The most basic and powerful way to connect with another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our full attention.
When people are talking, there is no need to do anything but listen to their words. Just take them in. Listen to what they are saying. Care about it. Caring is even more important than understanding. It has taken me a long time to believe in the importance of saying “I’m so sorry” when someone is in trouble.
One of my friends told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often broke in to tell her that something similar happened to them. For some reason or other, her trouble became a story about them. In the end, she stopped talking to most people. She was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt (打断) someone to let them know that we understand, we move attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
It’s not that easy to learn to listen. It certainly went against everything that I was taught. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has more importance to help and to connect than the kindest words.
1. What is the most important when others are talking according to the passage?A.Sharing. | B.Listening. | C.Understanding. | D.Speaking. |
A.she liked listening | B.she was too shy to talk |
C.she didn’t know the answer | D.she wanted a better listener |
A.move attention to ourselves | B.care much about them |
C.want to help them | D.don’t want to listen any more |
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A.And then she tries again. |
B.Mum, I can ride! I can ride! |
C.We should keep on trying. |
D.Oh, dear, you won’t break another arm. |
E.I don’t want to learn to ride any more. |
【推荐2】As a student, I was most afraid to answer questions in class, and I found that the students around were just like me. At the beginning of each class, when the teacher asked a question, I always lowered my head because I was afraid that the teacher saw me.
One day, in a foreign language class, Mr. Brown gave us a lesson. He wanted us to be active in class, so he asked us some questions, but no one answered. “Let me tell you a story first,” he said. “When I came to the United States to study, the university often invited famous people to make speeches. Before the beginning of every speech, I found an interesting thing. The students around me always took a cardboard folded(折叠的) in half, wrote their names boldly with the most eye-catching color, and then placed the cardboard on the seat. So when the speaker needed the answers from the students, he could see and call a listener’s name directly.”
“I couldn’t understand that. My classmate told me the speakers were all top people who meant chances. When your answer was to his surprise, it meant he might give you more chances. In fact, I really saw a few students got great chances because of that.”
After listening to the story, I understood that the chance would not find you itself. You must show yourself all the time so that you could find a chance on the card.
1. What did Mr. Brown want the students to do in his class?A.Be active. | B.Take notes carefully. | C.Read loudly. | D.Listen to him quietly. |
A.They closed their eyes. | B.They raised their hands. |
C.They lowered their heads. | D.They shook their heads. |
A.We all kept silent. |
B.We answered his questions bravely. |
C.We all talked about the questions loudly. |
D.We all slept in his class, so no one answered his questions. |
A.He got them from the computer. | B.He asked the students for their names. |
C.He saw the cardboards on the seats. | D.He got them from the name list on the teacher’s desk. |
A.Doing as others do is necessary. | B.Answering questions bravely is easy. |
C.Showing yourself bravely can win chances. | D.Attracting others’ attention is interesting. |
【推荐3】I have always loved music. When I was a teenager, I dreamed of becoming a rock star. Sadly, my effort didn’t match my love, and soon the guitar my mother bought for me lay quietly in the corner. I hated pressing my fingers down on the hard strings. At one time, my guitar teacher shook his head and said I had the rhythm(韵律)of a duck.
Before 2020, I had always believed that I was unable to learn a musical instrument. Then came the lockdown(封控)of 2020. I had to stay in a hotel in Chiang Mai in Thailand with my friend’s guitar. Being locked in the hotel, I had nothing to do but pick up the guitar.
I focused on how to play five of my favorite songs on the guitar. I started slowly, learning how to play by following online classes. I have to agree that counting time(节拍)was very difficult for me, so I gave it up. I just listened to the songs, focused on their rhythms and tried my best to follow them.
Day by day, I started to sound less and less terrible. I practiced the five songs every morning until I found my own rhythm and developed my own style of the songs, even after the lockdown in Chiang Mai was over. Finally, on May 28, 2022, I gave a guitar performance to some strangers and friends. I was so nervous that I forgot to turn the microphone on at the beginning. But when I hit the first chord(和弦), my music was greeted with loud cheers. It was my best memory of 2022.
In short, my word of this past year or the past three years is FOCUS. Time passes by quickly. Another new year has now arrived. Why not set yourself a clear goal (based on your love) and focus on it? Never let anyone tell you what you are not good at. By focusing on your goal, you will be able to surprise everyone.
1. Which is the correct order according to the passage?①I gave a guitar performance.
②I had nothing to do but play the guitar.
