“Have you checked the oil in the car?” my father used to say to me, his way of “Hello, hope you are well.” Sometimes our phone calls would begin with a question about the oil and end with a question about the oil, with not a lot in between.
Fathers have a lot of love to give, but it’s often offered by means of practical advice. In my experience: It’s mostly about my car. “How’s the car running?” “Did you get it serviced?” My car — an old green Toyota Corona bought for $500 — was where my father showed his love.
Why can’t we fathers just say “I love you” or “It’s great to see you”? The point is: that’s exactly what we are saying. You just have to translate from the language that is Fatherlish. Listen closely enough and the phrase “I love you” can be heard in the slightly longer “I could come around Saturday and repair your chair.” The words “You made my life better from the moment you were born” may be hardly heard, but the main meaning is there in the more common “I’ll hold the ladder while you get the leaves down from the roof.”
When I was 17, I went on my first road trip — a friend and I in that old car. My father stood on the corner on a cold morning to say goodbye. “Highways are dangerous,” he said, “so don’t try overtaking anything faster than a horse and buggy. And take a break every two hours. And every time you stop for gas, you really should check the oil.” At the time we thought his speech was pretty funny and would sing “horse-and-buggy” every time I tried to overtake some other speeding cars.
Dad’s long gone now. But after all these years, I realize that had I owned a copy of the Fatherlish-to-English dictionary, I’d have understood that the speech my friend and I so carelessly laughed at was simply Dad’s attempt at love.
1. Why did the author’s father often ask about the car?A.To show his love for the car. | B.To see if there is enough oil. |
C.To express his care to his son. | D.To check the condition of the car. |
A.I love you deeply. | B.It’s great to see you. |
C.You made my life better. | D.I can check the oil for you. |
A.Outrunning. | B.Approaching. |
C.Crashing into. | D.Knocking over. |
A.He wanted to own a dictionary. | B.He regrets his childish behavior. |
C.He is sad about his father’s death. | D.He realized his father’s love then. |
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It goes like this: You can’t take any means of transportation more than once. We would start from home, walking two blocks to the rail station. We’d take the train into the city center, then a bus, switching to the tram, then maybe a taxi. We always considered taking a horse carriage in the historic district, but we didn’t like the way the horses were treated, so we never did. At the end of the day, we took the subway to our closest station, where Mom’s friend was waiting to give us a ride home—our first car ride of the day.
The good thing about Transportation Days is not only that Mom taught us how to get around. She was born to be multimodal (多方式的). She understood that depending on cars only was a failure of imagination and, above all, a failure of confidence—the product of a childhood not spent exploring subway tunnels.
Once you learn the route map and step with certainty over the gap between the train and the platform, nothing is frightening anymore. New cities are just light-rail lines to be explored. And your personal car, if you have one, becomes just one more tool in the toolbox—and often an inadequate one, limiting both your mobility and your wallet.
On Transportation Days, we might stop for lunch on Chestnut Street or buy a new book or toy, but the transportation was the point. First, it was exciting enough to watch the world speed by from the train window. As I got older, my mom helped me unlock the mysteries that would otherwise have paralyzed my first attempts to do it myself: How do I know where to get off? How do I know how much it costs? How do I know when I need tickets, and where to get them? What track, what line, which direction, where’s the stop, and will I get wet when we go under the river?
I’m writing this right now on an airplane, a means we didn’t try on our Transportation Days and, we now know, the dirtiest and most polluting of them all. My flight routed me through Philadelphia. My multimodal mom met me for dinner in the airport. She took a train to meet me.
