“I feel unlikable, lonely and hopeless,” said Lisa, a bright teenager from a loving home. “It seems that nobody wants to become my friend. What’s wrong with me? ”
Like Lisa, many of us experience loneliness. The truth is that all people, no matter what their age or character — even the most outgoing, wealthy and popular — experience loneliness at least sometimes. It’s healthy and natural to want to be around people who care. After all, we’ve all heard “No man is an island.” That’s true. We all need others in our lives.
Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, explains that if we want friends, we must be friendly and reach out to others. But it has risk. Because we are often afraid of rejection (拒绝), many of us are unwilling to reach out to others. We take a safer way and wait for others to make friends with us. But if we want friends, we’ve got to get beyond this.
If making friends is your goal as well, you need to consider taking some measures (措施).
Be willing to take the initiative (主动权). If you see someone whom you would like to know, don’t wait for her to make the first move. Get close to her and begin a conversation. Let her know in a non aggressive (无攻击性的) way that you are interested in being friends with her.
Reach out to those who are lonely. When you see someone at school sitting alone, go over and talk to her. And don’t let popularity decide whom you reach out to. You’ll often be surprised at the beautiful qualities behind a shy appearance.
Ask questions. Start your first conversation by asking this possible friend what she likes to do or asking about her family. Be sure to ask questions that cannot be replied with “yes” or “no”. For example, don’t ask “Do you have a dog?” Instead, say “So, tell me about your pets.” Avoiding asking “yes” or “no” questions makes your possible friend not end your communication with a one word answer.
1. Why does the author begin the text with Lisa’s worry?A.To set a sad tone. | B.To share Lisa’s pain. |
C.To introduce the topic. | D.To teach readers a lesson. |
A.Being refused by others. | B.Putting ourselves in danger. |
C.Being treated in a rude way. | D.Losing interest in communicating. |
A.Shy people are hard to talk to. | B.Popular people are often easy going. |
C.Just waiting for chances will waste our time. | D.A proper manner is important in making friends. |
A.It is considered unfriendly. | B.It will leave a bad first impression. |
C.It shows the poor quality of the speaker. | D.It isn’t good for keeping a conversation going. |
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【推荐1】Studies continue to show how important strong friendships are to our overall health. Here’re the rules you are supposed to know to keep strong and healthy friendships.
Be all ears to your friends. Too often, we only “half hear” what others are telling us, and have a hard time making space for caring about others’ conditions.
Throw away the judgment.
Forgive (原谅) where you can — and seek forgiveness when you make a mess of something. No one promises to bring perfection to a relationship, so being willing to accept and forgive the weaknesses of others makes you more likely to build a lasting friendship.
Respect your friends and their boundaries. Everyone has a right to set up personal boundaries to feel safe and respected. Some friends may have a difficult time letting people get close to them for fear of being hurt.
A.Don’t crowd your friends. |
B.Offer them what they need. |
C.Support, trust, and honesty are givens. |
D.But friendships don’t need to be perfect. |
E.True friends don’t judge each other’s choices. |
F.However, friendships require attention and care. |
G.It’s also important that we’re able to recognize when we make mistakes. |
【推荐2】There was once a boy called Mario who loved to have lots of friends at school. However, he wasn’t sure whether or not his classmates were his true friends, so he asked his grandpa. The old man answered, “I have just exactly what you need; it’s in the attic(阁楼). Wait here for a minute.”
Grandpa left, soon returning as though carrying something in his hand but Mario could see nothing there. “Take it. It’s a very special chair. Because it’s invisible, it’s rather difficult to sit on, but if you take it to school and you manage to sit on it, you’ll be able to tell who your true friends are.”
Mario took the strange invisible chair and went to school. At break time he asked everyone to form a circle, and he put himself in the middle, with his chair. “You’re about to see something amazing,” Mario said.
Then Mario tried sitting on the chair. He missed and fell straight onto his backside. Everyone had a pretty good laugh. Mario wouldn’t be beaten. He kept trying to sit on the magic chair, and kept falling to the ground — until, suddenly, he tried again and didn’t fall. This time he sat, hovering(悬停) in mid-air.
