My dad doesn’t write me letters. And he doesn’t always remember my birthday or wedding anniversary -- or even how old I am sometimes.
But I only need to look around me to be reminded of his love. He restored a 100-year-old rocking chair after I told him how much I wanted one. When I moved into my first apartment, he spent his weekends in a small space replacing pipes. And when I lost a blue stone from a favorite necklace, he worked his magic with common stuff
The four greatest words I know are “Dad will build it”.
I could never forget when I was seven, one day we walked by a toy store window. There in the corner was the most unusual doll house had ever seen. It was shaped like an upturned log. Little oval windows were cut into it decorated with white curtains and framed by tiny balconies.
“Oh, Daddy,” I said, “isn’t it beautiful? Do you think Santa Clause will bring it to me?”
Dad looked at the $100 price tag -- too high a figure in those days. “I think even Santa couldn't afford this house,” he joked, hiking up his belt, as he often does when he’s nervous. “Maybe one day, sweetheart, ”Dad probably hoped I’d forget about the doll house, but I kept talking about it.
On Christmas morning, I awoke early and raced downstairs. In the faint light, I made out some wrapped boxes under the tree-- but none large enough to contain my doll house.
Dad could see my disappointment.
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__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________2 . Parents sometimes struggle to find a balance between encouraging an adolescent to achieve without pushing too hard. Pushing a child too much could feed perfectionist tendencies, which can have a serious effect on mental health. Perfectionists are motivated by a fear of failure and reach for high goals in an effort to prove their worth to others.
Parents can help temper (缓和) perfectionist tendencies by bringing “perfectionist thinking” out into the open, helping an adolescent regain perspective and learn to accept their limitations. Here are some ways parents can start that important conversation at home:
Build awareness: Perfectionist thinking takes root in childhood. Evidence suggests just raising awareness about perfectionism — what it looks like in action and its potential costs — can help to lessen its hold.
Normalize suffering: Young people need to hear that it is typical and normal to feel suffering from time to time, and that negative emotions are a normal part of life and not a sign of personal fault. Saying “That sounds really hard” or “
Encourage self-compassion (自我同情) and self-forgiveness: Practicing self-compassion can protect against perfectionist tendencies. Help your child find a go-to line they can say to themselves to drown out the critical voice in their heads, as in:
A.Stop perfectionism |
B.Model healthy coping |
C.I can understand how you feel |
D.At its worst, perfectionism acts as a trap |
E.That’s okay, Jamie, you’re doing your best |
F.Mounting evidence shows how destructive perfectionism can be |
G.One way to do this is to introduce the concept of “good enough” |
3 . Most parents already know that family mealtimes are great for children. But what may come as
When kids are present at
Researchers have also found that having frequent family meals is associated with better
Just as for children, family dinner is the most reliable time of the day for adults to
A.distinguished | B.unexpected | C.apparent | D.inaccessible |
A.pets | B.children | C.adults | D.adolescents |
A.meetings | B.mealtime | C.school | D.games |
A.healthily | B.anxiously | C.securely | D.greedily |
A.obey | B.function | C.affect | D.model |
A.smiling | B.sobbing | C.dieting | D.sharing |
A.kids | B.tutors | C.parents | D.relatives |
A.faint | B.tease | C.escape | D.imitate |
A.mental | B.financial | C.dental | D.physical |
A.burden | B.fortune | C.debt | D.profit |
A.constantly | B.rarely | C.typically | D.occasionally |
A.occupied | B.dragged | C.quarreled | D.dined |
A.optimistic | B.common | C.depressive | D.clinical |
A.contributes | B.sticks | C.submits | D.objects |
A.work | B.count | C.spoil | D.target |
A.take up | B.ring up | C.slow down | D.cut down |
A.nevertheless | B.namely | C.therefore | D.instead |
A.pays | B.answers | C.allows | D.arranges |
A.pressure | B.outcome | C.output | D.misery |
A.resembles | B.holds | C.occurs | D.contains |
Penny’s Present
The sun was shining when Penny woke up. Usually she jumped out of bed with a happy smile for the new day. But today she just lay there frowning (皱眉).
