Ask any kid, and you'll likely hear that time spent with friends is the coolest and most important part of the school day. Educators, as well, acknowledge that making friends is one of the most valuable things children do as they learn and grow. But many parents are perplexed by their children’s social lives, wondering how to help their kids cope with the challenges, heartbreaks, and the joys of making friends, losing them, and making friends again.
“Friendships help children gradually learn to be independent, contributing members of a community and it’s just as important as their academic growth” notes Diane Levin, Ph.D., author of “Remote Control Childhood.” However, it’s a slow process. There are many social skills to learn, which advance with age and experience, trial and error, and experiencing the satisfaction that comes from contributing to an ongoing friendship.”
“Friendship starts as soon as children can crawl off their parents’ laps over to another child,” adds Michael Thompson, Ph.D., co-author of her life with you to her life with her friends. but who their friends are, how they interact with them, and how popular they are, is something parents have only limited control over.”
Experts on children’s behavior say that problems like jealousies, breakups, bullying and teasing account for a big part of what parents, kids and teachers talk about, and what parents worry about.
Get insights into how children’s friendships develop and how parents can help, if needed, and find ways to determine if your child is at risk for serious social problems or simply suffering from real (but common) social challenges.
1. While staying at school, kids usually feel that .A.staying with friends is a good experience |
B.making friends is the most important thing |
C.communicating with friends is a great challenge |
D.they can’t grow well without friends around them |
A.Encouraged |
B.Touched |
C.Attracted |
D.Puzzled. |
A.They have to focus on academic subjects. |
B.They are too young to benefit from friendships. |
C.They can’t master all social skills in one day. |
D.They often make mistakes while making friends. |
A.Children don’t stay on parents’ lap any longer. |
B.Children get out of the control of their parents. |
C.Children don’t share their stories with their parents. |
D.Children leave their parents for other kids willing ly. |
相似题推荐
【推荐1】Why are Chores Important for Children to Do?
You might hold back from assigning your children chores because they already have their hands full with homework and school activities.
You’ve often heard that a “family that prays together, stays together”, right?
The best way to teach children how to appreciate what they have is to give them age-appropriate household chores. They’ll also learn to sympathize with you and learn what’s involved in making a home.
When you assign your children age-appropriate household chores, you’re teaching them to be responsible. You won’t always be around to wash the dishes or set the table for them. They’ll have to assume that responsibility on their own, perhaps after leaving home. As a child growing up, you likely learned how to do things around the home from your parents.
A.Chores give them a sense of purpose and usefulness. |
B.Doing household chores influence your child’s maturity. |
C.The same applies when handling chores around the home. |
D.Wouldn’t it be nice to pass on those skills to your children? |
E.That’s understandable, but household chores can benefit your children. |
F.It takes effort, time, and resources to do all the things around the home. |
G.Children learn to cherish only with the experience of doing chores at home. |
【推荐2】Dealing With Strict Parents
Sometimes parents set rules because they fear for their children's safety, because they don't think that their children can make it for themselves or even to stay in control or to bring about a desired outcome or simply because they can. Regardless of why parents set rules, teens must learn to live within these guidelines,
Meet in the middle
Often teenagers don't recognize that they have strict parents until they brush up against a rule that they don't like.
If your past behaviour leaves your parents rolling their eyes at your level of responsibility, offer to show that you are serious about the compromises that you have suggested.
Stay calm and focused
In order to succeed in dealing with strict parents, you'll need to show not only that you are serious about changes in their rules,
A.If this is the case for you |
B.Show that you are serious |
C.if you are dealing with strict parents |
D.Don't just give them empty promises |
E.but that you can be a serious teen as well |
F.But what happens if parents are overly strict |
G.Are there any mistakes that you should avoid |
【推荐3】Too often, I hear people say “I’m just a housewife” when they introduce themselves. I don’t understand why their introduction is always filled with regret and self-pity. Is it really a crime to be a housewife? Is it really embarrassing when you choose not to work outside and instead choose to work in your home?
How could you be “just a housewife” when the basic social unit of society depends on you and your service? A housewife works for the longest hour, supporting your husband, child’s studies, caring for elders, managing finances, paying bills, grocery shopping, cooking according to individual taste, cleaning, etc. A housewife could be anyone: daughter, wife, mother, teacher, financial adviser, fashion designer and nurse, gardener, driver, cook, and so on. Don’t think you are not being paid for it. You get the reward that no money can offer—the love and affection (喜爱) of your family, their trust in you, a happy home and your own satisfaction.
