Growing up with movies such as “High School Musical” and “Grease”, which presented the ideal(理想的)high school friendships, we sometimes expect a perfect relationship. Indeed, some high school friendships can be real and simple; while still some high school students will meet a friend who causes trouble. With failed friendships come lessons and experiences learned for the future. You will know the influence after you leave high school.
“I was always worried about what my friends thought about me. Sometimes my friends would make fun of what I wore or what I would do. I always tried to get along well with them, but I realized how happy I was once I stopped contacting them after high school,” said Elisha, Class of 2020.
Most teens have not realized the big question when dealing with high school problems. In five years, will this still matter? It is hard looking at the big picture when the problems are in front of you, which is understandable. However, most teens need a moment to reflect (反思) and question if the problem matters in a long time.
Briana, a high school teacher, said, “Now, I am in contact with two high school friends. I think the friendship experiences I had in high school shaped who I am because I learned to be open minded and befriend all kinds of people. I learned to see people for who they are, not what they wear or who they play with. I learned most of all how to be a good friend.”
High school is a small part of your life, but it has a huge influence on who you will become and where you will go. Friendships and relationships help shape who you are, whether they are good or bad. Lessons are brought, and lessons are learned.
1. Why did the author mention the two movies in the first paragraph?A.To introduce the topic of the passage. |
B.To explain what a high school friendship is. |
C.To recommend these two movies to readers. |
D.To attract readers’ attention to these two movies. |
A.They made her unhappy. | B.They cared about her behavior. |
C.They got along well with her. | D.They were always worried about her. |
A.She learned to play with her friends. |
B.She learned to make different friends. |
C.She learned to shape her friends’ minds. |
D.She learned to wear just like her friends. |
A.Failed friendships made teens worried. |
B.Good friendships greatly influenced teens. |
C.High school friendships help to shape teens. |
D.Friendships are difficult for teens to deal with, |
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【推荐1】When it comes to friends, I desire those who will share my happiness, who possess wings of their own and who will fly with me. I seek minds whose qualities illuminate(照亮) me and train me up for love. It is for these people that I reserve the glowing hours, too good not to share.
When I was in the eighth grade, I had a friend. We were shy and “too serious” about our studies when it was becoming fashionable with our classmates to learn acceptable social behaviors. We said little at school, but she would come to my house and we would sit down with pencils and paper, and one of us would say: “Let’s start with a train whistle today.” We would sit quietly together and write separate poems or stories that grew out of a train whistle. Then we would read them aloud. At the end of that school year, we, too, were changed into social creatures and the stories and poems stopped.
When I lived for a time in London, I had a friend.He was in despair(失望) and 1 was in despair. But our friendship was based on the idea in each of us that we would be sorry later if we did not explore this great city because we had felt bad at the time. We met every Sunday for five weeks and found many excellent things. We walked until our despairs disappeared and then we parted. We gave London to each other.
For almost four years I have had a remarkable friend whose imagination illuminates mine. We write long letters in which we often discover our strangest selves. Each of us appears, sometimes in a funny way, in the other’s dreams. She and I agree that, at certain times, we seem to be parts of the same mind.In my most interesting moments, I often think: “Yes, I must tell…’’We have never met.
It is such comforting companions I wish to keep. One bright hour with their kind is worth more to me than the lifetime services of a psychologist, who will only fill up the healing(愈合的) silence necessary to those darkest moments in which I would rather be my own best friend.
1. In Paragraph 3, “We gave London to each other” probably means _________.A.our exploration of London was a memorable gift to both of us |
B.we were unwilling to tear ourselves away from London |
C.our unpleasant feeling about London disappeared |
D.we parted with each other in London |
A.seek professional help |
B.be left alone |
C.stay with her best friend |
D.break the silence |
A.Unforgettable Experiences |
B.Remarkable Imagination |
C.Lifelong Friendship |
D.Noble Companions |
【推荐2】Friendships can have a major impact on your health and happiness, but it’s not always easy to develop or maintain friendships. It’s necessary to understand the importance of social connection in your life and how to meet new friends.
Good friends are good for your health. Friends can help you celebrate good times and provide support during bad times. Friends prevent isolation and loneliness and give you a chance to offer needed companionship, too. Friends also play a significant role in promoting your overall health. Adults with strong social connections have a reduced risk of many significant health problems, including depression, high blood pressure and an unhealthy body mass index (BMI). In fact, studies have found that older adults who have meaningful relationships and social support are likely to live longer than their peers with fewer connections.
Many adults find it hard to develop new friendships or keep up existing friendships. Friendships may take a back seat to other priorities, such as work or caring for children or aging parents. You and your friends may have grown apart due to changes in your lives or interests. Or maybe you’ve moved to a new community and haven’t yet found a way to meet people. Developing and maintaining good friendships takes effort. The enjoyment and comfort friendship can provide, however, makes the investment worthwhile.