1. Which was forbidden by Mom on Transportation Days?
A.Having a car ride. |
B.Taking the train twice. |
C.Buying more than one toy. |
D.Touring the historic district. |
A.Building confidence in herself. |
B.Reducing her use of private cars. |
C.Developing her sense of direction. |
D.Giving her knowledge about vehicles. |
A.displayed |
B.justified |
C.ignored |
D.ruined |
A.Airplane. |
B.Subway. |
C.Tram. |
D.Car. |
One afternoon we were cutting our neighbor’s yard. When I was finishing up, I was tired and sweaty. I pictured the tall glass of icy drink I would have to cool down soon. I was just about to cut off the lawn mower when I saw Dad pointing to one piece. I thought about the poor change I was getting paid for cutting grass so high that it almost broke the mower. I ignored him and kept walking. Dad called me out, “You missed a piece.”
I frowned (皱眉), hoping he would let me slide and go home. He kept pointing. So angry, I went back to cut that piece of grass. I said to myself, “That one piece isn’t hurting anyone. Why won’t he just let it go?”
But when I became an adult, I understood his message: When you are running a business, the work you do says a great deal about you. If you want to be seen as a businessman with honesty, you must deliver a quality product. That single piece of grass meant the job was not done.
Other neighbors took notice of the good work we did and we soon got more business. We started out with one client(客户), but by the end of the summer we had five.
The lesson my dad taught me stayed with me: If you say you are going to perform a job at a certain time, keep your word. Give your customers the kind of service you would like to receive. It shows how sincere you are and how much pride you take in your work.
1. Which of the following statement is true?
A.His father was not a good businessman. |
B.His father charged more for his service. |
C.His father’s service was good but cheap. |
D.His neighbors thought their service was poor. |
A.doubtful | B.surprised |
C.terrified | D.annoyed |
A.To do your work as well as possible. |
B.To earn as much money as possible. |
C.To get as more business as possible. |
A.The Memory of My Childhood |
B.The Lesson from My Dad |
C.The Yard of Our Neighbor |
D.The Grass Cutting days |
【推荐3】A few years ago, my sister-in-law started to feel concerned about her teenage daughter. What was she doing after school? Where was she spending her time? My niece was an excellent student, and took part in all kinds of after-class activities. Even so, her mom decided to put a tracking app(跟踪应用程序)on the kid's phone.
At first, this made my sister-in-law “feel better”. Then the good situation suddenly ended. She recalled, “I found out that she was someplace that she said she wasn't. I went out in the middle of the night and found her walking without shoes in the middle of the street with some friends. " Things went quickly downhill for the mother and the daughter after that.
With 73 % of teens having their own smart phones now, according to a 2015 Pew study, more and more of their parents are facing the question: To watch or not ?
Ana Homayoun, founder of Green Ivy Educational Consulting, has advised many parents and their kids about this. "I've found teens are more acceptable to tracking apps when it is included as part of a family agreement to improve safety than when it is placed as a secret tool to watch them,“ she said.
Mark Bell, a father of a teenage girl, said, “We don't have tracking apps, but we have set some ground rules that my daughter must follow in exchange for us providing a smart phone,“ he said. For example, his daughter must “friend“ him on social media so that he can read posts, and must share all passwords.
When you're trying to build trust, you need to create an environment that encourages it. So, to win their trust, you always need to be straight with your children. "Parents must let children know how and when they'll be watching them,“ said Doctor Pauleh Weigle. If they're not open about it, he warns, it can “greatly damage the parent and child relationship”.
1. Why is the author's sister-in-law and her daughter referred to in the first two paragraphs?A.The author wants to give an example of the failure use of the tracking app. |
B.The author wants to introduce he had more communication with her daughter. |
C.The author wants to say that she wasn't worried about her daughter any more. |
D.The author wants to express he felt good with knowing more about her daughter's activities. |
A.They doubt family agreements. |
B.They dislike being watched secretly. |
C.They are worried about online safety. |
D.They welcome the use of tracking apps. |
A.To show how to use smart phone safely. |
B.To teach how to put tracking app on phones. |
C.To give some suggestions on how to make children accept it. |
D.To tell the importance of being children's friends instead of tracking. |
A.Check the kid's phone. |
B.Teach the kid how to use it. |
C.Advise the kid to use his phone less. |
D.Discuss with the kids and have an agreement with them. |
【推荐1】I studied speech therapy at university, though I had no idea what it was about at first. Later, I got pregnant with my son, Dani. He was born with a cleft (唇腭裂). I studied clefts at university so I knew a little bit about clefts. Still, when you see your own newborn child looking up at you with a cleft, it is very different. I was not ready to face that.
