1 . As the saying goes, life is sweet. But while we may wish for consistently sweet moments, life often serves us other
Recently, we celebrated my mom’s birthday. In her nineties now, as she
The day before the celebration, we
The next day, the birthday
Truly, these are bittersweet moments, filled with
A.memories | B.flavors | C.experiences | D.smells |
A.forgets | B.realizes | C.nears | D.questions |
A.functioning | B.changing | C.failing | D.growing |
A.decided | B.asked | C.managed | D.continued |
A.new-born | B.snow-covered | C.hard-won | D.home-made |
A.working on | B.preparing for | C.cutting off | D.resulting in |
A.checking | B.decorating | C.struggling | D.volunteering |
A.cake | B.wish | C.gift | D.party |
A.unexpected | B.unknown | C.undoubted | D.unlimited |
A.picture | B.cookie | C.room | D.house |
A.dangerously | B.successfully | C.emotionally | D.accidentally |
A.new | B.strong | C.mixed | D.negative |
A.within | B.through | C.beyond | D.toward |
A.shortness | B.meaning | C.record | D.style |
A.Instead | B.However | C.Meanwhile | D.Therefore |
2 . Rejection doesn’t always hurt. Sometimes rejection may
This year football fans have been watching to see how Joe would
Joe became the Heisman Trophy
Joe’s story reminds us that there are
A.follow | B.lead | C.create | D.clear |
A.study | B.perform | C.train | D.join |
A.tough | B.fun | C.attractive | D.easy |
A.accepted | B.remembered | C.rejected | D.ignored |
A.bench | B.stand | C.team | D.stage |
A.chance | B.resource | C.potential | D.enthusiasm |
A.signed up for | B.applied to | C.attended to | D.searched for |
A.fan | B.adviser | C.learner | D.winner |
A.similar | B.smooth | C.multiple | D.flat |
A.costs | B.takes | C.makes | D.offers |
A.theory | B.training | C.rejection | D.excuse |
A.achieving | B.planning | C.announcing | D.explaining |
A.affect | B.emphasize | C.estimate | D.acknowledge |
A.active | B.negative | C.possible | D.predictable |
A.interpret | B.imagine | C.explore | D.escape |
As a wise person once said, “We more often need to be reminded than instructed.”
I thought of that while
What really hit home for me was the
As I sat there, I realized
Then I saw these notes
4 . In 2014, Mom wanted to live closer to us. My husband, Kevin, and I found a lovely
I asked Kevin. “Do you think I complain a lot?” Kevin hesitated a few seconds before saying no. I realized that the family nature of complaining had taken
I decided to keep a better watch on my
A few days later, I received from my friend Torry a
The next morning, I
Over the next few months, as I
Looking for things to be thankful for
A.hospital | B.school | C.apartment | D.garden |
A.called | B.invited | C.asked | D.forced |
A.root | B.shape | C.place | D.efforts |
A.health | B.tongue | C.weight | D.attitude |
A.method | B.chance | C.success | D.growth |
A.scared | B.excited | C.relaxed | D.nervous |
A.necessary | B.powerless | C.possible | D.happy |
A.book | B.present | C.brochure | D.journal |
A.thankful | B.eager | C.prepared | D.meant |
A.received | B.read | C.opened | D.copied |
A.host | B.trust | C.warn | D.encourage |
A.Satisfaction | B.Sorrow | C.Inspiration | D.Completion |
A.refuse | B.overcome | C.update | D.understand |
A.Honor | B.Adaptation | C.Gratitude | D.Balance |
A.imagined | B.applied | C.required | D.continued |
A.addicted | B.blind | C.related | D.used |
A.dance | B.die | C.grow | D.move |
A.clarified | B.lifted | C.restored | D.improved |
A.went | B.replied | C.led | D.connected |
A.people | B.lessons | C.blessings | D.love |
5 . In some ways, the kitchen is the heart of the home. It is where we
Sometimes you need order in the kitchen for things to run
Then Harlan comes in. He tastes your
Cecilia sees him. She tastes the soup and says, “You forgot vinegar. It’s my
You are happy to spend time with your friends. But, quite
And that is where we get the expression “too many cooks
This expression describes an age-old
So there should be a cook in the kitchen. He is the
A.enjoy | B.finish | C.start | D.spend |
A.prepare | B.eat | C.cook | D.feed |
A.frequently | B.actively | C.smoothly | D.quickly |
A.from | B.for | C.with | D.in |
A.tastes | B.heats | C.mixes | D.drinks |
A.meat | B.soup | C.vegetable | D.food |
A.wonderful | B.famous | C.secret | D.delicious |
A.pours | B.fills | C.puts | D.blows |
A.importantly | B.strangely | C.interestingly | D.frankly |
A.charming | B.inviting | C.annoying | D.embarrassing |
A.salty | B.awful | C.sour | D.hot |
A.spoil | B.share | C.make | D.polish |
A.mystery | B.discovery | C.tradition | D.problem |
A.leader | B.host | C.assistant | D.manager |
A.method | B.direction | C.advice | D.say |
6 . I am a professor of clinical psychology. Some time ago, I got halfway through a day of teaching before a co-worker pointed out to me I was quite carelessly wearing a pair of different shoes, one red and one black. I felt so embarrassed and upset but I would have to go teach my course like this. When I noticed how much I wanted to disappear and avoid this situation, I was determined to face it instead. I walked into class and announced to the students that I was wearing two shoes from different pairs, and directed their attention to my feet. Everyone laughed and we went on with class. Years later, a student in that class told me that this was the moment she first thought that maybe, just maybe, she could be a professor, too.
