge your ideas | A(n) |
Talk to other like-minded people | Talking with people who |
Read widely | Reading widely helps you put forward new ideas and the Internet is a great place |
Conclusion | Whatever your career, and whatever your goals in life are, ideas are of |
【推荐2】It’s a really good idea to visit colleges before you apply because their websites can all start to look and sound the same. Nothing will give you the sense of what it will actually be like to live on a college campus like visiting and seeing for yourself, the dorms, classrooms and athletic equipment and, of course, the students. It seems a little crazy once senior year hits to find the time to visit college campuses, and it can also be pricey if the schools you are applying to happen to be more than a car ride away. But keep in mind that you are making a decision about the next four years of your life, and do all the research you can to make sure you are making the right one.
There’s no excuse not to visit the schools in your local area. In fact, a lot of college applications even ask if you have visited campus, and obviously, if you live across the country, that won’t be as much of a possibility, but if you live nearby, go check it out!
If campus visits aren’t going to happen before you apply, at the very least you should find some time between applying and getting your acceptance letters to visit the schools you’d like to attend. It can save you a lot of heartache if you rule out (排除) now the things that you don’t like about certain campuses, things that you wouldn’t know unless you actually visit.
Now, if time and money are making it impossible, then check out the online college fairs at College Week Live. It’s a chance to chat online with admissions officers, students, and college advisers, and it won’t cost you a penny! You can register for its online college fair at collegeweeklive.com. While visiting an online college fair can’t take the place of an actual campus visit, it can be a very useful tool that along with all your other research will help you make an informed decision about which colleges or universities you’d like to attend.
1. What does the passage mainly talk about?A.The necessity of visiting the colleges you like in advance. |
B.The possibility of visiting the colleges you like in advance. |
C.The ways of visiting the colleges you like in advance. |
D.The information about how to visit colleges you like in advance. |
A.To help them get familiar (熟悉) with the college. |
B.To help them know the way to college. |
C.To help them make a right decision. |
D.To help them avoid meeting troublesome problems. |
A.inconvenient | B.awkward | C.cheap | D.expensive |
A.To show the importance of applying to colleges. |
B.To encourage students to know more about the colleges in advance. |
C.To inspire students to study much harder before going to colleges. |
D.To guide students to choose an ideal college by themselves. |
【推荐3】Are you truly happy? Do you ever know what it means to be happy and what it takes to achieve happiness?
Surround yourself with happy people. It is easy to begin to think negatively(消极的). When you are surrounded by people who think that way.
Truly happy people don’t allow setbacks 挫折 to affect their mood because they know that with a little thought they can turn the things back to their favor.
Finding the humor in situations can also lead to happiness. Find a way to make light of a situation that would otherwise make you happy.
Keeping healthy is another way to achieve happiness.
A.There are some tips in life that lead to happiness. |
B.It’s also important to take some time each day to do something nice for yourself |
C.On the contrary, if you are around people who are happy, their emotional state will be easily passed to you. |
D.Being overweight or not eating foods containing nutrition have a negative effect on your mood. |
E.What makes one person happy may be very different from what makes someone else happy. |
F.These are important questions for anyone who is seeking happiness to ask themselves. |
G.Spend a few minutes each day thinking about the things that make you happy. |
【推荐1】How to Achieve Your Dreams
If you’re in a position where you want to achieve your dreams, but you’ve lost your way, you’re not alone.
If you’re prone (倾向) to negativity, it’s not uncommon. It’s easy for people to pick up on negativity and spread it. Be very intentional about the development of a positive mindset. Whether you choose to watch motivational films, or read inspirational books, work on developing a positive mindset.
When you’re looking to fulfill a dream, the environment is so critical. Pay attention to the people within your environment. If your friends wake up late, hang out a lot and avoid responsibilities, it’s only a matter of time before they try to get you to do the same thing.
In order to achieve any worthwhile dream, you’ll have to develop a high level of discipline.
When you’re disciplined, you’ll sit down to complete a task without giving in to your emotions.
A.Take a detailed look at the goals you have. |
B.When you don’t feel like working, you still get it done. |
C.Therefore, limit the amount of time you spend with them. |
D.It’s one of the most desired qualities to become a model. |
E.There are plenty of people who give up on dreams in the process. |
F.Think about the tools for packaging such as tape, boxes and bubble wrap. |
G.You’re more likely to achieve your dreams when you’re positive through challenges. |
【推荐2】With so many pressures can any of us be truly happy? As we welcome in a coming new year, Rachel Kelly, author of Walking on Sunshine ,suggests small changes to your life can make a big difference to your state of mind.
