You’re in a crowd of people who are all asking for the same thing. How do you make your voice heard above the rest? Be different. Don’t shout. Lisa, 25, was waiting to board a plane flying from London to Austria for Christmas when the flight was cancelled.
“There were about a hundred of us unable to leave,” she says. “Everyone else was shouting at the airport staff. Instead of joining in, I walked up to the man behind the ticket desk very quietly and said, ‘This must be so awful for you! I don’t know how you deal with these situations—it’s not even your fault. I could never handle it as well as you are.’ Without my even asking, he found me a seat on another airline with an upgrade to first class. He was happy to do a favor for someone who was appreciative instead of unfriendliness.”
Flattery (恭维) is an essential element of the sweet-talk strategy. “It’s human psychology that stroking a person’s ego (自我) with a few well-directed praises makes them want to prove you right,” says a psychologist. “Tell someone they’re pretty and they’ll instantly fix their hair; praise their sense of humor and they’ll tell a joke.”
You need help and there’s absolutely no reason that the person will want to lend a hand. Allison, 26. a lawyer, realized she’d made a huge mistake on a batch of documents. “The only way I could fix the problem was to get the help of a colleague who I knew didn’t like me,” she said.
Allison then went to the woman’s office and explained her problem. “As I was saying to the boss the other day you’re the only person who would know how to handle a situation like this, what would you suggest I do?” “Feeling pumped up (鼓励), she set about helping me and we finished the job on time, and she was happy to help.” Allison said.
1. What would have happened at the airport according to paragraph 1?A.The departure hall was filled with noise. |
B.Someone screamed just lo be different. |
C.The passengers waited on board patiently. |
D.The airport stuff were rude to the passengers. |
A.He admired Lisa’s beauty. | B.He appreciated her attitude. |
C.He was ready to help others. | D.He was blamed for the cancellation. |
A.The potential benefits of ego. | B.The strategy to start small talk. |
C.The great importance of flattery. | D.The value of humor in daily life. |
A.She was a popular lawyer. |
B.She was always ready to help others. |
C.She always got praise from Allison. |
D.She did a great favor for Allison eventually. |
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【推荐1】The art of public speaking began in ancient Greece over 2,000 years go. Now, twitter, instant messaging, e-mail, blogs and chat forums offer rival approaches to communication - but none can replace the role of a great speech.
The spoken word can handle various vital functions: persuading or inspiring, informing, paying tribute, entertaining, or simply introducing someone or something or accepting something. Over the past year, the human voice has helped guide us over the ups and downs of what was certainly a stormy time.
Persuasion is used in dealing with or reconciling different points of view. When the leaders met in Copenhagen in December 2009, persuasive words from activists encouraged them to commit themselves to firmer action. Inspirational speeches confront the emotions. They focus on topics and matters that are close to people's hearts. During wars, generals used inspiring speeches to prepare the troops for battle.
A speech that conveys knowledge and enhances understanding can inform us. The information must be clear, accurate, and expressed in meaningful and interesting way. When the H1N1 pandemic(流行病)was announced, the idea of "swine flu" scared many people. Informative speeches from World Health Organization officials helped people to keep their panic under control so they could take sensible precautions.
Sad events are never easy to deal with, but a speech that pays tribute to the loss of a loved one and gives praise for their contribution can be comforting. Madonna's speech about Michael Jackson, after his death, highlighted the fact that he will continue to live on through his music.
It's not only in world forums where public speaking plays an important role. It can also be surprisingly helpful in the course of our own lives.
If you're taking part in a debate you need to persuade the listeners of the soundness of your argument. In sports, athletes know the importance of a pep talk(鼓舞士气的讲话)before a match to inspire teammates. You yourself may be asked to do a presentation at college or work to inform the others about an area of vital importance.
On a more personal level, a friend may be upset and need comforting. Or you might be asked to introduce a speaker at a family event or to speak at a wedding, where your language will be needed to move people or make them laugh.
Great speaking ability is not something we're born with. Even Barack Obama works hard to perfect every speech. For a brilliant speech, there are rules that you can put to good use. To learn those rules, you have to practice and learn from some outstanding speeches in the past.