I shared my mistake because I realized that trying hide it was interfering with my ability to concentrate my mind on my teaching — but I had no idea that it would also help shorten the psychological distance between my students and myself.
Many contexts may punish or shame people for making mistakes. Our efforts to avoid them result from our desires for success, and how others will respond to our mistakes. We might feel self-criticism and shame if we do make some.
However, mistake making is part of learning new things, and it can draw us closer to others. It opens up the possibility of accepting mistakes gladly, letting us be more open and engaged in what we are doing.
We can say words of kindness and self-compassion to ourselves: Mistakes are natural and human; we can be kind to ourselves for this error and still try to do better next time; noticing our own imperfections can help us to be kind to others when we notice they are imperfect, too. When we practice our mistakes in this way, they can become opportunities to open up to others, learn about ourselves, and connect even more with what matters to us.
1. How does the author develop paragraph 1?A.By giving some examples. | B.By following time order. |
C.By doing scientific experiments. | D.By sharing personal experience. |
A.Shameful. | B.Unexpected. | C.Punishable. | D.Unaccepted. |
A.Intentions to avoid mistakes. | B.Advantages of making mistakes. |
C.Possibilities of making mistakes. | D.Efforts to avoid making mistakes. |
A.They interfere with what we are doing. |
B.They draw too much attention from us. |
C.They are big opportunities to get us improved. |
D.They make us feel irresponsible and defeated. |
7 . Cope With Loneliness or Depression
My grandmother, Margaret lived to be 104, spending the last 16 years of her life in a nursing home. Although
By our very nature, human beings are relational. As social beings, we need some sense of
Being alone. What does that
A.mentally | B.sadly | C.happily | D.physically |
A.recovery | B.death | C.victory | D.failure |
A.While | B.As | C.Until | D.With |
A.chance | B.honor | C.right | D.choice |
A.complained | B.reminded | C.informed | D.thought |
A.never | B.sometimes | C.always | D.seldom |
A.ability | B.luck | C.attitude | D.age |
A.depressed | B.disappointed | C.annoyed | D.excited |
A.achievement | B.direction | C.connection | D.humor |
A.amusing | B.amazing | C.different | D.natural |
A.small | B.huge | C.difficult | D.broad |
A.developed | B.invented | C.held | D.found |
A.regained | B.realized | C.reflected | D.recognized |
A.long | B.lonely | C.early | D.last |
A.organize | B.maintain | C.spread | D.broadcast |
A.promises | B.prepares | C.seems | D.starts |
A.calculated | B.collected | C.discovered | D.described |
A.phrase | B.word | C.sentence | D.passage |
A.would | B.can | C.must | D.should |
A.better | B.happier | C.harder | D.easier |
8 . Winter goes and summer comes. The tides
And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be
With this new knowledge I will make
A.advance | B.disappear | C.exist | D.fall |
A.native | B.colleague | C.supporter | D.part |
A.jokes | B.secrets | C.experiences | D.awards |
A.break in | B.wake up | C.take off | D.give out |
A.constantly | B.temporarily | C.casually | D.elegantly |
A.appear | B.blow | C.fade | D.spread |
A.anxious | B.natural | C.additional | D.productive |
A.sow | B.grow | C.separate | D.shelter |
A.fold | B.follow | C.carry | D.load |
A.react | B.review | C.recite | D.repeat |
A.obtains | B.regards | C.allows | D.observes |
A.chosen | B.seized | C.received | D.witnessed |
A.self-awareness | B.self-control | C.self-esteem | D.self-pity |
A.behind the scene | B.on the bottom line | C.at the end of the rope | D.out of sight |
A.insignificant | B.improper | C.impolite | D.unconscious |
A.concrete | B.inadequate | C.abstract | D.unmatched |
A.use | B.fun | C.sure | D.sense |
A.view | B.meeting | C.experiment | D.idiom |
A.limited | B.reserved | C.prepared | D.afraid |
A.salesman | B.player | C.architect | D.designer |
9 . After leaving the publishing industry in my fifties, I chose a university to follow my love for animal biology. I regard the experience as a change for my self-confidence, both inside and outside the classroom.
