1 . It is a blue, cotton shirt. The shirt belonged to my
We shared the shirt, and as days
At times David also talked about his father. Usually it was late at night, in the dormitory just before bed, and the
Time passed and we had to say goodbye to each other. After lots of hugging, and words of thanks, we eventually
I put aside the note, with
A.roommate | B.brother | C.colleague | D.professor |
A.Unless | B.Because | C.While | D.Even if |
A.came across | B.ran out | C.went by | D.came up |
A.victories | B.belongings | C.scholarships | D.stories |
A.happened | B.refused | C.struggled | D.failed |
A.turn out | B.drop out | C.figure out | D.stand out |
A.conversation | B.discussion | C.interview | D.debate |
A.failure | B.depression | C.poverty | D.illness |
A.difference | B.distance | C.connection | D.conflict |
A.fled | B.remained | C.met | D.departed |
A.last | B.first | C.next | D.second |
A.touched | B.removed | C.pulled | D.folded |
A.attached | B.applied | C.adjusted | D.admitted |
A.more than | B.other than | C.less than | D.rather than |
A.sympathetic | B.grateful | C.joyful | D.moving |
It Takes at Least 200 Hours to Make a Close Friendship, and More to Maintain It
Many of us worry that we don’t put in enough time to maintain close friendships. But how much is enough? Unfortunately, there’s no magic formula (公式) for how much time you need to spend on your friends to keep them. Each friendship and friend are unique and develops or ends depending on how we interact.
Forming a friendship in the first place takes a certain number of hours of being together. We need between 40 and 60 hours together for a person we know slightly to become a casual friend. In order to move from casual friends to close friends, we need to spend an additional 140 to 160 hours together for a total of about 200 hours.
However, deeper interactions can quicken that timeline. We can form a close bond in less than 200 hours with meaningful conversations. Contrarily, spending 200 hours together doesn’t necessarily mean a person will become a close friend. They have to want to be your friends. Some co-workers can spend 300 hours together and never become close friends.
When it comes to maintaining friendships, it’s not just the number of hours spent together, but what we do that matters. Engaging in passive activity with friends — like watching a TV series — is fun and enjoyable, but it doesn’t do as much to maintain friendship as having deep conversations, sharing feelings, and being a good listener. And routinely checking in with people we choose to connect with, through calls and texts or in person, helps maintain relationships and leads to higher scores of positive feelings, like happiness.
The key point is that sharing things about ourselves can lead to close friendships. Once that closeness is established, some ways to maintain closeness are supporting friends when things go wrong for them and celebrating their achievements.
_____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Growing up with my cousin since we were
During that time, I was eager for
My experience taught me a valuable lesson about how to fix friendships: Don’t be afraid to reach out first.
Taimur and Daniyal were twins and had been my next door neighbors since I was five years old. Not only did we go to the same school, but our evenings and weekends were spent together too. It was like we were inseparable. I never felt that I needed any friends other than them. Unexpectedly, one evening their parents shared the news of them moving to another country-Australia.
I was shocked to realize that we would never be together, started recalling all the good times we had spent together, such as playing in the school breaks, the play dates, and all the fun things we did. Was it all going to end?
When we had been through so many highs and lows together, shared secrets and supported each other through thick and thin, their moving away felt like my heart was being taken away. The news of their departure left me feeling empty and lost.
I was thinking about the biggest change that I was going to face in a few days, it was a difficult pill to swallow, but I knew I must move on. Though it wasn’t easy at first, I was trying my level best to beat the mental pain I was in.
After hearing the news, every day felt like a struggle. The school didn’t feel the same; the lunchbreaks had no purpose. Soon there would be no one to compare the test marks with, homework remarks would not excite me like before, and so on. I couldn’t help but feel lost and alone already.
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Seeing my condition, my family advised me to make the most of the time that was left before they moved.
__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Saying goodbye wasn’t easy, but it set my heart at ease to realize that we could still be the closest friends.
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________1. Who will the woman meet tonight?