So, what are some ways to meet new friends? It’s possible to develop friendships with people who are already in your social network. Think through people you’ve interacted with— even very casually— who made a positive impression. If anyone stands out in your memory as someone you’d like to know better, reach out. Ask mutual friends or acquaintances to share the person’s contact information, or— even better— to reintroduce the two of you with a text, email or in-person visit. Extend an invitation to coffee or lunch.
To meet new people who might become your friends, you have to go to places where others are gathered. Don’t limit yourself to one strategy for meeting people. The broader your efforts, the greater your likelihood of success. Persistence also matters. Take the initiative rather than waiting for invitations to come your way and keep trying. You may need to suggest plans a few times before you can tell if your interest in a new friend is mutual.
1. What does the underlined word “isolation” in the second paragraph probably mean?A.Challenge. | B.Relaxation. | C.Separation. | D.Determination. |
A.Friendship can help people live longer. |
B.Support from friends during tough times. |
C.Some suggestions on how to make friends. |
D.Friendship’s positive impacts on people’s health. |
A.2. | B.3. | C.4 | D.5. |
A.Make one strategy for meeting people. |
B.Wait for invitations to come your way. |
C.Contact those who ever impressed you a lot. |
D.Share your personal contact information online. |
【推荐3】How would you feel if moving to a new town meant losing track of your friends? What if the only way of getting news from faraway friends was writing letters that took ages to be delivered?
Nowadays, we can move around the world and still stay in touch with the people that we want to remain friends with. Social media tools let us see what our friends are up to and maintain friendships.
The digital age also enables us to find people who share our interests, such as collecting model cars or playing an unusual instrument. Whatever our hobbies, the Internet can connect us with others who also enjoy doing them, even if they live on the other side of the world.
But when you “friend” people online, does this mean that they really are your friends?
If people always exchange true personal information online, then yes, these friendships can be real and meaningful. But we need to keep in mind that what we see on social media is often not the whole truth about a person.
On social media sites, people tend to post only positive updates that make them appear happy and friendly. But smiling photos can hide real problems.
A.It depends. |
B.All you need is a Wi-Fi connection. |
C.It’s a problem that’s getting a lot of coverage. |
D.This was how things worked not very long ago. |
E.Remember the saying: on the Internet, nobody knows you’re a dog. |
F.But that doesn’t mean that a higher percentage of people feel lonely now. |
G.But this doesn’t mean that we should throw the baby out with the bathwater. |
【推荐1】The United States is a nation of car owners. Ninety-five percent of houses own a car, and 85 percent of people get to work in one. This lifestyle results in traffic jams on our roads and does big damage to the environment. As autonomous vehicles(自动驾驶车辆)begin to hit the streets over the next ten years or so, it is believed that all this will change.
This future is not ensured, however. To realize the full possible benefits of driverless cars, we will have to act soon to encourage a culture in which transportation is shared. Consider what would happen if most people own their own driverless car, the same trouble we will suffer if they insist on riding alone.
It is well-known that autonomous vehicles will most likely reduce the number and seriousness of crashes, and reduce traffic jams and increase capacity. Nobody knows whether these positive effects would overcome the negative effects of private ownership, but we wouldn’t bet on it.
Many people think that driverless vehicles will surely be shared, but there is little evidence. Vehicle providers have no reason to encourage shared usage of vehicles. It is suggested that driverless cars will be only a little more expensive than traditional cars, which means they’ll be within reach of many consumers, so users have little reason to ask for services that provide shared rides.
If most people are going to buy-in to a shared-ride culture, they need to get a clear benefit. Saving a few dollars off the fare isn’t likely to encourage the movement. A better benefit would be knowing that you’re going to reach your destination more quickly.
The way to make quick passage possible is to redesign our roads to give priority(优先)to collective transportation modes like building priority lanes(车道)for ride-sharing autonomous vehicle. Autonomous vehicles carrying many people should get higher priority than those carrying one or none at all.
Decision-makers at the local and state levels must encourage the most efficient use of our limited roadway. The autonomous future is rapidly coming; it is critical that we act now, while the impacts of autonomous vehicles are still largely within our control.
