A broken heart. A sad ending to a love affair. That’s something most of us have experienced, or probably will. The experience can be destructive. You might find yourself listening more to sad music, hoping it can resonate with your feelings of disappointment, and you’ll never heal (治愈) from your broken heart.
You might go through a strong feeling of sorrow, as in Neil Young’s “Only Love Can Break Your Heart”, or the pain of a lyric from Bob Dylan’s “Love Sick”: “I’m sick of love. I wish. I’d never met you.”
But research shows listening to sad music can help you begin to feel joy and hopefulness about your life again. Sad music can help heal and uplift you from your broken heart. Or, from any negative, disappointing life situation. It can activate empathy (共情) and the desire to reach out for others — both pathways out of the prison of heartache and hopelessness.
A recent study from Germany found the emotional impact of listening to sad music can lift the feelings of empathy, compassion, and a desire for positive connection with others. That, itself, is psychologically healing. It draws you away from anxiety with yourself, and possibly towards helping others in need of comfort.
Another experiment, from the University of Kent, found that when people were experiencing sadness, listening to music that was “beautiful but sad” excited their mood. In fact, it did so when the person first consciously understood the situation causing their sadness before beginning to listen to the sad music. That is, when they intended that the sad music might help, they found that it did. But that wasn’t true if they just listened to sad music without first thinking about the sad situation.
Then, you may be answering the question raised in the old Bee Gees’ song, “How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?”
1. What does the underlined word “resonate” in paragraph 1 refer to?A.Communicate. | B.Cooperate. | C.Contrast. | D.Correspond. |
A.To present the sad feelings from their songs. |
B.To celebrate their achievements in the music field. |
C.To compare the difference between their music. |
D.To convince others of the healing effects of music. |
A.Shared feelings might enable people to help others. |
B.Sad music can strengthen relationship between people |
C.Showing empathy does good both mentally and physically |
D.Sad songs can benefit people with the intention of lifting spirits. |
A.What does music bring to us? | B.How can sad music heal a broken heart? |
C.Why is sad music so popular? | D.When can we turn to others for help? |
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【推荐1】We were silently waiting on the platform in the late afternoon. There he was, my 80-year-old grandfather with his silvery hair. And there I was, a teenage girl in my jeans and T-shirt. His aged but still clear blue eyes were taking in the scene as I wondered how I was going to get through the next two days. Why did I ever agree to accompany my cranky grandpa on a train ride from New York to Georgia?
No one else wanted to be the fellow traveler since my grandfather refused to fly. In contrast, I loved to fly since I wanted to get to the destination as quickly as possible. No matter what anyone told my grandfather about the comfort and safety of flying, he refused to book a flight, saying, “It’s not just the trip: it’s the adventure of getting there.”
With my first step onto the train, the journey was already different from what I expected. The train was modern and filled with friendly travelers. We settled into the club car, where we could enjoy food and drinks while watching the scenery pass. Instead of listening to my music, I became a willing audience and learned family history that I had never had the time or patience to learn. With teary eyes, he told me that going to family events was hard for him since my grandmother died. It always made him think about those who were no longer with us. For the first time I felt I understood him. I gained a new appreciation for our time together.
In this fast-paced world, we often miss important moments. There is great significance in listening to elders who offer a piece of their history and experience. I may be more open to opportunities to stay with my grandpa. Life isn’t just about the destination: it’s about the journey.
1. What does the underlined word “cranky” in paragraph 1 mean?A.Healthy. | B.Selfless. |
C.Strange. | D.Outgoing. |
A.Her grandpa s appreciation of her. |
B.The new understanding of her grandpa. |
C.The sad stories of her grandmother. |
D.Her grandpa’s missing her relatives. |
A.Travelling by train is more comfortable than by plane. |
B.Caring for elders needs a lot of creativity. |
C.There always is beautiful scenery along the journey. |
D.Listening to elders will help us learn a lot. |
【推荐2】With all of the wonderful things life brings us, it also brings us stress. It is for this reason that I am an active supporter of mental health days.