Looking around, Mario saw George, Lucas, and Diana — three of his best friends — holding him up, so he didn’t fall. At the same time, many others he had thought of as friends were doing nothing but make fun of him, enjoying each and every fall.
Leaving with his three friends, he came to understand what a true friend is.
1. The chair is “invisible”, which means ________.A.the chair is expensive |
B.it is an ordinary chair |
C.we can’t see it with our eyes |
D.the chair will be broken when we sit on it |
A.To see whether Mario could sit on it. |
B.To test who Mario’s true friends were. |
C.To let Mario have fun with his classmates. |
D.To test whether Mario did well at school. |
A.He saw the invisible chair suddenly. |
B.He managed to sit on the chair finally. |
C.His classmates gave him a chair to sit on. |
D.His friends held him up to steady him. |
A.Never laugh at our friends. |
B.Friends can help us do magic. |
C.Having too many friends isn’t a good thing. |
D.True friends are those who care about us when we are in trouble. |
【推荐3】During teenage years, friendships are important for several reasons. Teenagers typically spend more time with their peers than they do with their parents, siblings (兄弟姐妹) or other social contacts.
Healthy friendships help teenagers feel accepted and confident and can pave the way for the development of other positive social ties.
Teenage years are often stressful.
Friends also share fun and excitement. Friendships help teenagers find healthy ways to have fun outside of home, school and work.
A.Therefore, friends influence many aspects of a teenager’s life. |
B.With unhealthy influences, a teenager may show negative behavior. |
C.Friendships work in both positive and negative ways in a teenager’s life. |
D.Having true friends is important in helping teenagers deal with the stress and uncertainty. |
E.Friends can be positive influences in the social and personal aspects of a teenager’s life. |
F.Through discussions and observations, teenagers form their own views and identities. |
G.Feeling confident and feeling accepted are necessary to a teen’s social and emotional development. |
【推荐1】By the year 2050, Earth’s population is expected to reach nearly 10 billion people. With this growth comes a surprising demand for food resources. To find an effective way, to deal with the global food safety crisis, Enter X, Alphabet Inc launched Project Mineral, which focuses on “computational agriculture”, a term to describe new technologies that will further in- crease understanding about the plant world.
Can a machine be taught to understand the plant world? After years of work, Project Mineral leader Elliot Grant and his team’s latest prototype(原型)—a plant-scanning robot-will turn up at the Smithsonian’s “Futures” exhibition later this year. The four-wheeled plant robot, about as tall as a shipping container and as wide as a car, uses different cameras and other technology to monitor and find possible problems with plants.
As it rolls through the farmland, it can identify weeds, and measure the ripeness of fruits. The Mineral robot can become taller to take pictures of wheat plants, or widen to scan a broad bed of crops. What’s more, when the robot meets with different situations out in the field, it can accurately identify specific crops, traits or diseases.
Mineral has partnered with a farmer in the Philippines who is helping the team study diseases in bananas. Images of diseased bananas will be used to teach the robot how to detect diseases.
The robot also takes pictures of flowers and then uses the machine learning model to count a plant’s flowering speed, which is important to understand how a plant responds to its environment and predict the yields. Besides, the robot can measure all kinds of leaf sizes and detect greenness.
Though the robot has come a long way from its origin, it’s still a prototype, Mineral stresses that they’re constantly improving and working closely with experts in the agricultural field to understand plants further.
1. What is the purpose of Project Mineral?A.To fight the global food safety crisis. |
B.To find solutions to crop diseases. |
C.To improve a plant-scanning robot. |
D.To solve the population problems. |
A.It powers itself. |
B.It moves with legs. |
C.It looks like a ship. |
D.It can adjust itself. |
A.Grow plants on its own. |
B.Help fight insects. |
C.Detect crop diseases. |
D.Remove bad fruits. |
A.By observing the ripeness of fruits. |
B.By calculating how fast plants flower. |
C.By analyzing the shape of plants’ leaves. |
D.By analyzing images of diseased plants. |
【推荐2】CBC is a famous air company which has over twenty planes carrying passengers and goods, flying along 12 fixed lines all over the world. Its service is very good but some passengers are still not satisfied with it and that is why in 2003 and 2004 the company received letters of complaints from consumers or passengers who pointed out over a dozen kinds of problems which are divided in groups in the following table. Those about passengers’ things carried by the plane are Baggage problems. Customer service refers to service work with passengers are not satisfied with. Over -sales of seats are about the fact that more seats are sold and as a result the plane is too crowded to be safe. Refund problems appear when passengers fail to receive the money paid back to them because of what they have lost. Fares are problems about the price of tickets.
