Whether it’s for a promising job interview, first date, or chance meeting, making a good impression is important in just about every situation.
Arrive Early. Actor Billy Porter said it in his book Unprorected: A Memoir, “Fifteen minutes early is on time, on time is late, and late is unacceptable.”
Actively listen. Active listening is giving the speaker your undivided attention and paying attention to what’s said and the intention behind it.
Know your audience.
A.Be authentic. |
B.Do your research. |
C.Emphasize your advantages. |
D.Listen for opportunities to ask questions concerning the discussion. |
E.There are some simple steps to succeed in the first business meeting. |
F.We can help you put your best foot forward no matter where you are. |
G.Arriving in advance for a meeting gives you a little more time to ensure everything is in place. |
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【推荐1】Criticism (批评) is harmful to healthy relationships. It’s okay to express disappointment if someone is behaving in a way that hurts you.
Be realistic. Critical people often have very high expectations of those around them. Your tendency to criticize may come from expecting too much from others. Sometimes you may find yourself consistently annoyed or disappointed with others.
Separate the individual from their actions. Critical people often focus on the negative aspects of a situation or a person, failing to see good qualities alongside negative ones. If you find yourself making assumptions about a person’s character, stop yourself.
Focus on positives. Oftentimes, being critical results from how you’re choosing to see a situation.
A.Never criticize others. |
B.Think before you speak. |
C.Everyone has drawbacks and imperfections. |
D.It may be a good idea to adjust your expectations. |
E.We should focus on other people’s disappointing actions. |
F.Try to separate a disappointing action from the person doing the action. |
G.Being overly critical, however, can cause tension in a relationship over time. |
【推荐2】Color is important for all gardens, no matter what size. Kalanchoes (长寿花) offer kinds of colors, from energetic oranges, yellows and reds, to calming pinks and creams. They’re easy to care for.
Be striking. Colorful plants are mood-boosting as well as a great way to lift a small outside space. Kalanchoe is a flowering succulent (多肉) that comes in a range of lively shades and looks delightful when grouped in large pots or window boxes.
Think big. When space is limited, people tend to choose lots of small containers, but a few large pots can fool the eye into believing there’s more room than there is. Try planting taller plants, such as roses or hydrangeas, alongside smaller species, like kalanchoes.
Indoors out. Making your outside space clean needn’t be costly. Houseplants, like kalanchoes, will happily live outside in pots or window boxes from May to September when there is no risk of frost, so you can simply move them outside for a more colorful life.
Make it easy.
Just choose a sunny spot and away you go!
A.Be style smart |
B.Not all plants need a lot of attention |
C.It is a great choice for the summer garden |
D.Choose oranges and reds for an energy burst |
E.You can find kalanchoes from most garden centers |
F.Thus, you can create depth and a sense of richness |
G.Given a little attention, they will reward you much flowering |
【推荐3】Listening to happy music at work can help you complete tasks more quickly, especially if you’re doing something repetitive such as checking e-mail or filing documents.
Music decreases levels of the stress hormone cortisol just as well as massage therapy does, according to a small 2010 study. Scientists randomly assigned anxious patients to listen to music either during massage therapy or while lying in a dim room.
People come up with more creative solutions when they listen to happy, upbeat music than when they sit in silence, according to researchers from the Netherlands and Australia. It may be because music improves your brain’s flexibility or because it relaxes you enough for the creative juices to flow.
Whether you’re running, biking, or walking, you’ll go farther if you pump up the jams, studies have found.
Maybe you’ve heard about Alzheimer’s patients coming alive when they hear a song from their past. Studies show that music helps them retrieve memories, communicate more effectively, and remember who they are.
A.After three months those who just listened to music experienced the same drop in anxiety as those also got massages |
B.One study showed that the accuracy and efficiency of surgeons improved when they worked with the music of their choice in the background |
C.Music has been used to heal for centuries, and now we’re learning why it works |
D.Music distracts you from your discomfort and motivates you to stay with the beat |
E.But don’t play the music too loudly |
F.Listening to music before surgery has been shown to ease anxiety and limit the need for sedatives(镇静剂) |
G.Time does fly when you’re listening to music |
【推荐1】Everyone likes getting compliments or praises but giving them can feel like walking a tightrope, blindfolded. Knowing how to give a great compliment is one of the secrets of naturally charming people but for many of us, it doesn’t always come naturally!
Find something you genuinely like about the person. Your compliment will be appreciated if it’s clear you really mean what you say.
