Have you ever met large changes in life and work? How would you feel in most cases? In fact, we all have to go through the grief cycle(悲伤周期), which has the following periods:
The first period: “It can’t be happening. ”
Anger: “Why me? It’s not fair. ”
Depression: “I’m so sad. Why do I have to do all of these?”
Acceptance: “It’s going to be OK. ”
I’m honestly not sure how scientific this model is, but I certainly believe that you will work better after going through these major changes.
Find out what your anger does for you—good or bad?
What does being angry do for you? Think back to the situation where you have been angry at work and ask yourself how it influences you, including: your relationship with co-workers, the quality(质量) of your work and health, how you feel outside of work, your relationship with friends and family.
Find out what makes you angrier and less angry.
What makes you angrier? Which thoughts, situations, people or conversations set you off? And what makes you less angry? I’m sure you are not angry all the time. What makes you calm and stops you from feeling angry? Find out. Then start doing less of what makes you angry and more of the things that cool you down.
Focus on gratitude.
What are you grateful for? As I mentioned above, anger is part of the grief cycle which is connected with what you lose. Gratitude is the opposite of loss because it comes from the good things you have in your life. It’s simple. Every evening, sit down with a piece of paper and make two gratitude lists: three things I was grateful for at work today; three things I was thankful for in life today.
Change your focus from “What was done to me” to “What I can do”.
I know this is the basic piece of all self-help advice. Life is 10% about what happens to you and 90% about how you deal with it, or you must take responsibility for your own situation, rather than be a victim (牺牲品) of it. That kind of advice can get pretty boring. But that doesn’t make it less true.
1. Why does the writer begin the text by asking questions?A.To explain facts. | B.To express disagreement. | C.To give opinions. | D.To catch the readers’ interest. |
A.Love friends and family. | B.Do things that make you peaceful. |
C.Be friendly to co-workers. | D.Write down what makes you angry. |
A.Thanks. | B.Safety. | C.Courage. | D.Praise. |
A.What the grief cycle is about. | B.How to deal with the grief cycle. |
C.What causes the grief cycle. | D.How the grief cycle influences people. |
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【推荐1】What is depression (抑郁症)? It’s important to know what it is as it affects a lot of people. About 280 million people around the world have depression, according to the WHO. Recently, the Ministry of Education said China would include screening (筛查) for depression in students’ regular health checks, to find and prevent mental (心理的) problems.
It’s common to feel unhappy or sad at times. But with depression, a sad or bad mood (情绪) lasts for weeks, months, or even longer because it is a mental illness. Depression affects more than a person’s mood. It can affect the way they act and how well they do in school or at work. It can affect their energy, sleep and eating, too. If people are depressed, they lose interest in all kinds of things. Most of all, depression affects how people think and feel about themselves.
Depression can start small. For teenagers, friends, family and school can have major emotional (情绪的) effects. But depression can build and get worse. In serious situations, it may lead to suicide. However, don’t be afraid of it. Depression can be treated. If you are unhappy for more than two weeks and have some symptoms of depression, it is time to look for help from doctors or others.
You are not alone even if you are depressed. You can try the following ways to feel better. First, talk to a trusted adult, such as a parent, teacher, about how you’ve been feeling. Second, try to spend time with friends or family. Third, stay active and exercise even if you don’t want to. Then, remember to eat healthy foods. What’s more, keep a regular sleep schedule. Finally, ask your doctor for professional help.
1. What is China do to find and prevent youth depression?A.China will help 280 million people who have depression. |
B.The WHO will check the people who have depression. |
C.China will add depression screening into students’ regular health check. |
D.The WHO will add depression screening into students’ regular health check. |
A.It can affect peoples’ mood for weeks or even longer. |
B.It can affect the way they act and how well they do. |
C.It can affect their energy, sleep and eating. |
D.All of above. |
A.情感 | B.症状 | C.形势 | D.态度 |
A.Five | B.Six | C.Seven | D.Eight |
A.Depression is dangerous because it can’t be treated. |
B.If you have depression, you are alone always. |
C.Depression can be treated, so don’t be afraid of it. |
D.People who have depression can only depend on doctors’ help. |
【推荐2】When you feel unhappy or forget how great you are, these are five ways to make you feel good about yourself.
* Look in the mirror and say to yourself “
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* Smile!
* Read and start a diary. Turn off the TV and let your imagination (想象) fly! Write down your thoughts, dreams or anything you want!
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A.Stay with your family. |
B.I’m a special person and there’s no one in the world like me. |
C.It’s happy to play games. |
D.You should be friendly to people. |
E.Help someone. |
F.Writing always helps to express (表达) your feelings. |
【推荐3】“Thumper,” I called. “Thumper, where are you?”