After the delivery. Dani had his cleft surgery when he was just seven days old! It was an awful experience. I gave that doctor three chances to prove he was the right specialist for my baby, and he didn’t manage to convince me at all. But something very positive did come out of that experience — it was how I first met Dr. Youri Anastassov, who would bring Smile Train-sponsored cleft care to Bulgaria starting the next year.
Dr. Anastassov was my inspiration from the moment we met. He helped me realize how important, valuable, and meaningful it is to treat children with clefts and made me want to help them just like he does.
Though I stopped working with them directly for several years after having Dani, the idea of working with children with clefts was always percolating in my mind. Then it hit me: why not work with Smile Train?
Now, babies, children, and adults with clefts come to me, and I share my experience with them. I’m happy to work here and make change for the better every single day.
Smile Train gives Dani his wings. You want to know what a difference this makes? Look at my son. Dani wanted to be a pilot his whole life; he first flew when he was 16 years old! When he began his formal training, the medical exam was very difficult for him. The training team knew he was different. Instead of just showing pity, they worked him harder than the others. And now he is living his dreams as a pilot!
1. How did the author feel when Dani was born with a cleft?A.Calm. | B.Grateful. | C.Angry. | D.Unprepared. |
A.They were successful. | B.They were far from satisfactory. |
C.They were done by Dr. Youri Anastassoy. | D.They were government-sponsored. |
A.Stuck. | B.Removed. | C.Weak. | D.Practical. |
A.It is a waste of time to be angry about clefts. |
B.When you admit your weakness, you become stronger. |
C.Just find something you’re good at and make it your life. |
D.Smile Train plays a positive role in realizing Dani’s dream. |
【推荐2】When we decided to sell our flat, having been cheated by the previous owner, we thought it was really important to be completely honest with any potential buyers about having knotweed (蓼科杂草) in the garden. It had been such an unpleasant and stressful experience for us and we didn’t want to have anyone else suffer any longer.
We bought our two-bedroom flat in 2014, when it was just the two of us. But after having three kids it became too small, so we sold it last year. The flat has a small garden at the back, but we didn’t know the presence of knotweed until well after we moved in and had a note from our neighbor behind our flat saying that they thought we had knotweed. Then we had a look and found some very small offshoots for this was just around springtime. At that point my husband and I certainly didn’t realize quite how problematic it could be. But then we started reading all the horror stories and became really concerned — people couldn’t get a mortgage; they couldn’t sell; the plant was creeping through concrete etc.
Then we treated the offshoots with glyphosate and as far as we knew it was completely gone. Before we put the property on the market we had the house checked by some specialists, who thoroughly inspected everything, including the connecting garden, and couldn’t find anything at all. We signed a ten-year insurance-backed guarantee with the company that could be transferred to the new owners, then started marketing the property through an agent.
In fact we found a buyer pretty quickly and they didn’t beat us down on price as we’d already done much for the treatment. Knotweed doesn’t need to be a deal-breaker, as long as you’re upfront about it.
1. Why did the writer probably decide to sell the flat?A.To remind others to be honest. | B.To escape the trouble of knotweed. |
C.To avoid the crowded living space. | D.To relieve the anger of being cheated. |
A.It is planted for home decoration. | B.It is a wild plant seen only in spring. |
C.It would cause much trouble to people’s life. | D.It aroused writer’s attention at very beginning. |
A.By showing tricks to the buyer. | B.By taking effort to treat the knotweed. |
C.By finding a well-known property agent. | D.By decorating the flat with a fantastic garden. |
A.Dependable and responsible. | B.Patient and modest. |
C.Helpless and embarrassed. | D.Careless and greedy. |
【推荐3】While many parents are being forced into homeschooling for the very first time because of COVID-19, we’ve been doing it successfully with our child since 2017.