My background is in the arts, so I wanted to see if I could keep up with a science degree. I was a carer for my parent when I was 18, so I didn’t have the opportunity to go to university then. I was a little nervous, and worried, but I was actually treated the same as all the other students.
I’m definitely a bit of a mum figure to some of my classmates, but that’s fine. Friendship grows in different ways. I’ve done lots of volunteering, so there have been plenty of opportunities to extend my knowledge and experience.
My family have been so supportive. My husband is retired(退休) now and has taken on lots of the housework so that I can study. My daughter has already g other degree and she’s been great helping me get new views. I’ve hunted for a few jobs at the university, and I’m also considering other qualifications. I have learned so much about critical thinking.
I would recommend adult study to anyone, even if it’s just college, so they can feel that connection and support. That’s what I missed-going in regularly and having a group of people to talk to, especially if you have gradually lost your confidence over the years You need the support from people who see you as a person and not just a mum or a wife. It’s really given me the confidence to speak up again, to join in and be part of the society.
1. Why did the author choose a university?A.To teach arts. | B.To get a degree. |
C.To follow her passion. | D.To find a better job. |
A.Keeping a science degree. | B.Taking care of her parents. |
C.Being nervous about study. | D.Showing no interest in university. |
A.She got on better with her old friends. |
B.She learned to be stricter with herself. |
C.She was more responsible for her housework. |
D.She became more confident to express herself. |
A.It Is Never Too Old to Learn. |
B.Hard Work Is the Key to Success. |
C.Family Support Is of Great Importance. |
D.Volunteering Is Helpful in Developing Friendship. |
10 . In 1838, Charles Darwin faced a problem. Nearing his 30th birthday, he was trying to decide whether to marry. To help make his decision, Darwin made a list of the expected pluses and minuses of marrying.
Darwin is struggling with what I call a wild problem — a fork in the road of life where knowing which path is the right one isn’t obvious. How should we go ahead then, especially if we want to make a rational decision?
As we will see, the cost-benefit list that Darwin constructed is less helpful. He managed to come up with more minuses than pluses. His list — especially of pluses is the list made by who has never been married and has no access to the upside of the inner life of a married man. With many wild problems, the downside is easily imagined, while the upside is hidden from us. That’s one reason wild problems are so hard to tackle with the standard tools of rationality.
Less than a year later, Darwin married and had seven surviving children. Somehow, he managed to become one of the greatest scientists of all time and forever changed our understanding of who we human beings are. What’s the lesson to be learned from his decision-making process?
Life is more than accumulating pleasure or avoid pain. Humans want purpose. We want meaning. We want to belong to something larger than ourselves. The decisions we make in the face of wild problems don’t lead to good days and bad days. They define us. They determine who we are, who we might aspire to become, who we might come to be.
Learn from Darwin. Spend less time trying to figure out the best path to get to where we want to go and spend more time thinking about where we want to go in the first place.
1. How did Darwin decide whether to marry at first?A.He made a rational decision. |
B.He was struggling with a wild problem. |
C.He constructed a list of costs and benefits. |
D.He came up with more pluses than minuses. |
A.Critical. | B.Impartial. | C.Unconcerned. | D.Approval. |
A.pretend | B.manage | C.need | D.dream |
A.Life has more pleasure than pain. |
B.It is crucial to figure out our purpose. |
C.Life is about good days and bad days. |
D.How to best tackle problems defines us. |