I was in high school and at the time my sister was too young to
I
It struck me.
I explained I had been raised that
How have you made a difference to others? How have others made a difference to you?1.
A.useless | B.careless | C.homeless | D.hopeless |
A.participate | B.involve | C.choose | D.go |
A.however | B.but | C.yet | D.so |
A.bring | B.fetch | C.collect | D.take |
A.classmate’s | B.schoolmate’s | C.sister’s | D.family’s |
A.walk around | B.knock around | C.come around | D.stand around |
A.went | B.came | C.approached | D.met |
A.right | B.even | C.still | D.just |
A.watered | B.cried | C.tore | D.dropped |
A.already | B.ever | C.still | D.yet |
A.in spite | B.regardless of | C.concerned about | D.for fear of |
A.happiness | B.truth | C.respect | D.help |
A.strong-minded | B.sad | C.frightened | D.pleased |
A.handed | B.afforded | C.provided | D.supplied |
A.eyes | B.mind | C.opinions | D.heart |
A.but | B.and | C.until | D.or |
A.what | B.when | C.whether | D.why |
A.single | B.poor | C.ordinary | D.normal |
A.stories | B.lessons | C.experiences | D.tears |
A.equally | B.hardly | C.really | D.finally |
When we see something we don’t like, we wish it could be different -- we cry out for something better. That may be human nature, or perhaps it’s something that’s ingrained(根深蒂固的)in our culture.
The root of unhappiness is that we decided we didn’t like it in the first place. We’ve judged it as bad, rather than saying, “It’s not bad or good, as it just is.”
An example: in my recent post(帖子), A Beautiful Method to Find Peace of Mind, quite a few commentators thought my outlook was negative, pessimistic, or fatalistic(听天由命的)... because I said you should expect people to mess up, expect things to go differently from what you planned. Above all, you should embrace that.
It’s too negative to expect something to go wrong, they said. However, I think it’s only negative if you see it as negative, or if you judge it as bad.
Instead, you could accept it as the way the world works -- as the way things actually are. And try to understand why they are that way.
Does it mean you can never change things? Not at all. But changing things is not because you can’t accept things as they are, but because you enjoy the process of change of learning and growing.
Can we make this world a better place? Again, that’s an assumption that it’s a bad place fight now. But instead, you could say the world is just what it is -- and that’s neither good nor bad. You can say that you’ll continue to try to do things to help others, to grow as a person, to make a difference in this world -- not because you’re such a bad person now, but because that’s the path you choose to take, because you enjoy that path.
As you catch yourself judging, and wishing for different -- try a different approach: accept, and understand. It might lead to some interesting results.
1. Which of the following statements is correct according to the author?
A.We can never change things because we can’t accept them. |
B.We shouldn’t try to do whatever we can to help others and make a difference. |
C.It’s wrong of you to expect things to go differently. |
D.There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. |
A.The world is a good place for us to live in. |
B.Unhappiness comes from what we want to be different. |
C.You might as well accept the world as it is and try to embrace it. |
D.Let’s make the world more beautiful. |
A.A novel. | B.A news story. | C.A travel guide. | D.A magazine. |
阅读下面短文,从短文后各题所给的四个选项(A、B、C和D)中,选出可以填入的空白处的最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该选项涂黑。
A group of graduates, successful in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about
Before offering his guests
When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the professor said: “If you
Now consider this:
God brews(酿造)the coffee, not the cups. Enjoy your coffee!
“The
Live simply. Love
A.difficulties | B.stress | C.sadness | D.hate |
A.coffee | B.tea | C.gift | D.cups |
A.packed | B.rushed | C.fetched | D.returned |
A.good-looking | B.ugly-looking | C.plain-looking | D.nice-looking |
A.expensive | B.bright | C.excellent | D.comfortable |
A.suspected | B.noticed | C.ignored | D.appreciated |
A.filled | B.brought | C.taken | D.used |
A.normal | B.careful | C.polite | D.rude |
A.share | B.access | C.entrance | D.source |
A.puts | B.adds | C.attaches | D.ties |
A.this | B.which | C.it | D.one |
A.really | B.generally | C.possibly | D.precisely |
A.looked | B.searched | C.applied | D.went |
A.Peace | B.Joy | C.Chance | D.Life |
A.refer | B.reflect | C.contain | D.support |
A.quality | B.quantity | C.character | D.value |
A.keeping | B.basing | C.concentrating | D.depending |
A.coolest | B.craziest | C.happiest | D.saddest |
A.make | B.use | C.accept | D.put |
A.nervously | B.secretly | C.generously | D.curiously |
4 . The town I live in is about to put cameras at all traffic lights to catch people who run red lights. It
It occurs to me that my
If I obey these rules, my life will be as
A.suggests | B.informs | C.reminds | D.warns |
A.sight | B.signal | C.message | D.switch |
A.instant | B.exciting | C.dangerous | D.cautious |
A.notice | B.sense | C.remember | D.feel |
A.events | B.problems | C.situations | D.accidents |
A.think of | B.wonder about | C.care for | D.worry about |
A.Besides | B.Anyway | C.Instead | D.However |
A.noisy | B.narrow | C.crowded | D.key |
A.control | B.direct | C.improve | D.serve |
A.learn | B.obey | C.protect | D.carry |
A.supposed | B.used | C.devoted | D.delighted |
A.teachers | B.friends | C.leaders | D.parents |
A.in charge of | B.in face of | C.in terms of | D.in danger of |
A.safe | B.green | C.beneficial | D.helpful |
A.live | B.share | C.work | D.communicate |
A.unless | B.when | C.before | D.till |
A.still | B.even | C.only | D.also |
A.start | B.attend | C.leave | D.miss |
A.good | B.colorful | C.meaningful | D.healthy |
A.traffic | B.light | C.life | D.confidence |
Many years ago, I owned a service station and roadhouse on the main road between Melbourne and Adelaide.
One very cold, wet night at about 3:30 a.m., there was a
at the car and said that he would hitchhike(搭便车)back.
Once I had
Before leaving, I had turned the heater
It was about 5 a. m. before they
About a month later, I received a
In his letter, he thanked me again and
A.kick | B.hit | C.beat | D.knock |
A.finger | B.shoulder | C.head | D.hand |
A.driven | B.used | C.come | D.run |
A.away | B.behind | C.over | D.out |
A.supplied | B.poured | C.equipped | D.filled |
A.sleeping | B.crying | C.quarrelling | D.fighting |
A.allow | B.ring | C.lead | D.follow |
A.on | B.off | C.in | D.over |
A.heat | B.hot | C.warm | D.attractive |
A.around | B.inside | C.nearby | D.along |
A.drivers | B.guests | C.customers | D.adults |
A.left | B.arrived | C.ate | D.disappeared |
A.gave | B.paid | C.owed | D.offered |
A.appeared | B.exhibited | C.calculated | D.shown |
A.call | B.letter | C.check | D.notice |
A.get | B.force | C.require | D.hope |
A.pointed | B.turned | C.worked | D.found |
A.generous | B.successful | C.serious | D.powerful |
A.praised | B.persuaded | C.informed | D.convinced |
A.lesson | B.business | C.aspect | D.case |