1 . It was one of those moments every new parent dreads (恐惧). My baby son was screaming as if I’d just dipped him in a bucket (桶) of battery acid. It felt as if he’d been screaming like that for years, though he was only two months old. Even worse, this was happening in public— I was sitting with my howling baby in the food court of a Los Angeles mall, despairing (绝望) as other diners silently judged me while watching us over plates of food.
Until, that is, one woman— a complete stranger— did something and taught me a lesson about kindness that lingers to this day. She walked over to me and put her hand on my shoulder. “This won’t last forever,” she said. “I know it doesn’t seem like it right now, but things will get better. He’ll stop crying. You’ll get some sleep.”
It was such a small thing, a tiny kindness, really, but it made all the difference. It was 2001 and I was living in a foreign city with a newborn, without friends or family, and I was terribly lonely. This woman had seen me, if only for a moment, and taken the time to make a human connection. It was just a minute out of her day, but it has stayed with me for nearly two decades.
We all want to be better in the world and more giving to others. But we can easily get hung up on the sheer (完全的) importance of that challenge— making time to regularly volunteer or finding money to donate to a cause. Doing good doesn’t have to be an important task, though; it can be incremental (递增的). It can be as quick as a smile, a word, a phone call, an email. It can be the note you send to a friend who is feeling blue or the baby carriage you help carry down the subway stairs for a parent on their own, even though you’re late for work.
I’m reminded of a line from Brian Goldman’s bestseller, The Power of Kindness: “The opposite meaning of empathy is apathy (冷漠).” That is, the opposite of doing good isn’t doing harm; it’s doing nothing. Every tiny act of generosity— every door held open, every coffee bought for a stranger— builds a bridge to another person. It says, “I see you.” Today, when we spend most of our time looking at our phones, and not at people’s faces, that’s invaluable.
So, while I’m not particularly good at regularly volunteering or running marathons to raise money for charity, I’m committed to small gestures. I try to send a note of praise every day to someone whose work I admire. I’ve become phone friends with a lonely 87-year-old woman who contacted me about something I wrote, and who lives in a city far from her own children and grandchildren. On airplanes, I find the new parents with panicked eyes and offer to hold their babies. I remember what it felt like when the screaming baby was mine. I remember when a tiny kindness felt monumental, enough to change the world.
1. Why did the author mention her baby son’s crying in Paragraph 1?A.To create a disappointing atmosphere. | B.To prove her opinion. |
C.To show her helplessness. | D.To introduce the topic. |
A.Always trying to do important deeds. | B.Being short of time. |
C.Being lacking in money. | D.Keeping looking at their phones. |
A.doing harm to others is better than doing nothing |
B.people are supposed to pay more attention to others’ faces |
C.every small gesture counts in connecting people |
D.spending most of our time looking at our phones is invaluable |
A.The Kind Strangers | B.The Small Mercies |
C.The Power of Words | D.The Power of Kindness |
2 . A star athlete at the college where I work recently stopped by my office. After committing a few unforced errors during a weekend match, she suffered severely by self-criticism.
This student, like many I teach, strongly believes she should be able to control the outcomes of her life by virtue of her hard work. In her mind, “Nothing can stop me but myself”. So when these students fall short of what they imagine they should accomplish, they are filled with self-blame, reasoning, “If my accomplishments are mine to control, my failures must be entirely my faults, too”, which makes it extremely difficult for them to move on.
We often owe young adults struggling with failure to their parents’ over protection of them from discomfort. But there is another factor at play—a message transmitted by indulging (纵容的) parents who have falsely promised them that they can achieve anything if they are willing to work for it. However, the cruel reality of life is that you can do everything in your power—and still fail.
Psychologists Luthar and Kumar urge parents and teachers to spend time helping students find purpose, or goals they genuinely love to pursue and that make an impact on the world, which may help them gain greater life satisfaction and become more psychologically mature. Besides, instead of allowing our kids to beat themselves up when things don’t go their way, we might all question a culture where one is considered lazy without full devotion. The point is to remind them that life has a way of sucker-punching (出其不意) us when we least expect it. It’s often the people who learn to say “stuff happens” who get up the fastest.