Although it’s never good to ignore(忽视) responsibilities, sometimes it is good to unplug(拔除) from the world for a day. We eat healthy and stay active to keep us from getting sick, but sometimes we forget to care for our minds. Our minds and bodies are connected, and when only one is being cared for, the other may be suffering. It is important to try to combine self care with our lives and spend time on activities we enjoy. This helps relieve stress on a daily day.
So, what do you do on a mental health day? The answer is anything you want. Growing up, my brother and I were allowed a few mental health days a year. We would stay home from school and relax. For him, it was playing games on the computer, while my days were spent reading or watching TV. My mental health days now include picking things up around my apartment, cooking a tasty meal, and then reading for a few hours. I completely shut myself off from work or school. To me, this is relaxing. Organize the clutter(凌乱的东西) that piles up during the week, cook the meals I don’t have time to cook, and read the books that I’ve bought but don’t have time to read.
A mental health day is great, but only if it’s supplemented(增补) with self care through the week. From my experience, if self care is not regularly provided in your week, taking a mental health day is just going to stress you out even more. But when it’s needed, try hard to recognize that and take care of yourself. It will help keep you happy and healthy. A mental health day is not a day to avoid life, it is a day to recoup(恢复).
1. What can we infer from Paragraph 2 ?A.People tend to ignore their mental health. |
B.People should care for each other. |
C.One should have a strong sense of responsibility. |
D.Mental health is less important than physical health. |
A.stay at home alone. | B.enjoy outdoor activities |
C.do something meaningful. | D.do whatever they want. |
A.He cooked for his family. | B.He played computer games. |
C.He watched TV programs | D.He read the books he bought. |
A.one needs help and care from other. |
B.leading a regular life is unnecessary. |
C.mental health days are not enough. |
D.one should try to be physically friendly. |
My parents married on September 14, 1940, after a brief dating. She was nearly 30 and knew it was time to start a family. The handsome well-educated man who came by the office where she worked looked like a good bet. He was attracted by her figure, her blue eyes. The romance didn’t last long.
Seeds of difference grew almost immediately. She liked to travel; he hated the thought. He loved golf; she did not. He was a Republican, she a loyal Democrat. They fought at the bridge table, at the dinner table, over money, over the shortcomings of their parents.
There was a hope that they would change once they retired (退休), and the angry winds did calm somewhat, but what remained changed itself into bright, hard bitterness. “I always thought we’d …” my mother would begin, before making a detailed list of my father’s faults. The complaints were recited so often, I can repeat them by heart today. As he listened, my father would say something angrily in a low voice.
It wasn’t the happiest marriage, but as their 60th anniversary (纪念日) came nearer, my sister and I decided to throw a party. Sixty years was a long time, after all. Why not try to make the best of things? We’d provide the cakes, the balloons, the toasts, and they’d follow one rule: no fighting.
The agreement was honored. We had a wonderful day. When we thought back, we found it was an important celebration, because soon after, things began to change for my parents.
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1. Bob married Nancy because of ______.
A.her nice appearance |
B.her good education |
C.her romantic nature |
D.her position as an office girl |
A.60 | B.70 | C.80 | D.90 |
A.Their marriage is a total failure. |
B.They had different hobbies. |
C.They had serious money problem. |
D.They stopped quarrelling after they had children. |
A.to recall the 60 years’ marriage life of her parents |
B.to stop the long fighting between her parents |
C.just to celebrate her parents’ 60th anniversary |
D.to have a good time for family’s reunion |
A.Everyday Heroes | B.My Planet |
C.Turning Point | D.Unforgettable |
【推荐1】Pandemic (流行病) lock-downs (封锁) might be common, but not all our movements are limited. This has led to a rise in dance, as people search for connection. Live classes online have increased rapidly, headed by the likes of dance legend Debbie Allen. Living rooms are becoming party scenes thanks to live-streaming (视频直播) dance parties by celebrity dancers Diplo and D-Nice.
Because of the recent increase in virtual events, geographically separated groups of strangers are moving in the same direction to the same rhythm without speaking a word. Recent research has shown that even our earliest ancestors (祖先) recognized the social benefits of dance.
