It’s not easy being a teenager nor is it easy being the parent of a teenager. You can make your child feel angry, hurt or misunderstood by what you say without realizing it yourself. It is important to give your child the space he needs to grow while gently letting him know that you’ll still be there for him when he needs you.
Expect a lot from your child, just not everything. Except for health and safety problems, such as drug use or careless driving, consider everything else open to discussion. If your child is unwilling to discuss something, don’t insist he tell you what’s on his mind. The more you insist, the more likely that he’ll calm up. Instead, let him try to solve things by himself. At the same time, remind him that you’re always there for him if he seeks advice or help. Show respect for your teenager’s privacy(隐私). Never read his mail or listen in on personal conversations.
Teach your teenager that the family phone is for the whole family. If your child talks on the family’s telephone for too long, tell him he can talk for l5 minutes, but then he must stay off the phone for at least all equal period of time. This not only frees up the line so that other family members can make and receive calls, but teaches your teenager moderation(节制). Or if you are open to the idea, allow your teenager his own phone that he pays for with his own pocket money or a part-time job.
1. The main purpose of the text is to tell parents .A.how to get along with a teenager |
B.how to respect a teenager |
C.how to help a teenager grow up |
D.how to understand a teenager |
A.become excited | B.show respect |
C.refuse to talk | D.seek help |
A.to use the phone in a proper way |
B.to pay for his own telephone |
C.to share the phone with friends |
D.to answer the phone quickly |
A.Not allow him to learn driving or take drugs. |
B.Give him advice only when necessary. |
C.Let him have his own telephone. |
D.Not talk about personal things with him. |
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【推荐1】Many of our family traditions centered around food. We’d gather in the kitchen for every birthday and holiday and enjoy delicious food. My grandparents always held Christmas dinner, which included chicken cacciatore, sausage, meatballs and salad. But right before we sat down to eat, my grandmother would pull me aside to show me the dish she made just for me: fresh pasta (意大利面) with tomato sauce.
It was a simple dish, but to me it was warm food that filled me with happiness. But more than that, it made me feel like I belonged. I was a shy kid and, in many situations, I felt ignored. And here was my grandmother, showing me that I mattered.
Years went by; I moved away and got married. I’d visit throughout the years and my grandmother would serve up a plate of pasta.
When my daughter was born in 2020, for the first time in my life I wasn’t about to make the trip back home for Christmas. I cooked my family’s traditional foods and my husband and I had a big meal that included, of course, fresh pasta. I had a video call with my grandmother and showed her the pasta. Shortly after the holidays she passed away unexpectedly.
It seemed so unfair that my grandmother passed away soon after I became a parent. I’d hold my daughter and think about how I could tell her what an amazing great-grandmother she had.
In my sadness I came to an answer: food. Late at night after my daughter had gone to bed, I’d go to the kitchen and learn how to make fresh pasta, cooking my grandmother’s recipes. Before long I started experimenting, making a bit changes to classic recipes. When my daughter got a little older, I began making special dishes for her with my grandmother’s flavors in mind.
I know that no matter how hard I try, my daughter will never have a bowl pasta with sauce exactly like the ones my grandmother would make for me. While that makes me sad, she’ll still get to have my pasta sauce. I know there’re two things she’ll never lack for in this life: pasta and love.
1. What did the author say about her grandmother’s homemade pasta?A.It was a special birthday gift for her. | B.It brought her a sense of belonging. |
C.It was loved by every family member. | D.It took a lot of time and energy to prepare. |
A.She didn’t share pasta with her husband. |
B.She didn’t give her grandmother a call. |
C.She didn’t prepare many traditional family foods. |
D.She didn’t have a chance to eat her grandmother’s pasta. |
A.To honour her grandmother. | B.To give her daughter a surprise. |
C.To meet her grandmother’s wish. | D.To be a role model for her daughter. |
A.It isn’t easy to make. | B.It isn’t to her daughter’s liking. |
C.It tastes exactly the same as her grandmother’s. | D.It shows her love for her daughter. |
A.Different types of pasta | B.The origin of pasta |
C.Love through pasta | D.Pasta for Christmas |
【推荐2】I promised to myself on the way down to the vacation beach cottage. For two weeks I would try to be a loving husband and father. Totally loving. No ifs, ands or buts.