1. What does the underlined phrase “by virtue of” in paragraph 2 mean?A.in addition to | B.in spite of |
C.by means of | D.for fear of |
A.they are not taught how to deal with difficulties |
B.they are short of the ability to handle failure |
C.they are under the protection of their parents |
D.they are misled by their parents’ false message |
A.But what is the reason for that? |
B.Actually there are some findings. |
C.Then what should be done to help? |
D.So experts have their own concerns. |
A.To teach students how to avoid faults. |
B.To lead students to set their truly loved goals. |
C.To help students to discover a path to success. |
D.To allow kids to blame themselves. |
A.Students don’t care about failure at all. |
B.Students are sure to succeed if they try their best. |
C.Students should bear all the failures on their own. |
D.Students with positive attitudes can move on more easily. |
3 . During school, college and service I never participated in any group discussion or stage program. Therefore, I didn’t know what the stage
Our school has a weekly “Parents View”
After the call my whole body became feverish and I felt really
When my turn came and I started speaking, my legs started shaking and my heartbeat increased. After the speech, I met with the Principal and
Later on with the help of the Principal I
For around one month, I prepared and practiced for my presentation on Motivation. This time I felt easy. I gave the presentation and it was
I learn that everything is
A.fear | B.performance | C.style | D.art |
A.talk | B.magazine | C.program | D.lesson |
A.fortunately | B.surprisingly | C.secretly | D.unluckily |
A.listen | B.move | C.write | D.speak |
A.nervous | B.joyful | C.satisfied | D.disappointed |
A.foolish | B.useful | C.clever | D.negative |
A.anger | B.regret | C.thanks | D.hope |
A.courage | B.information | C.proof | D.advice |
A.And | B.But | C.So | D.Or |
A.explained | B.forgot | C.imagined | D.controlled |
A.serious | B.special | C.strange | D.common |
A.failed | B.started | C.mastered | D.finished |
A.exhibited | B.refused | C.prepared | D.understood |
A.worried | B.sad | C.curious | D.comfortable |
A.met with | B.turned down | C.looked after | D.learnt from |
A.trouble | B.mistake | C.fun | D.improvement |
A.remind | B.invite | C.phone | D.reach |
A.descried | B.studied | C.joked | D.appreciated |
A.because | B.although | C.if | D.therefore |
A.interesting | B.obvious | C.possible | D.right |
4 . Do you know the proverb “no pain, no gain”? It gives the impression that we ought to be suffering while we study. It seems that the only way to know if we’ re putting in enough work is how much hardship we bear. We are totally taken up with study, shutting ourselves away for a big exam. Is that necessarily true?
When we haven’t taken the time to come up with another idea, we just shut ourselves in a room with a book. It’s no surprise that we find revision boring and difficult. Just as children learn from playing, we can learn from doing, or at least from study techniques that interest us, rather than make us switch off. Shutting ourselves away can make us learn to hate studying, leading to a situation where, instead of being able to concentrate on our work, we are troubled by how unfair it is that we must study. This can be part of a vicious cycle (恶性循环) that traps us into ineffective revision, or poor progress fueling further annoyance.
Thankfully, working in the company of other people really helps fight against that. We just need to learn how to deal with distractions(使人分心的事). It’s not necessary to avoid all company, just lazy company. They constantly try to keep others in conversation, while studying in the same room with someone who is ironing or working out is perfectly possible. Of course, it’s also a good idea to avoid the company of people involved in activities where you would rather be playing than studying. Working while sitting next to someone playing video games is most likely to end with a new high score of games rather than productive revision.
If being around others means working in a noisy environment, a pair of headphones and some background music can block out noises. They also act as a psychological barrier, so that people think twice before interrupting you. Besides, we should know friends and family can lessen feelings of isolation. And connecting with other people makes us happy, so it’s important not to give that up and to make sure that we take the time to socialize.
