1 . I ask every student I interview for admission to my institution, Pitzer College, the same question, “What do you look forward to the most in college?” I was surprised and delighted recently when a student called David replied. “I look forward to the possibility of failure.” Of course, this is not how most students respond to the question when siting before the person who can make decisions about their academic future. “You see, my parents have never let me fail,” he said. “When I want to take a chance at something, they remind me it’s not a safe route to take. Taking a more challenging course or trying an activity I may not succeed in, they tell me, will ruin my chances at college admission.”
I wish I could tell you this is an uncommon story. Students are usually in shock when I tell them I never expect perfection. But these days finding imperfections in a college application is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Students only tell us things they believe we will find impressive. And this is supported by a secondary school culture where teachers are under pressure to give students nothing less than an A, and counselors are told not to report disciplinary infractions to colleges.
Admission officers are digging deeper to find out who students really are outside of their medals or test scores. We get most excited when we read an application that seems real. It’s so rare to hear stories of defeat and win that when we do, we cheer. If their perspectives are of lessons learned or challenges overcome, these applicants tend to jump to the top of the heap at highly selective colleges. We believe an error in high school should not define the rest of your life, but how you respond could shape you forever.
During my weekend of interviews, another student Jefferson told me, “I’m ashamed to admit I failed calculus, but I decided to take it again and got a B-plus. I will still take calculus, even though I don’t like it.” I asked him what he had learned from the experience. “I learned to let go of shame,” he said. “I realized that I can’t let a grade define my success. I also learned that if you want anything bad enough, you can achieve it.”
I smiled as I wrote his words down on the application-review form. Apparently, he has the coping skills he needs to adjust to college life. Failure is about growth, learning, overcoming and moving on. Let’s allow young people to fail. Not only will they learn something, it might even get them into college!
1. What can we learn from David’s reply?A.He wanted to show he had never failed before. |
B.He wanted to prove he was an independent thinker. |
C.He wanted to set himself apart from other applicants. |
D.He wanted to try something new, even though he might fail. |
A.Students lie about what they have achieved. |
B.Students list everything in their applications. |
C.Students just show their best in their applications. |
D.Students show good writing skills in their applications. |
A.The one that shows a balance between life and study. |
B.The one that proves a student focuses on test scores less. |
C.The one that proves a student understands what college life is. |
D.The one that shows a student has struggled and overcome a barrier. |
A.He didn’t care that Jefferson failed calculus. |
B.He appreciated Jefferson’s attitude to failure. |
C.He found Jefferson’s self-awareness impressive. |
D.He appreciated that Jefferson was open about college life. |
A.Teachers should be responsible for helping students succeed. |
B.Students would benefit from the positive attitude to failure. |
C.Parents should try to keep their kids from suffering failure. |
D.Experiences of enough failure could shape students’ future. |
2 . I cannot stop thinking about the video of a 10-year-old girl facing her fears at the top of a ski jump. Her fear, her courage, her joy, her pride — the whole thing has really touched me. Of course, the video makes me reflect on the times when I experienced the similar feeling. I remember how in those moments every cell in my body vibrated (颤动) with life. But it also reminded me of the times I didn’t choose the more risky options.
I’ve always been a little bit of a chicken when it comes to my physical safety but I definitely pushed myself more when I was younger. Now that I’m a mom, I feel like I have to stay safe. I worry about what my kids would do without me and that leads me to make safe choices.
But as I watch this fourth grade overcome her fears, I think about how much this experience will mean to her in the future; she’ll always have this as a reference point when she comes up against something scary or difficult. She’ll be able to look back on this and say, “Well, I did that and the worst part was the bad feeling at the beginning.”
I know I want that view for my 8-year-old daughter and 5-year-old son. I know I want them to take risks. Maybe not every day, maybe not ski-jumping, definitely not extreme sports, but I deeply hope that they will push themselves to their limits, facing down fear with whatever tools they can use and enjoying the great rush that comes from attempting scary things and getting to the other side of them.
So if I want that for my kids, I have to honestly look at my own relationship with risk and say that yes... I play it safe. And I have to ask myself another question: Am I doing enough? Or do I need to make some changes in my life so that my daughter and son can be inspired to make their own brave decisions?