Consumer Complaints Received By the CBC
Category(种类) | 2003 | 2004 |
Flight problems | 20.2% | 22.1% |
Baggage | 18.3% | 21.8% |
Customer service | 3.1% | 11.3% |
Over-sales of seats | 10.5% | 11.8% |
Refund problems | 10.1% | 8.1% |
Fares | 6.4% | 6.0% |
Reservation & Ticketing | 5.8% | 5.6% |
Tours | 3.3% | 2.3% |
Smoking | 3.2% | 2.9% |
Advertising | 1.2% | 1.01% |
Credit | 1.0% | 0.8% |
Special passengers | 0.9% | 0.9% |
Others | 6.0% | 5.3% |
Total Number of Complaints | 2,988 | 1,792 |
1. About how many complaints about Credit were received by the CBC in 2003?
A.28 | B.29 | C.30 | D.31 |
A.40% | B.60% | C.75% | D.100% |
A. | B. |
C. | D. |
a. In 2003 and in 2004, complaints about Flight problem, Baggage, and Customer service
together took about 50 percent of all consumer complaints received by the CBC Company.
b. The number of special passengers complaints was unchanged from 2003 to 2004.
c. From 2003 to 2004 the number of Flight problem complaints increased by more than 2 percent.
A.only a | B.only b | C.a and b | D.a and c |
A.customers are not satisfied with CBC |
B.sometimes CBC sells more tickets than its plane’s fixed seats |
C.CBC has more than twenty planes which fly to all the capital cities of the world |
D.customers can only buy tickets with ready money |
【推荐3】Coral reefs(珊瑚礁)as underwater walls can help reduce the effects of hurricanes on coastal communities. This seems unbelievable. It is reported that scientists have discovered that coral reefs are even more effective than man-made sea walls under the water. However, coral reefs are especially easy to be influenced by climate change. Overfishing and pollution have also proved very dangerous to them. Since 1950, half of the world’s coral reefs have already been lost. To protect our communities and keep sea ecosystems alive, we need to protect coral reefs right away.
Let’s take a closer look at how coral reefs protect us from floods, and how scientists are restoring (修复) reefs.
The roles that coral reefs play as underwater walls have long been recorded by scientists. During a Category 3 hurricane in 2015 in Australia, the coral reefs effectively protected the eastern shoreline from flooding. In contrast, the western coasts without coral reefs suffered serious damage. The researchers observed that the shape of coral reefs can break the approaching waves. More recently, researchers at the University of Miami have reached the same conclusion. They used a special lab simulator to recreate ocean conditions during a Category 5 hurricane. They found that coral reefs could reduce the impact of waves by up to 95 percent!
Because of higher ocean acidity (酸 性) and temperature, coral reefs are disappearing and dying out. At the same time, climate change puts weakened coral reefs under more stress. The University of Miami researchers are testing to plant new coral reefs while others are actively looking for effective methods to reduce the acidity of sea water. The governments have also paid more attention to these actions and provided enough money for reef restoration. With these efforts, we may address climate threats to coral reefs and they can carry on protecting our communities.
1. What can we know about coral reefs?A.They can reduce hurricanes. |
B.They are faced with danger now. |
C.They can’t effectively prevent floods. |
D.They aren’t influenced by overfishing. |
A.A terrible hurricane attacked Australia in 2015. |
B.Scientists paid little attention to coral reefs before. |
C.Coral reefs could reduce the impact of waves to 95%. |
D.The eastern coasts of Australia were damaged seriously. |
A.Coral reefs may disappear. | B.Coral reefs will be ignored. |
C.More coral reefs may appear | D.Few coral reefs will be planted. |
A.To introduce the growth of coral reefs. |
B.To explain the functions of coral reefs. |
C.To encourage people to plant more coral reefs. |
D.To stress the importance of protecting coral reefs. |