My husband jokes with me that my midlife crisis was having my now 11-year-old daughter in my 40s.
I started my career as Associate Editor at Woman’s World magazine in the late 1990s. Then I was a magazine editor-in-chief for five national consumer publications and also contributed to magazines like Longevity and New Woman.
Four years after getting married in 2005, I eventually gave birth to my daughter, Crystal. As I wrote on Parenting.com: “As the doctor checked her vital organs and my husband counted her 10 perfect fingers and toes, I realized that my body had produced a wonder.”
While my peers were dealing with the stresses of kids in school, I focused my creative energy on carving out my new identity. I was excited when I was offered a “Mom’s Talk” column where I wrote about toys, breastfeeding, and my ongoing(追求) for “baby-free” time.
When Crystal was 3 years old, I wrote an essay about watching her dance at a toddler(学步的小孩) reading group at the library, instead of sitting down with the other children. I expected her performance to annoy people, but her joyful dancing attracted them and made me consider my own possibilities.
“Had I ever been that way, I wondered. If so, could I be like that again? Could I become as free as a child with her whole life ahead of her, ready and willing to be the star of her own production?”
As my daughter transformed from a toddler into a young girl, she continued to be my inspiration. I wrote about the new rules for babysitting and shared research showing that fathers who participated in housework had a positive impact on their daughter’s future success on The Washington Post.
I focused on providing Crystal with resilience-building(韧性) when she neared her teens. I wrote about powerful phrases for The Week, like “no one is the judge of your self-worth”.
As my daughter continues to grow during this messy time, there is one certainty: I will continue to tell my stories, through the eyes of my midlife wisdom. I can’t wait to see her next chapter----and for you to read mine.
1. How did the author feel when giving birth to her daughter?A.Frightened. | B.Pleased. |
C.Puzzled. | D.Disappointed. |
A.she had to deal with more stress from being a mom |
B.she left all the babysitting work to her husband |
C.she combined the new identity with her career |
D.she adopted a creative method of raising her baby |
A.Living the same free life as her daughter’s. |
B.Giving performance in front of a crowd |
C.Her previous life before having the baby. |
D.Pure pleasure during “baby-free” time. |
A.Crystal has inspired her to take a writing career. |
B.She has started writing in the tone of Crystal. |
C.Her writing keeps developing as Crystal grows. |
D.Many of her stories are centered on her daughter. |
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【推荐1】When I was 19 years old, I was at a dance club. As we were walking to my car one cold night, a man walked up to us. Behind him was a woman carrying a small child. The child had a jacket on but it wasn't buttoned up (扣上). The man began to tell us he wanted to borrow some money for the night to get his wife and kid into a hotel. He had a job but no place to live in and was waiting for the first paycheck. He said he could get our mailing address and mail the money back.
The guy I was with reached into his pocket to give this man a $20 bill. As the other man was extending his hand out to take the money, I put my hand on my new friends’ hand and said, “Can I talk to you for a minute?”
I told him that every day people asked my mother for money on her way to work. She said they made more money than she did, simply begging for money. These people were scamming those with soft hearts. And if they were truly worried about their child suffering from the cold, they would have at least buttoned his jacket or covered him with his blanket.
My new friend looked at me with disappointment and said, “Michelle, I know there are people out there that take advantage of others. I also know there are people out there that are one paycheck away from being homeless. If I give $ 20 to 10 people and only one of them really needs it and uses it for the right thing, it is worth it.”
I am now 37 years old and have never forgotten what he said to me. I don't even remember his name. But I do remember that that experience changed the way I look at different situations.
1. Where did this story happen?A.Near a hotel | B.Outside a dance club |
C.Behind a mailbox | D.In the dance club |
A.He had been begging for a long time near the dance club. |
B.He would spend the cold night at an expensive hotel. |
C.He was careless and didn't take good care of his child.![]() |
D.He might be just lying in order to get some money. |
A.She wanted to tell him to give some more money to the stranger. |
B.She believed her mother had already given the stranger some money. |
C.She wanted to warn him not to be cheated by the stranger. |
D.She asked her friend to pay more attention to the baby instead. |
A.cheating | B.respecting |
C.disappointing | D.understanding |
【推荐2】Anna Chojnicka was quarantined (隔离) last year in her house because of COVID-19. She was so bored that she absent-mindedly picked up a banana on her kitchen table and started running her fork along the outside of the skin. The dark lines that appeared on the skin looked interesting to her, and she watched as the marks gradually got darker. She continued doodling and was soon interested.
