We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. "Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen? " "When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he envy my luck? And Paul—why didn't he pick up that he was friendly just because I had a car?" When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it's too late.
Why do we go wrong about our friends or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don't really listen, we will miss the meaning behind the words. Suppose someone tells you, "You're a lucky dog", that's being friendly. But "lucky dog"? There's a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn't see it himself. But bringing in the "dog" bit puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck.
"Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for" is another noise that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? Wrapped up in this phrase is the thought that your problem isn't important. It's telling you to think of all the starving people in the world when you haven't got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone's words? One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says agree with the tone of voice? His posture? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
1. This passage is mainly about ________.A.how to make friends |
B.how to avoid mistakes when you communicate with people |
C.what to do when you listen to others talking |
D.why we go wrong with people sometimes |
A.we fail to listen carefully when they talk |
B.we tend to doubt what our friends say |
C.people usually state one thing but mean another |
D.people tend to be annoyed when we check what they say |
A.being friendly | B.a bit of envy | C.lucky dog | D.your luck |
A.notice the way the person is talking |
B.take a good look at the person talking |
C.think about his tone, his posture and the look in his eyes |
D.examine the real meaning of what he says based on his manner, his tone and his posture |
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【推荐1】Body language is a language without spoken words and is therefore called non-verbal communication.We use body language all the time.For instance looking someone in the eye means something different than not looking someone in the eye.
Body language is used especially to express feelings.For instance if we don’t like someone,it’s often difficult to say that directly to the person.However, we can make it clear either intentionally(有意地)or unintentionally through body language.The opposite is also true. People may give their true feelings away by not being aware of their body language.Research has shown that most people pay more attention to, and believe more readily, their impression of how a person acts through body language than what’s said through words.
Usually body language occurs unconsciously(无意识地).Yet the body language we use decides to a large extent the quality of our communication.It follows that therefore it would be good to become conscious of our own and others’ body language.We can learn to use our body language for a purpose as well as learn to understand and interpret body language of others.
It’s important lo note that body language has different meanings in different cultures.How we can interpret body language depends on the situation, the culture, the relationship we have with the person as well as the gender of the other.This means that there isn't one signal that has the same meaning all over the world.If you don’t take this into account you may get yourself into some serious trouble! Body language is also interlinked (连接)with spoken language and a whole pattern of behaviour of a person.As well as that, various body language signs can complement (补充)each other to make a particular meaning clearer or strengthen the meaning of what we communicate.
1. Why is body language used in our daily life?A.Because body language can get the meaning across better. |
B.Because people can communicate without using words. |
C.Because sometimes we can't express how we feel easily by words. |
D.Because body language makes the atmosphere more harmonious. |
A.By his unintentional spoken language. |
B.By his unintentional body language. |
C.By his intentional spoken language. |
D.By his intentional body language. |
A.To respond with body language. |
B.To make the other one feel confident. |
C.To make the communication go on smoothly. |
D.To make the unconscious communication meaningful. |
A.different cultures present the same meaning |
B.it has nothing to do with the spoken language |
C.it is only connected with the behaviour patterns |
D.its signals have various meanings in different situations |
A.People of different countries need friends to live better. |
B.Communication with body language is better. |
C.Everyone is influenced by body language. |
D.Body language has special meanings. |
【推荐2】Mr. Garcia, a businessman from Madrid, Spain, is speaking English to one of his customers, Mr. Patton, from Vancouver, Canada. Mr. Garcia slowly approaches Mr. Patton.
What is going on here? Probably a misunderstanding in body language.
Body language is one kind of nonverbal communication which plays a key role in communication.
For example, in the above case, Spanish speakers enjoy a much closer speaking distance than English speakers.
Another example is eye contact. In many American Indian and East Asian cultures, respect is shown by not looking directly into the eyes.
Sometimes gestures used in different languages have contrary meanings.
A.The latter slowly steps away. |
B.Body language is very important. |
C.This can produce a humorous effect. |
D.But it is not the same in all cultures. |
E.Mr. Patton walks slowly in the room. |
F.For Western Europeans, the opposite is true. |
G.Learning body gestures is rather difficult from textbooks. |
【推荐3】Body language is a powerful means of communication used by both humans and animals. Through gestures, facial expressions, and postures, individuals express emotions, intentions, and establish social connections. This nonverbal form of communication plays a crucial role in promoting understanding and establishing strong relationships.
