I was never very neat, while my roommate Kate was extremely organized. Each of her objects had its place, but mine always hid somewhere. She even labeled (贴标签) everything. I always looked for everything. Over time, Kate got neater and I got messier. She would push my dirty clothing over, and I would lay my books on her tidy desk. We both got tired of each other.
War broke out one evening. Kate came into the room. Soon, I heard her screaming, “Take your shoes away! Why under my bed!” Deafened, I saw my shoes flying at me. I jumped to my feet and started yelling. She yelled back louder.
The room was filled with anger. We could not have stayed together for a single minute but for a phone call. Kate answered it. From her end of the conversation, I could tell right away her grandma was seriously ill. When she hung up, she quickly crawled (爬) under her covers, sobbing. Obviously, that was something she should not go through alone. All of a sudden, a warm feeling of sympathy rose up in my heart.
Slowly, I collected the pencils, took back the books, made my bed, cleaned the socks and swept the floor, even on her side. I got so into my work that I even didn’t notice Kate had sat up. She was watching, her tears dried and her expression one of disbelief. Then, she reached out her hands to grasp mine. I looked up into her eyes. She smiled at me, “Thanks.”
Kate and I stayed roommates for the rest of the year. We didn’t always agree, but we learned the key to living together: giving in, cleaning up and holding on.
1. The author tidied up the room most probably because ________.A.she was scared by Kate’s anger | B.she hated herself for being so messy |
C.she wanted to show her care | D.she was asked by Kate to do so |
A.By analyzing causes. | B.By showing differences. |
C.By describing a process. | D.By following time order. |
A.The benefit of being organized. |
B.The daily routine in a dormitory. |
C.The effort into developing friendships. |
D.The sharing of learning to be roommates. |
相似题推荐
【推荐1】A good friend is always around you. Do you want to make more friends? These will help you.
Wear clean clothes. It will let others like you and go to you often.
Smile.
Talk first. Ask them some funny questions and listen to them carefully.
Play around and be open.
A.We will be friends forever. |
B.Then you’ll make more friends. |
C.A lot of friends are needed. |
D.Meet the friends of your new friends. |
E.If your friends are in a club or do sports, why not join them? |
F.It means that you are friendly. |
G.It’s good to say something about yourself. |
【推荐2】When the telephone rings late at night, most women guess it must be one of only four or five people calling. A sister? Maybe. An emergency? Possibly.A mother? Probably not at that time of night. Much more probably it is a close female friend calling to tell you that she has split up with her boyfriend again or perhaps simply that a good movie has just started on TV.
At a time when families are spread far and wide and marriages often end in divorce, friendships are becoming more and more important. Erika, a 32-year-old lawyer, is strengthened by her ten-year friendship with her married friend Jane. “I was very sick one night, so I called Jane at about 3:00 a.m. to talk about it,” she says. “She was very supportive and even came over to take me to the doctor’s the next morning.”
As American TV shows like Friends, which follows the lives of a very close group of young friends, have become more popular, many of us are beginning to see the value of such friendships. TV shows like this tell us that our romantic relationships may not last, but we need to keep in touch with our close friends if we want to survive.
A TV show called Real Women is about the lives and relationships of five former school friends. In this show, family, husbands, and work are all less important than friendships. One of its actresses says the show reflects her own experience. “Friendship is about commitment. I don’t see some of my friends for ages but when we get together, it is as if time hasn”t passed.”
This is true of Erika and Jane’s friendship. With Erika’s family 200 miles away, it is Jane who keeps a spare set of keys to Erika’s apartment and waters her plants whenever she is away. “Having Jane around gives me a certain amount of freedom. It is not the kind of thing that you could ask anyone to do, but she knows I would do the same for her.” Erika feels that because she no longer sees her family every day, she now enjoys a closer relationship with her best friend. Jane, who may move to a different city soon, is worried about leaving such a support system of friends. “My friends have more to do with my life than my parents and, therefore, I don’t have to spend a lot of time explaining things to them. Friends are more up to date with what is happening.”