Our son Silas was attending a school, which we were happy with. That changed. When every day Silas came home from school, he would crawl under a piece of furniture and weep for half an hour.
Despite our best efforts in communication with his teachers and the administration for over a year, we couldn’t seem to improve the situation. We made the decision to enroll him to start at a new school the following fall and brought him home to finish the lessons of the spring semester.
After a little time went by, we realized that our 8-year-old son blossomed into a peaceful and joyful person. As much as we wanted to try the new school in the fall, he wanted to keep homeschooling. We agreed, as we decided it would be foolish to change something that was working so well.
After going to bed at 9 p. m. on weeknights, Silas woke up at about 7a. m. without an alarm, because he was thrilled to hop on the computer and get his schoolwork done. Why? So that he could have free time on electronics. He was allowed screen time after finishing all his schoolwork and housework. He got quite a bit of time most days to play video games. At 5 p. m., he must be off his device, and we brought it into our bedroom to minimize temptation. He was really good about observing the rules, and I thought he was happier for having limits.
1. What did the writer do when his son cried afterschool?A.He quarreled with the teachers. | B.He asked his son to quit school. |
C.He sought help from the school. | D.He helped his son finish the lessons. |
A.Burst. | B.Grew. | C.Stayed. | D.Faded. |
A.Because he liked studying very much. |
B.Because he woke up so early every day. |
C.Because he did not want to do housework. |
D.Because he could spare time playing video games. |
A.By locking him into his bedroom. | B.By monitoring him to obey the rules. |
C.By throwing away the electronic devices. | D.By keeping him doing homework all day. |
【推荐1】TRUE STORIES IN 100 WORDS
Monkey in the Middle
I often go to the primate (灵长类)building at the Cleveland Metroparks Zoo. A chimpanzee (猩猩)named Beau began to recognize me. He would copy what I did when seeing me. When I told my friend Jerry about this, he was doubtful. So one day, I brought him with me. Beau came down, looked at me and my friend, then went to get a drink of water. When he returned, Beau spit his mouthful of water at Jerry. Was he envious? We had a good laugh.
—Sandy Rozelman Euclid, Ohio
A Hard Pill to Swallow
As a doctor, I instruct patients on their new medicines. One day, I was informing a woman about the side effects of her medicine, especially sleepiness. “You won't be able to work or drive while you're taking this,” I told her. “Do you have any questions?” Her little boy, who had been quietly standing next to her, raised his hand. “Can she still cook?” he asked. “Of course, she can,” I replied. His mother explained pitifully, “He was hoping you'd say no.”
—Lita Hernandez Manchaca, Texas
The Best Applicant
General manager and I were interviewing applicants for a new position. He asked each applicant, “What's two plus two?” The first interviewee, an engineer, pulled out a slide rule and said it was between 3.999 and 4.001. He didn't get the job. The next, a lawyer, stated that according to Jenkins Brown, two plus two was four. She also failed. The last applicant was an accountant. When asked, he rose from his chair, closed the door, and whispered, “How much do you want it to be?” He got the job.
—Amy Charles, Virginia
1. According to Sandy, Beau behaved strangely probably because ________.A.Beau hated her late visit | B.Beau envied Jerry |
C.Beau disliked strangers | D.Beau was not feeling well |
A.Excited. | B.Surprised. |
C.Disappointed. | D.Relieved. |
A.He was quite humorous and clever. |
B.The other two applicants didn't behave well. |
C.His past working experience was better than that of others'. |
D.The general manager thought he would take orders willingly. |
In 2001, a young girl called Laura Buxton released a balloon from her bedroom window in Staffordshire, England. Attached to the balloon were a joke and Laura’s e-mail address. “At the time, I thought it was funny,” said ten-year-old Laura.
