1 . Research has found that adults today have fewer friends than they did in the 1980s, and that more people say they have no one to discuss important stuff with.
Play the violin. Not just play it—and sing along. A new study suggests that singing is an effective way to make new friends because it helps us bond quickly with others.
For the study, led by Eiluned Pearce, Ph. D. at Oxford University, researchers looked at participants aged 18 to 83 in adult education classes organized by the Workers’ Education Association in the UK. Eighty-four participants were enrolled in one of four singing classes; 51 participants were enrolled in one of two creative crafts classes or a creative writing class.
Over a period of seven months, the classes went weekly. During the first, third, and final months, researchers asked participants to tell how close they felt to their classmates. Results showed something surprising. Although participants in all the classes felt closer to their classmates by the study’s end, participants in the singing classes developed that closeness much more quickly.
As for why exactly singing leads to fast group bonding, the researchers say one possible reason is that everyone does it at the same time. Compare that with creative writing or crafting, where everyone is working on an individual project. Another possible cause, according to the researchers, is that singing involves muscular effort, which causes the release of certain molecules (分子) that can make us happier and more willing to cooperate.
The point here is that singing can be a great icebreaker among large groups of strangers, which can lead to individual friendships down the line. “Really close relationships still depend on communication between individuals or much smaller groups,” Pearce said in a release(发布会), “but this study shows singing can start the bonding process.”
1. What has research found about today’s adults?A.They don’t really want friends. |
B.They are looking for new friends. |
C.They have fewer friends than before. |
D.They like discussing important things with friends. |
A.creative writing classes help people bond |
B.the participants would become closer to others |
C.so many participants would take singing classes |
D.participants in the singing classes would bond so quickly |
A.very cheering | B.very interesting |
C.a bit confusing | D.not completely possible |
A.rely on individual communication | B.depend on one’s attitude |
C.often occur in large groups | D.are easy to develop |
2 . We may “friend” more people on Facebook, but we have fewer real friends-the kind who would help us out in tough times, listen sympathetically no matter what, lend us money, or keep a secret if we shared one.
Brashears asked people online from a database called TESS-Time-Sharing Experiments for the Social Sciences-to list the names of people with whom they had discussed "important matters" over the previous six months. 48 percent of participants listed one close friend when asked, 28 percent listed two and 19 percent listed more.
Does that suggest we're more isolated in these times when we seem to meet more people online than in person? Social scientists say Facebook may actually be healthy for us. Keith Hampton from the University of Pennsylvania wrote a report. “Internet, or Facebook users have more close relationships than other people. They get more overall social support than other people.
But online contact and personal contact are different. While Hampton reports we know more people because of Face-book, Brashears reports there are fewer whom we choose to trust with our most intimate worries.
A.What's the reason behind them? |
B.What's the meaning of the survey? |
C.That's the conclusion made by Matthew Brashears. |
D.The report reflected issues behind the phenomenon. |
E.At the same time, a little more than 4 percent didn't list anyone. |
F.Compared with 3 in a previous study, the number was down by one point. |
G.And in particular they report more emotional support and companionship. |
In Mark Twain’s Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, the friendship that forms between Huck Finn and Jim is an important theme of the book,
4 . Having a best friend is one of the most important experiences of childhood. Adults, however, generally take friendship for granted (认为理当如此). They often feel the joy of having a best friend while growing up. But kids are curious (好奇的) and sometimes they cannot understand the meaning of friendship. This book describes the joy and importance of youthful friendships as eleven pairs and groups of best friends tell what they like and dislike about each other, what special things they do together, and why they are so close.
Their stories prove that best friends can live far away or right next door, can have different backgrounds, can argue and can stay best friends forever—if they know how to keep a friendship alive. The book provides suggested activities for best friends, such as creating a special language, making a best friend’s website, organizing a best friend’s party, or starting a best friend’s club. What is most important is to support each other when one of them is in trouble. The book also points out different kinds of problems between friends, such as how to deal with different opinions, how to keep their friendships for a longer time, and how to communicate with each other.
