First of all, students need to realize that conflict is unavoidable. A report on violence among middle school and high school students indicates that most violent incidents between students begin with a relatively minor insult (侮辱). For example, a fight could start over the fact that one student eats a peanut butter sandwich each lunchtime. Laughter over the sandwich can lead to insults, which in turn can lead to violence. The problem isn't in the sandwich, but in the way students deal with the conflict.
Once students recognize that conflict is unavoidable, they can practice the golden rule of conflict resolution (解决) stay calm. Once the student feels calmer, he or she should choose words that will calm the other person down as well. Rude words, name-calling, and accusation only add fuel to the emotional fir On the other hand, soft words spoken at a normal sound level can put out the fire before it explodes out of control.
After both sides have calmed down, they can use another key strategy for conflict resolution; listening. Listening allows the two sides to understand each other. One person should describe his or her side, and the other person should listen without interrupting. Afterward, the listener can ask non-threatening questions to clarify the speaker’s position. Then the two people should change roles.
Finally, students need f. consider what they are hearing. This doesn’t mean trying to figure out what's wrong with the other person. It means understanding what the real issue is and what both sides are trying to accomplish. For example, a shouting match over a peanut butter sandwich might happen because one person thinks the other person is unwilling to try new things. Students need to ask themselves questions such as these: How did this start? What do I really want? What am I afraid off As the issue becomes clearer, the conflict often simply becomes smaller. Even if it doesn't, careful thought helps both sides figure out a mutual solution.
There will always be conflict in schools, but that doesn’t mean there needs to be violence. After students in Atlanta started a conflict resolution program, according to Educators for Social Responsibility, “64 percent of the teachers reported less physical violence in the classroom; 75 percent of the teachers reported an increase in student cooperation; and 92 percent of the students felt better about themselves”. Learning to resolve conflicts can help students deal with friends, teachers, parents, bosses, and coworkers. In that way, conflict resolution is a basic life skill that should be taught in schools across the country.
1. This article is mainly about _______.
A.the lives of school children | B.the cause of arguments in schools |
C.how to analyze youth violence | D.how to deal with school conflicts |
A.violence is more likely to occur at lunchtime |
B.a small conflict can lead to violence |
C.students tend to lose their temper easily |
D.the eating habit of a student is often the cause of a fight |
A.To find out who to blame. |
B.To get ready to buy new things. |
C.To make clear what the real issue is. |
D.To figure out how to stop the shouting match. |
A.there was a decrease in classroom violence |
B.there was less student cooperation in the classroom |
C.more teachers fell better about themselves in schools |
D.the teacher-student relationship greatly improved |
A.complain about problems in school education |
B.teach students different strategies for school life |
C.advocate teaching conflict management in schools |
D.inform teachers of the latest studies on school violence |
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【推荐1】Thousands of college students have part-time jobs and nobody wants to become a slave to graduation debt.
●Tutoring
Make use of your strong understanding of a specific subject and become a tutor.
●Blogging
If you wouldn’t mind sharing your knowledge or life with other people,then this option is right for you.You can earn some cash by starting a blog.To make your blog a money-making machine,you need to gain much blog traffic.
●Residential and Commercial Cleaning Services
Every business aims to satisfy a particular need of their customers.
●Graphic Design
A.Tutoring chances are rare in college. |
B.There are websites that offer such services. |
C.Let people know about your cleaning service. |
D.So,look around and find out what that particular need is. |
E.Take the topic you’re passionate about and provide consistent,unique content. |
F.Rather than work for others,some students choose to launch their own businesses. |
G.Most small business want to get professional looking logos without spending too much. |
【推荐2】If you tend mostly toward optimistic thinking, you can get better at seeing what's good. Here are some things to try:
Notice good things as they happen. At the end of the day, take 10 minutes to run through your day and come up with things that you’re grateful for.
Don't blame yourself when things go wrong.
Remind yourself that setbacks(挫折) are temporary.
Optimism is a thinking style that can be learned, which means that pessimism can be unlearned!
A.It might take a little while for you to become positive. |
B.Focus on success you have achieved to build up your confidence. |
C.Think of the strengths you used and how they helped you succeed. |
D.When something goes wrong, tell yourself that it will pass quickly. |
E.They may range from having a good meal to meeting an old friend. |
F.What should your inner voice say when things don’t go as planned? |
G.Train your mind to believe you can make good things happen in your life. |
【推荐3】Cooking a healthy and affordable dinner after work can be something anyone, regardless of cooking experience, can do.
When first starting to cook healthy meals for your family, begin by working with a plan. A good goal is to plan five dinners throughout the week.
After you start preparing supper for your family and have learned a handful of formulas(公式,准则), it's an ideal opportunity to quit concentrating totally on the grains and proteins.
Hopefully, by now you have a freezer for fresh fruits and vegetables.