③I hated playing the guitar.
④I followed the online classes and practiced every day.
A.③②④① | B.①④③② | C.③①②④ | D.①②④③ |
A.They didn’t like my performance. |
B.I played the guitar beautifully. |
C.They wanted to sing along with me. |
D.I didn’t play the guitar well at first. |
A.A man who is ill. | B.A trader who is rich. |
C.An actor who is famous. | D.A teenager who often fails. |
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You have to go to school from Monday to Friday. And you mustn’t arrive late for school. You will learn some important subjects, like Chinese, math, and English. You must study hard and try to do well in all the subjects. Classes begin at 8:00. You have four classes in the morning and three classes in the afternoon. You can’t eat in the classroom but you can eat in the dining hall. You can’t fight with your classmates, either. You can't play balls or run in the classroom or hallways. You should work hard in the classroom. I hope you’ll have a happy life in our school.
1. Who may be the speaker?A.A mother. | B.A doctor. | C.A teacher. | D.A worker. |
A.They can arrive late for school. | B.They can listen to music in class. |
C.They can eat in the dining hall. | D.They can play basketball in the hallways. |
A.some school rules | B.some important subjects | C.some school clubs | D.interesting school life |
There are always plenty of people in the famous museums. Museums are one of the best keepers of memories. Meanwhile, the collections come from different periods of history. Here are some famous museums in the world.
The British Museum Location: London, the United Kingdom Building-up time: In 1753 Information: The British Museum is one of the world’s greatest museums. It includes treasures (珍宝) from countries all over the world . The old reading room of British Library is in the center. People are free to enter the British Museum, unless you want to see special exhibitions. You can buy a good guidebook at the bookshop which helps you to find your way through the collections. |
The Egyptian Museum Location: Cairo, Egypt Building-up time: In 1835 Information: The Egyptian Museum is home to many amazing ancient Egyptian artworks . It has over 120, 000 artifacts (手工制品) from the beginning of the Old Kingdom of Ancient Egypt (about 2700 BC) through the Greco-Roman (希腊罗马的) period. On the first floor, you can know about the history of ancient Egypt, while some special treasures are on the second floor. Ticket price: The whole day-$40 each person Half a day-$30 each person |
Robben Island Location: Western Cape, South Africa Building-up time: In the late 17th century Information: Robben Island was a prison (监狱) from the late 17th century to the early 1990s, and then Robben Island was open to the public as a museum. Just off the coast from Cape Town, it is famous for being the place where Nelson Mandela was held It is said to be a man-made wonder because any prisoner (犯人) is unable to run away. The tourist guides there are prisoners. Tours run several times a day. Trips start at 9:00am., 11: 00 a. m and1:00 p. m and each trip takes three and a half hours including the boat ride to and from the island. Ticket price: $1. 54 each person |
A.An old reading room | B.Some special treasures. | C.A man-made wonder. |
A.$30. | B.$40. | C.$80. |
A.At 9:00 a. m. | B.At 11:00 a.m. | C.At 1:00 p. m. |
A.People are free to see special exhibitions in the British Museum. |
B.Robben Island doesn’t have any ancient treasures. |
C.The Egyptian Museum has a longer history than the British Museum, |
A.A travel newspaper. | B.A health magazine. | C.A storybook. |
Make a card about the size of a postcard and write two English letters L and R on it, L on the left and R on the right, First, hold the card about 80 cm away and you see both the letters. Then close your right eye and look at the letter R only with your left eye. And now. as you move the card slowly towards you. you'll find the letter L disappearing. But if you move the card nearer to your face, the letter will be seen again, Now do the same experiment with your left eye closed, you'll find the letter R disappearing,
Why does the letter disappear? It is because there is a blind spot on the eye. When the image(影像) or the letter falls on the blind spot, it won't be seen. That is why either of the letters disappears.
1. The writer of the passage thinks that___________ there is a blind spot on the eye.
A.no one knows | B.few people know |
C.most people know | D.all the people know |
A.遗失 | B.驱散 | C.消散 | D.消失 |
A, you cannot open your eyes
A.your right eye is blind | B.its image falls on the blind spot |
C.your eyes are too poor |
A.Hold the card | B.Move the card nearer |
C.Write two English letters | D.Make a card |
A.there is blind spot on the eyes | B.a boring experiment |
C.an interesting story | D.when to find the blind spot |