The idea had occurred to me as I listened to a talk on my car radio. The speaker was reading a passage about husbands being thoughtful of their wives. Then he went on to say, “Love is an act of will. A person can choose to love.” To myself, I had to admit that I had been a selfish husband. Well, for two weeks that would change.
And it did. Right from the moment I kissed Evelyn at the doctor and said, “That new yellow sweater looks good on you.”
“Oh, Tom, you noticed,” she said, surprised and pleased. Maybe a little puzzled.
After the long drive, I wanted to sit and read. Evelyn suggested a walk on the beach. I started to refuse, but then I changed my mind. We walked on the beach while the children flew their kites.
So it went. Two weeks of not calling the Wall Street firm; a visit to the shell museum though I usually hate museums. Relaxed and happy, that’s how the whole vacation passed.
There was one thing that went wrong with my experiment, however. On the last night at our cottage, Evelyn stared at me with the saddest expression.
“What’s the matter?” I asked her.
“Tom,” she said in a voice filled with distress, “do you know something I don’t?”
“What do you mean?”
“Well… that checkup I had several weeks ago… our doctor… did he tell you something about me? Tom, you’ve been so good to me… am I dying?”
It took a moment for it all to sink in. Then I burst out laughing.
“No, honey,” I said, wrapping her in my arms. “You’re not dying; I’m just starting to live.”
1. What do”No ifs, ands or buts”in Paragraph 1 probably mean?A.Unnecessarily. | B.Unexpectedly. |
C.Impossibly. | D.Unconditionally. |
A.Evelyn looked lovely in her sweater. |
B.Evelyn suffered a deadly disease. |
C.He regretted about his past behaviors. |
D.He had made lots of money in Wall Street. |
A.Tom thought Evelyn’s words were funny. |
B.It took Tom a while to understand Evelyn’s words. |
C.Tom’s heart sank suddenly on hearing Evelyn’s words. |
D.Tom tried to prevent Evelyn knowing the truth about her illness. |
A.Relaxed and happy. | B.Pleased and grateful. |
C.Pleased but sorrowful. | D.Surprised but pleased. |
【推荐3】My sister and I spent our childhoods in a small north-British town, where nature’s riches made up for noise of a big city. We spent our time playing outdoor games - hide-and-seek was our favourite. Eating out was unheard of then; neither were expensive birthday parties. Special treats were reserved for Sundays, festivals and birthdays.
We were living a life where we cared and looked out for each other at the same time. Mom worked hard at her job from morning till evening. Even though we went through tough times, providing my sister and me with the best possible education remained a big priority for our mother, which meant most of her hard-earned money was spent paying our school fees. We were always careful and financially struggling, but somehow we always felt a sense of satisfaction in our lives.
Life for us moved at this easy, contented pace until, of course, our birthdays approached. When it drew near, there would be an air of expectation and tense excitement. Honestly, I did look forward to the gifts. I imagined sharing Mom’s handmade chocolates wrapped in shiny, colorful paper, with my classmates. Fifteen minutes before lunch, our teacher would allow us to distribute the candies. And out came the box from its hiding place under my books - and with a smile on my face and a happy heart, I would hand over two chocolates each to my friends. Then, I would rush out of the room just to admire the pleasure of hearing them open up the wrappers and taste the mouth-watering chocolates in pure delight. They would then ask me if there were a few more of these delicacies(美味) until I ran out of these treats entirely.
The years passed by, and my mother settled into a peaceful, retired life, while my sister and I married and had families and children of our own. Yet, the memory and delightful flavor of those gift-wrapped, handmade and unforgettable chocolates were still a hit among us sisters. This memory will stay with us forever.
1. What can we learn about their childhood?A.They lived a simple but full life together. |
B.The mother couldn’t afford her kids’ education. |
C.They were guilty about their background. |
D.They always got gifts from classmates on birthdays. |
A.A good chance. | B.A top task. | C.A major fault. | D.A great joy. |
A.Unattractive. | B.Tasteless. | C.Expensive. | D.Pleasant. |
A.Delicate wrap and words. |
B.Special colors and recipes. |
C.Mother’s affection and devotion. |
D.Pleasure from sharing with others. |
【推荐1】Perhaps you know them as “taters”, “spuds”, or “Kennebees”, or as “chips”, “Idahoes”, or even “shoestrings”. No matter, a potato by any other name is still a potato — the world’s most widely grown vegetable. As a matter of fact, if you are an average potato eater, you will put away at least 100 pounds of them each year.