1. The author thinks the spoken word is still irreplaceable because _______.A.it has always been used to inspire or persuade people. |
B.it has a big role to play in the entertainment business. |
C.it plays important roles in human communication. |
D.it is of great use in everyday-life context. |
A.Speeches at world forums can lead to effective solutions to world problems. |
B.Speeches from medical authorities can calm people down in times of pandemics. |
C.The morale of soldiers before a battle can be boosted by senior officers' speeches. |
D.Speeches paying tribute to the dead can comfort the mourners. |
A.It comes from observing rules. |
B.It can be perfected with easy effort. |
C.It can be acquired from birth. |
D.It comes from learning and practice. |
A.Public speaking in international forums. |
B.The many uses of public speaking. |
C.Public speaking in daily life context. |
D.The rules of public speaking. |
【推荐2】Massive flooding in America’s Yellowstone National Park caused widespread damage and resulted in many changes. The recent floodwaters changed the path of a river popular for fishing. It also devastated homes, bridges and roadways.
Yellowstone became America’s first national park in 1872. It is known for its natural beauty that includes mountains, rivers and lakes. The forces of fire and ice have shaped the park for thousands of years. It is a place where visitors can get close to different kinds of wildlife.
Flooding caused by heavy rains and melting mountain snow did cause a lot of damage. It drove more than 10,000 visitors out of the park. The rain also damaged hundreds of homes in nearby communities. Luckily, no one was reported hurt. However, the park could remain closed for up to one week. Some entrances might not open all summer. The water also washed away camp structures, flooded small towns and cut power to parts of southern Montana and northern Wyoming. The event happened as the park was beginning its busy summer season and received millions of summer visitors.
The Yellowstone River was running at a historically high level of 4.9 meters as it flowed past Billings, Montana’s largest city. The city got its water from the river and was forced to close its treatment plant (工厂) because it couldn’t operate effectively with water levels that high. Billings officials said the city only had a 24-hour supply of water. They were asking people to protect water until the river could drop and the plant could restart operations. “None of us planned a 500-year flood event on the Yellowstone when we designed the equipment,” said Debi Meling, the city’s director of public works.
Yellowstone officials said, “The northern half of the park is likely to remain closed over the summer. This will greatly affect local economies that depend on summer tourists. But we have faith in the park repairs and economic recovery.”
1. What does the underlined word “devastated” mean in paragraph 1?A.Developed. | B.Designed. | C.Destroyed, | D.Demanded. |
A.Its bad effects. | B.Its lasting time. |
C.The repairs after it. | D.The wildlife hurt in it. |
A.It stopped working. |
B.It was forced to operate. |
C.It only cut down the city’s water supply for 24 hours. |
D.It was asked to design new equipment to protect water. |
A.Uncertain. | B.Unconcerned. | C.Curious. | D.Confident. |
【推荐3】How do oceans affect you? If you live far from the coast, you might think they don’t. But life on this planet depends on the ocean. It covers almost three-quarters of the planet and holds 97 percent of Earth’s water. The phytoplankton (浮游植物)that live on the oceans’ surface produce half of the oxygen in the atmosphere. Oceans are a vital source of food and other resources and an economic engine for many communities.
For all the ocean provides us, we haven’t always been so responsible in our administration. “The ocean was thought of as a dumping (倾倒的) ground for so long,” says Caitlyn Toropova of the International Union for Conservation of Nature (IUCN). “There was a sense that there was no way we could harm it because it is so vast.”
But human activities are having a negative impact on many of the world’s oceans, jeopardizing marine life, habitats, and ecosystems. These threats include overfishing or destructive fishing, coastal development, pollution and runoff, and the introduction of non-native species. Climate change is also having a big effect by causing warming seas and ocean acidification.
The realization that something needs to be done to prevent the damage has led to the creation of marine protected areas (MPAs), Specifics differ around the globe, but the United States defines a marine protected area as “any area of the marine environment that has been preserved to prov d eating protection for part or all of the natural and cultural resources.”