1. What can we know about autonomous vehicles?A.They cause traffic jams on roads and big damage to the environment. |
B.Many people have ridden autonomous vehicles to make traffic jams change. |
C.They are most likely effective at reducing traffic jams and increasing capacity. |
D.People will not want an autonomous vehicle because of its expensive price. |
A.To reduce the number and seriousness of crashes. |
B.To redesign roads to prioritize car-shared modes. |
C.To save a few dollars off the fare you used to need. |
D.To let you reach your destination much more quickly. |
A.Supportive. | B.Doubtful. | C.Objective. | D.Uncaring. |
A.Will Driverless Cars Make Our Traffic Problems Better? |
B.Autonomous Vehicles Will Make a Big Change to Traffic. |
C.Decision-makers Should Take Some Measures Quickly. |
D.What is The Situation of Cars Now in The United States? |
【推荐2】Today, when great changes are taking place in economy and population structure, younger Americans are drawing a new 21st-century road map to success, a latest survey has found.
Across generational lines, Americans continue to value the traditional aspects of a successful life, including getting married, having children, owning a home, and retiring in their sixties. But while young and old mostly agree on what makes the finish line of a life of accomplishments, they offer totally different paths for reaching it.
Young people who are still getting started in life were more likely than older adults to put personal achievement in their work in the first place, to believe they will improve their careers most by regularly changing jobs, to favor communities with more public services and a faster pace of life, to agree that couples should be financially secure before getting married or having children, and to maintain that children are best served by two parents working outside the home, the survey found.
From career to community and family, these differences suggest that as the result of the Great Recession, those just starting out in life are defining priorities and expectations that will increasingly spend through almost all corners of American life, from consumer preferences to housing choices to politics.
Young and old converge on one key point: a large number of people in both groups said they believe it is harder for young people today to get started in life than it was for earlier generations. While younger people are somewhat more optimistic than their elders about the future for those starting out today, many in both parties believe those “just getting started in life” face a tougher climb than earlier generations in reaching such meaningful achievements as securing a good-paying job, starting a family, managing debt, and finding affordable housing.
Pete Schneider considers the climb tougher today. Schneider, a 27-year-old auto technician from the Chicago suburbs, says he struggled to find a job after graduating from college. Even now that he is working steadily, he said, “I can’t afford to pay my monthly loan on my own, so I have to rent rooms out to people to make that happen.” Looking back, he is surprised that his parents could provide a comfortable life for their children even though neither had completed college when he was young. “I still grew up in an upper middle-class home with parents who didn’t have college degrees,” Schneider said. “I don’t think people are capable of that anymore.”
1. One thing that marks a successful life across generations is ___________.A.trying out different lifestyles | B.having a family with children |
C.working beyond retirement age | D.setting up a profitable business |
A.a slower pace of life | B.a longer-lasting job |
C.steady income before marriage | D.best childcare outside their home |
A.good-paying jobs are less available | B.the old made more life achievements |
C.housing loans today are easy to obtain | D.getting established is harder for the young |
A.He finds his job as a technician quite challenging |
B.He found a dream job after graduating from college. |
C.His parents believe working steadily is a must for success. |
D.His parents’ good life has little to do with a college degree. |
Only after a week’s leave—— during which he read novels, listened to music and walked with his wife on a beach—— was Rudenstine able to return to work.
In our modern life, we have lost the rhythm between action and rest. Amazingly, within this world there is a universal but silly saying: “I am so busy.”
We say this to one another as if our tireless efforts were a talent by nature and an ability to successfully deal with stress. The busier we are, the more important we seem to ourselves and, we imagine, to others. To be unavailable to our friends and family, and to be unable to find time to relax—— this has become the model of a successful life.
Because we do not rest, we lose our way. We miss the guide telling us where to go, the food providing is with strength, the quiet giving us wisdom.
How have we allowed this to happen? I believe it is this: we have forgotten the Sabbath, the day of the week—— for followers of some religions—— for rest and praying. It is a day when we are not supposed to work, a time when we devote ourselves to enjoying and celebrating what is beautiful. It is a good time to bless our children and loved ones, give thanks, share meals, walk and sleep. It is a time for us to take a rest, to put our work aside, trusting that there are larger forces at work taking care of the world.
Rest is s spiritual and biological need; however, in our strong ambition to be successful and care for our many responsibilities, we may feel terribly guilty when we take time to rest. The Sabbath gives us permission to stop work. In fact, “Remember the Sabbath” is more than simply permission to rest; it is a rule to obey and a principle to follow.
1. The “alarm” in the first paragraph refers to “_______”.
A.a signal of stress |
B.a warning of danger |
C.a sign of age |
D.a spread of disease |
A.be able to work without stress |
B.be more talented than other people |
C.be more important than anyone else |
D.be busying working without time to rest |
A.think that taking a rest means lacking ambitions |
B.fail to realize that rest is an essential part of life |
C.fail to realize that religions force them to rest |
D.think that taking a rest means being lazy |
A.We should balance work with rest. |
B.The Sabbath gives us permission to rest. |
C.It is silly for anyone to say “I am busy.” |
D.We should be available to our family and friends. |