Research has found that adults today have fewer friends than they did in the 1980s, and that more people say they have no one to discuss important stuff with.
Play the violin. Not just play it—and sing along. A new study suggests that singing is an effective way to make new friends because it helps us bond quickly with others.
For the study, led by Eiluned Pearce, Ph. D. at Oxford University, researchers looked at participants aged 18 to 83 in adult education classes organized by the Workers’ Education Association in the UK. Eighty-four participants were enrolled in one of four singing classes; 51 participants were enrolled in one of two creative crafts classes or a creative writing class.
Over a period of seven months, the classes went weekly. During the first, third, and final months, researchers asked participants to tell how close they felt to their classmates. Results showed something surprising. Although participants in all the classes felt closer to their classmates by the study’s end, participants in the singing classes developed that closeness much more quickly.
As for why exactly singing leads to fast group bonding, the researchers say one possible reason is that everyone does it at the same time. Compare that with creative writing or crafting, where everyone is working on an individual project. Another possible cause, according to the researchers, is that singing involves muscular effort, which causes the release of certain molecules (分子) that can make us happier and more willing to cooperate.
The point here is that singing can be a great icebreaker among large groups of strangers, which can lead to individual friendships down the line. “Really close relationships still depend on communication between individuals or much smaller groups,” Pearce said in a release(发布会), “but this study shows singing can start the bonding process.”
1. What has research found about today’s adults?A.They don’t really want friends. |
B.They are looking for new friends. |
C.They have fewer friends than before. |
D.They like discussing important things with friends. |
A.creative writing classes help people bond |
B.the participants would become closer to others |
C.so many participants would take singing classes |
D.participants in the singing classes would bond so quickly |
A.very cheering | B.very interesting |
C.a bit confusing | D.not completely possible |
A.rely on individual communication | B.depend on one’s attitude |
C.often occur in large groups | D.are easy to develop |
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【推荐1】How to make friends at a new school
Starting with a new school can be difficult. Everything seems to be different, and you don’t even know where to go for your own classes. Making new friends can be hard, too.
Be yourself.
Never change who you are to try and fit in. If some people don’t accept you, they’re not the kind of friends you need. People often stay together because they have similar interests.
Remember to be nice to the people you meet at your new school. If you think that you will say something that may make them feel sad, do not say anything and just nod your head if they talk to you. Also, remember to be as helpful as possible!
Believe in yourself.
A smile goes a long way. When you walk in the halls, don’t keep your eyes on the floor.
If you see someone you know, smile or say “Hi”. Introduce yourself. Tell them your name and where you’re from.
Remember people’s names.
You like it when people use your name, and so do other people. People may become angry if you just begin by saying “Hey” each time.
A.Raise your head and make eye contact with other people. |
B.For example, someone who does lots of sport may make friends with those who also run or swim a lot. |
C.Join in after-school activities you like. |
D.However, if you use the following skills, you can quickly turn some of those strangers into friends. |
E.Be friendly to others. |
F.Besides, ask them in a kind way if they have a nickname. |
G.Don’t sit at the back of the classroom where other people don’t notice you! |
【推荐2】For lots of kids, toddlerhood (幼儿期) is an important time for friendship. Studies show that the earlier kids learn to form positive relationships, the better they are at relating to others as teenagers and adults. Playing together also helps these kids practice social behaviors, such as kindness, sharing, and cooperation.
Even so, how quickly your child develops into a social creature may also depend on his temperament(性格). Some toddler s are very social, but others are shy. In addition, the way that toddlers demonstrate that they like other children is markedly different from what adults think of as expressions of friendship. Research at Ohio State University in Columbus found that a toddler’s way of saying “I like you” during play is likely to come in the form of copying a friend’s behavior.
This seemingly unusual way of demonstrating fondness can result in unpleasant behavior. Regardless of how much they like a playmate, they may still grab his toys, refuse to share, and get bossy. But experts say that this is a normal and necessary part of friendship for kids this age. Through play experiences, toddlers learn social rules. That’s why it’s so important to take an active role in your toddler’s social encounters by setting limits and offering frequent reminders of what they are. When you establish these guidelines, explain the reasons behind them.
Begin by helping your child learn sympathy (“Ben is crying. What’s making him so sad?”), then suggest how he could resolve the problem (“Maybe he would feel better if you let him play the ball.”). When your child shares or shows empathy(同理心) toward a friend, praise him (“Ben stopped crying! You made him feel better.”).