In the human world, body language is an essential part of daily interactions. A smile can instantly convey happiness and friendliness, while a furrowed brow may signify worry or confusion. Even slight changes in posture can communicate confidence or depression. By paying attention to these nonverbal signals, individuals can better understand the underlying emotions and thoughts of others, thus strengthening their ability to understand and connect with each other.
Interestingly, animals also rely heavily on body language to communicate within their own species and even across different species. For instance, a wagging tail in a dog usually means excitement or happiness. Similarly, puffed-up feathers in birds can indicate attacks, while a relaxed body posture may suggest satisfaction. By understanding these signals, animals can effectively convey messages and establish social classes, ultimately improving their chances of survival and successful reproduction.
Furthermore, body language often overcomes language barriers, enabling communication between individuals who do not share a common language. This is particularly important in diverse societies or in situations where verbal communication is not possible. In such cases, gestures, facial expressions, and body movements become fundamental in conveying messages and building connections.
Nonetheless, it is essential to recognize that body language is not always the same. Cultural differences and individual personality traits can affect the interpretation of certain gestures and expressions. For example, direct eye contact is generally considered a sign of respect and focus in Western cultures, while it may be seen as a challenge or disrespect in other cultures. Therefore, it is crucial to be mindful of these differences when interpreting body language in cross-cultural communication.
1. What can we learn about body language from paragraph 1?A.It is only used by humans. |
B.It is limited to verbal communication. |
C.It can express emotions and intentions. |
D.It is ineffective in bridging language barriers. |
A.Being proud. | B.Losing heart. | C.Discomfort. | D.Curiosity. |
A.It bridges language barriers. |
B.It helps establish social classes. |
C.It is the primary form of communication. |
D.It removes the need for verbal communication. |
A.Animals rely only on verbal communication. |
B.Body language is universally interpreted the same way. |
C.Understanding body language can lead to successful reproduction. |
D.Cultural differences can affect the interpretation of body language. |
【推荐1】Most of us want to get in shape and be healthy. For many of us nutrition (营养) and watching what we eat is an important way to stay healthy. But when it comes to food, what is calorie counting, and what are the positives and negatives of it?
A law in the UK came into force in April 2022 that requires restaurants, takeaways, and cafes to display the calorie information of non-pre-packed food and soft drinks on their menus. It’s a strategy aimed to deal with obesity (肥胖) and give people a more informed choice of what goes down into their stomachs. Being able to count calories and know how much we can eat is a great way to try and stay on track with our diet.
However, there are some disbelievers when it comes to calorie counting. 200 calories of fresh fruit and 200 calories of junk food, for example cookies, have the same caloric value. However, there is a question of the health benefits of what you’re eating, regardless of calories. While fresh fruit like apples contains things like vitamin C, junk food could contain an unhealthy level of sugar and fats. Likewise (同样地), fruit may fill you up and leave you not wanting more food for longer than a biscuit with equal calories - meaning, overall, you eat less.
Simply counting calories, while useful for weight loss, doesn’t take into account your intake of good fats, carbohydrates, and proteins - things that your body needs. So, if you’re trying to stick to a low-carbon diet, just looking at numbers of calories on a menu won’t be that useful. So, always be mindful that what you’re eating is part of a healthy balanced diet.
1. What’s the aim of the newly-passed law in the UK?A.To ensure food security. | B.To direct the food industry. |
C.To help reduce obesity. | D.To get tough with the businessmen. |
A.Calorie alone doesn’t contribute to health. | B.Junk food has more calories than fresh fruit. |
C.Less calories mean less food in your stomach. | D.Sugar and fats are more harmful than calories. |
A.The best way to keep in shape. | B.A research result of obesity in the UK. |
C.Nutrition and its health benefit. | D.Opinions and comments on calorie counting. |
A.Entertainment. | B.Lifestyle. | C.Finance. | D.Education. |
There is a drive within all of us to create and express ourselves through art. This drive comes from a need to achieve a balance within ourselves. Art refers to the theory and physical expression of creativity found in human societies_and cultures. Its major fields include literary arts, performing arts (e. g. theater and dance) and visual arts (e. g. drawing, painting, photography, film and sculpture).