It is you who choose to be in this occupation, willingly or for any other reason. After a busy day, all wait to return to the comfortable home set by you. They know you will be there to absorb all their stress and tiredness and relax them. Would the life have been the same if you had been working outside to earn some money? Would you along with your family have been able to buy all the content in life that you are enjoying now with that money?
Respect yourself for what you are. Introduce yourself to the world with the same dignity (尊严). The world understands the importance of your job. It’s time to make them accept it. Introduce yourself with pride and with twinkle in your eyes “I am a housewife”. Kick that “just” out.
1. People feel ________when they say “I’m just a housewife”.A.regretful | B.satisfied | C.proud | D.anxious |
A.usually leads a terrible life | B.plays a more important role |
C.makes a great contribution (贡献) to the family | D.does not always get her reward |
A.have the same life like before | B.lose the content that she is enjoying |
C.set a comfortable home for her family | D.absorb (缓解、吸收) her family’s stress |
A.Supportive. | B.Doubtful. | C.Opposed(反对). | D.Disappointed. |
【推荐1】I am an e-mail user. When I first started to use the e-mail system, I used to read all my e-mail. I didn't have much mail. I gave my friends my e-mail address. Soon I had more mail than wanted. Some of the mail was junk mail. I was worried. I didn't want my mail to control me.
I've tried some methods to help me get control of my mail. First, I check my mail at the same time every day. Also, I try to allow myself only 15~20 minutes every day to process my email. This doesn't always work, but I try. Sometimes I save the messages. Sometimes I read them, maybe answer a few, and then delete them.
Sometimes I get some junk mail that I'm not interested in at all, I don't even open it. I usually delete it right away. This is very much the way I go through the mail that the postal service delivers to my home.
These methods are very simple. I have some friends who are very clever with computers. From time to time, they teach me new tricks for managing my e-mail. I'm still amazed at what email can do for me! I'm still worried, however, about having too much to read.
1. Why did the author use to read all his e mails?A.He was forced to do that. | B.He didn't have much mail. |
C.He had nothing else to do. | D.He didn't know how to read mail. |
A.Saving it sometimes. | B.Deleting it immediately. |
C.Reading and answering it. | D.Passing it on to his friends. |
A.By the help of his friends. | B.By the methods from mail. |
C.By checking messages. | D.By controlling computers. |
A.Worries about using mail. | B.The happiness of using mail. |
C.Methods of dealing with mail. | D.Persuasions to avoid using mail. |
【推荐2】In the busy and fast-paced world we live in today, keeping a healthy eating routine within changing schedules and various family preferences can seem like an huge challenge. Below are some tips to help establish a balanced and healthy approach to eating in today’s family life.
Embrace mindful eating.Mindfulness transforms eating into a nurturing (养育) practice, encouraging a deep connect ion with how food affects your body and mood. When you eat, take the time to really notice your food — eat slowly and without distractions.
Consider establishing guidelines that encourage eating without distractions such as TVs, phones or other electronic devices. These guidelines will help everyone at the table to fully engage with their food and with each other. This practice not only promote the enjoyment of meals but also support healthier eating habits by focusing attention on the meal and the company, enriching the shared experience.
Establish a flexible meal routine.Finding a common mealtime can be challenging due to varying schedules.
Creating an environment that celebrates healthy eating involves everyone in the household. Discuss preferences openly and plan meals that are inclusive, ensuring that each person feels valued. Shared meal preparation becomes a moment for bonding and respect for individual health goals.
A.Have mealtime house rules. |
B.Schedule mealtime into daily routine. |
C.It’s important to honour your own hunger signals. |
D.This attentiveness develops a deep respect for your body’s needs. |
E.By involving everyone, meals become a reflection of collective care and respect. |
F.It’s important to be flexible and respectful of each family member’s eating preferences. |
G.This approach respects your body’s needs while maintaining the joy of eating together. |
【推荐3】How to get ready for school quickly
Waking up early every day for school is hard. If you can’t get up early, you may find yourself having to rush to make it to class.
Prepare the night before. When you finish your homework, put everything back in your bag so it’s ready for the next day. Make sure you put anything else you’ll need, like special projects, pens and pencils, into the bag.
Create a bedtime routine(惯例).
A.Take full advantage of waiting time. |
B.Go through your morning routine. |
C.Don’t put your phone near your bed. |
D.Go to bed at the same time every day and stick to it. |
E.Then put it by the door before you go to sleep. |
F.As a result, you might leave books behind and end up looking like you just got up! |
G.Last, give your bag a quick final check right before you leave. |