Another way to encourage healthy social interaction is by encouraging kids to use words- not fists-to express how they feel. It’s also important to be mindful of how your child’s personality affects playtime. Kids are easy to get angry when they’re sleepy or hungry, so schedule playtime when they’re refreshed.
1. What does it indicate when toddlers copy their playmates’ behavior?A.They are interested in acting. | B.They are shy with the strangers. |
C.They are fond of their playmates. | D.They are tired of playing games. |
A.Design games for them. | B.Find them suitable playmates. |
C.Play together with them. | D.Help them understand social rules. |
A.Giving examples. | B.Explaining concepts. |
C.Providing evidence. | D.Making comparisons. |
A.How Children Adapt to Changes | B.How to Be a Role Model for Children |
C.How Your Baby Learns to Love | D.How to Communicate with Your Kid |
【推荐3】Who needs friends? According to most psychologists we all do, especially nowadays when so many other aspects of modern life are changing. It seems that having friends keeps us both healthy and happy.
The number of TV series about groups of friends shows just how important friendship is to us. Psychologist Dorothy Rowe says that many of us now turn to our friends, instead of our families, for advice and comfort. One woman named Rebecca she interviewed even told her that if she had got to choose between her husband and her friend, she would choose her friend.
Since our friends mean so much to us, it is not surprising that the happiest marriages are also friendships. “Once the romantic stage of a relationship has passed, it is friendship that holds people together,” says Rowe. If the couple do not make some changes. They will either get tired of each other and break up or stay together and look for friendship with others.
For men, friendship is usually based on doing things together rather than the private conversations that are typical of women friends. Men share time building a business or playing football together, but they don’t often share their feeling. Although many women find their relationship with a husband or boyfriend is not enough, many men say that their partner is their best friend. Even women who are very happily married are likely to become very unhappy without a close friend and can even find the break-up of a close friendship as painful as the end of a marriage.
Lasting friendships can provide a lot of the same support that families provided in the past, but the perfect situation is to have your family there for you as well. Friendships and family relationships can both change, but a friend will not consider you when making really important decisions in the same way that a family member will.
1. The example of Rebecca in paragraph 2 shows that some people think ________.A.one friend is more than enough. | B.friends are just like their family. |
C.friends matter more than family. | D.friends make them more comfortable. |
A.Couples tend to be friends in a good marriage. |
B.Couples will have new friendship after they get married. |
C.Friendship help couples build healthy relationships. |
D.Friendship hold couples together when romance has passed. |
A.Women often do things together with friends. |
B.Men seldom talk to their friends about their feelings. |
C.Women often talk about business with friends. |
D.Men often talk to their friends about work and family. |
A.Friendship cannot replace family relationships. |
B.Friendship can last longer than family relationships. |
C.Friendship and family relationships are both changeable. |
D.Family members help you make better decisions than friends do. |
【推荐1】“Join our exciting wildlife watching tours and experience the holiday of a lifetime!” Eco-wildlife tours like this are becoming more and more popular with tourists. The opportunity to see whales and dolphins swimming in their natural habitat is so much better than seeing these great mammals in zoos and aquariums. As your boat edges out into the blue water, a group of dolphins come to greet you and swim around the boat, jumping playfully around you. In some places, tour companies even encourage tourists to go swimming with the dolphins. These intelligent mammals seem to enjoy our company and interact with us. But is it possible that this kind of human activity putting their survival at risk?
A recent study has shown that the behavior of whales and dolphins changes greatly when they are close to boats. Interpreting the boats as a possible danger, they start to breathe more to breathe more quickly. The boats drive them away from the places where they feed and interrupt their routine of resting and taking care of their young. All of these factors could have a very negative effect on their general health. Another factor that should be taken into account is the effect of human attention on the animals. As they become more used to interacting with humans, they become less afraid of them. There have been several cases of tour boats running into dolphins or whales and causing their deaths. As dolphins live within close communities, events like these cause a lot of stress.
Perhaps the best way to protect these animals is to reduce our interaction with them. We could do by keeping a minimum distance between the animals and the boats, and by limiting the number of boats out on the water at one time. Most importantly, instead of interrupting these animals’ routines, we should try to adapt to them. In this way, we could learn to exist in harmony with these wild animals and ensure our continued co-existence on the planet that we shall share.
