1 . Being impulsive can lead to a host of challenges. Being impulsive at the grocery store can mean spending too much money, or buying junk food and sweets when you meant to buy health y items. You might spontaneously spend the day shopping instead of studying, or playing video games when you meant to go to the gym.
Develop a daily exercise routine.
Exercise, particularly aerobic (有氧的) exercise, will help you be less impulsive. Exercise lifts your mood, and decreases feelings of stress and anxiety.
Learn more about mindfulness practices.
Becoming aware of your feelings and learn to connect with your impulsive thoughts. Mindfulness helps by allowing you some distance from your impulses, offering you the opportunity to choose to act upon your impulses or not.
Surround yourself with people you can go to for help. When your impulsiveness is based on anxiety, you can help yourself by spending time with people you trust. Making sure to have people in your life with whom you can share things you’re concerned about may help ease your anxiety, and decrease your impulsiveness.
Write down your goals.
Determine how you want to prioritize your time. The first step to being less impulsive is to figure out what you want and hope to achieve. Then check and make sure your actions reflect the values you’ve written for yourself. This might mean writing a master task list. If you’re a student, you might want to create a study plan.
A.Seek help from experts. |
B.Talk to people you trust. |
C.If something’s not working, plan out any needed changes. |
D.In addition, it keeps a person’s attention actively engaged. |
E.When you notice an urge, figure it out before acting on it. |
F.Recording your goals helps measure them against your impulses. |
G.You can become less impulsive when you learn to use effective organizational tools. |
2 . Nobody likes to feel negative emotions: Anger, jealousy and regret can all be overwhelming. In fact, we dislike feeling negative emotions so much that some of us will do anything to avoid them, from adopting a sense of denial to turning to food or work as a distraction.
Deep down we know that we can’t be joyful all the time, so why do we have such a problem with the less-than-favorable feelings? It’s natural for people to avoid or suppress negative emotions. We are biologically programmed above all else to survive, to keep ourselves safe; therefore, anything that our brain perceives as something out of our comfort zone, something that might harm us in any way is usually avoided. This is the default in-built programming we have inherited from our ancestors.
However, when we do, things don’t always work out well for us. “When we bury our emotions, they inevitably end up reappearing elsewhere further down the line,” says Dr. Elena Touroni, a consultant psychologist of The Chelsea Psychology Clinic. “Burying them in this way can cause a whole host of different issues and symptoms such as headaches and anxiety.”
Not only can burying our less-desirable emotions impact our well-being, but it also prevents us from enjoying the well-being rewards coming along with these emotions. Actually, it’s a sign of emotional well-being to be able to acknowledge and stay with the uncomfortable feelings instead of pushing them away or denying them. Negative emotions can be wonderful signposts if we pay attention to them. For example, a feeling of dread, uncertainty or fear in any working environment might be a great sign that you need to start to consider changing that environment.
Our emotions are a big part of being human and they serve an important function—even the difficult ones. As Elena says: “Without negative emotions, we would struggle to know our boundaries, how to keep ourselves safe, what hurts us or makes us happy. They can guide us toward making decisions that serve us in the long term.”
1. What is Paragraph 2 of the text mainly about?A.The features of negative emotions. | B.The definition of negative emotions. |
C.The causes of avoiding negative emotions. | D.The methods of avoiding negative emotions. |
A.Keeping a positive attitude. | B.Ignoring the negative emotion. |
C.Taking care of the physical condition. | D.Acknowledging the uncomfortable feelings. |
A.To explain function of negative emotions. |
B.To stress the benefits of negative emotions. |
C.To prove the powerful influence of negative emotions. |
D.To remind that negative emotions can change your job. |
A.The Good Side of Negative Emotions | B.The Reasons for Negativity |
C.The Influence of Negative Emotions | D.The Ways to Embrace Negative Emotions |
3 . Sometimes, we meet with situations that cause us to feel angry to the point we may want to erupt like a volcano or curse (咒骂) someone out.
Science suggests that hearing, seeing, or swimming causes our brain to produce neurochemicals that increase blood flow to the brain and heart. “
Proteins such as fish, tofu, and chicken, help us produce higher levels of dopamine and norepinephrine, which are chemicals in the brain that play a role in your mood, motivation, and concentration. “I found that some foods messed with my stomach.
Whether it’s quick sentences or journal entries, writing down how you feel is a great way to release negative emotions. “
“If you have trouble not getting angry when discussing something or trying to work through a problem with someone, always imagine the conversation is being videotaped. If you keep that in the back of your mind, you will always think about what you say, and it could help keep your mind from the anger,” wrote u/therealtidbits.