1. What is the author’s purpose of writing the text?A.To introduce effective studying means. |
B.To encourage us to work as hard as possible. |
C.To remind us to balance activities and study. |
D.To discuss the importance of family company. |
A.Good ideas are needed in terms of progress. |
B.Ways that interest us can lead to effective revision. |
C.Shutting ourselves away can help concentrate on work. |
D.With study techniques, revision is interesting and easy for certain. |
A.One should learn from certain activities that interest him. |
B.Playing video games is helpful for effective study. |
C.One shouldn’t study with the company of a video game player. |
D.The more time one spends in playing games, the higher test scores one will get. |
A.Give up others company at once. |
B.Think twice before taking any action. |
C.Give indication of not wanting to be interrupted. |
D.Force yourself to be accustomed to the environment. |
5 . Sitting in my school cafeteria, I looked around, slowly taking in everything. Student after student passed my
Catching the eye of a girl in my grade sitting at a nearby table, I waved
I have an incurable lung disease. No one at our school knows—I don’t show any noticeable
Before that day when I decided to
A.order | B.room | C.table | D.cafeteria |
A.imagine | B.compare | C.observe | D.exchange |
A.uniform | B.rules | C.circumstances | D.surface |
A.politely | B.wildly | C.coldly | D.impatiently |
A.found | B.noticed | C.heard | D.decided |
A.remembered | B.suspected | C.predicted | D.regretted |
A.willing | B.outstanding | C.understanding | D.demanding |
A.escaped | B.satisfied | C.hit | D.attracted |
A.diseases | B.symptoms | C.complaints | D.weaknesses |
A.but | B.and | C.or | D.so |
A.bright | B.real | C.serious | D.dark |
A.tolerate | B.create | C.change | D.view |
A.forgave | B.pitied | C.challenged | D.encouraged |
A.debt | B.reward | C.burden | D.schedule |
A.changeable | B.perfect | C.unique | D.different |
6 . When I was about 12, I had an enemy, a girl who liked to point out my shortcomings. Week by week her list
He listened to me
I did
I brought the list back to Daddy. He
Daddy's advice has always
A.collected | B.added | C.grew | D.continued |
A.good | B.bad | C.short | D.greedy |
A.silly | B.friendly | C.dull | D.proud |
A.In other words | B.Above all | C.As it is | D.At last |
A.tears | B.happiness | C.promises | D.wishes |
A.coldly | B.quietly | C.eagerly | D.happily |
A.who | B.how | C.what | D.that |
A.excuse | B.opinion | C.talk | D.advice |
A.take | B.make | C.create | D.receive |
A.wrong | B.correct | C.big | D.true |
A.as | B.so | C.before | D.till |
A.joy | B.pleasure | C.surprise | D.anger |
A.say | B.like | C.do | D.change |
A.wonderful | B.clear | C.interesting | D.beautiful |
A.promised | B.refused | C.expected | D.agreed |
A.wider | B.higher | C.better | D.worse |
A.listen | B.stand | C.speak | D.share |
A.hurt | B.sad | C.shy | D.excited |
A.words | B.mouths | C.eyes | D.ears |
A.returned | B.gone | C.appeared | D.happened |
7 . A few years ago, I was given a wallet. A beautiful elephant was woven into its front panel. The wallet was
The wallet was not only beautiful; it had a personality: it loved to run away, as I told my parents over and over again, only to receive eye
One day,
But then, around a week later, my parents received a
I don’t know if I believe in chance or luck, but I do know I believe in
A.handed | B.lent | C.sold | D.gifted |
A.glances | B.rolls | C.contacts | D.shadows |
A.needed | B.abandoned | C.noticed | D.misplaced |
A.otherwise | B.moreover | C.however | D.therefore |
A.jumped | B.escaped | C.flew | D.stole |
A.loss | B.event | C.failure | D.mistake |
A.message | B.note | C.letter | D.card |
A.thought | B.value | C.news | D.excitement |
A.telephone | B.greeting | C.command | D.voice |
A.check | B.passage | C.book | D.story |
A.seemed to | B.used to | C.intended to | D.happened to |
A.interest | B.gratitude | C.wishes | D.concerns |
A.remarkable | B.generous | C.careless | D.serious |
A.opened | B.rewrote | C.concluded | D.attached |
A.theory | B.truth | C.humanity | D.principle |
8 . Life from birth to death is an unbroken chain of ever-increasing, unavoidable struggles. Struggles are a kind of
Face struggles and master them.