Focus on achievements more than physical traits. It’s always nice to get a compliment like “You’re so pretty” or “I like your shoes.” But the best compliments are those that point out someone’s awesome achievements or personal qualities.
A.Avoid backhanded compliments |
B.Tailor general compliments for individuals |
C.But never give someone a false compliment |
D.If that’s you, don’t be concerned; this is definitely a skill you can learn |
E.Authentic compliments should be delivered with proper body languages |
F.“I think your English essay was brilliant” may be better than “you have a really nice chin” |
G.Try saying something like “You look great tonight” or “Wow, you have such a great laugh” |
The goal for paparazzi is to get pictures that no one else will get and then sell the pictures to the buyer who offers the most money — normainly a small newspaper, magazine or website.
There is no law against paparazzi taking pictures in public places. However, there are laws that protect certain individuals. For example, child protection laws stop improper pictures of anyone under 16 from being published.
There is also no law that stops paparazzi from following celebrities(名人) and taking their pictures either. However, if paps are secretly following them and taking pictures of their faces, they could get into trouble.
Most paparazzihang out on streets and hot spots for celebrities, waiting for the opportunity to take a picture of a star. Many stay on the streets until the early hours of the morning when celebrities are leaving nightclubs and looking a little worse for wear. However, some have other ways to make sure they get pictures. Many paps are in contact with “informers” who know the locations of celebrities at any given time. They then pass the information on to paparazzi. An informer could be anyone — from a restaurant waiter to a salesman.
Most of the time, paparazzi get a bad reputation for following celebrities. But sometimes stars or their managers will contact paps themselves and tell them exactly where and when they will go. What a love-hate relationship between paparazzi and celebrities!
1. Which of the following things paparazzi might do would be against the law?
A.Taking pictures of famous people in public places. |
B.Getting unsuitable pictures of a 10-year-old actress published. |
C.Following a famous woman singer secretly and taking her pictures. |
D.Hanging out at the places where celebrities often appear. |
A.make friends with famous people |
B.sell the pictures to a big newspaper |
C.get the only first-hand pictures |
D.know the locations of celebrities |
A.how much paparazzi pay for the pictures |
B.how dangerous paparazzi’s job is |
C.how paparazzi contact informers . |
D.how paparazzi get the pictures |
A.Paparazzi always take pictures when famous people are tired. |
B.Stars hate paparazzi and don’t want to be followed. |
C.Informers might get paparazzi into trouble. |
D.Paparazzi and famous people rely on each other sometimes. |
A.check out |
B.keep away |
C.wander about |
D.leave out |
【推荐3】Informal conversation is an important part of any business relationship. Before you start a discussion, however, make sure you understand which topics are suitable and which are considered taboos (禁忌) in a particular culture. Latin Americans enjoy sharing information about their local history, art, and customs. You may expect questions about your family, and are sure to show pictures of their children. Yon may feel free to ask similar questions of your Latin American friends. The French think of conversation as an art form, and they enjoy the value of lively discussions as well as disagreements. For them, arguments can be interesting and they can cover pretty much or any topic-as long as they occur in a respectful and intelligent manner.
In the United States, business people like to discuss a wide range of topics, including opinions about work, family, hobbies, and politics. In Japan, China and Korea, however, people are much more private. They do not share much about their thoughts, feelings or emotions because they feel that doing so might take away from the harmonious business relationship they’re trying to build. Middle Easterners are also private about their personal lives and family matters. It is considered rude, for example, to ask a businessman from Saudi Arabia about his wife or children.
As general rule, it’s best not to talk about politics or religion with your business friends. This can get you into trouble, even in the United States, where people hold different religious views. In addition, discussing one’s salary is usually considered unsuitable. Sports is typically a friendly subject in most parts of the world, although be careful not to criticize a national sport. Instead, be friendly and praise your host’s team.
1. Which is typically a friendly topic in most places according to the author?A.Sports. | B.Children. | C.Personal feeling. | D.Families. |
A.They don’t want to talk much with others. |
B.They don’t want to break the harmonious relationship with others. |
C.They are afraid to argue with their colleagues. |
D.They want to keep their feelings to themselves. |
A.cheerful topics | B.taboos | C.rude topics | D.boring topics |
A.Praise your own country’s sports. |
B.Criticize your own country’s sports. |
C.Praise the sports of your colleagues’ country. |
D.Criticize the sports of your colleagues’ country. |