1. According to the passage, a late-night phone call for most women is probably from ______.A.a friend | B.a relative |
C.a stranger | D.a doctor |
A.marriages with friends often end up in failure |
B.families and work are as important as friends |
C.close friends help us face problems in life |
D.friendship fades(消退) as time goes by |
A.A near friend is more helpful than a faraway relative. |
B.Both marriage and friendship demand commitment. |
C.However far away we’re, parents worry about us. |
D.Long distance makes the hearts closer. |
【推荐3】Making friends can be frustrating, something I recently found out after moving to a new city. You might hit it off with an acquaintance (泛泛之交), but what’s the next step? And how long does it take to move past “getting to know you?”
But University of Kansas researcher Jeffrey A. Hall has helped us to know the process of friendship-building in a new study. Hall surveyed 112 college students every three weeks during their first nine weeks at a Midwestern university. He also gave a one-time questionnaire to 355.
American adults who had moved to a new city in the past six months. In these surveys, the newcomers picked a friend or two and reported how much time they spend together, what activities they do, and how close the friendship is.
—It takes students 43 hours and adults 94 hours to turn acquaintances into casual friends.
—Students need 57 hours to transit from casual friends to friends. Adults need, on average,164 hours.
—
But time on its own does not bring about closeness: it depends on how we spend that time, as Hall found when he analyzed what activities friends did together.
In general, spending more time talking didn’t make student or adult friends feel closer.
Student friends did tend to be more friendly when they engaged in certain types of talking—namely, catching up about their lives, talking playfully, and showing attention, but student friends who engaged in small about current events actually tended to become more distant over time.
A.Everyone wants to have friends, but you can’t have friends without making them. |
B.For students, friends became good or best friends after about 119 hours. |
C.It's the first to explore not just what activities bring us closer, but exactly how many hours it takes for an acquaintance to become a friend. |
D.Shared activities don’t always make us closer, either. |
E.Unfortunately, there's no manual for this crucial life skill. |
F.Unsurprisingly, the more time two people spent together, the closer their relationship. |
【推荐1】Imagine meeting someone for the first time who comes from a distant country but is fluent in your language. Would you adapt the tone of your voice, or the spacing of pauses in your speech? How about adjusting your body language and facial expressions, depending on the background of the person in front of you?
These are just a handful of the shifts in behaviour that can contribute to what is known as your "cultural intelligence", or CQ.
"The number one predictor of your success in today's borderless world is not your IQ, or not even your expertise(专长)," writes social, scientist David Livermore in his book The Cultural Intelligence Difference. "It's your CQ."
Typically CQ is measured through a series of questions that assess four distinct components. The first is "CQ Drive"-the motivation to learn about other cultures. Then there is "CO Knowledge", which is an understanding of some of the general cultural differences you may face. "CQ Strategy" examines how you make sense of those difficult conflicts and learn from them, while "CQ Action" involves your behavioural flexibility-whether you are able to adapt your conduct like a cultural chameleon.
"While understanding a specific culture can be useful, it may not predict at all your ability to engage effectively in a new place," says Livermore. "In fact, our research finds that individuals who have lived in multiple locations for extended time are more likely to have higher CQ Knowledge than those who have lived multiple decades in one overseas setting."
Someone with low CO might have a tendency to judge everyone else's behaviour by his own cultural standards. If he comes from a more sociable environment, for instance, and notices that his Japanese colleagues are very quiet in a meeting, he may assume that they are being unfriendly or bored. A person at the top of the scale(级别), meanwhile, might realise that silence is a sign of respect and that feedback(反馈)won't be given unless it is explicitly required. As a result, he'll make sure to offer suitable opportunities within the meeting for others to provide their opinions.