A.Her teachers. | B.Her families. | C.Her classmates. |
A.Envious. | B.Surprised. | C.Disappointed. |
6 . Being vulnerable (脆弱的) is not a choice. In our life it is a
Vulnerability
When some people claim that they have no vulnerability, they are
Indeed, it’s not easy for us to admit our vulnerability in front of others. In order to protect ourselves, we tend to
A.goal | B.trick | C.secret | D.reality |
A.open | B.decorate | C.close | D.design |
A.turns out | B.consists of | C.refers to | D.relies on |
A.habits | B.faith | C.rights | D.nature |
A.approach | B.option | C.experience | D.reason |
A.follow | B.analyse | C.remove | D.acknowledge |
A.eager | B.tired | C.difficult | D.excited |
A.hesitating | B.complaining | C.cheating | D.waiting |
A.motivated | B.unwilling | C.puzzled | D.unafraid |
A.friendship | B.wealth | C.performance | D.thought |
A.deal | B.meet | C.agree | D.struggle |
A.obviously | B.cautiously | C.safely | D.gratefully |
A.preference | B.decision | C.emotion | D.bravery |
A.affected | B.impressed | C.occupied | D.touched |
A.characteristic | B.relationship | C.action | D.standard |
in addition turn one’s back break down a variety of live in harmony run out maintain friendships be concerned with |
A
Friendship clubs provide a platform for people to take part in
B
Nature is our home. Humans and other living things on the planet couldn’t survive without the resources that come from nature. We should take care of our “home” before it’s too late. If we keep overusing and destroying nature, it will finally
8 . As I waited for my university lecture to start, I felt a tap on my shoulder. Looking up, I found a young woman smiling at me,
After the lecture, Rosie and I carried on talking. She always remembered to look at me when we talked. I didn’t have to worry that she’d
I felt like a window had opened on my own experience as a deaf person. Partly it was the joy of being able to talk
We continued to share notes on being deaf. Learning to advocate for myself as a deaf person in the professional world was
A.putting | B.rejecting | C.throwing | D.holding |
A.exchanged | B.received | C.sent | D.communicated |
A.section | B.part | C.row | D.profile |
A.lecturer | B.constructor | C.composer | D.advisor |
A.stage | B.position | C.age | D.class |
A.disappointed | B.bewildered | C.overwhelmed | D.surprised |
A.occupy | B.hide | C.absorb | D.involve |
A.put away | B.give away | C.glance away | D.take away |
A.visible | B.useful | C.superficial | D.silent |
A.routine | B.standard | C.flaw | D.average |
A.openly | B.supremely | C.thoroughly | D.vastly |
A.view | B.dialogue | C.knowledge | D.bargaining |
A.firm | B.rough | C.smooth | D.tough |
A.furniture | B.mirror | C.department | D.aid |
A.solution | B.overlook | C.perspective | D.energy |
9 . We never know when our paths with long-lost friends come together. It can happen anywhere and usually when most
Last month, a friend’s mother
I knew it could go either way. They might not be
We each showed an interest in the
Our mutual friend, whose mother died, overheard us stating our intentions to make an effort to rekindle (使恢复) the
I was glad to
A.disappointed | B.disappeared | C.unconditional | D.unexpected |
A.gave up | B.showed up | C.passed away | D.took off |
A.understood | B.recalled | C.mentioned | D.noticed |
A.chatting | B.arguing | C.crying | D.fighting |
A.obvious | B.right | C.regular | D.strange |
A.surprised at | B.careful about | C.angry at | D.interested in |
A.distance | B.decade | C.hour | D.point |
A.know | B.guess | C.think | D.discuss |
A.abstract | B.terrible | C.national | D.fake |
A.works | B.schedules | C.happenings | D.crimes |
A.standing | B.nodding | C.explaining | D.listening |
A.belonging | B.staring | C.debating | D.bonding |
A.friendship | B.energy | C.experience | D.happiness |
A.pleased | B.indifferent | C.scared | D.shocked |
A.gradually | B.secretly | C.finally | D.frequently |
1. What is the Friendship Club?
A.A place where you can find your old friends. |
B.A place where you can meet new people and make friends. |
C.A place where you can learn what kind of friends you need. |
A.Sharing their secrets with others. |
B.Having little contact with them. |
C.Talking behind their backs. |
A.Every day. |
B.Twice a week. |
C.Once a week. |
A.Three. | B.Four. | C.Five. |