A.For me, nothing is better than exercise. |
B.Whenever I can’t help getting angry, I read. |
C.Pretend that when you get angry people are watching. |
D.Whenever I can’t exercise or burn out the feelings, I write. |
E.Anyway, there are always better ways to handle when angry. |
F.They then messed with my head, which brought out the anger. |
G.Pretend there is a camera before you and be mindful of what you say. |
4 . As the trees drop their leaves and frosts advance in, we prepare our homes and ourselves for the winter months.
The phrase “emotional wintering” was popularized by Katharine May. She mentions emotional wintering asks us to see our difficult or uncomfortable feelings as winters which we can get ready for and live through.
Sometimes the emotional winters are caused by an event that makes us feel as though we want to withdraw into ourselves.
With the management, we believe we will be well by the time the next summer rolls around.
A.It prepares us for the coming spring. |
B.Different emotions come to all of us. |
C.Emotional wintering asks us to change. |
D.We can grow from challenging experience. |
E.Thick socks and cosy blankets are brought out. |
F.We expect to always live in our emotional summers. |
G.At other times we simply use up our supplies of positivity. |
5 . Paul Dirac was one of the greatest physicists of the 20th century. He was a pioneer in quantum(量子) theory, which shaped our modern world. Dirac was also a genius when it came to analytical thinking. But when his colleagues asked him for advice, his secret to success had nothing to do with the traditional scientific method. “Be guided,” Dirac told them, “by your emotions.”
Dirac’s advice, like his physics, ran against the common assumption of psychology in his day: that logical thought primarily drives our behaviors, and that when emotions play a role, they are likely to keep us off our best judgment.
Today, researchers have gained a deeper understanding of emotions and how they can positively influence logical choices. In a study led by Professor Mark Fenton, his team conducted interviews with 118 professional traders at four investment banks. They found that even among the most experienced traders, the lower-performing ones seemed less likely to effectively engage with the emotions guiding their choices—whether to buy or sell a set of securities, for example, with millions of dollars at risk. The most successful traders, however, were particularly likely to acknowledge their emotions and followed their direct feelings about stock options(股票期权) when they had limited information to draw on. They also understood that when emotions become too intense, toning them down can be necessary. The issue for the successful traders was not how to avoid emotions but how to control them.
Welcoming emotions into the decision-making process can help us be more clear-eyed about where our choices come from. Dirac knew that emotions helped him look beyond the beliefs of his contemporaries. Again and again, his controversial ideas proved correct. Dirac passed away in 1984, a couple of decades before the revolution in emotion theory began, but he’d been happy to see that he’d been right again.
1. Why does the author mention Paul Dirac in paragraph 1?A.To offer a suggestion. | B.To introduce the topic. |
C.To describe the scientist. | D.To present a phenomenon. |
A.It was permanent. | B.It was unfavorable. |
C.It was meaningful. | D.It was unavoidable. |
A.By working more intensely. | B.By experiencing more widely. |
C.By making decisions more directly. | D.By controlling emotions more efficiently. |
A.A study on professional traders. |
B.A development in emotion theory. |
C.The role of emotions in decision-making. |
D.The achievements of Paul Dirac as a physicist. |
6 . Do you think you need to shout at yourself to force yourself to finish your homework? If so, think again.
Self-compassion is the practice of being kind and supportive to ourselves. The opposite is being self-critical and mean to ourselves when we make a mistake.
A 2017 study found people who practice self-compassion tend to handle stress better. Their bodies have less of a stress response when, for example, they meet with difficulties at work or school.
With practice, we can learn to treat ourselves with kindness and unconditional love — not tough love.
A.So how do we develop self-compassion? |
B.It may be more effective to be kind to yourself. |
C.It includes letting go of your strict self-criticism. |
D.Mindfulness is the key to practicing self-compassion. |
E.But this approach does not make us feel or perform better. |
F.They have more confidence to look for areas where they can improve. |
G.Also, show ourselves kindness in ways that nourish (滋养) our spirit and body. |
7 . Everyone feels a little jealous (妒忌的) once in a while. But when the feeling begins to ruin your relationship and cause you stress, it’s probably time to start looking for ways to get rid of it. Here are some tips to help you along the way.
Sometimes there are deeper underlying (潜在的) issues that fuel jealousy. Once you admit that you’re struggling with jealousy, it’s time to start looking into why you’re feeling that way.