Chojnicka started making pictures that were more and more complex (复杂的) using the same way—only pressure, no paint—until she drew an Ethiopian coffee pot and cup. Her new hobby was born. Since that first day she knew what she could do by drawing on a banana skin, Chojnicka has been posting her daily paintings online, where she has thousands of fans. “I haven’t missed a day, but I know I can’t keep that up forever,” she says, adding that she finishes her daily picture, takes a photo and then eats the banana because she doesn’t like waste.
Her art comes to life by oxidization (氧化). Just like apples, bananas oxidize or turn brown as their cells interact with oxygen in the air. Cells that are damaged brown faster. By varying the time when she applied the marks, Chojnicka discovered that she could create complex pictures.
While her banana drawings began as a way to overcome boredom, they have become something bigger. “I saw a chance to put it to something good,” says Chojnicka. With the help of her social media fans, she has collected about $1,600 for FareShare, an organization in the United Kingdom that provides food for people in need.
1. What does the underlined word “doodling” in Paragraph 1 mean?A.Eating. | B.Drawing. | C.Observing. | D.Imagining. |
A.She colors it with dark paint. |
B.She sells it to her followers online. |
C.She throws the oxidized banana away. |
D.She shares a photo of it on the social media and then eats it. |
A.How Chojnicka took up the hobby. |
B.How banana drawings are possible. |
C.Why banana drawings are so popular. |
D.Why Chojnicka began to study fruits. |
A.To help the society. |
B.To climb to the top of her career. |
C.To teach people how to appreciate art. |
D.To encourage her followers to achieve their dreams. |
【推荐3】In 2014, Mahoney was asked to choose a person who regularly gave back to the Halifax community (社区) to-perform an act of kindness as part of a Facebook challenge. Mahoney chose a 79-year-old senior named Eleanor, who not only gave goods for the people at the pub where Mahoney worked but also volunteered at the local homeless shelter.
Mahoney wanted to get to know Eleanor better, so she asked that they spent a day together—picking up fruits, getting their nails done, that kind of thing. “It was the first time in years that someone had made a day about her,” says the 30-year-old. “That focus made her shine.”
Their shared experience got Mahoney thinking. How many other seniors might benefit from that kind of attention? And had some of those seniors delayed their dreams because they’d been busy caring for others? Chisholm, now 31, was equally interested in these questions, and together the pair set up their new charity: We Are Young, or WAY for short.
WAY has since delivered on 38 dreams and counting—from a helicopter trip over a childhood blueberry-picking place to travelling to Toronto to watch a Blue Jays game. These dreams are to work out problems caused by the health and loneliness of seniors. 78-year-old Victor wanted to go to the beach—a dream he’d given up when it became too physically difficult to reach the sea. The team at WAY offered a boat for him and his son in the fall of 2021 so they could reach the sea and spend the day enjoying themselves on the beach.
“If you lose the sense of purpose that having a passion (激情) can give you, your self-confidence goes down,” says Mahoney. “Now, Victor has got some of his self-confidence again—and his sense of humour. We want to show that anything is possible with the support of others.” “We want to create a movement that changes our whole society’s opinion and support for seniors,” says Mahoney. “That is the influence we’re trying to create.”
1. How did Eleanor feel after spending a day with Mahoney?A.She was in shock. | B.She was nervous. |
C.She was confused. | D.She was in high spirits. |
A.To help seniors get better care. |
B.To make themselves become younger. |
C.To help seniors realize their delayed dreams. |
D.To realize the delayed dreams of their childhood. |
A.It was a home for him. |
B.It would be well received. |
C.It’s much better than before. |
D.It might be owned by his son. |
A.Seniors need more care. |
B.Self-confidence changes a person. |
C.Seniors have a passion for their life. |
D.The young will create a good influence. |
With limited education, skills and hope, she would take the bus into the big cities of Windsor and Detroit, walk aimlessly about and then return home every day. She couldn’t even bring herself to knock on a door.