Art is essential to our culture because it provides us with a deeper understanding of emotions. Through art, we learn to feel joy in times of happiness and we see pain and despair in times of suffering. Creating art allows us to slow down and experience a full range of our emotions, while viewing others’ art can release the emotions within us and allow us to explore our feelings. This can help us heal and grow, and succeed both personally and professionally.
Art encourages critical thinking and promotes communication. Throughout the entire process of creating and appreciating art, we need to make decisions. We use logic and reasoning to find meaning in what we see or create. Art is a medium to share thoughts, ideas and visions that may not be expressed in other ways. Through art, we gain a better understanding of past and present cultures. Yet more importantly, there are no language barriers in art and therefore it is universal.
Art also enhances our lives. The process of experiencing art engages both the body and the mind and provides us with time to reflect. That’s why art is a necessity, not a luxury. It can make a community more beautiful and a workplace more interesting. Our homes reflect our personalities through the art we choose to display. Art can inspire us, make us happy and even motivate us.
We need to express ourselves through art. When we take a closer look at our world and begin to see the art and creativity in it, it can soothe, enrich or encourage ourselves. Art is beautiful , and beauty is an aesthetic quality.
1. What drives people to create and express themselves through art?2. Please decide which part is false in the following statement, then underline it and explain why.
Art helps people gain a better understanding of past and present cultures, and the language barriers make it difficult for people to appreciate art.
3. What is the passage mainly about?
4. What is your favourite art form? And why?(In about 40 words)
【推荐3】Be it from the mouths of foreigners who have lived here for a few years or from stories on travel websites, one of the most common qualities that people list about Shanghai is the infectious energy that courses through the city.
For some, this energy is defined by the way of life—Shanghai is a city that never sleeps. In the day, the streets are always bustling with people from all over the world. After all, the city has long been China’s most cosmopolitan city, having been the epicenter of trade and cultural exchange between Chinese and foreigners since the city was forced to open its door to the world in 1843 after the First Opium War (1840-42).
Shanghai’s ubiquitous delivery people can be found on the roads even past midnight, rushing from point to point on their trusty electric scooters to satiate the hunger of night owls. Even before the break of dawn, pensioners can be found gathering in parks, ready to kick start their day with a tai chi session.
For others, this energy is generated from the friction between the contrasts the city has. Indeed, it does not take long for one to realize that Shanghai's charm lies in it being a binary of old and new.
Here, charming neoclassical architecture and art deco structures stand alongside modern buildings with shimmering glass and metal facades, rustic (质朴的)lane houses and shikumen buildings. Humble mom-and-pop shops that look stuck in time can often be found right next to hip dining venues or industrial-chic fashion stores selling designer apparel.
One of the best places to get an overview of these surreal contrasts is none other than the tallest building in the city — the Shanghai Tower in Lujiazui. Measuring a dizzying 632 meters in height, this architectural marvel boasts having the world's highest observation deck within a building or structure. It also comes with the world's fastest elevators which would get you from the bottom to the top at 20.5 meters per second.
On the other side of the Huangpu River is where you would find the Bund, which is home to magnificent neoclassical buildings. The Bund is to Shanghai what Times Square is to New York or what the Champs-61ysees is to Paris. A trip to Shanghai would not be complete without exploring this iconic waterfront promenade.
Autumn is the best time to experience Shanghai on foot, not merely because the weather is conducive for walking, but because this is when the roads and sidewalks in many areas are blanketed with a layer of colorful fallen leaves.
1. Why is the example of delivery man mentioned?A.To make a contrast with pensioners’ biological clock. |
B.To illustrate the vibrant energy of modern Shanghai. |
C.To highlight the diligence and consideration of delivery man. |
D.To feature the courier delivery service in full swing. |
A.The contrast mainly arises from the First Opium War. |
B.The design of the Shanghai Tower stands for a contrast. |
C.A marked contrast is shown in the use of building materials. |
D.The dishes served in mom-and-pop shops represent the outdated flavor. |
A.photographic | B.modest | C.peculiar | D.stylish |
A.Stunning views of the Shanghai skyline. |
B.The best places to view the seasonal spectacle. |
C.The walking path that hugs the Huangpu River. |
D.Must-try dishes and food items typical of Shanghai. |