When counting down the days until homecoming, some women choose to track paydays, school days, or Mondays. Me? I always counted trash days. Each time I rolled the green, heavy bin down the driveway, I considered it one of the most intolerable jobs of a Navy wife.
Occasionally, a neighbor would take pity on me and replace my trashcan back to the side of the house after the garbage men were done with it. And once, when I had maggots in the bottom of the bin, a few men from the neighborhood were nice enough to dispose of them and Clorox, the trashman, did not tell me about the whole incident until a year later.
“It takes a village to do Sarah’s trash,” one neighbor, Stanford, joked. “And sometimes it also takes a village to change Sarah’s flat tire, to kill big bugs in her living room, and to fetch her son’s toy airplane that landed on the roof.” Hearing his words, I wondered if I wasn’t being strong enough and if I shouldn’t take my title of “Navy dependent” so literally as to mean I was, well, dependent.
“Don’t be silly,” my neighbors would say. “We’re glad to help.” More than hanging a flag from their doors, they said helping a Navy family made them feel like they were doing their part.
Surprisingly to me, despite doing my lawn every week and occasionally my trash and home repairs, these neighbors often told me I was far from “dependent”. Instead of focusing on the things I was not doing myself, my neighbors were in awe at the things I had done alone. And most of these things (caring for sick babies in the middle of the night, dealing with emergencies), I had done without my realizing it or giving myself credit.
I learned that being strong and independent doesn’t necessarily mean doing it all. There are few people who can do everything themselves. Most people are eager to offer help, which they think rewarding. So don’t decline help.
1. How did the author feel at Stanford’s words?A.Proud. | B.Lighthearted. | C.Annoyed. | D.Ashamed. |
A.The author was easy to get along with. |
B.They felt like they were doing something for Navy. |
C.The author was incapable of doing any housework. |
D.The housework in the author’s house was easy to do. |
A.Respectable. | B.Dull. | C.Generous. | D.Dependent. |
A.Every man has his hobbyhorse. | B.A constant guest is never welcome. |
C.Accepting help brings happiness to helpers. | D.Being strong and independent contributes to success. |
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【推荐1】There’s a small brick house I visit from time to time. It’s not the house that is special, but rather the person who lives inside.
I met Jenny about 45 years ago when she was my sister’s kindergarten teacher. I remember looking into her classroom wishing I was her student. Jenny created a safe place where we could be whatever we wanted to be in that moment. My parents told me I could start school when I was 4. Though, when I turned 4 in the spring, I couldn’t understand why I had to wait until September.
For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be a teacher. When I graduated, I couldn’t wait to invite Jenny to my classroom. She arrived one day, and I saw joy on my students’ faces singing the same songs I sang with her as a child. As a new teacher, I marveled at how she connected with children. For years, Jenny volunteered in my classroom.
Over the years we have shared in each other’s ups and downs. She asks me for updates about my family and friends, and she tells me about hers.
I am here for her now as the time to sell her house is near. I bring up boxes from her basement. We go through every painting a student has given her, every thank-you note a parent has written and her teaching aids.
I find papers featuring the letters of the alphabet. I find my own name printed in green marker. Suddenly, my mind goes back to Room 3.
More than 40 years ago, Jenny sat on the carpet at her feet. We learned about the letters and their sounds. Now, Jenny sits on her rocking chair, and I find myself sitting at her feet. Over tea, we talk for hours. I listen intently because I know I still have more to learn from her.
Our friendship is one that neither one of us expected. Educators know teaching is a profession devoted to the development of young individuals. The lucky ones get to see what their students have done with their lives. The exceptional ones never leave their students’ hearts.
1. What is the best title of the passage?A.A small brick house. | B.Unexpected friendship. |
C.A kindergarten teacher. | D.Letters of the alphabet. |
A.To be surprised at. | B.To be satisfied with. |
C.To be disappointed at. | D.To be angry with. |
A.A singer. | B.A painter. | C.A teacher. | D.A volunteer. |
A.Teachers play an important role in the development of students. |
B.Every teacher will never leave their students’ hearts. |
C.Every teacher will know what their students do with their lives. |
D.Student are lucky enough to make friends with their teachers. |
A.Jenny taught the author painting pictures. |
B.The author received thank-notes from the parents. |
C.The author often visited Jenny’s basement. |
D.The author has learned a lot from Jenny. |
【推荐2】It was more than three decades ago, but chemist Geraldine Richmond still remembers it clearly: the first time she felt like her research had really failed. As a young researcher fresh out of graduate school, Richmond was setting up her own laser (激光) lab. She had spent days on end using a brand-new laser to collect data on a molecule (分子) that a biochemist collaborator had given her to study. It felt like things were finally falling into place. Then, she found out the sample he'd given her had gotten polluted.