Slow down
Be mindful
Build a "mindful" activity into your day. It can be any routine activity you perform during the rush of the day ,like hand washing. Slow down and give the task your full attention.
Perfectionism is a fantasy, but the seeking of it is real and can have damaging consequences. So read just your thinking. If a friendship ,relationship ,work project is 800/0 right, then you're doing well.
Breathe
When things get too much, try the one-finger-on-the-nose breathing trick. Press a finger against one side of your nose. Then just breathe through the other nostril.
Exercise
Breaking a sweat, ideally first thing in the morning, releases endorphin(内啡肽)and sets you up for the day.
A.Redefine failure |
B.Follow the 800/0 rule |
C.By halving the rate at which you breathe |
D.We are human beings, not human doings |
E.Lack of exercise can leave you feeling tired |
F.You'll soon start appreciating these small moments of stillness |
G.It's all about creating the right conditions for your body to feel relaxed and able to sleep |
【推荐3】For more than a decade, Nancy Richards Farese has been taking heartwarming photos of children around the world. Throughout her travels, the American photographer has noticed a common characteristic(特点) that seems to go beyond cultures. “They play no matter what’s going on,” she said on a video call.
When Nancy Richards Farese visited Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh, she took photos of the poor children there. Among the hardship, children played with what they made for themselves. They blew pinwheels(玩具风车) and pulled a water bottle as a toy with wheels and an old rope. She said, “The other adults and I had a thought of the seriousness of this situation. We were sorry they were in a difficult situation. However, the kids were actually doing something, quite naturally, to help themselves feel good.”
Farese’s new book brings together almost 100 photos she has shot while examining children’s play across 14 countries. Her young subjects play chess in Jordan and in Cuba; they jump, laugh and run; they kick and throw balls, climb and jump ropes. Dolls and kites often appear. Many games are seemingly global.
The photographer said, “We sometimes pay no attention to the importance of playing, but when you talk to scientists, they will say it is one of the most fundamental(基本的) things we ever do in our lives. It is something we were born with. It helps shape our ideas and other characteristics. It’s just interesting to realize that our abilities to work together, to understand tolerance(容忍) are just simple developmental sides that we practice in a game. And they are so important.”
“We move through the world every day with this treasure. We should allow ourselves to play as a regular practice — to be creative, to set aside even five minutes every day as a time when we’re in nature,” she added.
1. How did the poor children in Cox’s Bazar make themselves feel good?A.By taking pictures. |
B.By making video calls. |
C.By asking the adults for help. |
D.By making their own toys to play with. |
A.Natural. | B.Difficult. | C.Creative. | D.Useless. |
A.Play with the children. |
B.Allow children to play in nature. |
C.Think of some special ways to play. |
D.Spend time playing and relaxing ourselves. |
A.A diary. | B.A magazine. |
C.A travel guide. | D.A history book. |
【推荐1】Book Reviews
Not Too Late: Changing the Climate Story from Despair to Possibility By Rebecca Solnit and Thelma Young Lutunatabua (Haymarket Books, 2023) Hope isn’t a lottery ticket, says activist and writer Rebecca Solnit. Rather, it’s a tool, and an essential one for anyone living through climate change today. This essay collection from scientists, policymakers, and activists balances showing the very real stakes (利害关系) of the climate crisis with making the case for possibility. | Saving Time: Discovering a Life Beyond the Clock By Jenny Odell (Random House, 2023) “What is time?” we’ve all asked ourselves and each other. For most of us the question is just a question, but not for Odell, who urges us to seriously reconsider the ways we spend it. Not bad advice, but her observations on, say, the importance of rest or the limitation capitalism has on the hours in our collective days can feel more like a mix of other people’s ideas than a new way forward. |
Science Fiction: Voyage to the Edge of Imagination By Glyn Morgan (Thames & Hudson, 2022) Science Fiction, writes Nalo Hopkinson in this catalogue for the London Science Museum’s 2022 exhibition, “is the literature of social and technological change… it tests in order to discover the truth.” It upends our brains visually, too, as the images here will prove. | Meganets: How Digital Forces Beyond Our Control Commandeer Our Daily Lives and Inner Realities By David B. Auerbach (Public Affairs, 2023) Auerbach defines meganets as autonomous digital forces that have brought an unheard-of level of chaos to our politics, economy, and social lives. We might think that Microsoft, Google, etc. are in control of these networks; Auerbach suggests that what chatbots might really indicate are new modes of mass control and cheat. |
A.Not Too Late. | B.Saving Time. | C.Science Fiction. | D.Meganets. |
A.Jenny Odell’s. |
B.Glyn Morgan’s. |
C.David B. Auerbach’s. |
D.Rebecca Solnit and Thelma Young Lutunatabua’s. |
A.Worried. | B.Excited. | C.Disappointed. | D.Satisfied. |
【推荐2】Here are some of the strangest aviation ideas in recent history.