1. Which of the following best describes "a cultural chameleon"?A.Learning from other cultures to have a high CQ. |
B.Taking action to overcome the communication barrier. |
C.Getting along well with others despite cultural differences. |
D.Changing behaviour according to the cultural background. |
A.Experiencing a variety of different cultures. | B.Spending a long time in a specific culture. |
C.Meeting people from a distant country. | D.Having personal experience in another culture. |
A.People with low CO. | B.People with high CQ. |
C.People from a different culture. | D.People from a sociable environment. |
A.Those who are going to be a social scientist. |
B.Those who want to learn about CQ Knowledge. |
C.Those who conduct some research on CQ and IQ. |
D.Those who interact with people from different cultures. |
【推荐2】3 Things That Can Happen When You Quit Social Media
Social media brings you much fun. But if you’re spending too much time on social media, it can be hard to imagine life without it.
You’ll get more work done, and you’ll do it faster.
You’ll sit less. Sitting all day can be as dangerous for your health as smoking. And after a long day at work, we are increasingly using our free time to check social media — from a seated position. People will say, “Wow, I didn’t realize I was sitting an extra 90 minutes each day because of Facebook”.
A.You’ll get more sleep. |
B.You’ll feel less stressed. |
C.Without social media, you’ll have more creative ideas. |
D.This can bring unfavorable effects on the brain like reduced memory. |
E.Staying away from social media frees up your time for healthier activities. |
F.However, there are many reasons to consider taking a break from social media. |
G.Putting aside social media, you’ll find your productivity levels increase a lot. |
【推荐3】People sometimes think of moving among people and talking to them at a dinner party like it’s a mechanical process. I know some advice on it can give the impression that you need to approach it that way.
In my experience, at parties it’s best to go with the flow, talk to the people who look interesting to you, and see where the night takes you.
For whatever reason, two metaphors (暗喻) come to mind when I think about talking to people at parties.
The second metaphor is that I picture people at a party as a bunch of ping pong balls floating in a basin of water, and moving around on the surface. For a time a few balls may come together, but then they’ll break up and maybe temporarily group with a few others.
A.If you want to try, go for it |
B.In practice it’s not really a matter of that |
C.The first is to see a party like a fairground |
D.Again, go to a party intending to just move along like this |
E.I will spend the party making the rounds and speaking to people |
F.Basically, the movement of people from group to group is not planned |
G.You’ll decide if you have a better time when you keep chatting to the funny friends |
【推荐1】Video producer and musician Justin Scholar enjoyed his fantastic moment weeks ago when he spotted his latest work playing on a huge electronic screen at New York’s Times Square.
“It’s sort of the American dream to see your name up in lights,” says the 25-year-old New Jersey native.“I’d never really cared about my name being that big, but going to New York and seeing the big screens, you always wonder if your work is going to make it up there.”
The video that helps Scholar fulfill his “American dream” was shot and produced in China, where Scholar is living and working as a media company owner. Scholar took his first Chinese class in high school seven years ago and made his first trip to Shanghai in 2015 through a study-abroad program when he was a student in New York University. The film and TV major changed his focus from technical art to traditional arts during his study in Shanghai, spending most of the time learning ink-and-wash painting, calligraphy and the guzheng, a traditional Chinese musical instrument. He also fell in love with the city, where he ate a lot of authentic xiaolongbao, or steamed meat buns, and felt safe walking on the streets at 3 am.
Shanghai impresses Scholar as an efficient, modern city calling for greater business prosperity with foreign participation, so he returned two years later, when his career at home was already booming after making commercials for big names such as Coca-Cola and Jaguar.
Thanks to a combination of luck and talent, he achieved the goal soon with a Chinese friend as his business partner, and the company has already produced some 15 videos for pop icons, fashionistas, and art museums in merely six months. The video that plays at Times Square, a tourism promotional film for southwest China’s Chongqing city, is the company’s first project contracted(签合同) by a local government in China.