Use your jealousy to motivate yourself
Sometimes jealousy is rooted in feelings of insecurity and a lack of self-confidence.
Constantly comparing yourself to others can fuel feelings of insecurity. It can be tempting to compare yourself to others and want to compete against them. However, constantly setting yourself up against others can just make your jealousy and feelings of insecurity worse. Stop doing that.
A.Find the root of your jealousy |
B.Engage yourself in meaningful activities |
C.Focus on yourself and how you’re doing instead |
D.They are able to help you with increasing your confidence |
E.However, it’s important to find your own unique strengths |
F.For example, low self-confidence is often a cause of jealousy |
G.Your jealousy might be just what you need to seek what you want |
8 . Music affects our emotions. We tend to listen to music that reflects our mood. When we’re happy we may listen to upbeat (愉快的) music; when we’re sad we may listen to slower and more moving songs; when we’re angry we may listen to darker music with heavy guitar, drums and songs that reflect our level of anger. We may not know why we prefer the artists we listen to, but we can learn a lot about ourselves through our musical tastes.
Consider John, a pleasant man in his mid-40s who describes his mid-20s as a time when he was figuring out his place in life. At the time, he considered himself to be cold, nervous, shy, well-mannered and sensitive. But the music he preferred to listen to was dark, heavy and aggressive. After some time in therapy (治疗), John realized he’d been repressing (抑制) anger and aggression due to years of childhood abuse, and music had become his voice. Now John has been able to unlock his previously hidden emotions and begin to work through the issues.
Cindy, a woman in her mid-30s, has struggled through years of depression. While depressed, she often listened to music that reflected sadness and emotional pain. However, Cindy also noted that she had a passion for upbeat music that made her want to dance and feel free from emotional struggle. But she rarely felt this energy and freedom without the music encouraging. It turned out that Cindy was an energetic and happy child. However, Cindy’s struggle with depression began after her mother’s death when she was 11 years old. With the help of therapy, Cindy is now in the process of breaking through the layer of depression that has covered her since her mother died.
In summary, while music can move us in an intense emotional moment, it also can be used to teach us about unconscious elements of our emotional structure. If we notice a pattern of emotional music that raises questions about our current feelings or about who we are, it could be an important opportunity for self-exploration.
1. What kind of music do people probably listen to when they are delighted?A.Music with drums. | B.Slower songs. |
C.Upbeat music. | D.Dark music |
A.He was passionate. | B.He was aggressive. |
C.He was dark inside. | D.He was polite. |
A.Her mother passed away when she was 11 years old. |
B.She rarely felt energetic and free. |
C.She always listened to sad music. |
D.She had experienced childhood abuse. |
A.How to Be Happy |
B.Music Impacts Our Emotions |
C.People Change While Growing up |
D.Different People Listen to Different Music |
9 . How to cultivate emotional awareness
In school, we learned the periodic table and were told to recite the alphabet, but nobody forced us to take a class on what emotions are and how they work.
Emotional awareness is being able to identify and make sense of not only our own emotions but those of others. It’s absolutely essential in maintaining good mental health. But if you’ve spent a lifetime masking your real emotions, being honest with yourself for the first time may prove tough.
Turn to mindfulness
Mindfulness is the process of bringing our attention to: the present moment and becoming more aware of our thoughts.
Practice daily self-reflection
Name what you’re feeling
Sometimes what we really struggle with is putting our emotions into words.
A.When was the last time you stopped and truly observed how you feel? |
B.Turn into your emotions and honestly reflecting on how you feel is important. |
C.It can be difficult to feel heard by others if we don’t have the language to describe how we’re feeling. |
D.But it gets easier with practice. |
E.It’s not always easy to put a finger on exactly what’s wrong, without digging a little deeper. |
F.It’s a state of calm, non-judgmental state of mind. |
G.And for many of us, that means understanding how we feel and why can be incredibly difficult. |
10 . Sometimes too much pressure can make us angry, fed up or sad. But you can actually remove some pressure before it gets the best of you.
Forget about being perfect.
Be calm with mistakes and failure.
Just do it! It is often easy to get stuck in procrastination (拖延) and get little done.
A.Being perfect is pretty meaningless. |
B.Focus on the process, not on the outcome. |
C.If you make mistakes, you should apologize. |
D.It happens, the pressure can start to build up. |
E.Continue with your normal day in a perfect way. |
F.Here are a few things you can do to accomplish that. |
G.The world won’t break down if you make mistakes or fail. |