Moving back in with your parents as an adult isn’t an easy decision, but sometimes it’s necessary. Maybe it’s convenient. Maybe you’re going through a tough time and need extra support from your parents.
Create your exit plan. After settling into your parents’ house, make a plan for how and when you hope to move out. Your parents will probably want to know how long you intend to stay.
Set boundaries. While living with your parents, be sure to set boundaries. It’s a powerful tool that fosters an environment of respect and understanding. Maintain your privacy by asking your parents to knock before entering your room. Keep your parents out of your private life.
Maintain your routine. If you are having trouble setting boundaries, create a routine to help you get out of the house, especially if you work from home and your parents are retired.
A.Be kind to your parents. |
B.Contribute to the household. |
C.Don’t forget that your parents have boundaries too. |
D.And a plan may motivate you to keep reaching your goals. |
E.Having that much family time can be a hotbed of conflict. |
F.When living with family, it can be hard to find private moments. |
G.Whatever the reason, it can be a challenge for everyone involved. |
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【推荐1】In some countries, many families are choosing camping as an affordable way to vacation due to the cost-of-living crisis (危机).
Camping needs careful planning. Making a detailed list of what to bring ensures nothing important is forgotten. It is advised to pack light and easy-to-set-up tents (帐篷). It’s also important to choose equipment suitable for the season. For families, bringing comfort items like favorite books or toys can make the new environment more welcoming for kids.
Camping is more than just setting up a tent.
All in all, camping is a fantastic way to enjoy the outdoors and spend quality time with family.
A.Use the experience to teach life skills. |
B.Camping should be an enjoyable adventure. |
C.It also includes preparing and planning meals. |
D.Allow the kids to take part in planning process. |
E.Since children can get untidy, packing extra clothes is necessary. |
F.With the right preparation and attitude, it can be an unforgettable experience. |
G.However, for first-time campers, especially those with kids, the experience can be challenging. |
【推荐2】You’ve heard it many times: first impressions are lasting. When an important first impression ends up with failure, this warning can feel like a death sentence.
Firstly, there is no need to blame yourself. Actually, everyone makes mistakes, and, at some point in their life, everyone says or does something they wish they hadn’t.
Honestly admitting the mistake and apologizing for it are the best choice. You can apologize in a formal language like, “I am sorry, but I didn’t mean to do that.”
What’s the most important is that you learn from your mistakes and avoid making them again. And make sure you won’t behave in a similar manner again.
A.Don’t pretend you’re good friends. |
B.The good news is that you can recover from a first impression failure. |
C.Sometimes, it is difficult to apologize face to face. |
D.Avoid trying to change what has been said. |
E.Your action is the best evidence that you’re not the person you used to be. |
F.If you focus too much on your mistakes, you may make the situation worse. |
G.Besides, if you’re trying to recover from a bad first impression, then humor will be an important tool. |
【推荐3】 We all know how important it is to keep our bodies fit by keeping active and maintaining a regular exercise routine.
Massage (按摩) your eyes. Easy to do, massage is a common treatment to relieve tension or stress.
Work out the eyes.
Palm (手掌) your eyes.
Anyway, take a break and perform these exercises will refresh your eyes.
A.Look outside. |
B.Blink more. |
C.But our eyes need exercise as well. |
D.It can be done very simply. |
E.Practicing zooming with your eyes is highly suggested. |
F.You can draw circles with your eyes. |
G.It helps to improve blood circulation (循环) around your eyes. |
【推荐1】An important part of raising your children is teaching them good manners as it helps them be more successful in life.
Saying “thank you” to service workers
Saying “thank you” is the base of all good manners but these days many children overlook thanking the people that help them in many little ways each day, like wait staff, store clerks, and bus drivers. It’s not just about politeness but about teaching children to recognize and acknowledge others’ contributions as valuable.
Taking turns talking
Teach your children to touch your arm and then wait patiently for you to acknowledge(理会)them before speaking. If they do interrupt, calmly tell them it’s rude to interrupt and let them know you’ll acknowledge them shortly.
Using their indoor voices
Covering a cough or sneeze
These days it’s more important than ever to teach children to cough or sneeze into a tissue or their elbow. It’s not just a matter of hygiene(卫生)——no one enjoys getting sprayed.
A.Remember it goes both ways. |
B.Therefore it makes others feel cared about. |
C.Games are very important for children’s good manners. |
D.Crying, laughing, or just talking, children can be very loud. |
E.Lacking basic manners will affect kids in all areas of their lives. |
F.It is also a way to help others feel safe and comfortable around you. |
G.Eventually it’s about teaching them not to treat others as their servants. |
【推荐2】An eight-year-old child heard her parents talking about her little brother. All she knew was that he was very sick and they had no money. Only very expensive operation could save him now and there was no one to lend them the money.
When she heard her daddy say to her tearful mother, “Only a miracle (something couldn’t happen) can save him now,” the little girl went to her bedroom and pulled her money from its hiding place and counted it carefully.
She hurried to a drugstore (药店) with the money in her hand.
“And what do you want?” asked the salesman. “It’s for my little brother,” the girl answered. “He’s really, really sick and I want to buy a miracle.” “Pardon?” said the salesman.
“My brother Andrew has something bad growing in-side his head and my daddy says only a miracle can save him. So how much does a miracle cost?” “We don’t sell a miracle here, child. I’m sorry,” the salesman said with a smile.
“Listen, if it isn’t enough, I can try and get some more. Just tell me how much it costs.”
A well-dressed man heard it and asked, “What kind of a miracle does your brother need?” “I don’t know,” she answered with her eyes full of tears. “He’s really sick and mum says he needs an operation. But my daddy can’t pay for it, so I have brought all my money.”
“How much do you have?” asked the man. “$1.11, but I can try and get some more,” she answered.
“Well, what luck,” smiled the man. “$1.11, the price of a miracle for little brothers.”
He took up the girl’s hand and said, “Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let’s see if I have the kind of miracle you need.”
That well-dressed man was Dr Carlton Armstrong, a famous doctor. The operation was successful and it wasn’t long before Andrew was home again.
How much did the miracle cost?
1. In the eye of the girl, a miracle might be ________.A.something interesting |
B.something beautiful |
C.some wonderful medicine |
D.some good food |
A.The girl’s love for her brother. | B.The girl’s money |
C.The medicine from the drugstore. | D.Nobody can tell. |
A.The doctor didn’t ask for any pay |
B.A miracle is sure to happen if you keep on |
C.The little girl is lovely but not so clever |
D.Andrew was in fact not so sick as they had thought. |
【推荐3】Helping a stranger can be easier than advising someone we’ve known forever. When friends and family ask for advice, it is more complicated.
You can’t always give advice right now. Texts and FaceTime might be immediate, but your advice doesn’t have to be. You can politely explain to someone that you want to give them your full attention when you’re ready.
You don’t have to fix the problem. People who ask “What should I do?” often want to process a problem themselves.
Pay attention to patterns. When you’ve known someone for years, you’re a witness to their patterns and repeated mistakes. Instead of saying, “Ugh, you’ve said this 15, 000 times,” you can ask questions. “What do you think that means?” or “
A.Body language matters. |
B.Listen to them carefully. |
C.What’s wrong with you? |
D.What has worked for you before? |
E.Otherwise, you can do more harm than good. |
F.If we don’t get it right, we could hurt someone we love. |
G.You’re giving good advice if you can help them get there on their own. |