By making the fruits and vegetables the focus of the meals rather than the meats and grains , you can use fewer expensive and high-calorie cuts of meat and more affordable produce.
A.Buy things that are in season |
B.So you can shop at the farmers markets |
C.Preparing healthy meals saves you time in the kitchen |
D.Let us help you start achieving your fitness goals today |
E.Learning how to make healthy family meals isn't so difficult |
F.Although grains and healthy proteins are a part of a balanced diet |
G.However, if your budget is a bit tight, plan two leftovers nights |
【推荐1】School life is a very important part of one's life. It provides opportunity for study and discipline (自律).It is also a preparatory period for entering public life.
School is a meeting place for students and teachers. School life is generally a period of youth. In school,all the students study together.
Teachers are those who guide the students on the right path. In school, teachers try to lead students away from bad thoughts.
In the library,in class and in competitions,students get chances to improve themselves. Above all,in examinations they try to show their best sides. Thus,they get the opportunity to take part in more activities.
A.They forget their joys and sorrows. |
B.School is the right place to realize early dreams. |
C.School helps students understand discipline better. |
D.School has clearly a healthy influence on students. |
E.And at the same time,they teach them good qualities. |
F.School life is of great importance to both students and parents. |
G.School provides chances for students to fill their brain with knowledge. |
My teacher Peter Bullock proved that science wasn’t boring and made physics great fun. In every lesson he would produce one of those worksheets in purple ink that smelled fresh from the machine. Every sheet contained a poem or a joke and we looked forward to them being handed out. I’ve kept them all to show to my own children. There was one poem in particular that’s stayed in my memory, which went:
In early days Man measured Time
By sunrise and sunset sublime;
As well as being able to turn physics into poetry, Peter had energy and passion and conveyed the sense that science was part of the world around you and not a dull boring academic discipline. I’m sure he was sticking pretty much to the standard topics—waves and electricity and so on—but he managed to convert everything into a joke or a story and did so in a clever and imaginative way.
Peter Bullock was not only an exciting teacher, but also the man who founded the debate club in my school. He encouraged me to take part and express myself in a forceful way that I’ve been doing ever since—and getting paid for it. That made me what I am today—a commercial lawyer.
Peter Bullock taught me throughout my secondary schooling and I took physics, chemistry and maths at A-level. Everyone in his class enjoyed learning. He was inspiring. He turned me on to the idea that the things you are interested in might seem dull on the surface, but you can still excite others. For example, when I tell people I’m interested in law, they may think: “How boring.” I guess being a physics teacher is much the same. Peter showed me that what matters is how you convey your own passion so that you excite other people.
1. Why did the students expect to get the worksheets in Peter’s class? (no more than 10 words)2. What is the meaning of the underlined word in Para. 2? (1 word)
3. What does Para. 3 mainly tell us? (no more than 15 words)
4. How did Peter make his students interested in the things that seem dull? (no more than 10 words)
5. What do you think is the most important quality of a good teacher? Please explain. (no more than 20 words)
【推荐3】How to Enjoy Life as a Teen
The "best years of your life"? Maybe not, but you can learn to make the most of your high school days are.
1.
2. Choose your friends wisely.
3. Keep your grades up. There is nothing more satisfying than seeing your hard work pay off in the form of A's and B's (but mainly A's).
4. You can pursue interests you enjoy. Video games, for example, are good if you're the type who can get into that kind of thing.
5. Do well in school. Even though you want to enjoy your teen life as best as possible, don't slack off in school.
A. It will pay off in the end.
B. You should also find a hobby that is meaningful or practical.
C. This also sets you up to get into a better college you want to go to improve your quality of life in the future.
D. Participating gives you something to do instead of sitting bored at home and wallowing in self-pity.
E. Learn to appreciate small things.
F. Unlike what many articles state, you don't have to be popular.
G. If you are not good at sports, join a band or choir.
【推荐1】With a bag on his back and his hands in his pockets, Ye Tian sneaked around the fence,trying to find an entrance to the abandoned coking works without being noticed.
However, a guard dog gave Ye second thoughts. I'm not afraid of the gatekeeper-at least I can negotiate with him. But a dog? Forget it. I'll find another way. "While planning his special(uninvited)visit to the Beijing site, the 25-year-old did some research, but still failed to locate the entrance.
Ye is among the thousands who are interested in “taking adventures”, which they call urban exploration, or “urbex”. The aim is to explore structures-usually abandoned ruins or “hidden components of the man-made environments”.
Venturing into abandoned structures is one of the most common examples of urban exploration. Although targets vary from one country to another, high-profile abandoned structures usually include amusement parks, factories, power plants, missile silos, fallout shelters, hospitals, asylums, schools and houses.
Urban explorers are interested in visiting such sites, as they can discover “other parts of a city”and get to understand its history from a different angle.