1. What did Scholar study in Shanghai?A.TV media. |
B.Technical art. |
C.Traditional arts. |
D.The Chinese language. |
A.To change to a new topic for writing. |
B.To make a conclusion of the first 2 paragraphs. |
C.To dive deeper into the previous topic. |
D.To add the background information of the video. |
A.It was shot at Times Square. |
B.It showed attractions of Chongqing. |
C.It was shot in the year 2015. |
D.it showed his college life in Shanghai. |
A.China opens up new routes to international tourists. |
B.Shanghai attracts an increasing number of foreigners. |
C.An American dream unexpectedly comes true with the great video. |
D.A young American brings Chinese tourist video to Times Square. |
When Ayers went to make a payment toward the $283 balance for her family’s Christmas gifts at Walmart, her money was refused. According to a Walmart employee, a woman had paid a part of Ayers’ bill after seeing her shopping in the store. The unknown woman also left Ayers a touching note, which left the mother of two in tears.
Ayers, whose sons are 11 and 3, says the stranger’s great generosity came at the perfect time for her family. Before the anonymous payment was made, Ayers had worried she would not be able to get her kids’ toys in time for Christmas.
Ayers is still looking for the woman who helped pay for their Christmas gifts for her kids. She took a picture of her receipt with the headline: This stranger paid 4 gifts for us. I wish I could thank her for helping give our kids a Merry Christmas!
For thousands of families like Ayers’, feeling this financial pressure around Christmastime is nothing new. These families who still have a roof over their heads and food on their tables often slip through the cracks — they can afford all the necessities, but the “extras” are harder to come by. Considering that Americans are estimated to spend $882 on Christmas gifts this year, it makes sense that a family with a few financial problems would have a hard time filling the stockings for their kids.
Realizing how common this Christmas problem really is makes Ayers’ story even more special. These random acts of kindness around the holidays, often from nameless strangers, can determine what a family’s Christmas looks like. Christmas may not be all about the material stuff, but for families, and especially for kids, it’s the little things that can make the biggest difference.
1. Why did the Walmart employee refuse Ayers’ money?
A.She was too poor to afford it. |
B.Her money was not enough. |
C.Someone had paid for her. |
D.The charismas gifts were free. |
A.To say thanks to her. |
B.To pay her money back. |
C.To praise her online. |
D.To make friends with her. |
A.They value Christmas very much. |
B.They try their best to buy kids gifts. |
C.They hate to spend Christmas. |
D.They live from hand to mouth. |
A.Praiseful. | B.Helpful. |
C.Troublesome. | D.Useless. |
【推荐3】I have lived in rural America for nine years, first in Michigan, where I got my PhD; then in central Illinois and now in Indiana, where I am a professor. In a place where most people have lived the whole of their lives, I feel like a stranger. There are few things I enjoy more than complaining about my geographic isolation. I’m a vegetarian, so there’s nowhere to go for a nice dinner that isn’t 50 miles away. I’m black, so there’s nowhere to get my hair done that doesn’t involve another 50-mile drive. And the closest major airport is two hours away.
I recite these gripes to my friends. We all have grand ideas about what life would be like if only we did that, or lived there. And there’s this; I really don’t intend to change most of the things I complain about. Griping is seductive on those days when happiness requires too much energy. But it also makes me lose sight of the fact that I was born and grew up in Nebraska and have lived most of my life in one of the plains states. When I go to the coasts, I am struck by how unappealing big-city living can be.
While I may not love where I live, there are plenty of people who are proud to call this place home. At a party with colleagues, I was going on about everything I couldn’t stand in our town when I noticed that they were silent and shifting uncomfortably. That moment forced a change in me. Complaining may offer relief, but so does acceptance. There is no perfect life. By focusing on gripes, I risk missing out on precious moments of appreciation. When I get home, I stand on my balcony, look into the night sky and see the stars. I know that I have absolutely nothing to complain about.
1. What causes the author’s loneliness?A.Dietary habits. | B.Racial prejudice. |
C.Educational differences. | D.Identity confusion. |
A.Attractive. | B.Temporary. | C.Violent. | D.Flexible. |
A.Humbled. | B.Angry. | C.Touched. | D.Calm. |
A.Every day is beautiful. | B.When in Rome, do as the Romans do. |
C.Human must value lives themselves. | D.Don’t be penny wise and pound foolish. |