As the days passed, Lillian knew she would soon have to knock on a door. On one of her trips, Lillian saw a sign at Carhartt Overall Company, saying, “Help Wanted, Secretarial. Apply Within.”
She walked up to the office and was met by the office manager, who sat her down at a typewriter and said, “Let’s see how good you really are.”
She directed Lillian to type a single letter and then left. Lillian looked at the clock: 11:40 am. She figured that she could run away in the crowd then. But she knew she should at least try the letter.
On her first try, she got through one line. It had five words and she made four mistakes. The clock read 11:45. “At noon,” she said to herself, “I’ll move out with the crowd, and she will never see me again.” On her second try, Lillian got through a full paragraph, but still made many mistakes. Again she pulled out the paper. At last she completed the letter with some mistakes.
Just then, the door opened and the office manager walked in. She came directly over to Lillian, read the letter, paused and then said, “Lillian, you’ve done a good job.”
1. Why did the office manager leave after directing Lillian to type a letter?
A.She was not satisfied with Lillian. |
B.She found Lillian was too young. |
C.She wanted to let the girl be quiet. |
D.She wanted to test Lillian. |
A.Lillian didn’t have enough confidence in herself. |
B.Lillian didn’t like the workers there. |
C.Lillian didn’t want the job. |
D.Lillian wanted to have lunch then. |
A.The girl didn’t like to go to school. |
B.The girl’s family was not very rich. |
C.The girl’s father was very fond of money. |
D.The girl was living in a poor village. |
A.Lillian had to run away without being noticed. |
B.Lillian’s father wanted his daughter to return to school. |
C.the office manager was deeply moved by the girl. |
D.Lillian was allowed to work there |
【推荐2】Dining halls of the Hilton Wuhan Riverside have been busting with military personnel ever since the first delegations 24 and staff of the International Sports Military Council (CISM ) started checking into the hotel over a week ago.
This marks the first time China is staging a CISM event, with nearly 10,000 participants attending the 7th Military World Games in Wuhan. Many of them, along with some of the staff from CISM and the organizing committee, are staying at the Hilton Wuhan Riverside.
Dharmendra Singh from India doesn’t belong to either category of guests, even though his military-style haircut and two pins - a CISM pin and a Wuhan 2019 Games pin - on the lapel of his black suit might suggest otherwise. His ability to talk in Mandarin complicates things even further.
Singh is in charge of tending to the guests at the hotel, in particular those who take their meals in the dining halls. Yet, by his own admission, the 31-year-old, who has been a chef at the Hilton for nearly two years, feels as though he is also part of the “army family” at the hotel, and being part of Wuhan Games is fulfilling his “army dream”.
As a teen, he dreamed about serving his country as a soldier. However, the pressure of being the older of the two siblings in a financially challenged family meant Singh had to put his military dream on hold. To provide for his parents and younger brother, at 17 he set out to earn an income by making use of his culinary (烹饪的) skills.
“And, as fate would have it, a friend helped me get a job at the hotel.”
Pointing to the Wuhan Games and CISM pins that two diners gave him, Singh added: “Military people command respect due to their selflessness and honesty towards their work. I am glad that I am able to serve them and to honor their commitment to serve their nations.”
By the time the Games end on Oct 27, some of the guests might have handed Singh a few more pins to add to his collection; others might say goodbye with just a “thank you”. Either way, he will remain grateful to them for providing memories for a lifetime.
1. What can we learn from paragraph three?A.Singh used to serve in Indian army. |
B.Singh’s identity seems to be confusing. |
C.Singh tends to wear a black suit every day. |
D.Singh pretends to be one of the staff of CISM. |
A.Because they may show respect to him. |
B.Because they will give him precious memories. |
C.Because they will present him with some decorations. |
D.Because they may help fulfill his dream to be a soldier. |
A.Cooking up some special memories. | B.Gathering of peace. |
C.The thrill of World Military Game. | D.Closing with a cultural flourish. |
【推荐3】Recently, I sat in a lecture hall with a couple of hundred final-year undergraduate students.