“I realized that these weeks of running experiments around the clock, and literally sleeping in the lab, were basically all just studying this false one,” says Richmond. “That was the one day in my career that I didn't want to get out of bed.”
But Richmond did. She dragged herself out of bed went on a long run to clear her head, and marched into the lab. She decided she wanted to change the direction of her research to one where she could control her own samples. She started using lasers to study the chemical processes that occur on the surface of water, work that has since earned her worldwide fame, including a 2013 National Medal of Science.
“I started this whole new set of much riskier experiments, and I've continued in that area of research until today,” says Richmond. “Looking back, I'm so glad those first experiments did fail.” Richmond says she feels successful if just 10 percent of her ideas work. For scientists, taking risks in their research — trying to break into a new field, develop a new method for doing something or address a question that no one has tried to answer before — makes them more prone (易于) to failure, but also more prone to big breakthroughs.
“Failure in science is only a failure if you stay in bed,” says Richmond. “If you don't get up and learn something from it.”
1. What impressed Richmond most in paragraph 1?A.Her own laser lab. | B.A brand-new laser. |
C.The polluted sample. | D.The data on a molecule. |
A.Guilty but unbeatable. | B.Depressed but insistent. |
C.Annoyed and pessimistic. | D.Hopeful and enthusiastic. |
A.The spirit of taking risks. | B.Scientific research methods. |
C.Strict self-discipline system. | D.Great devotion to their careers. |
A.Be the Best — You Can Make It | B.The Higher the Status, the Better |
C.Be Grateful—Failure Is Your Treasure | D.More Self-Control, More Competitive |
Dear Mrs. Nugget, You may remember that we have discussed the noise your children make while practicing the piano in your home. You agreed to make sure that they would stop practicing in the evening. You can imagine my astonishment (惊讶) then when I realized that nothing had changed at all and the situation was continuing as before. I find it difficult to stay in my house and I invent excuse to go out for the evening to be away from the terrible noise. Much as I like music, I have had enough and to tell you the truth, I am not prepared to put up with the situation any more. I think it is high time you realized your responsibilities (责任) as a member of the society, and I must warn you that unless you do something about the situation. I will be forced to take legal (法律) action. We all make noise in our day-to-day lives. However, noise which is unreasonable and is likely to disturb others is not acceptable. I will keep a Noise Record Sheet from today on and contact the council when necessary. And I have also sent a copy of this letter to my lawyer. Yours sincerely, R.G.Barge |
1. Why did Barge write this letter?
A.Because Mrs. Nugget’s children played the piano so badly. |
B.Because Mrs. Nugget refused to listen to his complaints.(投诉) |
C.Because Mrs. Nugget didn’t tell the truth as Barge did. |
D.Because Mrs. Nugget refused to keep her promise. |
A.Mrs. Nugget agreed to do something about the noise problem. |
B.Barge is astonished to see that the situation is going from bad to worse. |
C.Barge has great interest in music. |
D.Barge is often forced to go out for the evening with reason for noise. |
A.change | B.improve |
C.suffer without a word | D.raise the problem at the lawyer |
a, Barge talked with Mrs. Nugget about the noise her children had made
b, Mrs. Nugget’s children played the piano loudly in the evening.
c, Mrs. Nugget promised to stop them doing so.
d, Barge wrote this letter to Mrs. Nugget, warning that he might take legal action if nothing hanged.
e, Mrs. Nugget’s children continued making such noise.
A.a,b,c,e,d | B.b,c,a,e,d |
C.e,d,c,b,a | D.b,a,c,e,d |
【推荐1】Originally from Binghamton, Senior Jonathan Shapiro, the Business major decided to pursue his degree to further his music career. “The reason I came here was because in my senior year, I had a manager who was the owner of 105.5 The Beat, a radio station here in Rochester, and he invited me to come to this Kevin Gates concert,” Shapiro said. “I worked with him for months, and I never ended up signing … but this school was close to him.”
The majority of fellow rappers that Shapiro has encountered in Rochester live different lives than he does—they don’t go to college, and they’re born-and-bred inner-city Rochester residents. They have, according to Shapiro, “a lot of real-life experiences” that come through in their work, which he admires. “I’ve met kids as young as 15 and people as old as 30 in the studios.”
Shapiro himself has been shifting into, in his own words, “a more hyperpop sound” in comparison to his earlier work. He started making his own music in seventh grade after breaking his back, which shattered his dream of becoming a professional soccer player, and never stopped.
In the future, Shapiro is planning a joint concert with some other Rochester musicians and rappers in the spring at Water Street Music Hall, as well as releasing further music across the course of the year. “It would be a mix of local artists and some UR artists, like a festival,” Shapiro said. “I want it to be a showcase of multiple artists if I can make that happen.”