1. How did the author react when watching that video?A.She felt ashamed of herself. |
B.She realized that sport was dangerous. |
C.She thought of her own past experiences. |
D.She regretted taking part in some risky activities. |
A.be careful of her safety |
B.push herself to her limits |
C.be overprotective of her kids |
D.pick up the risky activities again |
A.having safe choices is important |
B.taking a risk isn’t as scary as it seems |
C.overcoming fears requires a long time |
D.making preparations for future is necessary |
A.let her kids play with the girl in the video |
B.certainly allow her kids to try ski-jumping |
C.use some tools to practice her kids’ courage |
D.participate in more risk activities to set an example |
A.Pushing Ourselves to Our Limits |
B.Paying Attention to Kids’ Activities |
C.Learning a Kind of Risky Activities |
D.Encouraging Kids to Choose What They Like |
3 . For my 8th birthday my
I bumped into the curb (路缘),
Learning life lesson is
But things are different now.
My husband, Rich,
When the life lessons come along in this New Year you may
A.dream | B.reward | C.gift | D.aim |
A.brothers | B.sisters | C.friends | D.classmates |
A.stuck | B.turned | C.knocked | D.pushed |
A.wildly | B.carefully | C.slowly | D.instantly |
A.jumping | B.flying | C.moving | D.leaving |
A.sadness | B.happiness | C.excitement | D.sympathy |
A.although | B.until | C.because | D.while |
A.passed | B.remained | C.happened | D.changed |
A.crowded | B.busy | C.covered | D.empty |
A.experiments | B.attempts | C.fights | D.conflicts |
A.though | B.even | C.much | D.still |
A.wonderful | B.comfortable | C.dangerous | D.painful |
A.ready | B.perfect | C.wrong | D.strong |
A.forced | B.taught | C.allowed | D.ordered |
A.practice | B.habit | C.development | D.feeling |
A.repair | B.fix | C.steady | D.move |
A.almost | B.usually | C.always | D.seldom |
A.in time | B.in relief | C.in turn | D.in case |
A.accept | B.learn | C.refuse | D.avoid |
A.blame | B.complaint | C.support | D.criticism |
4 . It started with a dogwood (山茱英) tree.
I was in Ohio when my mother died on a cold day in February, and everything was
We planted the dogwood in May. Its gray trunk was as thin as my mother's arms. It lay in the
Planting a living thing to
My mother could make anything
As a young adult, I was never good at cultivation (培养)— opportunities, relationships, flowers.
But my mom’s dogwood grew. Its
Soon I began buying other plants. Without explanations, these plants
A part of me believes this is my mother's
Though she has been gone for more than 14 years, I can still find her in my garden.
1.A.cold | B.colorless | C.false | D.delicate |
A.company | B.favor | C.memory | D.place |
A.lined with | B.made of | C.flooded with | D.loaded with |
A.existence | B.sight | C.height | D.wonder |
A.air | B.heaven | C.water | D.ground |
A.honor | B.protect | C.value | D.claim |
A.live up to | B.adapt to | C.hold on to | D.catch up to |
A.appear | B.rise | C.applaud | D.grow |
A.herself | B.itself | C.themselves | D.myself |
A.Far from | B.Because of | C.In face of | D.Apart from |
A.season | B.chance | C.situation | D.moment |
A.branches | B.seeds | C.roots | D.leaves |
A.failed | B.smelt | C.remained | D.exploded |
A.in spite of | B.in case of | C.in regard to | D.in addition to |
A.properly | B.slightly | C.frequently | D.suddenly |
A.tend | B.protect | C.water | D.appreciate |
A.learn | B.share | C.draw | D.apply |
A.lesson | B.secret | C.gift | D.letter |
A.tradition | B.holidays | C.victory | D.life |
A.Taken | B.handed | C.reminded | D.convinced |
5 . I understand why people say experience counts. However, when it comes to finding new solutions to problems,
I became an engineer
I realized my early lack of experience could be a(n)
The team spirit was infectious (有感染力的). My questions were not
Most inventions begin with a(n)
A.inflexibility | B.inexperience | C.inability | D.inaccuracy |
A.stimulated | B.persuaded | C.reserved | D.limited |
A.on purpose | B.on occasion | C.by accident | D.by order |
A.submitted | B.switched | C.failed | D.forgot |
A.tough | B.stupid | C.collective | D.necessary |
A.hate | B.panic | C.passion | D.confidence |
A.credit | B.beating | C.risk | D.turn |
A.trouble | B.plus | C.weakness | D.exception |
A.free | B.discouraged | C.bored | D.frank |
A.deaf | B.wrong | C.obvious | D.traditional |
A.taken up | B.torn up | C.used up | D.built up |
A.encourage | B.clarify | C.question | D.suspect |
A.perceived | B.appointed | C.learned | D.used |
A.instead | B.moreover | C.therefore | D.otherwise |
A.document | B.angle | C.introduction | D.country |
A.discussion | B.argument | C.assumption | D.problem |
A.hide | B.handle | C.admire | D.discover |
A.hatched | B.engaged | C.lost | D.reflected |
A.originally | B.accidentally | C.hopefully | D.politely |