According to a recent study published in the Public Library of Science’s Genetics Journal, creative dancers share two similar genes with good social communicators. These researchers believe our prehistoric ancestors who were good dancers used those skills for a close relationship and social interaction. We dance to celebrate harvests, ask for much-needed rain and bring healing.
In the Guadeloupe Islands, dance was once one of the only means of communication for an entire population. West Africans were brought over to the French Caribbean as slave (奴隶) labor. Members from various places speaking different languages began to find common ground in rhythms and dances. This art form became Gwoka. Each Gwoka rhythm shows a specific human experience, such as love, sadness and the celebration of Carnival (狂欢节).
I learned to speak a bit of this language at a Guadeloupean folk dance school. Gwoka shared similarities to the Bomba dance that I had tried in Puerto Rico. Bomba, in turn, had reminded me of the tambu in Aruba. As I continue to dance with more people, I build more links in a global chain of movement and rhythm.
So, in this new times of COVID -19, I’m not surprised how dance has been the solution for hundreds of thousands of people around the world.
1. What mainly leads to the popularity of dance during pandemic lock-downs?A.People’s thirst for connection. |
B.Worldwide geographical limitation. |
C.Online classes given by famous dancers. |
D.Live-streaming parties thrown by celebrities. |
A.To show an experience. | B.To build relationships. |
C.To share genetic qualities. | D.To celebrate important events. |
A.The origin of Gwoka. | B.The celebration of Carnival. |
C.Slave trades in the French Caribbean. | D.Means of communication of West Africans. |
A.Doubtful. | B.Astonished. | C.Carefree. | D.Understandable. |
【推荐2】Country music is one of the most popular kinds of music in the United States today because it is about simple but strong human feelings and events-love, sadness, good times, and bad times. It tells real-life stories and sounds the way people really talk. As life becomes more complicated(复杂), it is good to hear music about ordinary people.
Country music, sometimes called country-western, comes from two kinds of music. One is the traditional music of the people in the Appalachian Mountains in the eastern Unite States. The other is traditional cowboy music from the west. The singers usually play guitars, and in the 1920s they started using electric guitars. At first city people said country music was low class. It was popular mostly in the South. But during World War II, thousands of Southerners went to the Northeast and Midwest to work in the factories. They took their music with them. Soldiers from the rest of the country went to army camps(军营)in the South. They learned country music. Slowly it became popular all over the country.
Today country music is also popular everywhere in the United States and Canada—in small towns and in New York City, among black and white, and among educated and uneducated people. About 1, 200 radio stations broadcast country music twenty-four hours a day. English stars sing it in British English, and people in other countries sing it in their own languages. The music that started with cowboys and poor southerners is now popular all over the world.
1. It can be learned from the passage that country music comes from_________-A.the Northeast and Midwest |
B.factories and army camps in the South |
C.the Appalachian Mountains and the West |
D.real-life stories in small towns |
A.the south | B.the north |
C.the Midwest | D.the Northeast |
A.they wanted to take music with them |
B.they wanted to make other people like country music |
C.they wanted to work in the factories there |
D.they wanted to make country music popular |
A.Country music is about human feelings and events. |
B.Country music is sung by stars all in English. |
C.Country music is popular among city people today. |
D.City people didn’t like country music at first. |
【推荐3】Diana Ross, American pop singer and actress, achieved international popularity, first as the leader singer of the Supremes and later as a solo(独唱的) artist. Diana Ross was born on March 26, 1944, in Detroit, Michigan. She was the second of six children of Fred and Ernestine Ross, who lived in one of Detroit’s poor districts. Because her family were closely connected with each other,Ross almost didn't notice the difficult life as she grew up.
Ross professional career began in 1959, when she joined several neighborhood friends to form the Primettes. The group was renamed the Supremes after signing a recording contract (合同) with Motown late the following year. The group produced many number-one hit singles (热门单曲) on the US Billboard hot 100, including Baby Love, Stop! In The Name of Love and Someday We Will Be Together. In 1967, the group was renamed Diana Ross and the Supremes, foreshadowing(预示) Ross’solo career,which she started in 1970.