Our family just came home. We had been away for one week.
“Thumper,” I called. “Thumper, we are home,” I called.
Mom looked for Thumper. Dad looked for Thumper. He wasn’t around.
“Thumper,” we called.
“I think he is missing,” I said.
We looked in the garage. We looked in the doghouse. No Thumper. He was not at the house. We went in the house. We unpacked our bags. All I could do was think about Thumper. Was he hurt? Had he run away? Where was my dog?
I tried to unpack my bags. I tried to think about other things. My mind kept going back to Thumper. I started to cry.
I heard the phone ring. Dad was talking to someone. He was laughing.
“Teresa,” Dad called. “Please come down here. Someone wants to talk to you!”
“Who is it, Dad?”
“You will see,” he said with a smile.
I took the phone. “Hey, girl. It is Grandpa Allen.”
“Hi, Grandpa, what’s up?”
“I just called to tell you I came over last night. I hope you didn’t mind. Thumper was sad. He was missing you. Grandma and I brought him home for the night. We left a note, but I thinkitblew away!”
1. How long had the family been away?A.One day. | B.Two days. | C.Four days. | D.Seven days. |
A.Worried. | B.Happy. | C.Angry. | D.Calm. |
A.In the garage. | B.In the dog house. | C.In Teresa’s bag. | D.In Allen’s house. |
A.The phone. | B.The dog. | C.The note. | D.The wind. |
A.Sports News. | B.Job Wanted. | C.Story Time. | D.Science Study. |
【推荐1】It’s time to say goodbye to 2020. Life is not easy in 2020 because of COVID-19 (新冠肺炎). Everyone knows it’s important to keep healthy. But how can we do that? Here are some tips (建议).
The first thing is to eat well. Look at what you eat. Is your food healthy? Ice cream, hamburgers and cola are not healthy. Chicken is healthy but too much chicken is bad for you. Eat the right food and you can be healthy. Milk, fish and sweet potatoes are good for your teeth (牙齿). Carrots and eggs are good for your eyes. Please always remember (记住): Have a good breakfast every morning. Eat fruit and vegetables. Drink water, tea and milk, not cola.
The second thing is to play sports. Ball games are great. You can play soccer, basketball or ping-pong with your classmates at school. And you can play them with your family, too. Don’t always sit on the sofa to watch TV or play computer because a couch potato is easy to be fat.
The last thing is to sleep (睡觉) well. Sleep for eight hours every night. Then you may feel good the next day.
To be healthy is not so hard. Do the three things well, and then you can be healthy. I hope you can have a healthy lifestyle.
1. ________ are good for your eyes.A.Fish and carrots | B.Milk and potatoes |
C.Carrots and eggs | D.Chicken and hamburgers |
A.Watch TV | B.Have a good breakfast |
C.Sleep well | D.Play sports for hours |
A.沙发上的土豆 | B.电视迷 | C.容易长胖的人 | D.烫手山芋 |
A.Life Is Not Easy in 2020 | B.Do Three Things Well |
C.What to Eat for Breakfast | D.How to Be Healthy |
【推荐2】Tired of traditional celebrations? Have a look at the four special days.
Earth Day “Earth Day” is on April 22nd. Many people all over the world try to do something green on this day. In Italy, people don’t use plastic bags. In Canada, people ride bicycles and don’t use their cars. In the USA, people dress up like plants and animals and dance in Times Square, New York. | |
Car Free Day “Car Free Day” is on September 22nd. It encourages drivers to give up their cars for a day to protect the environment. People get together in the streets to remind the world that we don’t need to use cars so much. In Brussels, the public transportation is free on that day. | |
Buy Nothing Day “Buy Nothing Day” is usually on the fourth Friday in November. On this day, many people don’t buy anything. “Buy nothing” means “make no rubbish”. When you make less rubbish, you can make a cleaner earth. | |
Meatout Day “Meatout Day” is on March 20th. Many people around the world don’t eat any meat for one day. They think diet change was important because of the huge greenhouse gas emission(排放) and other emissions and other environmental problems. Also, join this day, you’ll get healthier. |
1. “Buy Nothing Day” might be on _______.
A.March 20th | B.April 22nd | C.September 22nd | D.November 20th |
A.In Italy, people dress up to celebrate the Earth Day. |
B.In Brussels, taking the bus is free on September 22nd. |
C.All the stores are closed on “Buy Nothing Day”. |
D.Many people wouldn’t eat any meat on “Earth Day”. |
A.Healthy Eating | B.Green Earth | C.Traditional Arts | D.Fantastic Sports |
Some people take the subway without buying a ticket. Why don’t they buy subway tickets? In fact, they do it because they just want to save a little money. In their mind, not buying a ticket is just a tiny thing. But they are WRONG. Actually, their behavior may cause serious problems. It may make you unable to borrow money from the bank.
