9 . Questions to ask yourself before making a big decision
Life is packed with decisions, big and small. If you feel a big decision is appearing in your life, don’t hide! Ask yourself these questions to get clear on what’s the right choice for you.
How committed am I to this change?
Rate your level of commitment on a scale out of 10. 1 Is your level of commitment higher than a 7? That’s great data for your decision!
Is this decision in line with my long-term goal?
2 Write down your goals. Then think about how this decision plays into that longer-term plan.
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This is one of my favorite questions! If something is stirring(搅动) within you --- a creative idea, a calling to move somewhere new, a desire to end a relationship --- what are you giving up when you don’t do it? What might you be missing out on in your life if you do nothing?
Is now the right time?
Bear in mind: 4 But there are few real reasons we ever need to delay making a big one when it presents itself. Remember, life is always uncertain and time waits for no one.
Making a big decision doesn’t have to be so difficult. There are no right or wrong answers, or right or wrong ways to live your life. 5 Your inner wisdom has the answers. So get busy asking the person who knows best --- you.
| A．What is the risk of not doing it? |
| B．How long have I been thinking about his? |
| C．Not all decisions need to be made immediately. |
| D．Think about the amount of work, effort and time you’d have to put in. |
| E．We always want to know what we need to do next. |
| F．You don’t have to ask other people what they think. |
| G．Ask yourself: What do I want five even ten years from now? |