Beginning with Ain’t No Mountain High Enough from her first solo album, Ross enjoyed more than ten years of great success with her hit singles. Ross also developed a film-acting career in the 1970s, beginning with a starring role as blues singer Billie Holiday in Lady Sings the Blues and continuing with Mahogany, for which she also recorded the theme song Do You Know Where You’re Going To.
However, in the mid-1980s, Ross saw her career begin to wane. Most of her albums were re-recordings of earlier material. In 2006, she produced I Love Y ou, a collection of love songs by many artists, and she started an energetic concert tour the following year to make the album publicly known. Although you can’t find her songs on the US Billboard Hot 100 now, Ross remains popular as one of the leading musical performers of all time.
1. According to the passage, the Supremes ____.A.had to break up in 1967 |
B.used to be named the Primettes |
C.was made up of Ross and her classmates |
D.signed a contract with Motown in 1959 |
A.Baby love. |
B.Stop! In the name of love. |
C.Ain’t No Mountain High Enough. |
D.Someday We’ll Be Together. |
A.It was the theme song of Mahogany. |
B.It was one of Ross’No.1 hit singles. |
C.It was sung by a blues singer. |
D.It was from Ross’first film. |
A.Develop faster. |
B.End quickly. |
C.Start again. |
D.Become weaker. |
【推荐1】Marnie Baker, a doctor from Saddleback Medical Center in Laguna Hills, California, gave us the explanation on growing pains and what parents can do to help their kids through this painful stage of growing up.
“There is no scientific proof that growing pains are truly caused by rapid bone, muscle or ligament (韧带) growth,” said Baker. “But any parent can tell you they are real,” she added. Health experts don’t know the exact cause of growing pains, but they may be linked to a child’s level of activity during the day.
The major symptom of growing pains is discomfort in the lower legs-thighs, calves, behind the knees, ankles-that most often occurs at night. Baker says her patients describe the pain as deep and aching. The pain usually occurs in both legs and it may keep your child from falling asleep or wake him up at night. Growing pains can affect kids when they are between the ages of 0-2 and then again between the ages of 8-12.
“Growing pains have specific features that help distinguish them from other potentially more serious conditions,” noted Baker. They occur in a generalized location, such as both knees, or the lower legs, but not in any one specific spot. Baker explained that there are no physical findings along with growing pains. In other words, there shouldn’t be any sweling (肿胀), redness or warmth in the location of the pain. Growing pains should not cause limping (跛行) or keep kids from being active during the day. They should also occur at intervals, and not for long periods of time. If your child experiences any of these other symptoms or if the symptoms seem to keep them from heading out to play during the day, Baker says it’s time to get them checked out by a doctor.
Growing pains are alarming for parents and upsetting for kids, but the best thing you can do for your kids is to reassure them with a hug or a kiss. To help relieve the pain, try a gentle massage, a few minutes with a heating pad. “Teaching your child that growing pains are common and if they are awakened by them, to give their legs a rub and go back to sleep is the simplest way to ensure a good night’s sleep for all,” says Baker.
1. Where can you most probably find the passage?A.In a health report. | B.In a parenting magazine. |
C.In a biology textbook. | D.In an advertisement. |
A.set somebody’s mind at ease | B.get somebody across |
C.make somebody convinced of something | D.fit in with somebody |
A.Ways to help alleviate the symptoms. | B.The physical features of growing pains. |
C.The root causes of growing pains. | D.The period when growing pains occur. |
A.Growing pains will rob children of happiness in the daytime. |
B.The major symptom of growing pains varies from person to person in location. |
C.Swelling, redness or warmth always accompany growing pains. |
D.No more other kind of physical pains appear in company of growing pains. |
【推荐2】A new Chinese snooker(斯洛克台球) star is on the rise.
At age of 20, Yan Bingtao, defeated four-time world champion John Higgins to win the Snooker Master title on Jan 17. This made him the youngest Masters champion since Ronnie O’Sullivan won the title at the age of 19 in 1995.