That’s only a tiny amount grown every year, however. Worldwide, the annual potato harvest is over 6 billion bags. Each bag contains 100 pounds of potatoes, some of them as large as four pounds each. Here in the United States, farmers fill about 400 million bags a year. That may seem like a lot of “taters”, but it leaves the United States a distant third among world potato growers. Polish farmers dig up just over 800 million bags a year, while the Russians lead the world with nearly 1.5 billion bags.
People eat potatoes in many ways-baked, mashed, and roasted, to name just three. However, in the United States most potatoes are devoured in the form of French fries. One fast-food chain alone sells more than $1 billion worth of fries each year. No wonder, then, that the company pays particular attention to the way its fries are prepared.
Before any fry makes it to the people who eat at these popular restaurants, it must pass many separate tests. Fail any one of these tests and the potato is rejected. For example, only Russet Burbank potatoes are used. These Idaho potatoes have less water content than other kinds, which can have as much as 80 percent water. Once cut into “shoestrings” shapes, the potatoes are partly fried in a secret blend of oils, sprayed with liquid sugar to brown them, steam dried at high heat, then flash frozen for shipment to individual restaurants.
So, now that you realize the enormous size and value of the potato crop, you can understand why most people agree that this part of the food industry is no “small potatoes”.
1. What can we learn from the passage about potato?A.One potato can weigh 4 pounds. |
B.Taters don’t belong to the category of potato. |
C.Potato lovers eat 100 pounds of potato every day. |
D.Polish farmers harvest the most potatoes in the world. |
A.consumed | B.planted | C.produced | D.harvested |
A.By making comparison. | B.By listing figures. |
C.By providing examples. | D.By following the order of space. |
A.Potatoes are disliked by many people. | B.Potatoes have experienced many changes. |
C.Potatoes have been made into different food. | D.Potatoes are small, but the industry is large. |
【推荐2】You’re either a lurker, a geek, an. Internet celebrity or a victim. That’s according to scientists who claim that we fall into one of four online personalities when using sites such as Facebook and Twitter.
And according to their research, more young people are choosing to be “lurkers” and “geeks” by reducing what they share online in an effort to avoid being a “victim”.
The geek has high participation but low visibility; the Internet celeb has high participation and high visibility; the victim with low participation but high visibility; and the lurker who has low participation and low visibility.
The “lurker” is described as someone who avoids argument in public forums and prefers closed group chats. They are also prone to stalking their favourite music bands online.
The “geek” meanwhile, uses invisibility to anonymously share and promote their amateur media creations online , such as music videos or fan fiction writing. The academics described how the geeks’ long hours of labour on projects risked parental concern that their behaviour was obsessive or addictive.
“While there has been a lot of negative media coverage around teenagers’ interaction with social media, our findings are more hopeful that teenagers are responsible users of social media, are very conscious of the dangers and make considerable efforts to protect themselves against those risks,” said Dr Berriman.
The highly visible victim can be a consequence of being part of the fourth group — the Internet celeb. The “Internet celeb” is fuelled by a desire to make a living from social media and offers complete transparency into their lives through vlogs or other social media platforms. These people are highly active and highly visible and, if they are not careful, can result in victimisation.
Professor Rachel Thomson said, “What is distinctive about these active social media users was the entrepreneurial character of their practice , with ‘play’ reenvisaged as a form of economically rewarding work. By gaining an audience, young people are aware that they could capture advertising and corporate sponsorship. The dream is to ‘go viral’, establishing a career as a cultural creator.