Double-Decker Seating
In 2015, Airbus filed a patent for a design for a double-decker cabin seating arrangement. Passengers would sit one on top of the other, with upper-tier passengers climbing steps or a small ladder to reach their seats. While the design does have some advantages, the idea of climbing a ladder during flight seems unreliable.
Separated Cabins
This patent was awarded to Airbus. Rather than waiting for a flight to arrive and be cleaned, passengers could simply board a ready cabin, which would be moved into the plane’s body as soon as it was ready. When the plane reached its destination, the cabin would be separated again. Different cabins with different kinds of seating or levels of comfort could be used for flights of different lengths or destinations.
Windowless Cockpits
For ideal design, airplane noses should be long and pointy. But there’s the whole “pilots have to fit in the cockpit” problem. Well, what if the cockpit didn’t have to go in the nose of the plane? That’s part of the thinking behind this Airbus patent application, which suggests replacing the plane’s window with a digital viewing surface. Without a window, there’s no reason the cockpit needs to go in the front of the plane—it could go in the middle of the plane, or even in the tail.
Nap Straps
Airbus is not the only company in the strange patents contest. Boeing’s got its own patent, Nap Straps. With this invention, passengers looking for a nap can find an “upright sleep system” beneath their seat. In action, the whole thing is somewhat like a traction device for someone who’s been in a terrible accident.
1. Which shows the disadvantage of double-decker seating?A.Crowded. | B.Expensive. | C.Small. | D.Unsafe. |
A.To improve flight speed. | B.To save passengers’ time. |
C.To increase comfort level. | D.To ensure passengers’ safety. |
A.Double-decker seating. | B.Separated cabins. | C.Windowless cockpits. | D.Nap straps. |
【推荐3】Retail (零售) Shop Supervisor (主管)
Pay: £9.74 per hour, paid weekly
For this 30-hour-a-week position, we need you to be available between 6 am and 7 pm, 5 out of 7 days, sometimes including some weekends. Early & late shifts.
You'll fit right into Greggs as a supervisor if:
You have had some team supervisory experience in a similar customer-focused retail environment.
You are able to stay focused on delivering excellent standards and great products all while keeping an eye on your targets.
What we can offer
As well as a non-stop working environment, and a rewarding feeling of accomplishment and teamwork, we have a whole range of bonuses (奖金) that you can take advantage of.
Career progression and brilliant training programmes.
Employee Staff Discount up to 50% off our food.
Holiday entitlement (津贴) starting at 4. 2 weeks and increasing with service, plus bank holidays (Pro-rata for part time).
If you're interested in progressing within the company, we have some fantastic development programmes for supervisors who are enthusiastic about retail and would like to progress to the shop manager, and we'll support you to maximise your potential.
What you'll do
Supervisors are at the heart and soul of our shops. Working closely with the manager and team, our supervisors make sure our customers have a great visit every time they come into a Greggs shop. As well as some of the more practical tasks such as food prep and keeping the shop clean, you'll also keep your team involved and motivated to deliver the fast and friendly service Greggs is famous for. Our retail supervisors are responsible for managing the shop when the shop manager isn't around; as second in command, supervisors really are our shop managers' right-hand person.
1. How much will a supervisor be paid per week for the job?A.£116.88. | B.£126.22. | C.£292.2. | D.£487. |
A.Free accommodations. | B.A large discount on food. |
C.Everyday training programmes. | D.Sharing profit with the company. |
A.Team up with the manager. | B.Deliver goods to customers. |
C.Visit potential customers regularly. | D.Work out some practical sales plans. |