“Not only is it okay to not feel ‘okay’. it is essential.” Dr. Zuckerman, a licensed clinical psychologist, said. So crying after you get into a fight with your partner is also normal. as is feeling anxious and scared about an uncertain future. When we think we might lose something we care about, that’s sad.
You may feel you’re being supportive by sending positive affirmations to a friend who is going through a difficult time.
When you’re lending an car to someone in distress, Dr. Zuckerman suggests avoiding phrases like: It’ll be fine.
Feel your feelings. Sit with them. Let them pass.
A.Just smile, stop worrying! |
B.You should feel whatever emotions you want to. |
C.When we don’t know what to expect next, that’s scary. |
D.By hiding our discomfort, we’re only adding fuel to fire. |
E.Never feel ashamed or embarrassed of being sad and afraid. |
F.But in reality, you may be invalidating their feelings and harming them. |
G.And allow others ride the wave of whatever emotions they’re feeling too. |
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Recently, I carried out an investigation to discover what it was that prevented people from journalling.
Let’s say you’ re new to journalling. By setting aside five minutes out of your day, you could write one word in your notebook that sums up a feeling or an experience.
A.Next, divide the rest of the circle into eight equal parts. |
B.It is the brainchild of international bestselling writer SARK. |
C.There are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to journalling. |
D.Where to start and not having enough time were amongst the top responses. |
E.Daily tasks such as sweeping and washing are time-consuming and laborious. |
F.Then, list any associated words, images or thoughts that are generated by the word. |
G.The medicine with this approach is breaking your actions down into the tiniest steps. |
【推荐2】How do parents teach children about money? How do you teach them to get rich? Likely, you do not have an answer because you would not call yourself rich.
You deserve to have wealth.
This statement could be read as arrogant (傲慢的), when in fact it comes from a place of humbleness. Self-made millionaires teach their children that they deserve to be rich not because they were born into the right family but because they work hard to solve other people’s problems.
Having money gets rid of tons of the issues which people find themselves in when they do not have it. Not happy with your current living situation? You can pack up and leave. Do you hate your job? Why not start your own business? Upset about a global disaster? Donate what you can to the cause. Money allows you to enjoy life on your own terms.
Nothing is guaranteed.
Solve problems to earn your wealth.
In a free market economy, everyone is looking for a way to make money. If you come up with an idea to solve the world’s problem, there will be a demand for it. The bigger the problem, the more difficulty you might have getting it off the ground.
A.Wealth leads to freedom. |
B.Even the blind can see money. |
C.But it could also make you very rich. |
D.How do the rich approach this question? |
E.When do you start teaching your children about money? |
F.Having wealth allows you to do something for others to earn your place. |
G.A big lesson self-made millionaires teach their kids is that the world owes them nothing. |
【推荐3】Classic literature (文学作品) includes older works that have experienced the test of time and that are still widely read today. Whether you’re a student or just an eager reader hoping to explore classic literature, you may be wondering where to begin.
Read summaries of what the work is about. You can find descriptions or summaries of classic works of literature online.
If you’re trying to gain a better understanding of a difficult text, underlining passages may not be enough. Instead, try making comments or notes in the margins (页边空白).
After you finish a chapter, write a brief summary of everything important that happened. Make sure you address the major plot points, how those points influence each character, and how that chapter fits into the context of the larger book.
After you finish reading a book, it may be useful to learn about what others have learned from the text.
A.Start reading and keep reading. |
B.Try reading and learning with a group. |
C.Write your chapter summaries without consulting the text. |
D.Go online and see if there is any valuable information on your book. |
E.You can also read the back cover of the book to gain a basic idea of the story. |
F.Your comments or notes can help improve your understanding of the material. |
G.Skimming will help you gain a basic understanding of the plot, characters, setting, and concepts. |
How can we know what the future will look like? To be able to understand the future, you must know the past. What has taken us to where we are today and what has changed along the way? The world has changed a lot in the last 150 years, but we humans are driven by the same basic needs as we were 150 years ago. Will this change in the next 150 years? No.
What inventions have really made a difference in the last 150 years? In the past years, the inventions that have affected most people around the world for everyday living are the telephone, electricity, radio, television, computer, the car and the ability to communicate through the Internet. Then we of course have a lot of inventions that have made life easier, like new medicine, faster transports etc. In general, human beings have been working hard in the last 150 years to make the inventions so that they will be able to get control of the time and the world. Since there is still much to do in this area, this will be the focus at least for the next 150 years.
Why do we need to predict the future? Predicting the future is important for two reasons first we need to start to think about what kind of future we would like for ourselves and to pass on to the next generation, and then we need to know what decisions we need to make today that will give the best result in the future.
1. What does the author try to tell us in the second paragraph?
A.The world is quite different from what it was. |
B.Our basic needs will not change in the future. |
C.Humans will no longer enjoy food in the future. |
D.The world will be completely changed tomorrow. |
A.it easy for us to live |
B.our daily life more stressful |
C.our work easily done |
D.us work less time |
A.To produce more cars for transportation. |
B.To focus on making more inventions. |
C.To work much harder to achieve their goals. |
D.To spend more time working on the Internet. |
A.What result we’ll receive in the future. |
B.The decisions we make for our future. |
C.The importance of predicting the future. |
D.The two reasons of predicting the future. |
【推荐2】Why We Hate the Feeling of Failure and How It Affects Us
Loss aversion is the idea that a potential loss has greater weight in a person's mind than the possible gain. People seek to avoid failure and the negative feelings they expect will come from such a loss.
More recently, social scientists have turned their at tent on to how loss aversion can hinder people from performing in their daily lives.
Sports and athletic performance was one of the first areas of focus. A study in May 2023 looked at how adult athletes were hindered by a fear of failure. It found that athletes who feared failure tended to approach an athletic event and appraise(评估) it for potential losses.
Losses weren't just related to the final numbers on the scoreboard. Rather, some athletes approached a practice or a game and saw it as a potential to perform poorly and lose standing with their coach, teammates or fellow athletes.
Not surprisingly, procrastination was shown to decrease academic performance.
While our fear of loss may impact our mindset and whether or not we pursue something new, if we let that fear take hold, then we’ve already lost. There for, don’t let fear of failure keep you from trying something new.
A.Researchers have examined how fear of failure can lead to-procrastination. |
B.The loss was seen as humiliating and something the athlete feared or wanted to avoid. |
C.Research has found this fear of failure drives people to stop pursuing their passions. |
D.However, the study found that it wasn't due to students prioritizing their social life or Netflix queue. |
E.Doubt has killed their dreams than failure ever will |
F.Loss a version has long been used to study consumer psychology. |
【推荐3】Living a joyful life does not mean denying painful emotions. Instead, it means cultivating a mindset(心态) that prefers an optimistic view of the world. At the same time, it means developing healthy ways to deal with difficult emotions. Here are five reasons why joy is a powerful life choice.
Joy Improves Physical Health. In recent years, science continues to prove the link between emotional well being and physical health. According to a study in BMC Cancer, researchers found that happiness and optimism may protect against breast cancer.
Joyful People are More Productive.
Joy Boosts Creativity. Perhaps the typical miserable image of artists has led some to feel that misery may inspire art, yet this is not the recipe for creativity.
Joy Creates More Joy!
A.Joy strengthens relationships. |
B.Joy determines the quality of life. |
C.The same goes for heart disease. |
D.You have probably heard the phrase “misery loves company.” |
E.Making joy a priority can pay off when it comes to your career. |
F.Clinic practices show that cancer patients can be cured. |
G.If you really want to inspire your creative side, you should inspire joy. |