The Standing Committee of the Shanghai People’s Congress held a public hearing (听证会) on August 15, 2013. Sixteen representatives attended the public hearing. All of them agreed to punish those who don’t buy tickets on the subway or use others’ subway cards. They thought the public credit information system should record these bad behaviors.
The public credit information system is based on people’s ID card numbers and codes for organizations and companies. Every person gets a credit code. The code will be with him/her for a lifetime. If you didn’t buy the subway ticket, the public credit information system would record the bad behavior. When you want to borrow money from the bank, the bank may turn down your offer.
Now we can know that not buying a subway ticket may cause serious problems. So we must get rid of the bad behaviors and be well-behaved.
1. Some people don’t buy the subway tickets because _________.A.the tickets may be too expensive | B.they want to save a little money |
C.they don’t want to waste time | D.they don’t need to buy tickets |
A.Not buying subway tickets is a tiny thing. | B.Not buying subway tickets is a right thing. |
C.Not buying subway tickets is a bad behavior. | D.Not buying subway tickets is a wise decision. |
A.the bank may spend more time considering your offer |
B.the bank may send your offer to the public hearing |
C.the bank may accept your offer without hesitation |
D.the bank may refuse your offer because of your bad |
A.how much the subway tickets cost | B.when the public hearing was held |
C.how important your ID card number is | D.how we can know the code of the bank |
A.Convenience of Buying Subway Tickets |
B.Serious Problems Caused by without Buying Subway Tickets |
C.Importance of Holding a Public Hearing |
D.ID Card Numbers and Codes for Companies |
【推荐1】If you think you’re too shy and want to be a little braver, try the followings. You can make it.
Tell people you’re shy.
Learn to be a good talker. If you find it hard to start talks,
A.Get your attention elsewhere(别处). |
B.Try to smile more. |
C.Take one small step at a time. |
D.There’s no need to hide(隐藏)it. |
E.Share your problems with friends. |
F.say something nice about people around. |
G.Find time to relax as possible as you can. |
【推荐2】The World Health Organization(WHO) says that 80% of the world’s teenagers don’t get enough exercise to live healthy lives. It did research(研究) on students aged from 11 to 17 in 146 countries for about eight years and got the result.
Doctors say 60 minutes of exercise a day is important for teenagers to build up their strength(力量). It’s also good for their hearts and lungs (心肺). Also, teenagers won’t become fat through exercise. What’s more, more and more research is showing that exercise doesn’t just help with the body. It can help with the mind, too—making people think better and helping students get better grades.
Trevor Shilton working for the Heart Foundation in Australia says that doing exercise is really important, and he also says, “If this were a medicine, we would all take it.”
However, it’s not easy. Now many teenagers find it very difficult to stay away from smartphones, computers or televisions. In their free time, they talk with friends online, play online games and watch interesting TV programs. WHO says that young people need to play less in the online world and play more in the real world.
Health experts want schools and families to ask teenagers to do more exercise. Doctors also say that teens can do 20 minutes of exercise three times a day to get 60 minutes of exercise. They say it’s very important for young people to do exercise, because it will be good for their lives in the future.
1. What’s the second paragraph mainly about?A.What kind of exercise teenagers should do. | B.How much exercise teenagers should do. |
C.Why doing exercise is important. | D.What exercise teenagers should do. |
A.Having a healthy heart | B.Doing exercise. |
C.Thinking better | D.Getting better grades. |
A.Because they are always busy with their studies. |
B.Because they think they are healthy. |
C.Because they spend much time doing things online. |
D.Because they dislike exercise. |
A.WHO got the result with the help of 116 students. |
B.Teenagers don’t have to do 60 minutes of exercise in one go(一次性). |
C.Doctors think five hours of exercise a week is enough. |
D.People can take medicine instead of exercise. |
A.Health. | B.Vacation. | C.Science. | D.Music. |
【推荐3】Now parents and their children spend less time together.
Eat and chat
Sharing a meal together lets parents and their children have time to talk about each other’s lives.
Read often
For parents, it is important to read to their children. Look for books that your children like reading.
Plan an trip
Help with schoolwork
A great way to spend more time children and light a fire of learning is to help children with their schoolwork.
根据短文内容,将下面的句子还原到文中空白处,使短文内容完整、通顺(每个选项只能用一次)。
A.Sometimes getting out of the house is important. |
B.So many children are getting less love than their parents got in the past. |
C.This is also a time for parents to listen to and give advice to their children. |
D.A parent’s help will make a child more interested in school and improve his or her grades. |
E.After their reading, ask questions about what the books are about. |