1 . When people respect you, they see you in a very positive light. They admire you for your qualities that can be quite inspirational for people. Respectful people are patient and very calm.
Respectful people listen actively to others.
They are highly empathetic. They put themselves in other people’s shoes. They are considerate of people’s situations. They show kindness and are understanding towards others.
These people communicate in a respectful manner. They are polite even when they disagree with someone. They avoid using critical language and focus on finding common ground with others. They try to find a solution to problems in a very analytical manner.
A.Inner confidence |
B.Respectful communication |
C.They don’t judge people quickly |
D.This alone will not change the views others have of you |
E.This is the second feature that makes them well respected among others |
F.They are fully present at the moment and give their full attention to the speaker |
G.People can depend on these kinds of people without fearing they will leave them |
1. What can we know from the conversation?
A.The woman thinks men should open doors for women. |
B.The woman thinks it is unnecessary for men to carry heavy bags or luggage for women. |
C.The man likes to help women in many ways. |
A.Ladies going first. | B.Film tickets. | C.Foreign customs. |
1. What are you supposed to do when you meet someone in Brazil?
A.Kiss the face. | B.Shake hands. | C.Give a hug. |
A.Use plates. | B.Use the fork. | C.Make noise. |
4 . Making an introduction is an important social and professional skill.
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The polite way to begin an introduction is to start with the name of the person you are making the introduction to. In most situations, this is the person who is older, or that you have known the longest. You can skip this step if you are introducing yourself to someone you are meeting for the first time and you don’t know the other individual’s name.
• Inform them of your intention.
The next statement you make should inform both parties of your intent to introduce them to each other. Here are a few examples of statements you can use to inform others you are making an introduction: “I would like you to meet...” “It’s a pleasure to introduce...”
• State the name of the person who is being introduced.
After informing the parties of your intention to make an introduction, state the name of the person you are introducing.
• Offer additional information, as appropriate.
A.This kind of statements may change based on the individuals you introduce. |
B.Often, this is usually the younger person or who you know the least about. |
C.Everyone can benefit from learning the proper way to do an introduction. |
D.Offer both parties information that can help them establish a connection. |
E.Provide additional information about your relationship with both parties. |
F.Know who you’re introducing and to whom you’re introducing them. |
G.State the name of the person you are making an introduction to. |
5 . Much meaning can be conveyed clearly with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.
The same is true in our daily life. If you are stared at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down to see if there is anything wrong with you.
Looking too long at someone may seem to be side and aggressive
However, when two persons are engaged in a conversation, the speaker will only look into the listener’s eyes from time to time to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking.
A.On the contrary, it will give him away. |
B.Do you have such a kind of experience? |
C.That’s what normal eye contact is all about. |
D.Actually, continuous eye contact is limited to lovers only. |
E.After all, everybody likes to be stared at for quite a long time. |
F.But things are different when it comes to staring at the opposite sex. |
G.If nothing goes wrong, you will feel annoyed at being stared at that way. |
1. What will Peter do next Monday?
A.Visit a Chinese family. |
B.Invite a Chinese family to have dinner. |
C.Go to China. |
A.America. | B.France. | C.England. |
A.It is the best choice. | B.It is acceptable. | C.It is too traditional. |
A.To France. | B.To England. | C.To the US. |
7 . Have you ever received an invitation that you couldn’t accept? Do you struggle with how to decline without hurting someone’s feelings or causing conflict? Does it bother you to turn someone down? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, you’re not alone. In fact, this happens to most people at some time in their lives.
As soon as you know you will be unable to go, let the person know. Most events require planning and budgeting.
Always sincerely thank the person for inviting you and let her know that you’re honored that she’d think highly enough of you to send the invitation.
Don’t tell lies and don’t over-explain.You don’t ever have to come up with false excuses for why you’re unable to go to the event, but you also don’t have to go into detail.
If the invitation is exclusive (独有的) to you, let the person know you’re unable to make it at the time she requested,
A.Express appreciation for the invitation. |
B.The key is to let the person know whether or not you can accept the invitation as soon as possible and in a polite manner. |
C.and you feel really sorry about that. |
D.but you’d love to get together with her at another time. |
E.Putting the invitation aside to deal with later isn’t good for you or the person who sent it. |
F.It is impolite to refuse an invitation from others. |
G.Let her know that you already have plans. |
8 . Social boundaries are established social rules that are considered typical because most people in society agree that they are reasonable ways to live. For instance, in Amerca, it is rude to belch (打嗝) in front of others.
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone you recently met and thought, ”This person is standing way too close to me”? In this case, it may feel more like a strange behavior than a matter of social boundary. In some societies, however, it is quite common to stand very close to another individual while having a conversation.
Social boundaries can influence various aspects of a person’s behavior, from what one wears when attending a religious service, to how loudly or softly a person speaks in public.
A.However, in other countries, it is rude not to do so. |
B.Social boundaries allow people to assess others quickly. |
C.They may even direct how much people share about their feelings. |
D.Therefore, it’s important for Americans to avoid belching around others. |
E.Social boundaries usually give rise to some misunderstandings between us. |
F.In fact, there is an unspoken expected distance while people are interacting. |
G.In other societies, however, it is impolite to have direct eye contact with them. |
Medieval (中世纪的) manners
While I was growing up, “keep your elbows (肘) off the table” was a common remark at dinner time. But, as I learned in our recent podcast episode with medieval historian and author Cybulskie, such remarks have a long history —
In the medieval period, manners proved more important than today and
But what would have ingratiated (讨好) you with a medieval host, and what kinds of social faux pas (失礼) would have ensured
“Don’t blow your nose at the table, or wipe your face on the tablecloth,” Cybulskie advised. As well as listing some behaviour
Such social codes were set out in handbooks at the time, one of
Social conventions extended
1. What does the speaker suggest for a particular show or concert?
A.Finding good partners. |
B.Booking tickets in advance. |
C.Joining in it properly. |
A.Twenty minutes late. | B.Ten minutes earlier. | C.Ten minutes late. |
A.Half an hour. | B.A few minutes. | C.Twenty minutes. |
A.Discuss their salaries (薪水). |
B.Talk for at least half an hour to one person. |
C.Never talk about privacy (隐私). |