This was the day before Mother’s Day, and Penny still had no present for Mama. She had forgotten about Mother’s Day until she had heard her brother Peter and sister Elizabeth talking last night. “I made Mama an apron (围裙) in sewing class,” Elizabeth had said proudly.
“What are you going to give Mama?” Peter asked Penny. Penny had not answered. She had ducked her head, ashamed to admit that she had spent her pocket money. She had nothing at all to give Mama on her special day.
Penny got out of bed and dressed slowly. The bag of candies she had bought yesterday reminded her of her terrible mistake.
“Well, here’s our littlest sleepyhead,” Mama said as Penny walked into the kitchen. She gave her a good-morning hug, and the smell of baked apples floated up from her apron. In a way, that made Penny feel worse because it reminded her of all the good things Mama did for her.
She remembered a hot day last summer when Mama had spent a whole afternoon making strawberry jam, because she knew Penny liked it. She thought of the moment when Mama polished her shoes and taught her to cut and arrange flowers. Sometimes she also taught Penny to make paper flowers with colorful petals (花瓣).
“Penny dear, can you eat a little faster?” Mama was talking to her. With surprise Penny noticed that everyone else had finished breakfast.
“I’m sorry, Mama.”
“Well, finish up. I have to visit old Mrs. Logan and read for her. But first, I want to get this kitchen cleaned up.” Penny watched her mother hurriedly cleaning up the kitchen. Mama was a very busy person. It seemed to Penny that sometimes Mama could use an extra pair of hands and two more feet. Suddenly she had an idea! There was a present she could give Mama, and it might be better than anything she could buy.
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The next morning, Penny slid into the room with a package.
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“Read the petals of the Promise Flower, Mama,” Penny said.
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________5 . 听下面一段独白,回答以下小题。
1. Which room is Joan responsible for?A.The bathroom. | B.The living room. | C.The kitchen. |
A.Picking up the books. | B.Washing the dishes. | C.Cleaning the coffee table. |
A.Three. | B.Four. | C.Five. |
A.Walk the pet dog. | B.Help clean the kitchen. | C.Tidy up the bookcase. |
1. What day is it today?
A.Thursday. | B.Friday. | C.Saturday. |
A.A birthday party. | B.A welcome party. | C.A goodbye party. |
A.She can take the subway. |
B.She doesn’t have a license. |
C.She is not skilled enough to drive. |
A.The wooden boat. | B.Chocolate. | C.Some flowers. |
1. What did Carol’s mother study at college?
A.Finance. | B.Engineering. | C.Literature. |
A.Carol’s father. | B.The university. | C.Carol’s grandparents. |
A.Work hard. | B.Find a part-time job. | C.Help with the housework. |
A.Mail a letter. | B.Clean her bedroom. | C.Borrow a book. |
1. Where does the conversation probably take place?
A.In the kitchen. | B.In the living room. | C.In the bedroom. |
A.Popular. | B.Attractive. | C.Boring. |
A.Write something. | B.Do some cleaning. | C.Buy the man a new jacket. |
A.To walk in the rain. | B.To run a restaurant. | C.To cook a meal. |
1. Where did Robert have the get-together last year?
A.At his home. | B.At his uncle’s. | C.At his friend’s. |
A.To keep the food fresh. |
B.To make some ice cream. |
C.To keep the apple juice cold. |
A.Uncle Walter. | B.Aunt Linda. | C.George. |
A.Buy some ice. | B.Meet his uncle. | C.Check his homework. |
1. Where did Justin learn about the New Forest National Park?
A.From a newspaper. | B.From his colleagues. | C.From social media. |
A.Walking on the grassland. | B.Playing at the seaside. | C.Camping in the woods. |
A.Weekend accommodation. | B.Wildlife viewing. | C.Childcare services. |
A.Guide and tourist. | B.Driver and passenger. | C.Husband and wife. |