Amazingly, six weeks later, Laura received an e-mail from another ten-year-old girl who lived in the town of Buton, about 200 kilometers away. In the e-mail, the young girl explained how she had found the balloon and she enjoyed the joke. Incredibly, the little girl’s name was also Laura Buxton.
A Walking Book
During a tour of the US, the British actor Sir Anthony Hopkins lost one of his favorite novels, a copy of The Girl from Petrovka by George Feifer. Inside the book was a dedication (献词) from his mother. He searched everywhere for it, but the book had disappeared.
However, three years later, Hopkins was on the London Underground when he noticed a copy of the book on the seat next to him. On opening the first page, he saw his mother’s familiar handwriting.
Supermarket Surprise
66-year-old John Foundergen of Liverpool had been trying to trace his brother for decades. Many years before, there had been a family argument and the two brothers hadn’t seen each other since. However, one day, John met a woman in a supermarket who said, “Hey, you know, you look just like my husband.” You can guess the rest.
Delayed Gratitude
In 1965 Roger Akua, aged four, was saved from drowning by a woman called Alice Blaise. Nine years later, Roger saw a man drowning on the same beach. Roger dived in and saved the man. Roger later found out that the man was Alice Blaise’s husband.
1. Why did Laura Buxton release a balloon?A.To tell a story. | B.To ask for help. |
C.To have some fun. | D.To convey her kindness. |
A.Alice Blaise. | B.John’s wife. |
C.Laura Buxton. | D.John’s sister-in-law. |
A.Surprising stories. | B.Moving stories. |
C.Frightening stories. | D.Inspiring stories. |
【推荐3】55-year-old Rob Kenney, who grew up without a father, has been doing his part to make a difference in the lives of kids today.
He created a YouTube channel, called Dad, How Do I, which aims to give youths the valuable lessons a father is meant to give. Launched only two months ago, his channel already has more than two million subscribers (订阅者). Rob teaches children and adults, many of whom are also without a dad, basic skills such as how to tie a tie, how to cook meals, how to repair a lamp and many more.
“I didn’t start this to make money,” Rob told his viewers. “I just thought I was going to help a few people... 30 or 40 subscribers... but it’s turned into a way more than that. And please don’t think I am only aiming this at young men. It is for anybody who feels that they need to learn something.”
Now that his channel has had such huge unexpected success, Rob plans to give his earnings to a number of international charities.
Many viewers have been touched by the warm words Rob shares in his videos. Such simple words, like “I love you”, “You’ve done a good job” and “I’m proud of you,” can have a deep impact on many children, even some adults. He starts each video with an enthusiastic “Hey, kids!” — but Keiha Danaher said that she was a 33-year-old woman, and she answered back crying, saying, “Hi, dad!”
Rob’s childhood story makes him a role for the kids who watch his channel. By the age of 14, his parents had divorced. He had to move in with his elder brother and learn from the tough life experiences without parents in his life. But that didn’t prevent him from being a good father to his children. His experience shows his viewers that there is always opportunity in the face of difficulties.
1. Why did Rob Kenney create the channel Dad, How Do I in the beginning?A.To cheer up those who feel upset. |
B.To make some money to support his family. |
C.To teach children and adults some useful life skills. |
D.To offer youths advice on how to get on well with others. |
A.Rob’s videos are only intended for young men. |
B.Subscribers are mainly made up of poor people. |
C.The number of subscribers is larger than Rob expected. |
D.Rob guesses there won’t be more people to subscribe his channel. |
A.Make his videos more entertaining and instructive. |
B.Help more children improve their intelligence. |
C.Let more people have sympathy for him. |
D.Donate the money he earns to charities. |
A.They think Rob is just like their real father to take care of them. |
B.The words in Rob’s videos are warm and encouraging. |
C.Rob’s experiences remind them of their own. |
D.Rob’s attitude toward life is always positive. |