As most of us know, talking and listening don’t go smoothly every time.Will your parents take you seriously, believe what you say, listen to and respect your opinions?
●Be clear and direct.Be as clear as you can about what you think, feel, and want.
●Be honest. If you’re always honest, a parent will be likely to believe what you say.If you sometimes hide the truth or add too much drama, your parents will have a harder time believing what you tell them. If you lie, they’ll find it hard to trust you.
●Try to understand their point of view.If you have a disagreement, can you see your parents’ side?
●Try not to argue or complain. Using a tone that’s friendly and respectful makes it more likely that your parents will listen and take what you say seriously.
A.Hit your pillow. |
B.If you can, say so. |
C.A lot depends on your parents. |
D.Think twice before you make a decision. |
E.Your parents won’t always see things in your way. |
F.Give details that can help your parents understand your situation. |
G.Of course, this is hard for any of us when we’re feeling heated about something. |
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【推荐1】To be healthy is simple and easy. Just live a healthy lifestyle by following a healthy diet and doing regular exercise. All of us know that good health is important, for it enables us to achieve what we set out to do.
Following a healthy diet means eating right.
Lifestyle is another important contributing factor to living healthily. If you do not have access to at least an hour of sunlight every day, you can count on having oily skin, poor complexion and depression. Work stress is definitely bad for health.
Make sure you exercise regularly.
A.It also tastes good. |
B.Going to the clinic with your friends. |
C.So come up with a timetable for your daily schedule. |
D.To do so, you need to eat a lot more fruit and vegetables. |
E.Choose an exercise routine that you are comfortable with. |
F.Make healthy eating and physical activities fun and habitual. |
G.This means being clear on all levels: mentally and physically. |
【推荐2】Summer can be a challenging time to stay motivated, especially when it comes to running.
Stay hydrated
When it’s hot, your body perspires more and loses essential electrolytes (电解质) like sodium and potassium (钾). To avoid cramps (痉挛), heat exhaustion, and other problems, drink plenty of fluids before, during, and after your run.
Get an early start
While it may be tempting to sleep in when the sun is just starting to rise, getting out the door early can help you beat the heat. By starting your run early,
The heat and humidity during summer can make it difficult to get out the door and even more challenging to stick with your usual pace once you’re on the road. One way to make summer running easier is to focus on cooling down after your workout. A post-run cooldown helps to regulate your body temperature and prevent muscle soreness.
Dress appropriately
As the weather gets warmer, it can be alluring to put on your shorts and tank top and head out for a run. However, it’s essential to dress appropriately for summer running, or you may feel uncomfortable and overheated. One tip is to choose light-colored clothing, as darker colors absorb more heat.
A.Cool down |
B.Take a shower |
C.you can burn more calories than any other time in the day. |
D.You should also look for fabrics that are breathable and quick-drying. |
E.you’ll be able to get in a few miles before the temperature begins to climb. |
F.For best results, carry a water bottle with you or run near a water fountain. |
G.The heat and humidity can make even the most dedicated runners want to hit the snooze button and stay in bed. |
【推荐3】Far too often, we look at ourselves in the mirror and tell ourselves we aren’t good enough.
Accept your individuality
View your weaknesses as what makes you a unique person. As humans, we all have weaknesses that set us apart from others. Instead of viewing your weaknesses as bad things, turn them into what makes you an individual.
We are often our own worst critics, and we tend to hold ourselves to standards that we wouldn’t expect of other people. Think about the standards you set for yourself, and then think about if you’d hold a friend or loved one to the same standards. If you wouldn’t, then you don’t need to hold yourself to those standards either.
Don’t compare yourself to others
Stick to your own standards. While it can be tough, try not to compare yourself to your peers (同龄人).
Surround yourself with people who support you
A.Everyone’s life path is different |
B.Set realistic standards for yourself |
C.Learn not to criticize yourself too often |
D.You can always seek trust from friends and family |
E.Accepting your weaknesses is a great way to love yourself |
F.Hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself |
G.For instance, maybe you feel like you aren’t as good at math as your classmates are |
【推荐1】Does the happiness of parents play a role in shaping the overall happiness of their children? Scientific studies have shed light on the far-reaching connection between parental happiness and the positive development of kids. It seems that parental happiness has an important influence on the emotional, social, and cognitive (认知的) development of children.
Another great idea is sharing experiences and creating many memories together. The idea is twofold.
One of the main aspects of being happy parents is feeling comfortable, confident and able to be themselves, despite their new status and huge responsibility. Honestly, when parents prioritize their own happiness, it has positive effects on the overall happiness of the family.
When parents put their own happiness first, they become role models for their kids. They see the importance of self-care, pursuing passions and maintaining healthy relationships.