1. Which online personalities share less but highly visible?A.The geek. | B.The victim. |
C.The lurker. | D.The Internet celeb. |
A.They prefer online music bands. | B.They share online fan fiction writing. |
C.They keep silent in public forums. | D.They promote music videos online. |
A.They use social media to help others out of trouble. |
B.They shoulder the responsibilities for cyber bullying. |
C.They keep themselves away from negative media coverage. |
D.They take measures to free themselves of danger. |
A.They use social media to receive economic records. |
B.They live their life on social media platforms. |
C.They play for fun together with their audience. |
D.They are usually victims of the Internet. |
【推荐3】Dogs are considered by many to be man’s best friend and with millions of dogs owned by families in the US, it is highly likely that many dogs are in need of some amount of training. Since dogs can hear sounds at much higher frequencies (频率) than humans, there is a wonderful tool for the training of a dog. It is an app (应用程序) called the Dog Whistle. This isn’t your typical whistle in that it produces sounds at a frequency that is unable to be heard by humans. This unique app will allow you to train your dog without the need of a dog whistle.
The Dog Whistle free app was created by an app developer Maoli Wang specifically for dog owners who are looking for a way to communicate with their dogs in order to be able to either train them or alert (使警觉) them when the noise around is too great for them to hear you call them. By simply fixing the app on your iPhone, it will immediately turn itself into a dog whistle.
The app includes a very powerful system that is able to create different tones ranging from 16,000 to 40,000 Hz in order for a dog to be able to hear it. The app also has an on-screen sound meter in order for the user to monitor the sound level being produced. In that way, they can decide on which frequency works best for their dog. What’s more, the app easily produces the requested tones at the frequencies necessary to be used to communicate with your dog by simply tapping the screen of your phone.
The app was designed to be used in place of a dog whistle in order to get your dogs attention when it is too noisy around them. The sound produced through the app is at a level that only dogs are able to hear and they will respond to the sound. If you own a dog and are having behavioral issues with them, you would surely benefit from the Dog Whistle free app available by clicking here.
1. What is the development of the app based on according to the first paragraph?A.Dogs’ good hearing. | B.People’s love for dogs. |
C.The use of smart phones. | D.Dog owner’s interest in training. |
A.It records the ways the dog responds to sounds. |
B.It produces beautiful sounds that interest the dog. |
C.It produces whistles at a frequency intended for the dog. |
D.It suggests a proper way to communicate with the dog. |
A.In a strange situation. | B.In a noisy situation. |
C.In an unsafe situation. | D.In a difficult situation. |
A.magazine | B.newspaper | C.website | D.radio |
【推荐1】There was a time when both literature and the study of literature came under the delightful belles lettres-beautiful letters. When the phrase was introduced in the 18th century, literature was considered, at its best, beautiful. Devotees tried to reproduce that beauty in their response to it.
Modernism was a turning point, when literature became more alienated and combative (好斗的) with respect to society. American literature, with its powerful, democratic associations, contributed to the change. Belles lettres seemed too elitist to describe early-20th century writing. The superiority of belles lettres was further undermined by the rise of science as civilization's potential savior. Science was necessary to defend democracy, first during World War II and then during the Cold War. Now, it is the means of moving ahead in a competitive, technological society. Who has time for beauty when there is serious work to be done?
The death knell (丧钟) for belles lettres came with a 1959 lecture by the scientist and novelist C.P. Snow, “The Two Cultures and the Scientific Revolution.”Snow seemed to call for cooperation between science and the humanities, but he was really criticizing the scientific illiteracy of writers and critics who, unlike him, didn't happen to be scientists as well. The problem is that science and the humanities are inherently incommensurate fields. Science builds on its discoveries. It moves forward, so that the past is the literal foundation for the present and future. Literature does not move forward in this way. One need not read Shakespeare to write a play or a poem. By the same token Shakespeare is as relevant today as he was when he wrote.
The simple truth that progress is central to science but not to the humanities is difficult to grasp for people who seek improvement in every walk of life. It fuels the drive to make the humanities scientific-through the use of technical jargon (术语) , general theories about social texts, and quantitative tools to analyze word choice, sentence structure and other aspects of literature.
When the humanities give up their mission and seek shelter from progress, they become dangerous companion to ideological agendas. Students come to feel there is a definitive, “virtuous”reading of an event or a text; they criticize great authors of the past based on the standards of the present. They create a climate that arouses opposition from those who feel excluded or offended by such thinking but who lack the humanistic training to do more than fight back.
