1 . It goes without saying that everyone has bad days at work. You hit an unexpected problem with a project you’ve been working on for weeks.
When you’re feeling upset about a problem at work, take a minute to think of someone in your life that you’re grateful to and write a sentence or two on a notepad about what you appreciate.
Picking one of those folks out and reminding yourself of why you’re grateful to them has two benefits.
A.You have a quarrel with your beloved. |
B.In those moments, a little gratitude can help |
C.Here are some reasons to explain these situations. |
D.All of us have people in our lives who fit that bill. |
E.Research shows practicing gratitude can make you happier. |
F.You forget the appointment with a VIP customer and keep him waiting. |
G.For one, it gets you thinking about something positive and lifts your mood |
2 . You probably think of aggression in its most violent form i.e. shouting matches and fights. Actually, there are varying levels of aggression. There are times when you start to display aggression, but you are not aware of it yourself.
●They believe their opinion is fact
For effective communication to take place it is important to be able to distinguish between opinion and fact.
●It's all about how it affects them
When something goes wrong, or when considering potential consequences, aggressive people only consider how it influences them. The impact on others is irrelevant to them.
●Rapid speech
●Aggressive talking; defensive listening
This refers to the body language that they adopt when they are being aggressive.
Being familiar with these signs will help you to recognize the aggression quickly, and you will then be able to manage the situation more appropriately.
A.When talking they will likely lean forward. |
B.The following are some common signs of aggression. |
C.Aggressive people speak fast with little or no pauses. |
D.These people are not giving you the opportunity to decline. |
E.Offering a suggestion or thoughts on something that has happened is fine. |
F.Aggressive people rarely attempt to find workable solutions to problems in life. |
G.If something has negative consequences for them, everybody else is expected to suffer the consequences too. |
3 . A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile (敌意的) person lives in a hostile world. Everyone you meet is your mirror.
Mirrors have a very particular
When we see something beautiful such as a flower garden, that garden
Just as the “mirror” or other people can be a positive reflection, it is more likely that we’ll
Often when we
At times we meet someone
A.target | B.style | C.function | D.color |
A.medical | B.physical | C.chemical | D.mental |
A.so | B.then | C.nor | D.neither |
A.focuses on | B.applies to | C.works with | D.serves as |
A.reward | B.evaluation | C.reflection | D.example |
A.grows | B.translates | C.enters | D.falls |
A.Obviously | B.Strangely | C.Fortunately | D.Frequently |
A.known | B.supported | C.observed | D.recognized |
A.creating | B.lacking | C.sharing | D.comparing |
A.ignore | B.keep | C.take | D.notice |
A.In brief | B.In addition | C.For example | D.As usual |
A.crazy | B.anxious | C.upset | D.concerned |
A.time | B.mirror | C.garden | D.person |
A.less | B.amazing | C.more | D.valuable |
A.appreciate | B.dislike | C.describe | D.discover |
A.shouting | B.shining | C.speaking | D.pointing |
A.new | B.nervous | C.familiar | D.friendly |
A.If | B.Although | C.Since | D.Once |
A.terrible | B.noble | C.reliable | D.desirable |
A.figure out | B.take out | C.put out | D.give out |
4 . Complaining happens a lot, probably much more than we even realize. Complaining is easy to do, but it’s not good for us. Doctors have found that people who complain about their health can actually worsen the symptoms of their disease.
If complaining is so harmful, why do we complain? Many people complain to get attention.
You can have gratitude (感激) or take action to find solutions rather than just complain about problems.
But how can you stop yourself from complaining? It requires a plan. You could start by not complaining about anything for a week. It won’t be easy but it can be done. When we stop complaining about what’s missing in our lives and start being thankful for all we have, life changes for the better.
A.Anyone can complain. |
B.So, complain no more! |
C.Complaining makes no sense. |
D.Complaining does harm to health. |
E.Complaining also hurts our relationships. |
F.Dissatisfaction does not have to lead to complaining. |
G.They use complaining as a means to draw attention to themselves. |
5 . You are given many opportunities in life to choose to be a victim or creator. When you choose to be a victim, the world is a cold and difficult place.“They” did things to you which caused all of your pain and suffering.“They” are wrong and bad, and life is terrible as long as “they” are around.Or you may blame yourself for all your problems, thus internalizing(内化)your victimization.The truth is, your life is likely to stay that way as long as you feel a need to blame yourself or others.
Those who choose to be creators look at life quite differently.They know there are individuals who might like to control their lives, but they don't let this get in the way.They know they have their weaknesses, yet they don't blame themselves when they fail.Whatever happens, they have choice in the matter.They believe their dance with each sacred(神圣的)moment of life is a gift and that storms are a natural part of life which can bring the rain needed for emotional and spiritual growth.
Victims and creators live in the same physical world and deal with many of the same physical realities, yet their experience of life is worlds apart.Victims relish(沉溺)in anger, guilt, and other emotions that cause others--and even themselves---to feel like victims, too.Creators consciously choose love, inspiration, and other qualities which inspire not only themselves, but al1around them.Both victims and creators always have choice to determine the direction of their lives.
In reality, all of us play the victim or the creator at various points in our lives.One person, on losing a job or a special relationship, may feel as if it is the end of the world and sink into terrible suffering for months, years, or even a lifetime.Another with the same experience may choose to first experience the grief, then accept the loss and soon move on to be a powerful creative force in his life.
In every moment and every circumstance, you can choose to have fuller, richer life by setting a clear intention to transform the victim within, and by inviting into your life the powerful creator that you are.
1. What does the word “they” in Paragraph 1 probably refer to?A.People and things around you. | B.Opportunities and problems. |
C.Creators and their choices. | D.Victims and their sufferings. |
A.seem willing to experience failures in life | B.possess the ability to predict future life |
C.handle ups and downs of life wisely | D.have potential to create something new |
A.To define victims and creators. |
B.To evaluate victims against creators. |
C.To explain the relationship between victims and creators. |
D.To suggest the transformation from victims to creators. |
A.strong attachment to sufferings in life pulls people into victims. |
B.people need family support to deal with challengers in life. |
C.it takes creators quite a long time to get rid of their pains. |
D.one's experiences determine his attitude toward life. |
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7 . How to Level up Your Self-Control
By definition, self-control is the ability to do something that benefits your long-term goals, instead of something that might satisfy your immediate desires.
Angela Duckworth, professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, says allocating resources between your present self and future self is an ongoing struggle. For example, exhibiting self-control over spending time on video games and social media, two of the most common temptations(诱惑)of the current era, means battling against age-old mechanisms in your brain.
If you're willing to look deeply into your tendencies and weak points, you can recognize the handful of problems that you need to work on.
The problem of looking at your cell phone too often, say, can be solved by putting it on mute or, better yet, sticking it in your bag until lunch.
Finally, Duckworth advises laying a foundation of self-control that you can build of in the future.
A.One place to start would be the office |
B.What problems do you need to work on |
C.We've all experienced unproductive workdays |
D.But for many of us, short-term satisfactions are irresistible |
E.Why is exercising proper self-control so tricky for some, and how to do better |
F.If you can resist resigning you may achieve more on your overall self-control |
G.Removing the temptation from sight is key to ensuring you're faithful to your mission |
Last Sunday I was wandering in the zoo when I noticed a little girl standing alone by the road crying.
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