When asked about advice that he would give to ambitious musicians and rappers here in Rochester, Shapiro had this to say: “Don’t get discouraged by results and don’t be results-oriented (导向). If you want to get out there, do it because you love it and because you want to make good art, and that will always have an impact.”
1. What can we learn about Shapiro in paragraph 1?A.He became a staff of a radio station. |
B.He went on with his music learning. |
C.He worked as a manager in a concert. |
D.He graduated from a business school. |
A.Killed. | B.Fulfilled. | C.Continued. | D.Abandoned. |
A.Adorable and reliable. | B.Positive and talented. |
C.Cooperative and admirable. | D.Courageous and experienced. |
A.Focusing on Results Always Matters |
B.Setting Goals can Build a Life-long Career |
C.Learning from Failure is the Key to Success |
D.Following Your Heart can Make a Difference |
【推荐2】At times my mom has been uncomfortable seeing these qualities in me. For example, when I was 12, I went to Puerto Rico all by myself to stay with my grandmother for the summer. My mom was very nervous about it. She kept telling me how things were different in Puerto Rico, to always put on sunglasses and wear sunscreen, not to walk away from my grandmother, and other warnings. She helped me pack everything and did not leave the airport until she saw my plane take off.
Although she was worried about me, she let me go on my own. As I moved into my teens, she continued to give me space to grow and learn, even when it might have been difficult for her.
When I reached my senior year, I decided to move away for college. Once again I found that I differed from my friends: while many of them wanted to close to home, I couldn’t wait to be out in the world on my own. While my mom may not have been happy at the thought of my going away, she was supportive and excited for me.
One big thing I realized during my senior year, as my mom allowed me more freedom, was that she believes in me and trusts me. That means a lot. Most of my life, and especially when I was little, the main person I tried to impress in my schoolwork or other things was my mother. I knew she expected nothing but the best from me. Sometimes it was hard to live up to her standards (标准): getting a single B on my report card would make her feel bad because I knew she wanted me to have all A’s.
I know that her high standards have helped me stay focused on what is important, like education, and made me who I am. I am thankful for her support and involvement in my life. She is the strongest woman I know and that’s why I am so strong and independent.
1. When the author decided to go to Puerto Rico, his mother ______ .A.worried about his safety |
B.wanted to go with him |
C.didn’t allow him to do so |
D.asked his grandmother for advice |
A.be different from his friends |
B.make his mother unhappy |
C.keep away from his mother |
D.be independent in the outside world |
A.was too proud of him |
B.had a high expectation of him |
C.used to expect nothing from him |
D.cared little about his learning |
A.his long way to becoming independent |
B.his good relationship with his mother |
C.the importance of a mother’s trust and support |
D.his mother’s deep love for him |
I could only blame myself. Nobody’s hands went in the sauce except my own. But that night, as I explained with a touch of panic that a colander is the thing with holes in it, I wondered what else I hadn’t prepared Ray for.
As parents, while we focus on our child’s confidence and character, we perhaps don’t always consider that we are also raising someone’s future roommate, boyfriend, husband, or father. I wanted to know that I’d raised a boy who would never ask the woman in his life, “What’s for dinner?” So I came up with a plan: I would offer Ray a private home economics course. I was delighted to find that he didn’t say no.
For two hours, three days a week, Ray was all mine. One day, as his tomato sauce reduced on the stove, he washed and seasoned a chicken for roasting. Then he rolled out the piecrust (馅饼) and filled it with apples, all while listening to my explanation on the importance of preheating an oven.
I knew that he would rather have been shooting hoops I the driveway than learning to mend socks with his mother — he tried to beg off sewing lessons, even though I insisted that one day, someone would find the sight of him fixing his own shirt very attractive — but it couldn’t be denied that he was learning, and more than just housekeeping. “I appreciate more what you do as a mom,” he told me one day.
Ray now understands the finer points of cooking, and more important, he realizes there’s nothing masculine (男子气的) about being helpless. Not only can he make his own dinner, he can make it for his family, too. That’s what I call a man.
1. Hearing her son’s question, the author felt _______.A.shocked | B.angry |
C.disappointed | D.calm |
A.preferred sewing to cooking |
B.made great progress in cooking |
C.was unwilling to take the course at first |
D.always thought it attractive to do housework |
A.fell in love with house work |
B.did other work in the house |
C.began to be more important |
D.acknowledged the author’s efforts |
A.Should boys be involved in housework? |
B.Present for my future daughter-in-law. |
C.I’m proud I’ve raised a curious son. |
D.Dependent or independent. |