We need to be skeptical of beauty and its relationship to truth, but we also need to see truth as beautiful, and to look with skepticism upon the products of a culture that speak to us in ugly, pseudoscientific (伪科学的) ways.
1. In the author's opinion, which of the following statements might C. P. Snow agree with?A.Cooperation determines the progress of civilization. |
B.We don't actually need literature and art. |
C.We need the humanities as much as science. |
D.A writer who doesn't know science is undesirable. |
A.unable to affect and promote each other. |
B.unable to be judged by the same standard. |
C.related and unable to be totally separated. |
D.mutually exclusive and independent. |
A.To promote civilization of the past. | B.To encourage openness and tolerance. |
C.To cultivate the skeptical mind. | D.To create a climate without criticism. |
A.Call for due attention to the humanities. |
B.Regret about the death of belles Jetties. |
C.Challenge to the cooperation between art and science. |
D.Criticism on progressives' control of the humanities. |
【推荐2】Role of Mass Media in Education
In today’s advanced world, where everything is changing at lightning speed, mass media plays an important role.
Universal reach
Mass media has connected people like never before. Education is something which aims to have a universal reach. Mass media has helped to bridge that gap enormously.
Storage of information
Mass media allows storing information which can be accessed from anywhere at any time. It is literally accessible, at our fingertips, which saves a lot of time and energy.
No physical restrictions
Fruitful results
Another huge advantage of current technological innovations in mass media is the increased memory capability of students. Many scientific pieces of research have proven that delivering lectures via an audio-visual format (视听格式) is quite effective.
A.This results in the reduction of false information. |
B.That being said, education is also advancing day by day. |
C.Therefore, it serves as a rather useful resource in the field of education. |
D.One of the major disadvantages before mass media was a physical restriction. |
E.Mass media consists of the tools used for communicating information and ideas. |
F.In other words, it is now within everyone’s reach and making the world a better place. |
G.It has a more positive impact on the memory power of the brain than an audio lecture. |
【推荐3】The ranking of universities and colleges at the national global level is a well-known doubtful practice. Imperfect approaches generate inaccurate results of these institutions. Nowadays, prestigious (有威望的) law and medical schools have started to walk away from this “evaluation”.
There are two obvious methodological problems with all of this. One is that the numerical rankings suffer from false precision. Is there really a difference between No.10 and No.11 in the undergraduate (本科生) school rankings? Johns Hopkins University famously had a plan called“10 by 20”with the goal of getting to No.10 by 2020. Hopkins is a great undergraduate institution — whether it’s No.10 or No.11 is meaningless, but it did indeed make it into the top 10 ahead of schedule, which no doubt delighted its trustees and students.
The other methodological problem is that rankings reward those schools that promote measurements by admitting students who have had the advantages of better pre-college education and test preparation coaching, and whose wealth will make them likely future donors. Equally worthy applicants without such resources will fail to enter the schools.
The good news is that in recent months, a reckoning (清算) has begun. Last September, Columbia University chose not to participate in the undergraduate rankings after an enterprising professor discovered that the school was fudging its own numbers. If Columbia’s data were corrected, it would drop from No. 2 to No. 18. Two months later, law schools began pushing back. Yale and Harvard Law Schools announced that they would refuse to provide data to U. S. News, and several outstanding law schools followed suit.
This resistance to rankings has now begun in the world of science. This is a great sign. In announcing its decision, the dean of Washington University’s medical school said, “…it is time to stop participating in a system that does not serve our students or their future patients.”
1. Why does the author mention Johns Hopkins University?A.To share an experience. | B.To give specific example. |
C.To make a detailed comparison. | D.To illustrate a complicated concept. |
A.Its data was not based on facts. |
B.It was left behind by other universities. |
C.It didn’t think the system served their students. |
D.Other universities chose to refuse to participate in the rankings. |
A.Objective. | B.Indifferent. | C.Supportive. | D.Opposed. |
A.Resistance to Educational Rankings |
B.The Ranking of Universities and Colleges |
C.Educational Rankings: Scientific or Imperfect |
D.Reasons for Universities’ Refusal of Rankings |