In the UK at least, the job market for today’s graduates seems good. The annual report by the Institute of Student Employers found that graduate recruitment could increase by 5% in 2023-24. Companies struggled to recruit in areas such as digital, engineering and finance.
There are a few reasons why people find it difficult to advance on the career ladder. One of them many people struggle is that career ladders are becoming smaller. As large organizations have slimmed down, so have the internal paths for promotion.
Another issue is that increasing numbers of people just aren’t interested in climbing the ladder. The recent iteration of the world values survey found millennials and generation Z placed less value on work than they used to. A decade ago, 41% of millennials thought work should come first while that number is 14% today.
A.Despite this strong demand, each position was hotly contested. |
B.Looking around, I thought about my own uncertainty at their age. |
C.It seems many of us no longer see ourselves defined by our work. |
D.Career setbacks such as unsuccessfully applying for a promotion are often painful. |
E.Once today’s generation of graduates find a job, only some will find opportunities to advance. |
F.This means careers have been replaced with jobs, and jobs have increasingly been replaced with tasks. |
G.Like the students sitting in that lecture hall, many of us only see a small portion of the paths for carcer development life might offer. |
1. According to the passage, good Santas should be the ones that ______.
A.can offer the children some gifts |
B.help adults look after their children |
C.have ability to make children happy |
D.should be perfect in the mind of children |
A.train the pet reindeer for the Santas |
B.earned money from its students |
C.train perfect Santas for the world |
D.show the world’s concern to the poor |
A.Weir was short of experience |
B.Weir was not fit for the job as a Santa |
C.Weir did very badly in the game |
D.Weir was not a good student in school |
【推荐2】Sitting back in my seat, I can’t quite believe that I’m about to travel along the railway that many foreign experts claimed was “impossible”. The train has been racing along steadily since it left Xining. All this time, the song “Sky Railway” has been playing inside my head. The words “railways like massive dragons are winding among the mountains” seem particularly vivid as I travel across the “roof of the world”.
I was one of the people who came from all parts of China to work on this railway. Taking years to complete, the Qinghai-Tibet Railway is a record of all of our efforts to overcome the most difficult engineering challenges. How to protect the delicate ecosystem was among the top concerns.
The first landmark to catch my eye is the splendid Qingshuihe Bridge, the world’s longest bridge built over permafrost. Look! A group of Tibetan antelopes is moving under the bridge, with some stopping to eat grass at their leisure. Thirty-three passages have been built under the railway to allow the animals to move safely and freely in their natural habitat. Wild animals such as these Tibetan antelopes have now been using these passages for years. They seem totally unaware that we are speeding past at over 100 kilometers an hour.
To prevent damage to wetlands and grasslands, 675 bridges with a total length of about 160 kilometers were built between Golmud and Lhasa. We even moved 140,000 square meters of wetland to a new area in order to protect its distinct ecosystem.
The journey has been flying by, and before I know it, we have reached Tanggula Station. Located at over 5,000 meters above sea level, this is the highest railway station in the world. In locations such as this, the thin air, changeable weather and high levels of UV radiation presented perhaps the greatest challenge for railway workers. To make sure we stayed healthy, several oxygen-making stations were constructed. We were also able to enjoy regular breaks in lower areas.
As we pass Cuona Lake, I feel a sense of pride and achievement. Using thousands and thousands of sandbags, we built a twenty-kilometer wall along the lake to protect it from construction waste. Cuona Lake is so close to the railway that I want to reach out and touch its pale blue mirror-like surface. Water birds playing in the lake, and cattle and sheep wandering the grasslands bring the scenery to life.
The Qinghai-Tibet Plateau has been attracting people’s admiration for centuries. Now, thanks to our efforts, passengers from all over the country have been enjoying these magical landscapes. I am proud that we built our “impossible” railway, and did so with the care that the environment deserves. It truly is an extraordinary “Sky Railway”.