A.However, part of being responsible is being honest. |
B.They are passing on some major life skills and attitudes. |
C.They may lose a bit of their sense of self when caring for children. |
D.Parents can adopt practical ways to enhance their own happiness. |
E.A joyful and harmonious family environment benefits everyone involved. |
F.This can happen when parents prioritize their own happiness according to Inc. |
G.Firstly, the parents continue to be themselves and do something they love. |
【推荐2】The key to a happy life has nothing to do with getting ahead at work, making money, or traveling the world. Instead, living your best life and creating meaning is all about one thing: relationships.
A study of adult development has been running at Harvard since 1938, and is now on its second generation of participants—the children of the original study’s subjects. Over decades, the research team collected data about their lives, including their physical and mental health, marital (婚姻的) status and quality, career happiness, etc.
They found the most important aspect in how happy and healthy these men were over time was their relationships. In other words: Finding happiness in life is all about the people you love.
The research doesn’t only include romantic relationships and marriage. Quality, close relationships are important whether they are in the situation of romantic relationships or closeness between friends or family members. The kind of relationship you have is less important than how close you feel with them.
However, the study only included men, and important gender differences exist in how people experience relationships. Some research suggests that men may benefit more from marriage. But they tend to have a harder time keeping friendships; as men get older, they will more likely say they have nobody to discuss important subjects with. So it’s possible that having close relationships throughout their lives might affect men differently than women.
The findings line up with the effects of loneliness. People who are socially isolated have a greater likelihood of strokes (中风), heart attacks, and higher blood pressure, not to mention mental health issues.
Unfortunately for the youngest generations, recent surveys found that young Americans are lonelier than older generations. That will likely have a big impact on how healthy and happy people feel throughout their lives.
1. What’s the moral lesson from this passage?A.Travel far and wide to learn a lot. | B.Keep an open mind to be creative. |
C.Treasure your time with your loved ones. | D.Work hard to be the best of your profession. |
A.Women are unwilling to participate in the study. |
B.Men are better at maintaining a close relationship. |
C.Women are not treated equally in scientific research. |
D.The findings of the study may not be true for women. |
A.Because they have nobody to talk to. | B.Because they are more socially isolated. |
C.Because they can’t keep their relationships. | D.Because they suffer physically and mentally. |
A.Close Relationships Make a Happy Life |
B.Men Look Forward to Close Relationships |
C.Close Relationships Ensure People’s Health |
D.Men and Women Differ in Keeping Relationships |
【推荐3】“Quick, quick, slow, slow,” my husband said as I was trying to focus. We frequently stepped on each other’s feet. Both of us were being rhythmically challenged, and we figured a series of lessons might help us look somewhat elegant on the floor. However, it didn’t.
It didn’t matter that the lessons didn’t pay off. Our learning something new together gave us a string of good memories, such as taking a Thai cooking class on a cold Chicago night and learning how to make classic cocktails (鸡尾酒) in a common bar. These experiences are my best memories from the past 10 years. We always have such a great time when we’re trying something new together. It seems to have strengthened our relationship, and makes me feel like we have a closer connection.
It turns out that my theory is backed by research. One study shows that learning new things with your spouse (配偶), friends, or partners, can strengthen your connection or friendship. But how exactly does this work? The key is vulnerability (弱点). “Learning new things together strengthens bonds because it is at those moments that we can show our vulnerability to one another,” says Dr. Hisla Bates. When we are learning a new task, misfortunes and failures are bound to happen. In those moments when we fail, the other party can be there in favor of us. We can work together to find a solution, and working together helps deepen the connection.
The benefits gained from learning new things with your partner can come from activities as small as hiking, trying a new recipe, going boating in the local lake or taking a fitness class together. You don’t have to go bungee jumping or skydiving to grow closer. Try selecting activities that both partners are unfamiliar with, as this will ensure you’re on the same page.
Trying to learn something new together once a month will benefit you and your spouse or friends. Overall, some of my best memories with my husband are the moments when we are learning something new together.
1. What were the author and her husband doing in Paragraph 1?A.Playing sports. | B.Practising dancing. |
C.Teaching lessons. | D.Taking a walk. |
A.Practice makes perfect. |
B.Good memories last a long time. |
C.Processes matter more than results. |
D.Well begun is half done. |
A.It can encourage them to teach and praise each other. |
B.It helps improve the understanding of each other. |
C.It can reduce each other’s loneliness and boredom. |
D.It helps find each other’s weaknesses and offer support. |
A.The power of learning new things together |
B.The advantages of taking different lessons |
C.The challenge of acquiring new knowledge |
D.The importance of improving people’s bonds |