A.creating | B.developing | C.approaching | D.experiencing |
6 . Last week I wrote about how giving to others can and does lift your life and brings more happiness, contentment, and even better health and a longer life. It must have
As I walked out of the building, I felt so good and happy in the
Most of us, when we talk about giving, tend to think
A.attracted | B.prohibited | C.motivated | D.allowed |
A.found | B.devoted | C.committed | D.dressed |
A.suddenly | B.specially | C.well | D.straight |
A.presence | B.center | C.edge | D.absence |
A.got through | B.registered for | C.rolled over | D.headed for |
A.donations | B.experiments | C.predictions | D.decisions |
A.voice | B.building | C.-world | D.mountain |
A.surprising | B.interesting | C.annoying | D.convincing |
A.often | B.purely | C.simply | D.deliberately |
A.make | B.share | C.get | D.change |
A.shock | B.feeling | C.gift | D.reward |
A.difference | B.restriction | C.gap | D.connection |
A.body | B.heart | C.muscle | D.ankle |
A.handle | B.improve | C.spread | D.block |
A.Purchasing | B.Organizing | C.Giving | D.Changing |
A.official | B.foreign | C.familiar | D.positive |
A.fortunately | B.constantly | C.primarily | D.eventually |
A.effort | B.contribution | C.requirement | D.chance |
A.real | B.legal | C.formal | D.huge |
A.terminal | B.lift | C.train | D.rest |
Trevor Baylis,the inventor has a swimming pool just inside his front door and a hot tub(盆)on the front. This energetic former stunt man(替身演员),with a training in structural engineering and a swimming-pool business, heard some TV talk about the difficulty of sending out warnings of Aids in Africa because without power or batteries, radios were useless.
So he invented a clockwork(发条)wind-up radio: turn round the handle for 60 seconds and you can hear the whole of The World At One and The Arches. He got mentioned in a BBC programme. There was a meeting with Nelson Mandela and an OBE from the Queen. There are his spots on radio and television.
As a Junior High school dropout from Hendon in London, however, he wants to do something to help all the inventors less lucky than him. He wants to set up an Academy of Invention.
“I’ve learned something in my 62 years,” he says. “I don’t mind anybody looking down on me, as long as they don’t expect me to be looking up. If someone’s got a problem with me, it’s their problem. They say, ‘You’re rather strange .’ Well, if being strange means you live in a house with an indoor swimming pool and a hot tub on the front, let’s be strange. People may think I am out of the trees, but to believe convention(惯例)is something that prevents answer. You may give a conventional person a problem, they’ll come up with a conventional answer. Conventional people can’t deal with the questions of unconvention .”
1. What did Trevor invent?2. Was Trevor a successful student according to the passage?And why?
3. What does the underlined phrases “out of the trees”mean in this passage ?
4. What is Trevor’s opinion about convention according to the last paragraph ?
5. What can we learn from the passage?
8 . In ancient Greek mythology, we learn about a young man named Narcissus. He was so beautiful that he fell in love with his own reflection. But soon he realized that what he loved was not real. As a result he became sad and died. In the place where he had stood appeared a yellow flower - a narcissus.
This is where the word “narcissism” came from. Unfortunately, narcissism is often used negatively - it is usually used to mean being self-centered and not caring about others.
However, part of the reason that narcissism carries these negative meanings is that many people admire themselves in an unhealthy way. But the truth is that good self-love is necessary for our mental health, scientists say.
A study published 10 years ago shows that low self-esteem is responsible for many social problems, and it can affect teenagers seriously. When they feel less confident and not as good as their classmates, teenagers are more likely to suffer from depression, according to the BBC.
The other reason that narcissism is considered an ugly thing is because we are taught that we should care more about others than ourselves and that it’s better to give than to receive.
Thinking about others is the right thing to do, without question. But psychologists say that the love of others is actually based on self-love --if you see yourself as an unpleasant stranger, how can you make friends with anyone else? After all, you are closer to yourself than anyone else. You can’t love another until you love yourself, and you can’t expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself.
If you find that believing in yourself is a challenge, it is time to build a positive self- image and learn to love yourself. You’ll be surprised how nice it can be!
