Becoming a positive thinker
Some people seem to be born with positive attitudes.
Accept your accomplishments.
Turn capacity into capability. Humans are born with an enormous amount of capacity — one’s innate (与生俱来的) physical, intellectual, and emotional abilities — but little capability without learning and practice.
Being a positive thinker is not about ignoring reality in favor of hopeful thoughts.
A.Focus on your thoughts. |
B.Watch carefully for negative self-talk. |
C.Every life is filled with wins and losses. |
D.It is more about taking a proactive approach to your life. |
E.Self-blame is another common type of negative thinking. |
F.Fortunately, those not so lucky can learn to be positive thinkers. |
G.For example, a child has two legs but needs training to master the skill. |
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【推荐1】If you are a newcomer to the USA, you may find your name hard for the local people to pronounce. It often brings trouble.
Make your name easier
When you are applying for a job or attending a presentation, write down the phonetic spelling next to your name. This will make your name much easier. From my own experience, my new friends find this method useful. When they see “Ilincha [ee-lean-ka]”, they can follow the guidance correctly.
Act in a right way
If others mispronounce your name, you should never question why they can’t pronounce it correctly.
Stay true to yourself
A.Be patient and kind |
B.And don’t blame them for the mistake, either |
C.You may wonder how to handle such problems |
D.As a result, they can pronounce my name easily |
E.Hopefully, the tips above will bring you confidence |
F.Remember, you shouldn’t change your name to fit in |
G.It should be noticed that some names can be easily mispronounced |
【推荐2】Are your days a continuous race against the clock? If so, you probably don’t know how you’ll be able to complete everything.
Start with your most important goal. Put a large amount of your energy into completing more important tasks before moving on to less important items. Work on your biggest project in the daytime when you have the most energy. For some people, this may be the first thing in the morning, while night owls prefer to deal with it at night.
Multitask smartly. You can stick to multitasking when it comes to thoughtless jobs (doing the laundry, washing dishes, making meals, etc.).
Remove distractions (使人分心的事).
A.Everything demands your attention. |
B.Determine how you spend your time. |
C.Or maybe you’re confused about how to spend your time. |
D.Remember to spare time for family, relaxation or personal matters. |
E.Simply say that you can’t do it, because it doesn’t work out for you. |
F.Then find out what works for you and don’t waste your valuable energy. |
G.But don’t try to write a poem while reading an article or talking on the phone. |
【推荐3】Tips to Start Doing Things That You Do Not Like To Do
Even though it is there on our to-do list, we give it less priority (优先权) because we dislike doing it.
Stop hating the task.
Look at the bigger picture. If you meet a difficult task, instead of shying away from it, take some time and think about it. What is the major reason behind doing this task?
Overcome your fear. One thing that stops you from carrying out the task is fear. You may develop a fear, thinking that the task is very difficult or you are not comfortable when doing it. You can never overcome fear by running away from it.
A.Do not think about the failure. |
B.Set a time period to complete it. |
C.Sooner or later you have to face it. |
D.What will happen if you complete the task? |
E.Life would be boring without difficult situations. |
F.Successful people do things they do not like to do, too. |
G.Instead of giving it a try, we may stay away from it completely. |