1. Which of the following is TRUE according to the first two paragraphs?A.The song “Sky Railway” was played as background music in the train. |
B.Ways of protecting the delicate ecosystem were taken into consideration. |
C.Foreign experts were frightened to see dragons among the mountains. |
D.The author kept the record of solving the toughest engineering problem. |
A.without interruption | B.for entertainment |
C.in their free time | D.without hurrying |
A.Because it separated the habitats of birds and cattle. |
B.Because it transformed construction waste into sand. |
C.Because it kept Cuona lake from being polluted. |
D.Because it connected Cuona lake and the railway. |
A.Their efforts to build the railway and protect the ecosystem. |
B.That he has made the railway extraordinary for tourists. |
C.Passengers’ admiration for the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau. |
D.The splendid landscapes along the Sky Railway. |
A.To prove that humans can conquer nature. |
B.To advertise the travel route along the Qinghai-Tibet Railway. |
C.To praise the workers’ efforts in building the Qinghai-Tibet Railway. |
D.To highlight the amount of work required to build the Qinghai-Tibet Railway. |
【推荐3】“If you are cold, it will warm you; if you are too heated, it will cool you; if you are depressed, it will cheer you; if you are exhausted, it will calm you.” The poem best identifies the passion for tea in Britain. Outside of the United Kingdom, many people refer to afternoon tea as “high tea”. Afternoon tea, also known as low tea, is what most people think of when they hear “high tea”. It involves things like manners, lace(蕾丝) and light meals such as cookies and finger sandwiches. It is typically served in the mid-afternoon and it was traditionally served on low tables, therefore its two names.
Legend has it that afternoon tea was started in the mid-1800s by the Duchess(公爵夫人) of Bedford. Around that time, kerosene(煤油) lamps were introduced into wealthier homes and eating a late dinner( around 8 or 9 p.m.) became fashionable. This increasingly late dinner was one of the only two meals each day, and the other was a mid-morning one. The story goes that the Duchess found herself with a “sinking feeling”. This came from hunger during the long wait between meals. She decided to invite friends over for various snacks and tea. The idea of an afternoon tea gathering spread across high society and became a favorite pastime of females for leisure. Later, it spread to other social groups.
However, the British working population did not have afternoon tea. They had a meal about midday, and a meal after work, between five and seven o’clock. This meal was called “high tea” or just “tea”. Traditionally eaten early evening, high tea was a substantial meal that combined delicious sweet food, such as cookies, cakes or tea bread, with heavy food, such as cheese on toast, cold meals and poached eggs on toast. This meal is now often replaced with a supper due to people eating their main meal in the evening rather than at midday.
1. What is the author’s purpose of using a poem at the beginning of the passage?A.To introduce a topic. | B.To present a puzzle. |
C.To describe the phenomenon. | D.To clarify his writing purpose. |
A.Kerosene lamps were used at home. |
B.Upper class had more free time. |
C.Drinking tea makes people feel good. |
D.Duchess of Bedford was influential in social circle. |
A.Simple food and tea. | B.Being served on low tables. |
C.A ladies’ social occasion. | D.Serving time. |
A.Origins of Tea. | B.Ways of Low Tea. |
C.Traditional Afternoon Tea. | D.High Tea and Low Tea. |
【推荐1】Smartphones can be a force for good. Your phone is always with you, making it the perfect device to push you into a more beneficial way of living. Here are some of the best apps that can help.
Habitica
Habitica turns the goal of forming good habits into a game, with its own characters and scoring. It’s a lot of fun, and the app also lets you build habits with friends and family. In addition to regular repeating habits, you can add a more general to-do list, and the rewards you get can be customized too—you could treat yourself to a meal out or an extra hour of games.
Smoke free
If you’re determined to give up smoking, Smoke Free is one of the most comprehensive apps for giving you that extra push you need to make a permanent change. The app offers a host of useful features to people wanting to go smoke-free: the ability to see your progress over time, charts showing how your health is improving, day-by-day encouragement, and some advice on techniques for giving up smoking.
MyFitnessPal
You can find tons of health and fitness apps for your phone, but My FitnessPal stands out not just because it is easy to use, but because it makes practical suggestions for you. It can take in a host of data, from the calories you’re taking in to the number of swims you’re doing per week, and offer reports on calorie consumption and macronutrient (大量营养素) breakdown.