There are approximately 5,000 designated (命名) MPAs around the word but many more that are not officially recognized, says Toropova, the conservation group’s officer for marine protected areas. That may sound like a lot, but less than one percent of the world’s oceans is protected. Countries around the world have committed to protecting 10 percent, Toropova say, But “even though there’s been an increase in the past 10 years, at the current rate it would take 100 years to reach that goal,” she says.
1. What does the author intend to emphasize in paragraph 1?A.Oceans are crucial for humans’ survival. | B.Oceans affect little to people far from them. |
C.The phytoplankton needs many sea resources. | D.Seas should make more room for our land. |
A.It covers so much and holds so much of Earth’s water. |
B.They thought everyday wastes had little effect on it. |
C.Its floor is just as irregular as the surface of the land. |
D.People have acknowledged quite little about the sea. |
A.Feeding. | B.Replacing. | C.Harming. | D.Protecting. |
A.Marine protected areas aren’t necessary. | B.We still need contribute more to the sea. |
C.MPAs have shown great effects on the sea. | D.Most of world’s oceans are being protected. |
【推荐1】Whether you want to impress a new teacher, or just chat with a new acquaintance, knowing how to start a conversation can help you feel more comfortable and confident.
No matter what the situation is, you can find something positive to say. Comment on the weather, the food, or the event itself. Saying something as simple as you hope your conversation partner has a good time also is a good way to get a conversation rolling. People tend to respond better to a positive subject rather than a negative one. Staying positive also helps put others at ease.
It can be difficult to try to talk to someone when it feels that you have little in common. In these situations, getting the other person to talk about his or her own interests, work, or expertise can be a useful way.
Learning how to start a conversation is an important skill that can help you build social connections. It can be difficult initially, particularly if you struggle with shyness or social anxiety.
A.If you put the skills into practice |
B.Instead of pushing your fears away |
C.Everyone feels some level of fear in social situations |
D.Eye contact will make your partner feel embarrassed |
E.Try to think of every interaction as a practice session |
F.People often enjoy talking about things they are passionate about |
G.People will be more interested in continuing a conversation with you |
【推荐2】How to Communicate Effectively?
Having good communication skills is important. Effective communication is a skill you can learn no matter what your age, background or experience is.
Choose the right time. As the saying states, there is a time and a place for everything.
tired. Instead, deliver messages and conduct discussions about heavy topics in the mornings when people are watchful and more likely to be able to respond clearly.
Thank your listener(s). Thank the person or group for the time taken to listen and respond.
Communicate eye to eye. Eye contact builds relationship, helps to convince people that you’re trustworthy and displays interest. During a conversation or presentation, it is important to look into the other person’s eyes if possible and maintain contact for a reasonable amount of time.
A.Take care not to overdo it |
B.Communicating is no different |
C.Organize key points in your mind |
D.No matter what the outcome of your communication |
E.If you have already targeted some key points to stick to |
F.The basics of communication below will help get your point across easily |
G.Ignoring any single person can easily be taken as a sign of disrespect for them |
【推荐3】Studying abroad is full of adventures—everything is different and exciting. How can you adjust to the new environment soon? Homestay is a great way to get to know the culture from a first-hand aspect. Here are some tips on how to enjoy a successful homestay.
Bring a thoughtful gift.
Respect the schedule.
Even though you paid for your stay, you’re still part of a family that is not yours —respect their schedules. If the meals are at 7 p. m., make sure you are on time.
Attend the family meals.
Most host programs will give you the choice to include meals in your homestay. It’s highly recommended that you join your family for at least one meal each day.
Be fair and honest when problems arise.
When it comes time to leave, you might be feeling some relief about getting back to a more familiar home. Do remember to make an effort to express your thanks to the family for letting you into their home and sharing their lives with you.
A.Show great relief before you leave |
B.Express your gratitude before leaving |
C.You don’t have to spend a fortune on it |
D.This can help you taste home—made local food |
E.You should always be honest to your host family |
F.Whenever people live together, there’s room for conflict |
G.You must let your host family know in advance if you can’t arrive on time |