No matter whether you have a best friend or not, after reading this book, you will learn ways to get along well with others. Finally, you will find out someone may be right there, just waiting for you to find out how to become a best friend.
1. We can learn from Paragraph 1 that ________.A.people know little about the importance of friendship |
B.adults hardly understand what friendship means |
C.people often make best friends in their childhood |
D.people can get lots of pleasure from their friends |
A.Learn languages together. | B.Join a friend’s club. |
C.Try to help each other. | D.Talk with friends often. |
A.People can learn how to become a best friend. |
B.Friends should spend more time being together. |
C.It is easy to make friends with other people. |
D.It is interesting to take part in these activities. |
A.You keep your friends waiting for you for a long time. |
B.Those who like waiting for you are your life-long friends. |
C.It takes you quite a long time to know who your real friends are. |
D.You make friends easily when you know the meaning of friendship. |
5 . Starting your new school life can be difficult. Everything seems hard, and you don’t even know where to go for your own classes.
Be active to start a conversation. A smile goes a long way. When walking in the halls, don’t keep your eyes on the floor. If you see someone, give them a smile or say hi.
Remember people’s names.
Join some clubs and activities. A new school and a new group of classmates offer more chances to explore(探索) some new interests.
A.Have an opinion. |
B.Making new friends can be hard too. |
C.If not, don’t be afraid to ask them more than once. |
D.They will smile and introduce themselves to you too. |
E.Try to develop your skills as a leader in the new school. |
F.This is a great help to you to have your first talk with others. |
G.Try to be a member of a sports team or a part of a school play. |
6 . Everyone needs friends. We all like to feel close to someone. It is nice to have a friend to talk, laugh, and do things with. Surely, there are times when we need to be alone. We don’t always want people around. But we would feel lonely if we never had a friend.
No two people are the same. Sometimes friends don’t get along well. That doesn’t mean that they no longer like each other. Most of the time they will make up and go on being friends.
Sometimes friends move away. Then we feel very sad. We miss them very much. But we can’t call them and write to them. It could be that we will even see them again. And we can make new friends. It is surprising to find out how much we like new people when we get to know them.
Families sometimes name their children after a close friend. Many places are named after men and women who have been friendly to people in a town. Some libraries are named this way. So are some schools. We think of these people when we go to these places.
There’s more good news for people who have friends. They live longer than people who don’t. Why? It could be that they are happier. Being happy helps you stay well. Or it could be just knowing that someone cares. If someone cares about you, you take better care of yourself.
1. The first paragraph tells us ________.A.nobody needs friends | B.we always need friends around |
C.making friends is a need in people’s lives | D.we never need to be alone |
A.People are not happy when their friends leave them. |
B.People will never see their friends after their friends move away. |
C.People can know their friends in different ways. |
D.People like their friends very much if they get to know them. |
A.A city. | B.A room. | C.A town. | D.A library. |
A.that people are all friends | B.that people need friends |
C.how to get to know friends | D.how to name a place |
As a sixth grader, I began noticing how other kids were separating into different groups in the class. There were the geeks, the jocks (小丑) , and the popular cool kids. I wasn’t sure where I belonged. And I think that was a problem.
Our teacher had assigned “secret friends” for the coming week. The purpose of this assignment was to do nice things for your friend without letting them know who was doing it. We could leave encouraging notes on their desk or mysteriously leave a card in their backpack or book. Our teacher wrote each kid’s name on a piece of paper and threw them into a bucket, then we each closed our eyes and drew the name of the classmate who we were to secretly befriend and support over the next five school days.
Everyone was excited to get involved, including Rochelle. By the middle of the week, we had turned this assignment into a contest to see whose secret friend could leave the best gift. Instead of encouraging notes, we left stationary sets on our friend’s desk. Instead of giving compliments, we were giving bubble gum, lollipops and even money. It seemed that everyone was getting cool presents from their friends. Everyone except me, that is.