It was Yan’s first appearance in such a major event. But he managed to defeat famous players Neil Robertson, Stephen Maguire and Stuart Bingham, making his victory all the more impressive. Yan’s coolness under pressure made experts believe that he is sure to be great. He kept calm under extreme pressure.
A native of Zibo, Shandong province, Yan took up billiards(桌球) at age 7, soon moving onto snooker. In 2009, his father quit his job to take him to Beijing for professional training. His mother later got cancer, stayed behind to earn money for the family.
In 2016, Yan went to the United Kingdom to start his professional career. There, he trained seven hours a day. “It is a boring process. For example, he needed to practice a ball routine(路线) for thousands of time each day.”
As Yan became a hit, people would make a comparison between Yan and another well-known player, Ding Junhui. Yan said “Ding is a legend for China. It would be so hard for anyone to achieve more than he did for the modern young players. All I can do is to be the best Yan Bingtao.”
It is clear that he hasn’t failed. “He could be a world champion without doubt, so China is very lucky to have him.” Higgins told BBC.
1. What can we learn from Yan Bingtao’s experiences in this passage?A.Yan won the title of world champion in snooker in 1995. |
B.Yan lived a wealthy life in his childhood. |
C.Experts and other players thought highly of Yan. |
D.Yan started his professional career after he went to the USA in 2016. |
A.Hardworking | B.Confident |
C.Calm | D.Curious |
A.By asking questions. | B.By giving facts. |
C.By giving explanations. | D.By providing data. |
A.Love and support from a player’s family. |
B.Yan Bingtao, a young master in snooker. |
C.Ding Junhui and Yan Bingtao, two great snooker stars. |
D.A well-known billiards player from Shandong province. |
【推荐3】You might have heard someone say that a song changed their life. And maybe you used to hate tomatoes, but now you like it. No one doubts that we change as we grow older. But do we change in major ways? Can we really change who we are? People used to believe we stay pretty much the same throughout our lives, but researchers are increasingly finding that we can and do change in big ways.
Psychologists have identified five dimensions that help us understand someone’s personality, which are called the “Big Five.” They are: 1. Openness: How open are you to trying new things? 2. Conscientiousness (尽责性): How responsible are you? 3. Extroversion (外向):How friendly, outgoing, and enthusiastic are you? 4. Agreeableness: How caring, trusting, and generous are you? 5. Emotional stability: How calm are you, especially when problems arise? Everyone has different levels of the big five dimensions. For example, Harry Potter has high levels of openness to experience, while Hermione Granger would score high in conscientiousness.
Scientists used to think that each person’s “Big Five” stayed the same their whole life, but newer research suggests that the dimensions do change. People who took a personality test as teen-agers scored very differently when they took the same test 50 years later. Three dimensions usually changed more than the others, which are emotional stability, conscientiousness, and agreeableness. In fact, most adults were more emotionally stable, more conscientious, and more agreeable than when they were younger. Researchers considered this a sign that we mature over time, perhaps learning to get along better with others.
Even though people change over time, the relationship between dimensions often remains similar. For example, someone who was very open to new experiences but who was not agreeable as a teenager was likely still more open to new things than agreeable as an adult. Scores changed, and sometimes changed a lot, but they didn’t change randomly.
1. Why does the author mention Harry Potter and Hermione Granger in Paragraph 2?A.To identify the impact of the big five dimensions. |
B.To stress the value of openness and responsibility. |
C.To analyze some main characters in popular fiction. |
D.To illustrate various degrees of personality dimensions. |
A.Becoming more hot-tempered. | B.Becoming more considerate. |
C.Becoming less responsible. | D.Becoming less generous. |
A.Personality dimensions change accidentally. |
B.One is likely to be more open than agreeable. |
C.Relationship between dimensions stays unchanged. |
D.Changes in personality dimensions follow some pattern. |
A.The Effects of Changing. | B.What Are the “Big Five”? |
C.Do People Really Change? | D.Personality Dimensions Matter. |