The best way to defeat a negative self-image is to step back and build your pride. Make a list if you need to, but record all of the great things you do every day. Think about how you are always there for your friends; how you help your classmates with their homework; how you manage to get good grades.
If you think you’re weak because you can’t finish a 1,500 m run, get to the track and practice. If you think you’re dull because you are not in fashion, buy a few new clothes. But remember, just because you think it, it doesn’t mean it’s true.
The next time you look in the mirror, try to tell yourself that you are one of a kind. Pick out your best qualities and be proud of yourself.
1. Why does narcissism often have a negative meaning?A.In ancient Greek mythology, Narcissus’s story is sad. |
B.Narcissism is a habit in which people unhealthily admire themselves. |
C.Narcissism is responsible for many social problems. |
D.Narcissism harms one’s mental health. |
A.Teenagers’ physical and mental health is negatively affected. |
B.Teenagers who don’t like themselves are often ignored by teachers. |
C.Teenagers are more likely to suffer from depression. |
D.Teenagers often feel that they could have done better. |
A.People cannot love themselves without loving others. |
B.To love others is the right thing to do, while self-love is not. |
C.Self-love is the basis of love for others. |
D.To love yourself depends on whether others love you. |
A.You can’t finish a 1,500 meter run. | B.You are not in style. |
C.You are weak or dull. | D.You have a negative self-image. |
A.To persuade people to stop being narcissistic. |
B.To suggest that parents care about children’s self-image. |
C.To advise people to look in the mirror and like themselves. |
D.To encourage people to accept and love themselves. |
9 . During school, college and service I never participated in any group discussion or stage program. Therefore, I didn’t know what the stage
Our school has a weekly “Parents View”
After the call my whole body became feverish and I felt really
When my turn came and I started speaking, my legs started shaking and my heartbeat increased. After the speech, I met with the Principal and
Later on with the help of the Principal I
For around one month, I prepared and practiced for my presentation on Motivation. This time I felt easy. I gave the presentation and it was
I learn that everything is
A.fear | B.performance | C.style | D.art |
A.talk | B.magazine | C.program | D.lesson |
A.fortunately | B.surprisingly | C.secretly | D.unluckily |
A.listen | B.move | C.write | D.speak |
A.nervous | B.joyful | C.satisfied | D.disappointed |
A.foolish | B.useful | C.clever | D.negative |
A.anger | B.regret | C.thanks | D.hope |
A.courage | B.information | C.proof | D.advice |
A.And | B.But | C.So | D.Or |
A.explained | B.forgot | C.imagined | D.controlled |
A.serious | B.special | C.strange | D.common |
A.failed | B.started | C.mastered | D.finished |
A.exhibited | B.refused | C.prepared | D.understood |
A.worried | B.sad | C.curious | D.comfortable |
A.met with | B.turned down | C.looked after | D.learnt from |
A.trouble | B.mistake | C.fun | D.improvement |
A.remind | B.invite | C.phone | D.reach |
A.descried | B.studied | C.joked | D.appreciated |
A.because | B.although | C.if | D.therefore |
A.interesting | B.obvious | C.possible | D.right |
10 . My friend North is a manager in a large business company. She often
She told her mother several times to stop it. But the next second, another
I once saw a
When we were young, they told us not to talk to strangers. But now they regard the person who sells insurance on the street
The most
A.debates | B.explains | C.complains | D.chats |
A.amazing | B.annoying | C.terrifying | D.challenging |
A.approximately | B.immediately | C.sincerely | D.frequently |
A.reference | B.trash | C.bargain | D.advertisement |
A.conflict | B.say | C.associate | D.consult |
A.message | B.word | C.post | D.motto |
A.childish | B.stupid | C.foolish | D.silly |
A.resist | B.relieve | C.arouse | D.transfer |
A.reminded | B.frustrated | C.impressed | D.motivated |
A.where | B.that | C.why | D.what |
A.like | B.for | C.of | D.as |
A.something | B.anything | C.everything | D.nothing |
A.how | B.when | C.whether | D.what |
A.imperfections | B.confusions | C.strengths | D.traditions |
A.prevent | B.admit | C.puzzle | D.remove |
A.As a result | B.After all | C.First of all | D.In the meantime |
A.bring about | B.come about | C.result from | D.result in |
A.forgetful | B.stressful | C.forceful | D.regretful |
A.put | B.express | C.take | D.have |
A.behaving | B.acting | C.pretending | D.performing |