My secret friend followed our teacher’s directions without a fault. I received handmade cards, notes with nice thoughts and countless smiley face pictures saying that I was one of the nicest girls in the class. This friend seemed to think highly of me from the notes that were left, but the lack of gifts kept me wondering what was up with whoever had pulled my name.
On the last morning of our assignment, I walked into my classroom and noticed a package on my desk. At last, my secret friend had grasped the idea that a gift was what I really needed. I quickly ripped open the gift paper, only to find a small doll inside. The pink wool-knit doll seemed not new but delicate. But the girls sitting near me giggled and gossiped about the “little girl” gift I had received.
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Hearing this, I felt my face turn red.
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________It turned out that my secret friend was Rochelle, coming from a poor family.
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________8 . Friends play an important part in our lives, and although we may take the friendship for granted, we often don’t clearly understand how we make friends. While we get on well with a number of people, we are usually friends with only a very few—for example, the average among students is about six per person. In all the cases of friendly relationships, two people like one another and enjoy being together, but beyond that, the degree of intimacy between them and the reasons for their shared interest vary enormously. As we get to know people, we take into account things like age, race, economic condition, social position, and intelligence. Although these factors are not of prime importance, it is more difficult to get on with people when there is a marked difference in age and background.
Some friendly relationships can be kept on argument and discussion, but it is usual for close friends to have similar ideas and beliefs, to have attitudes and interests in common. They often talk about “being on the same wavelength”. It generally takes time to reach this point. And the more intimately involved people become, the more they rely on one another. People want to do friends favours and hate to break a promise. Equally, friends have to learn to put up with annoying habits and to tolerate differences of opinion.
In contrast with marriage, there are no friendship ceremonies to strengthen the association between two people. But the supporting and understanding of each other that results from shared experiences and emotions does seem to create a powerful bond, which can overcome differences in background, and break down barriers of age, class or race.
1. According to the author,________.A.all those who get on well with each other are friends |
B.friends are closer than people who just get on well with each other |
C.everyone understands clearly how to make friends |
D.every student has 6 friends |
A.support and understand each other | B.hold friendship ceremonies |
C.make friends with those who are of the same age | D.get rid of differences in beliefs and attitude |
A.being on the same boat | B.having similar ideas, beliefs, attitudes and interests |
C.keeping the same pace exactly | D.having similar background |
A.It takes time for people to become close friends. |
B.People tolerate annoying habits of their friends. |
C.Even friends may have differences of opinions. |
D.Close friends never argue with each other. |
Amy’s friendship was on the rocks, so she wrote a post on a forum exchange for advice about it. Since primary school, Amy, who was an awkward student then, and her friend Jenny, a popular and
They originally planned to watch a film last Saturday afternoon. But unfortunately, Jenny had a cold so that they didn’t make it. Today, Amy received a horrible surprise that Jenny had been seen
On the forum, Amy got two
10 . Many friendships go through tough times, but a difficult fight may leave your relationship beyond repair. However, if you really care about this person, it will be worth the effort to fix a broken friendship.
Be the first one to reach out. If you aren’t talking to each other, someone will have to make the first move. Let it be you this time!
Apologize (道歉) to them and accept their apology. Even if you didn’t do anything and you believe the situation is their fault, opening with an apology sets the tone. You could say, “I’m really sorry that things have gotten to this point.
Take things slowly. If you and your best friend had a major falling out, hanging out every day after school as you used to do probably isn’t the healthiest way to rebuild things.
This will give you both time to heal and rebuild your friendship together.
A.Communicate about the problem honestly and openly. |
B.It shows that you’re serious about settling things. |
C.Examine the way you treat each other. |
D.The following tips will help you know how to make it. |
E.I want things to be better between us. |
F.Instead, you should start slowly with occasional hangouts or phone calls. |
G.Thus, you should stop making an argument and trust your friend. |