The strongest trees in the forest aren't those most
My grandfather was a wagon (四轮马车)maker. In
Struggles force us to move when we would otherwise stand
Once we understand the broad purpose of life, we are
A.rule | B.tool | C.barrier | D.behavior |
A.offer | B.update | C.receive | D.discover |
A.inconvenience | B.experience | C.question | D.examination |
A.Then | B.Still | C.Yet | D.Even |
A.prevented | B.endangered | C.affected | D.protected |
A.unreasonable | B.unfavorable | C.unfamiliar | D.beneficial |
A.planting | B.turning | C.ruining | D.clearing |
A.exposed | B.connected | C.accustomed | D.addicted |
A.tougher | B.weaker | C.drier | D.prettier |
A.which | B.what | C.that | D.when |
A.for | B.despite | C.without | D.through |
A.bear | B.increase | C.remove | D.lessen |
A.outside | B.straight | C.apart | D.still |
A.reputation | B.success | C.courage | D.independence |
A.Anything | B.Everything | C.Something | D.Nothing |
A.willing | B.afraid | C.ashamed | D.surprised |
A.On the contrary | B.For instance | C.As a result | D.In particular |
A.discouragement | B.ambition | C.opportunities | D.drawbacks |
A.richest | B.fairest | C.easiest | D.fullest |
A.mistakes | B.sacrifices | C.decisions | D.arrangements |
9 . Last fall, I went to New York for sightseeing. I visited many tourist attractions there, and I also saw many unfortunate citizens on the street, like beggars and homeless folks.
Standing outside the Metropolitan Museum of Art, I heard a voice ask, “Can you do me a favor?” When I turned around, I saw an elderly blind woman with her hand extended out. Naturally, I reached into my pocket for some change immediately and placed it in her hand without even looking at her. I was really annoyed at being bothered by a beggar. What I only thought at that moment was to send her away.
But the blind woman said with a warm smile on her face, "I don't want your money. I just need you to show me the way to the subway entrance."
In an instant, I realized what I had done just now. Her unexpected words took me by surprise and shame. I had acted with prejudice ——I'd judged another person simply for what I assumed she had to be. I felt ashamed of myself and couldn't face the old woman anymore. And I felt small beside her.
The incident reminded me that I believed in being humble, even though I had lost that belief for a moment. The thing I had forgotten about myself is that I am an immigrant. I left Honduras and arrived in the U. S. at the age of 15. Through the years, I have experienced many acts of prejudice. I remember a time at the age of 17 when I was a busboy, I heard a father tell his little boy that if he did not do well in school, he would end up like me. But now, living my American middle-class lifestyle, it is too easy to forget who I am and where I have been, and to lose sight of where I want to go. It is the blind woman who cured me of my blindness.
1. What did the author think the blind woman wanted at first sight?A.To ask for directions. | B.To offer him some help. |
C.To demand some donations. | D.To borrow money from him. |
A.He had a prejudice on the woman. | B.He couldn't face the woman. |
C.He was judged by his appearance. | D.He was an immigrant himself. |
A.To indicate he led a miserable life. | B.To tell he didn't work hard at school. |
C.To prove he used to be a humble man. | D.To show he used to be unfairly judged. |
A.Be Considerate - Always Minding Your Words |
B.Be Humble - Always Dropping Your Prejudice |
C.Be Generous - Always Helping Those in Need |
D.Be Aggressive - Always Having a Big Dream |
10 . The stage lights dimmed, and I took a quick look from behind the heavy black curtains into the audience. Blinded by the lights, I quickly
After a decade of learning this art form, I had
The performance is undertaken only by the most
I
Fortunately, I made it. What I had done
A.reached out | B.set off | C.pulled back | D.broke away |
A.sleep | B.breath | C.thought | D.sorrow |
A.career | B.attempt | C.response | D.performance |
A.eventually | B.easily | C.absolutely | D.desperately |
A.debt | B.respect | C.interest | D.talent |
A.shape | B.rescue | C.introduce | D.respond |
A.beautiful | B.focused | C.intelligent | D.considerate |
A.talent | B.strength | C.comprehension | D.commitment |
A.recording | B.discussing | C.practicing | D.designing |
A.pushed | B.addicted | C.treated | D.applied |
A.forget | B.design | C.learn | D.research |
A.discovered | B.abandoned | C.controlled | D.undertook |
A.brilliant | B.brave | C.stubborn | D.discouraged |
A.careless | B.nervous | C.frightened | D.wrong |
A.function | B.stress | C.level | D.action |
A.budget | B.deadline | C.expense | D.expectation |
A.limit | B.purpose | C.preparation | D.destination |
A.increased | B.deserved | C.expanded | D.exposed |
A.completely | B.chiefly | C.originally | D.truly |
A.change | B.supply | C.accomplish | D.explain |