1. What can Habitica help you to do?A.Win a tough game. | B.Start a lasting friendship. |
C.Develop a pleasant habit. | D.Find a fancy restaurant. |
A.The freedom to smoke. | B.The ability to make progress. |
C.Charts about your excellent health. | D.Advice on how to quit smoking. |
A.They’re practical. | B.They’re cheap. |
C.They’re interesting. | D.They’re free. |
CAN-DO PEOPLE | NO-CAN-DO |
Take initiative to make it happen Think about problems and barriers Act | Wait for something to happen to them Think about solutions and options Are acted upon |
If you think can-do, and you’re creative and persistent, it’s amazing what you can accomplish. During college, I remember being told that to fulfill my language requirement, I would “have to” take a class that I had no interest in and was meaningless to me. Instead of taking this class, however, I decided to create my own. So I put together a list of books I would read and the assignments I would do and found a teacher to sponsor me. I then went to the dean of the school and presented my case. He bought into my idea and I completed my language requirement by taking my self-built course.
American aviator Elinor Smith once said, “It has long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.”
It’s so true. To reach your goals in life, you must seize the initiative. If you’re feeling bad about not being asked out on dates, don’t just sit around and sulk, do something about it. Find ways to meet people. Be friendly and try smiling a lot. Ask them out. They may not know how great you are.
Don’t wait for that perfect job to fall in your lap, go after it. Send out your resume, network, volunteer to work for free.
If you’re at a store and need assistance, don’t wait for the salesperson to find you, you find them.
Some people mistake can-do for being pushy, aggressive, or obnoxious. Wrong. Can-do is courageous, persistent, and smart. Others think can-do people stretch the rules and make their own laws. Not so. Can-do thinkers are creative, enterprising, and extremely resourceful.
George Bernard Shaw, the English playwright, knew all about can-do. Listen to how he said it: “People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.”
1. What are those can-do people more likely to do?A.They await in patience till their boss give the approval. |
B.They remain somewhat reserved in a romantic relationship. |
C.They always challenge people who think differently. |
D.They turn to his friends in We-chat when they need a hand. |
A.It’s circumstances not the people are to blame for what they are |
B.One should get up earlier in order to find a way out |
C.Have the initiative and you are in a better position to win |
D.he is eager to get on in the world |
A.By illustration. | B.By example. |
C.By reason. | D.By story. |
【推荐3】Artie Shaw was born in New York City in 1910. His parents were poor persons who had come to the United States from Eastern Europe. At the age of fourteen, he began to play the saxophone(萨克斯管) and then the clarinet(竖笛). From very young age, Artie Shaw wanted to play his clarinet better than anyone. He wanted his sound and music to be perfect, so he began working as a professional musician when he was fifteen, and he left home and began playing in bands across the United States.
In 1927, young Artie Shaw traveled to Chicago, Illinois to hear the great trumpet (小号) player, Louis Armstrong. He immediately understood that Armstrong’s great jazz sound was the beginning of something new and exciting. Artie left Chicago with a growing interest in jazz music. Soon after, he moved to New York City. He got work playing the clarinet for the Columbia Broadcast System radio network in1936. He was given chance to found his band and play at New York’s famous Imperial Theater on Broadway. His group was not the top band in the show. But the crowd loved his music. This proved to be a major step in his career.
In 1938, Artie Shaw and his band recorded what would be one of their most popular songs. It sold millions of records. It still sells several thousand each year. Shaw was surprised that it became so popular. The song is "Begin the Beguine" written by Cole Porter. However, the fame caused problems for Shaw. He could not go anywhere without being recognized. He no longer had a private life.
On Dec. 13th, 2004, Artie Shaw died after a long sickness. He was ninety-four years old. He was the last great musician and bandleader of what has been called the “Big Band Era”.
1. When was Artie Shaw born?A.In 1936. | B.In1927. | C.In 1938 | D.In 1910. |
A.Twenty-six. | B.Twenty-seven. | C.Seventeen. | D.Twenty-eight. |
A.Artie Shaw knew his records would be popular. |
B.Artie Shaw wanted the fans to recognize him. |
C.Artie Shaw's records sold well. |
D.Artie Shaw recorded his first record in 1938. |
A.Artie Shaw-a Famous Musician | B.Artie Shaw Made Band Famous |
C.Artie Shaw and His Bands | D.Artie Shaw Recorded Many Songs |