1 . Nobody enjoys failing.
Figure out where the fear comes from.
Ask yourself what the root cause of your negative belief could be. Write down where you think the fear comes from, and try to understand it as an outsider. If it helps, imagine you’re trying to help one of your best friends. Perhaps your fear comes from something that happened in your childhood, or a deep-seated insecurity.
Learn from whatever happens.
In many cases, you believe what you tell yourself. Your internal dialogue affects how you react and behave.
A.Understand your fear |
B.Learn to think positive |
C.Fear is part of human nature |
D.Things may not go the way you planned |
E.The simplest way to do this is never to take a risk |
F.Naming the source of the fear takes away some of its power |
G.Even the most successful people encounter failure though our society is obsessed with success |
A.Encouraged. | B.Defeated. | C.Depressed. |
A.Confident. | B.Unsure. | C.Worried. |
4 . Self-forgiveness has been defined as the process by which you become aware of any damage you’ve caused, seek to repair it, and eliminate or reduce your feelings of self-condemnation and guilt.
Forgiving yourself entails experiencing feelings of self-condemnation.
Self-forgiveness involves changing the way you think about your past mistakes. It’s of vital importance to stop interpreting them as sources of shame and regret.
The ability to forgive yourself also implies your firm belief that change is possible.
Finally, the last dimension of self-forgiveness is the awareness that you’re only human, hence, not perfect. Consequently, you’re capable of failing at any point in your life. Recognizing yourself as part of humanity can also help you to be more compassionate towards others.
A.Self-forgiveness goes beyond feelings of self-pity. |
B.This doesn’t refer to ignoring the fault you committed. |
C.Self-forgiveness promotes your justice and reparation to others. |
D.These are later replaced by the feeling of need to repair your mistakes. |
E.You need to regard them as part of the process of becoming who you are. |
F.Realizing this may be the first step you need to better face your future mistakes. |
G.This means you’ll be more understanding and flexible in the face of others’ mistakes. |
A.She was late for the appointment. |
B.She often kept other people waiting. |
C.She ran into the man on her way here. |
D.She called her friend about the book. |
A.By offering thanks orally to the loved ones. |
B.By showing gratefulness on a regular basis. |
C.By developing good sleeping and eating habits. |
D.By taking exercise with close friends regularly. |
A.Noticing the positive helps cure eating disorders. |
B.Practicing gratitude can lengthen your sleep cycle. |
C.Showing thankfulness contributes to your career promotion. |
D.Admiring others’ value can improve relationship in workplaces. |
A.It is a blessing that we are valued. |
B.Extending gratitude has multiple benefits. |
C.We should stop counting sheep or calories. |
D.People can learn to be appreciative by heart. |
7 . How to Learn from Your Regrets
Regret’s benefits don’t come to us by chance.
Kill the ghost (鬼魂).
People often say their regrets keep coming to their mind. This suggests that regret is like a ghost. Bring your ghost out of the shadows by making a list of your regrets. Write down why each one still bothers you and its bad effects.
Forgive yourself.
Collect your diploma.
Regret is like a school run by human nature. If you never experienced regret, you would keep repeating the same behaviors that led you to miss opportunities.
Regrets may hurt.
A.After you make a mistake, life moves on |
B.Filling your mind with them is destructive |
C.The ghost certainly doesn’t rule a person’s life |
D.We have to seek them out on purpose to improve ourselves |
E.You will find that a list is a lot less frightening than a ghost |
F.You choose a life sentence for a poor decision you made in the past |
G.If you let regret teach, you can note how you want to change your behavior |
8 . Emotional regulation (情绪管理) is taking any action that changes the intensity of an emotional experience.
Emotions happen fast. We don’t think “now I will be angry” — we just suddenly have fires in our eyes and become extremely angry. So the number one skill in regulating difficult emotions is to pause. Take a breath. Slow down the moment between trigger (触发) and response.
Noticing what you feel
An equally important skill involves the ability to become aware of what you’re feeling. Dr. Judson Brewer, MD Ph. D. recommends practices for becoming more curious about your own physical reactions. In what parts of your body are you noticing feelings? Is your stomach upset? Is your heart racing?
Naming what you feel
After noticing what you feel, the ability to name it can help you get control of what is happening. Ask yourself: What would you call the emotions you’re feeling? Is it anger, sadness, or disappointment?
Accepting the emotion
A.Creating space |
B.Predicting what you feel |
C.It doesn’t mean preventing or avoiding emotions |
D.Emotions come and go so that you barely notice them |
E.Identifying emotions will help you share your feelings with others |
F.Emotions are a normal and natural part of how we respond to situations |
G.Your physical reactions can reflect what you are experiencing emotionally |
9 . According to a Gallup World Poll, 1.1 billion people want to move temporarily to another country in the hope of finding more profitable jobs. An additional 630 million people would like to move abroad permanently.
The global desire to leave home arises from poverty and necessity, but it also grows out of a belief that such mobility is possible. People who hold fast to this universal
It leads to opportunity and profits, but it also has high
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Today, discussions of nostalgia are rare, for the emotion is typically regarded by individuals as an embarrassing block to progress and prosperity. The
Technology also tricks us into thinking that mobility is
But such a claim was
The persistence of homesickness points to the limitations of the universal philosophy that strengthens so much of our market and society. The idea that we can and should feel at home any place on the globe is based on a worldview that celebrates the independent, mobile individual and takes it for granted that men and women are easily separated from family, from home and from the past. But this view isn’t
A.subject | B.wealth | C.vision | D.exchange |
A.transferred | B.tied | C.reduced | D.bridged |
A.globalized | B.intense | C.exporting | D.degrading |
A.transporting | B.domestic | C.psychological | D.administrative |
A.displaced | B.suspected | C.abused | D.monitored |
A.guidance | B.emergency | C.departure | D.justification |
A.misleading | B.wearing | C.resisting | D.facilitating |
A.silence | B.restriction | C.obstacle | D.emotion |
A.temporary | B.traditional | C.painless | D.formal |
A.priority | B.alert | C.connection | D.privacy |
A.overly | B.ultimately | C.critically | D.narrowly |
A.advancement | B.suffering | C.immediacy | D.variety |
A.impossibility | B.diversity | C.distraction | D.scale |
A.in line with | B.in addition to | C.in honor of | D.in need of |
A.distributed | B.underestimated | C.illustrated | D.identified |
A.Excited. | B.Exhausted. | C.Worried. | D.Frightened. |