Ye, who worked as an intern for a German company in Beijing for six months, said he enjoyed the contrast between the city's two sides- modern and crowded, compared with old-fashioned and silent-and wanted to learn more about the capital during his short stay.
Ye said that he was able to finally sneak in through another entrance, yet he was still asked to leave by a gatekeeper shortly after. But he then managed to get into a newly built residential block, climbed to the top and took a picture of the factory ruins at sunset.
“I will come back another day,” he said.
1. What do we know about Ye Tian in the passage?A.He enters a place easily every time. |
B.He loves exploring natural environment. |
C.He is afraid of nothing. |
D.He is interested in old buildings. |
A.The fence. | B.The gatekeeper. |
C.The dog. | D.The bag. |
A.Because they can do all the research. |
B.Because they can move from one country to another. |
C.Because they can visit different kinds of places. |
D.Because they can know the history of the city. |
A.Hesitation. | B.Thoughtfulness. |
C.Determination. | D.Inspiration. |
【推荐2】It was an autumn day, and 1 was standing in the kitchen, hanging my head over the counter and trying to figure out how many calories were in a bowl of homemade yogurt and fruit. And I felt annoyed.
I was 16, and my best friend and I had gone to our first Weight Watchers meeting. It was the trend in the mid-1980s,and even though I was an athlete, like many teen girls, I didn't necessarily like what I saw in the mirror. But after a week or so of recording every meal and snack and calculating the calories, I had had enough. I went back to my routine of chowing whatever I wanted, running and skiing, and let that be that. And it's still pretty much what I do; as long as the workouts are regular and the food is whole and balanced, my body's set point hasn't varied for years.
The weight loss trend of three decades ago−full of scales and counting calories−has fallen away. Now fasting is popular. The ways to keep fit vary: on the 5:2 diet a person eats for five days and fasts for two days each week, while the 18:6 refers 10 fasting for 18 hours and then eating within a six-hour window each day.
In this issue, Associate Editor Mark Barna tries to understand the science behind the fasting plans. Researchers have found that animals like monkeys age more slowly after years of eating less, and in the lab in humans, they saw improvements in a number of signs that indicate risk of some hard to cure diseases. The hope for healthy weight loss isn’t over yet, but at least now the calculators don’t have to be out at every meal.
1. What made the author annoyed?A.Her body was not as strong as an athlete’s. |
B.There were too many calories in the yogurt and fruit. |
C.The Weight Watches meeting was not necessary for her. |
D.She had to work out the calories in every meal and snack. |
A.Eating. | B.Doing | C.Cooking. | D.Choosing. |
A.They limit the calories they take in. |
B.They lose weight only. |
C.They fast daily or weekly. |
D.They eat enough every day. |
A.People grow more slowly if they eat less. |
B.People are healthier if they eat less. |
C.People have stopped losing weight now. |
D.People calculate their food for every meal. |
【推荐3】A few hours after my first mission, returning to Earth on the space shuttle Endeavour, I completed all of my medical tests after flight, met with NASA officials, and reunited with my family. Finally, I was alone in my office room in astronaut crew quarters at the Kennedy Space Center, exhausted and ready for bed. And I did what anyone does when they return to their hotel room on a business trip: I turned on the TV. The television news started up: Such and such had happened, people were shocked, blah blah blah. Sports scores. Silly commercials.
It didn’t take more than a minute before I had to turn it off. It felt like my body was rejecting all this input, just as it would reject an organ donation that had the wrong blood type. All of this noise was just completely foreign to who I was—or, more appropriately, who I had become. A few hours before, I had been orbiting Earth, seeing our planet from space, flying the most amazing machine ever built by human hands, working with a team that was the absolute success of human. And now here in my room watching what was being sold as news, and with my newfound perspective, I just could not stomach it. My worldview was changed forever in a profound (深刻的) way.
The biggest change by far and the one for which I will always be most grateful is this big-picture perspective. That will stick with me for the rest of my life.
Whenever I feel the pressure of modern life, the stress about work, or worry about the future, I remember my time in the space station. Back to seeing the sun set Or watching our galaxy rise on the horizon. Or seeing a sea of lightning flash a hundred times a second. Or simply back to floating weightlessly.
When I’m there in my mind and realize how many billions of these beautiful sunsets there have been and will be in the future, the cares of the world just don’t seem that pressing. It goes that, “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.” Living daily life down here on the planet is so much better with this attitude!
1. Which of the following is closest in meaning to the underlined word stomach in paragraph 2?A.Access. | B.Attend. |
C.Accept. | D.Afford. |
A.He has a broader view of the world. |
B.He doesn’t like watching TV any more. |
C.He will always be most grateful for everything. |
D.He can fly the most amazing machine by hands. |
A.caged bird longs for clouds. | B.Live in the present moment. |
C.Let bygones be bygones. | D.Time works great changes. |