1. Why are Eco-wildlife tours increasingly popular?A.Because they are widely advertised. |
B.Because tourists can visit wild animals in nature. |
C.Because wild animals enjoy our company. |
D.Because visitors do not disturb wild animals. |
A.Interested. | B.Supportive. | C.Critical. | D.Confused. |
A.The visiting boats excite whales and dolphins. |
B.Boats drive young whales and dolphins away from their parents. |
C.Human’s attention benefits whales and dolphins a lot. |
D.Getting too close to wild animals may cause trouble to them. |
A.Making less interaction with them. |
B.Keeping a minimum distance between boats. |
C.Banning boats entering their habitat. |
D.Making them adapt to our daily routine. |
【推荐2】In a world where screens are taking over, magazines can be a fun alternative to give our kids’ eyes a rest. Here is a list of four of our favorite magazines for kids to start reading today!
Anorak
Anorak was launched in 2006. The magazine is aimed at children between six and twelve years old. Cathy Olmedillas developed the magazine after realizing, as a new mother, that there weren’t any titles for children that she wanted to read with her son. This magazine is perfect for artistic, creative, and emotional children. The entire issue is a piece of artwork including great stories for kids to practice their reading comprehension and get inspired.
Faces
Faces helps kids aged nine to fourteen understand how people in other countries and cultures live. Each issue shares a different culture and how the children grow up there. This is a great subscription for kids who want to travel or simply learn about the great planet we live on.
OWL
Since 1976, OWL has ignited (点燃) the curiosity of kids aged nine to thirteen. OWL continues to give children access to new information in a humorous and engaging way. OWL inspires kids to learn through articles, puzzles, interviews and more to highlight the elements of science and tech, engineering, art and math.
Ranger Rick Jr.
Designed specially for kids aged four to seven, Ranger Rick Jr. is full of stories of outdoor adventures, animal facts, and more! Each issue has a wide range of content regarding all things to do with nature from stories of wild animals to activities to do as a family.
1. What do we know about Anorak?A.It was launched in 1976. |
B.It is loaded with professional science articles. |
C.It was inspired by Cathy’s experience as a mother. |
D.It introduces children to other cultures of the world. |
A.They cover the same topics. |
B.They have a special focus on humor. |
C.They help readers develop their writing skills. |
D.They are aimed at children within a similar age group. |
A.Ranger Rick Jr. | B.Anorak | C.Faces. | D.OWL. |
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The changing population throughout the globalizing world, in particular an increase in the aging population and a decrease in birth rates, is disturbing housing markets.
Since 1970, global average income per person has increased, with a few exceptions as in 2009 and 2015, and inequality has also widened among and within nations. The International Monetary Fund’s Global House Price Index collapsed in 2008 before climbing again to reach pre-crisis levels. Due to these population and financial trends, household structures have changed with increased preference for smaller, shared living quarters and less home ownership worldwide. Analysts increasingly focus on mapping and predicting effects of globalization on housing markets and individual decisions.
Countries at the forefront of globalization, namely the United States and China, as well as rapidly globalizing countries like India, expect their aging populations to double by the year 2050. Coupled with changes to the family structure, especially a childbirth rate nearly halved since 1950 and more two-income households, decisions involving the housing stock are more complex than ever before.
The three countries may share a common challenge: Their governments are not well prepared for rapid growth in their graying populations. Out of the three, the United States could be most affected, as the primary-mode of senior care in China and India is in-home care. If family support remains the top choice for senior care, this could prevent India and China from the possible negative effects of the inadequate public and private planning. In-home care involves family members covering the cost and accommodation of senior members. About 65 percent of US elderly in need of assistance rely on family and friends, and non-family senior care is relatively new for India and China.
1. Which of the following is TRUE according to paragraph 1 and 2?A.The housing markets are mostly affected by the decrease in birth rates and rise in death rates. |
B.Inequality has widened among and within nations due to the rapid globalization of the households. |
C.The population and financial trends led to increased preference for smaller, shared accommodations. |
D.Analysts think globalization has decisive effects on housing markets and individual decisions. |
A.The aging populations of the three countries are expected to decrease by 2050. |
B.Non-family senior care probably remains the best choice for the elderly in America. |
C.China will probably have the largest percentage of the senior population by 2050. |
D.The three giants in terms of population must avoid the challenges from their citizens. |
A.The challenge for the aged | B.Shelter for an aging world |
C.The rapid growth of population | D.Comparison on globalization |